Dreaming of a deceased loved one: what does it mean?
Visitation dreams: Have you ever woken up dreaming of dead relatives talking to you, or dreaming of someone who has passed away, wondering if it's real or not?
Visitation Dreams just happen to be one of five common signs our deceased loved ones show us.
It happens to almost everyone at one point or another. And I've got good news for you: many times those connections are real.
So the question is: how can you tell the difference between a dream and a spirit connection?
First, let's define the difference between the two.
What is the difference between a regular dream and a dream visitation?
Regular Dreams
Regular dreams are a naturally occurring phenomenon. Dreams tend to be complete nonsense and often weird.
You woke up and get ready for work. As you leave your house, you climb upon a giant rubber duckie and float down the street. You then actually wake up and wonder, “what the heck was that all about?”
That's a dream. Many aspects of it might seem very real and clear. Your street, your house, front door, even the giant rubber duck might have all seemed real.
But it is just nonsense.
Typically, when you “see” people in dreams, they are simply roles. Most often you don't see faces or great details. Yes, you “saw” the UPS driver drop off a package… but when you wake up, you can't remember it was a man or woman. You saw the role, not the person.
These are simply dreams. Visitation dreams are much, much different!
Visitation Dreams Characteristics
Can dead people communicate through dreams? In my book, Afterlife, I shared how my spirit guides revealed to me that we don't dream of our loved ones.
Instead, our loved ones come to us either before or after we get into the dream state. Rather than call them visitation dreams I call them sleep connections. Big difference.
When you are asleep, your critical mind shuts down, and it leaves it free for our loved ones to easily communicate with us.
When a deceased loved one connects with us while we are sleeping, you will know it is them. It will be 100% clear.
Example from before: in a dream, you won't remember very much detail about the UPS driver coming to your door. It will just be someone delivering a package.
However, when your loved one comes to you, you will see them clear as day. You'll see all their features, all the details, and characteristics they have.
It will be just like a person standing in front of you when you are awake.
You will know it is them.
Signs Our Loved Ones Send Us
Please remember this: there are no rules: they can talk, show signs, hug us, kiss us, give us something, trigger a memory, etc.
It's unlimited.
That said, as a spiritual advisor I find that people get upset with these connections if the dead loved one does not behave in a certain way.
“My Mom came to me and hugged me, but she didn't say anything about her granddaughter!”
Be still. Be happy that they came to you. The fact they came to you is a sign in itself and shows that love never dies. It shows they are there; they are aware of everything that goes on and love never dies.
Still Not Sure If It Is A Visitation Dream Connection?
In my 30-years as a psychic medium, please let me share the two biggest key indicators that you had a direct communication dream visitation.
1. You'll wake up feeling like they were just standing beside you. Remember, your deceased loved ones are energy, so the feeling that “if I had have opened my eyes a moment sooner I would have seen them,” is a sure sign.
Of course, had you opened your eyes a moment earlier, you wouldn't have “caught” them. But cherish that feeling! It means they were there.
2. Your loved one will often show you a secondary sign soon after. Not always – and I'm not guaranteeing it – but it is more often true than not.
It might be a sighting of a bird, a familiar or unique sound or song, a touch, smell or taste. Be open to these.
Here's a bonus sign: do you have a pet? They often act strangely after connection. Remember, they are better at picking up on spirits than we are. After all, they haven't been “taught” that dead don't talk or appear.
Love Never Dies
Your deceased loved ones WANT to connect with you. For almost everyone, this is one of the easiest ways to connect.
Know the difference between a real connection and a simple dream.
Once you know the difference and start trusting in the visitations, you will find that many of your loved ones will start connecting with you. Make sure you recognize the signs that your dead loved ones are sending you.
Why? Because they will know and understand that you are now an open door for them.
Your loved ones want to connect. Let them and experience the fact that love never dies.
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I had a visitation the other night – first of all – I had a stroke in September and three weeks after that I was told I had cancer….well, in this visitation a friend of the family came and delivered an envelope to my daughter and she gave it to me. It was a ‘get well card’ ! Is there a special meaning to that?
So I had a dream of some guy I sort of knew in high school, he passed away 3 years ago. A month before he passed away I seen him and he didn’t see me but I felt the urge to speak to him but didn’t. Anyways well I had a dream of him but In the dream we were dating and I secretly would knock on the door and we’d kiss and what not, it felt so real. I felt warm, safe and loved and when I woke up still felt that. I had a crush on him my sophomore year and I think he did to but we never ended up really talking cuz he was really shy and ended up dating another girl etc.. well it felt so real, I woke up not remembering our surroundings but him and the moment we were having.. was it real or fake?
I had a dream my deceased brother came to me crying saying he wants to come home. Can you tell me what that means
Me and my moms friend passed away in a car accident in october and we are 1 month away from it being 1 year from her passing and she came to me in a dream a few days ago it was so real and vivid, we didnt talk, but I was in the car with her and she was driving, she grabbed my hand and a message was imprinted into my mind, I actually felt her hand like she was actually real, i knew the message wasnt really for me but for my mother who is very very heart broken over her besties death, I told my mother the message and she said she found it funny(not actually funny) that i said the message to her because the night she came to me was the night my mom stayed up crying until 5 am for her best friend to come back to her, so she could hug her one last time and me and my both cried
wow that is tough. crying. sounds like he may be between realms.
The message was meant for you, not for your Mother. Your Mother grieves for her departed friend which is why she communicated with you. Your Mother’s heart is heavy with this loss. If her friend communicated w/her, this would compound her grief. She came to you to reassure you both that she is fine, euphorically happy. It is so sad when people we love, leave us. I realize my message will not relieve the burden of sadness, but know your Mother’s friend came to you for a reason. To simply reassure you both you do not need to grieve. Easier said than done. To have visited your Mother would have been upsetting, creating more grief, more loss that currently consumes your Mother. Ask your Mother to speak w/her dear friend. I can assure you… she will answer. I hope this makes sense? I wish you both all that is good – Grace
I had a dream about my very good friend, very elaborate dream about celebrating his life. Many details in the dream regarding a gift I had for him and then looking for him in the dark, he grabs me , I tell him I can’t see him I’m not sure who you are. He talks to me makes a joke I hear his voice and feel his body clear as day. When I woke up I checked my phone and see a text message that he had died that night. His death is a total shock and came out of no where, he was not sick.
I can’t stop thinking about the dream.
The love of my life passed away when we were 25. It sounds messed up and in truth, was messed up but we weren’t necessarily on speaking terms when he passed away. Because of what happened between us I wasn’t sure if he loved me or hated me. I knew he was the One and the person I would be in love with for my entire life. It’s been 10 years since he passed and so far my word is true on that. He is absolutely 110% the man I should have married when we were 22. Anyways, I prayed for a long time that he would visit me in my dreams. He never did… for years… until this one beautiful night. We were in a field and there was a mirror and it showed me being an old lady just like Bella in the twilight saga movies. And then he was standing next to me and telling me to run away from the crowd of people (there was a wedding going on) and he wanted us to be alone. He told me he does love me still and in fact loves me even more now and more than I could ever even imagine. Then, we were riding in a truck somewhere and he kissed me. In real life, I forgot what his kisses were like; he had a special unique way that felt like magic and when he kissed me in my dream the memory of how he kissed came flooding back to me; I felt it and knew without any doubt that was really him coming to visit and giving me the messages he did. It confirmed it for me. The end of the dream he made comical which was sooo like him because he always wanted to make everyone around him smile, laugh, and feel happy. I woke up smiling the biggest smile I have had since when we were together in real life form. It was a second confirmation for me. Followed by a vision of a certain bird that held meaning to him. So many confirmations. I know this visitation was real.
It has to do with you and your feelings of loss, not a true vision. You miss your brother, you love him. Your brother, like many who have left us; typically never want to return in the fashion you envisioned. We die w/free will. Your brother will return when it is the right time; not as deceased and wanting to return, but a new life. He must have been an amazing man. If he appears to you via dreams, the only way he can communicate w/you or via numbers, he will be happy, filled with joy. It sounds like he left this planet in distress, way before his time. I wish you well. He is always with you; talk to him – Grace
My mom passed away a year ago, on one year anniversary 11/10/22 I had a dream I was passing by my old house I asked the new owner if I can go in the house to see the update that she did I rang the bell and my dead mom answered the door with a smile. I told her what are you doing here but she just smile. What does a mean?
I had a visitation at the grocery store I was looking at chicken prices at the store and I felt twice someone touch my arm at my elbow on right now what does this mean
Absolutely! This was not a dream, the only way your friend can communicate is if the receiver is usually in a deep sleep or twilight sleep. She misses you and watches over you, she stands next to you. You sound like a very strong woman to be met with a significant medical diagnosis like this. Not just one but two. You are protected. I do not know your health status but I sense your powerful strength and faith will protect you. Things like this do happen. To bad we cannot prove it via documentation. You are blessed to be held by Divinity and a friend who is watching over you. I am humbled by your perseverance and amazing determination. Thank you – Grace
Reading about visitation v dreams has reslly helped me. My mom was with me this morning (recently passed). Within the visit i saw her like clear as day – she told me she was no longer in pain and gave the most biggest smile – she said not to worry and ‘stop being daft’! She looked fantastic. This has really helped with my worry – i feel at ease xxx ❤
I had a dream about my Dad who passed away last year. I know he has been speaking to my Aunt on the other side, who passed away almost 10 years ago. What they both do is repeat phrases or sentences back to me in my dream that I will hear in a conversation a few days after their visitation to prove it’s real and it was them.
Wow just what I needed to read this week cause I had a strange dream visit and was unsure I know it was now because my cat was acting weird thank you love and light
Wow!! This is awesome! I had a dream about my mom just hours ago.. Then I see this
Confirms what I have already known.
Thank you very much Blair.
Blessings multiplied,
Andrea.
My good friend passed away after a long illness. I dreamed about him I opened a door to a small room he was sitting down I was so happy to see him again.
Henry! I said Hi we hugged he looked wonderful and healthy. He told me to say hi to my boyfriend for him. They were very good friends. Then I remember him giving me a message to give to someone I believe it was for my
Boyfriend. It was important. I remember thinking wow I’m so happy to know this and pass it along it was something I didn’t know anything about but I knew when I told it to my Boyfriend he would know what it all meant.
I don’t remember the Message and it’s really bothering me.would someone know how to connect with Henry again?
Thanks for reading.
I’m concerned as I dreamt my dead mum said I’d soon be with her this is the 2nd time in the space of 4 years. She’s been dead since 2006.
I think they are not in our “time” construction, so “soon” to them could mean 40 years from now, or more or less.
I had a dream 2 nights ago that my deceased husband kept askn me to come with him..but i said no..in the dream he wanted me to ride with him to a party but i was already riding with my friends. I wonder if im about to die soon.was that a message? He was glowing full of light..i also remembered that he shot up in the sky after i kept refusing to go…weird right!
Dear Louise, it is your turmoil. Not a prediction of your passing. People who have left us do not deliver a message of doom. They warn us, visit us. But do not deliver a “ death notice.” This is not their ethereal purpose. It seems like you miss her, think about joining her… maybe not on a conscious level but on a soul level. You are not going to depart this planet anytime soon… this I can promise. It simply sounds like an internal struggle. Write your dream down if this happens again. I wish you well – Grace
My nan passed away in 2015 on my birthday, on the night she passed (she passed at 5:45am) it felt like she came in my dream, it was at the hall up the road and it was at a shared birthday party me and my sister used to have and she wished me happy birthday and gave me such a warm hug I’ll never forget, then just walked away into me waking up, my mom came home to tell me around 7 to tell me she had passed and my world changed since, I now know this kind of thing happened to more than just me and I never felt like it was just a “dream”
Daniel, it was not a dream but one of two ways the departed can communicate with us. This was incredibly vivid. Soon after your Nan passed, she came to you to let you know. It sounds like you had a very special bond with her. It is not often I hear of this kind of experience, when the Soul departs & communicates immediately with a loved one. She must have loved you enormously. Talk to her. Ask her to visit you again. It is reported the soul remains on earth for 40 days after death. The purpose is for the soul’s transition. The 40 days offers the departed to remain with loved ones, to visit places that holds a special place in their heart. Who knows if this is true? I do know the soul remains for many days before leaving. Please know leaving the physical realm, does not mean leaving you. It requires enormous energy for a soul to remain earth bound. This is given to each of us when we depart; an opportunity to revisit the places & people we loved the most & will continue to love even in death of the physical self. All my best – Grace
I believe the message will come back to your memory when it’s the right time to tell hi.
Remember… there are many rooms in Heaven. Henry sounds very happy and content. He wanted you to know this. What a beautiful message from a friend you loved and still love.
About a week before my mother died. She told me she kept dreaming about Christmas trees. I asked her if this was a sign she was trying to tell me that she was going to die of for Christmas it was currently October. Last night almost 2 years after her death I had a dream a Christmas tree was in front of me the next frame put me on my street where I grew up. My dead father was standing in the street talking to someone. I immediately went to him and called his name dad. He turned around he didn’t say anything I told him dad you’re dead and I miss you very much please hold me. I threw my arms around him and he held me so tightly it felt real. I haven’t felt his touch and 18 years since hes died. Then I woke up and I sell fad because I wanted to ask him questions. I looked at his picture on my wall and I said dad I want to see you again because I want to talk to you please come back to me again. I had breakfast which took about an hour and then I laid back down and went to sleep. I immediately was standing in front of him again this time in a house and I said to him dad you’re dead I want to ask you how old are you. He answered and said I am 23 years old. I said to him but dad look at yourself you are obviously not 23 years old and you actually died at age 75 and then I woke up again. I cried and cried because I knew that this was real. I requested to go back into the Dream and I did. I haven’t dreamt of my father for 18 years and speaking to my girlfriend only last week I told her that I wish that I would dream of him because I miss them so much . I know in my heart that this was a visitation and I am not afraid and welcome it to happen any time.
This was a comforting communication from your Father. Although he may have passed at the age of 75, he can assume any age he wants, the age which he left or an age which he has fond, loving memories. It sounds like 23 was a very transitional age for him. He may not return, you may never dream of him again. Be patient. It may take a year or 10… but he will visit you again. Just not immediately as you wish. I understand how you feel. My Father died 35 years ago; I miss him everyday. Like you, he has visited me in my dreams. I want him to return. He has not in many years. But he will communicate to me again; he is just not on my schedule of need. God bless you – Grace
Do they not communicate for years because their soul resumed a different life time or started new?
Blair… My husband whom I loved and still love very much passed away 9 years ago. We were very close but each time I dream about him something always happens that saddens me and I don’t understand. Each and every time in my dreams he’s always turning away from me, either walking or running away from me. It’s never been that warm happy reunion others talk about and that scares me. Why does he always go away from me?
This happens in my dreams also of my husband of 5 yrs who passed almost 3 years ago now. When I dream of him he won’t look at me he turns around and never really talks but I can feel his emotions He also took his own life I know he knows I love him so very much and I know he loves me.in the dreams our 2 boys are there everytime and he’s hugging them I know he misses them and regrets leaving them. The only thing he’s ever said to me is “I feel dumb, and that’s all I have to say to you”. Not really the warm loving visitation I would like. But at least I know he’s watching over his boys.
I had a dream of my mother it was weird because all I heard was her boyfriend laughing and saying something I dont know what then all of sudden I heard plan as day my mom say ok we are almost there. But I never saw either of them then I woke up
Maybe you should tell him it’s okay. He seems ashamed…like he doesn’t want to go into detail about what he went through since he passed. Maybe you can pray for him to move past some things…sounds like he doesn’t forgive himself. Pray that he moves into a higher vibrational state.
This could be your husband telling you it’s okay to move on, or that you have moved on. If you have any guilt about it, or if you are lonely, he is telling you that it is okay
Blair, he is not running from you but trying to communicate with you. Evidently you are not ready to receive this on a spiritual level. Thru no fault of your own. This happens. Try to recount what took place moments before your Father turned away. Can you recall how you felt, emotionally? Spiritually? If this happens again, write it down when you wake. How did you feel? The timing is not ideal for you, which is why you see him walking away. He is not leaving you but waiting for the time you are open to receive communication. I know it sounds crazy. Talk to him as you would a dear friend, be open to the opportunity for his visit. There is hesitation, something that is stopping you to receive him. You two will communicate in the near future. Just be open to this opportunity, this gift. Thank you – Grace
Thank you Blair. Right after my loved one crossed over, he came to me in a dream/sleep connection. He stood in front of me and was wearing a black Patagonia vest. I noticed this was odd, because he only wore north face as a brand. He gave me a beautiful bouquet of colorful flowers and hugged me. Then he was gone. Since that time I have noticed that Patagonia seems to be a sign from him. Also, in a reading you gave me last year, he wanted you to ask me if “I got the flowers”. Amazing! Love never dies. Xo
Hi, I dream of my late fiancee once in awhile since he passed away 13 years ago. I just dreamed about us being in a hotel by the beach and I saw him and flt his presence I was saying, let’s go to the beach and put our feet in the water and I heard him say, it’s dusty in here and he was gone. I looked thru the peep hole and saw nothing. I felt like my dog was with me. I found a big piece of paper and Ron wrote my name all over it on both sides. Then I went in the other room and saw his clothes on the bed then my phone rang and woke me up. I went outside and got chills all thru out my body. I cried. He never seems to recognize me for the true love that we had.
I lost the love of my life to breast cancer 7 1/2 months ago. I am desperate for a visitation dream from her.
Hi Blair, i guess my question is what did he mean when he said it was dusty and why wont he recognize me as his one true love. We were so in love. He used to play his guitar for me especially in the morning as soon as i woke up. I miss him dreadfully. Thank you
I found this article to be very interesting, thank you for that. I do have a question because you brought up something I can’t answer on my own.
I have had visitation from my parents (along with other loved ones) a few times. Perhaps it’s just my mind ‘blurring’ the lines, but I can swear that at the same time they were present, there were others around whose faces I could not see, similar to the UPS delivery person you referenced in your article. For instance, we will be meeting in a park that we went to many times when I was a child. We’ll be walking along the path and pass by other people whom I cannot really ‘see’, such as their faces, but I can see us passing by them. Thank you for your wonderful newsletters.
We had a dear friend pass suddenly in a motorcycle accident. I’m pretty sure he came to visit me. In my visit we walked up to him at a motorcycle event he was working at and he walked up to me with his arms open to hug me. It was very special. I told his best friend about this and he was disappointed that he didn’t have the same experience. He did mention though when he visited his grave an acorn hit him from a tree that was not close enough to be fallen from. :-). Thanks for your letters of information!
My mother does not come often but when she does it is about a message the dream is about. She does not speak, ever. Instead she watches. It always feels like she wrote the dream script and is now watching to see how it turns out. When she was alive I did not like her. She had a mean streak and enjoyed hurting my feelings. I did not speak to her the last 5 years of her life so I am really surprised that she comes. She comes only once per year or so.
I had a dog who clearly saw spirits. He was smart and had this look in his eyes like he was wise. He comes in dreams and behaves in a human manner. Like when I was given some photos in a dream, I turned and gave them to the dog and he took them to another room and spread them out to look at them.
This is so wonderful. I love this. Maybe she has learned to be quiet (she hurt you when she talked) and pay attention! She probably really loved you but was just a mess and unable to know it or show it. And your dog! I’ve had dogs all my life and they are true spirit companions, both while “here” and after they die and move on.
This appears to be her telling you how much she loved/loves you. And that she is always watching over you
Four months after my husband passed I had a visitation.My husband told me to download a story that I would find on Amazon called The Girl on the Stairs.He said it would explain everything.I opened my eyes and my IPad was on the floor next to the bed,I went on Amazon and there were four books with that title.My husband said the book would not coast anything and there was only one story that as a prime member I could get free.The short story was about a family that lost there daughter but her ghost was still around all the time.The last sentence of the story was .Be careful the ghost is watching you.
I very rarely remember dreams. Sometimes I wake up and think, “what was that?” But I did one time connect with my dad and I KNEW it was him and it was real. I was having extreme troubles in my personal life with a relationship that was failing. I was terribly depressed. My dad came to me just before I woke up. And I remember it to this day. It was in the early 90’s. My dad didn’t say anything to me. He just came to me and hugged me. It was so incredibly real. I felt the love gush from him to me while he was holding me. When I woke up, I felt incredibly rested. I felt energized. I felt extreme warmth and love. I’ve never felt anything like it before. It made me very happy. Shortly thereafter, I almost died. He came to me then and stopped me from going into the light. He’s always there I think.
Had a similar dream about my nephew who passed in a auto accident 5 yrs ago, He was so loved by all. Shortly after he crossed over I had a dream of him standing to the top of my driveway, I ran up to him so shocked to see him , he was standing there is nice bright clothing with a very care-free pleasant demeanor , he never spoke just smile, it felt so real . When I awaken I also felt so energized and great, my cousin explained to me that he had a similar dream of my nephew and he felt the same way. His sister in law just recently passed at the age of 30, her funeral is today and I had a dream of my nephew once again last that was so real and I felt so refreshed after. The only time I feel like this is when I meet him in my dreams.It seems like he makes his presence when I really need it. I miss him so.
Blair, last night my dogs were looking at things in the air and one of them was barking. My Blue passed away August 2015 and has been around a bit. In the evening I was visited by someone which was holding my hand; I could feel the fingers and asked for them to spell on my palm who it is. They did not, I just rubbed their fingers and then they left. I thanked my guide and hope I can figure it out.
I dream of my mom and dad all the time. We are always in the house I grew up in always. Sometimes my older brother will be there. He is deceased. I dream of them so much and I hear them see them it’s wonderful. I always have a safe calm feeling when I wake up. We were very. Lise in real life and I still have my parents ashes at home with me. Thank you Blair for confirming what I thought that my parents were really there
Thanks Blair, even though I have read your books a couple of times, I love to read them and your articles again and again. It doesn’t hurt to be reminded of the facts. Love never dies
My mom passed 35 years ago and I’ve only had 1 dream of her. I’ve meditated, prayed and followed your instructions and nothing. What am I doing wrong?
Lost the love of my life of 48 years in dec I cry at every little thing i think of will he ever let me know he is ok it sure would help ease the pain I feel
Hi you can talk to him and ask him if he can let you know how he is. They will respond. My husband did after the 40th day of his passing. I asked him I don’t even know where you are and in my sleep that very early morning he showed himself in my dream with a step ladder as if changing the batteries of our smoke detectors. He smiled at me, stepped on the ladder and looked up. I looked up too, but the ceiling started moving, like clouds. Then I woke up. Then I realized where he is. He has since ‘visited’ me in my dreams several more times. The last one, we were so happy, like I didn’t even think of him as dead at all. He was all dressed up. That dream is for another day. God bless you.
Wise words that give me comfort as I have always been an active dreamer – Thanks!
2004-2005 changed drastically for my family. The years my oldest son (age then, 28) and my husband of almost 30 years were both diagnosed with cancer within months of each other. Our son is a survivor, and husband passed one month after diagnosis, in January, ’05. That year, October, I believe is when I met a man who would become a great friend and who would eventually become my husband, James.
One early morning in ’06 in a dream, I was standing in James’s kitchen talking to James who was standing in his living room and there was a large hallway (dog trot style) between us. Suddenly my deceased husband appeared between us . He was vivid, full bodied and actually wearing a shirt which I still had in the closet. He was known for his large charming smile and there he was, smiling at me. He walked towards me and with a felt swoosh through me..I asked James “do you see this?” He said he didn’t see what happened, then my deceased husband walked back through me from behind, same swoosh was felt then walked to the living room and walked through James turned around and came back towards me with that same smile. JAMES said “what was that?”. He had felt it!! I explained to him what had just happened and then I awakened with that VIVID memory and a peace in knowing we (our two son’s and I ) were safe with James. I actually didn’t feel I needed confirmation that James was to be the one I would marry, it was just known to me that it was right for us to be together. The peace I felt in that dream, and as I awakened was obvious to me. I haven’t had another dream of my deceased husband, not one that I can remember at least. And actually held onto that particular shirt he was wearing in the dream for a long time. James and I married in September, 2009. Living life as it is handed to us and happy! 11 years after this dream, I remember it as clearly as the day I awoke with that memory. I remember the peace I was provided through that experience as well. Unfortunately, I am unsure what became of the “shirt” because we purchased a new home, and afraid it was lost in the move. Although it MIGHT be in storage.
Isn’t this AWESOME!!??
I had a strange dream about my dad. He told me he was at the Turkey farm. I had know idea what he meant by that. Later that morning I got the call he had passed away. A few days later my sibling were going through his stuff and found a stack of hats he had. In the middle of these hats was a hat that said Burkel Turkey Farm! They were so shocked. They sent me a picture of it lol. We have no idea where that hat came from! I’ve always been a believer in spirit and now they finally are too! They have always thought I was a little weird about things I’ve felt or seen. This just validated what I’ve told them all along. Thanks Blair, I hope to meet you some day , I always enjoy your messages!
I lost my 16.5 year old Yorkie Cocoa this summer due to my negligence when I left her out in the backyard and she drowned in the pool. I have not been able to forgive myself, I kept her ashes lit a candle several times in her memory, but know she is gone it hurts every day. I did adopt a stray 6 months ago and he is a hyper crazy dog but I am working with him none the less. Last week I had what felt like a conscious dream of Cocoa pulling on her leash next to my scotty Kyra, and thought she is no longer here I must be dreaming. I then woke up and fell asleep again and Cocoa was there again, I pulled her over, picked her up and kissed her crying all the time I miss you, I miss you so much. I could feel her body first time in a dream I was ever aware of something having form and substance I know she was there. I pray she is at peace and happy I adopted her at the age of 2 from an abusive owner, when I was ill I made one mistake that caused her death.
Vicki I think it is very possible that your little dog had a stroke or heart attack at her age and fell into the pool. Please don’t blame yourself. You gave her a wonderful life and she was obviously grateful.
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Hello Blair, I wanted to let you know that I read all your emails. I enjoy every single one and want to THANK YOU for sending out the information that’s so insightful and helpful in our daily lives. Sincerely, Terri
I bought tickets to go see you in Sacramento in January for my birthday . I had a great time and brought my daughter too.
After your event I went upstairs to sleep and was woken up in the midal of the night and was in the arms of someone I cloud not see but was engulfed and white light and I felt so great. Then he said look into my eyes several times , over and over . They were very light blue . Then as I was waking up I seen you .
Did this happen ?
Because I was asking for healing light too when you were helping someone else toothat night at the event .
Thank you for readding this even if you can’t respond . It was a wonderful experience .
Thank you Blair this does clarify things for me on dream visitations. Love it.
regarding dream visits-my husband and son visit me in dreams-my husband mostly! I would certainly love to see my son more often. Last week my husband was in my dream one night and during the course of the night, I woke up several times. I would go back into the same dream and he would be right there. He kept trying to find some money I had hidden and was very animate about it. Upon awakening, I knew he was trying to tell me something about a situation having to do with money, but I really had no clue. Several days later, I discovered that one of my W-2’s had the completely wrong social security number on it and I could not file my taxes right then. I am sure that my husband was trying to tell me to open them up and take care of the problem with my employer. It really is more in depth, but I am giving you the shorter version. Yes, they visit us!!! I know this was what my husband wanted me to get to the bottom of.
My dad & brother has come to me many times! But one evening i asked my mom ‘mom are you busy there? Why don’t you ever come to me” That early morning about 3 am. My mother kissed my cheek & stroked my face! I wasn’t scared because i knew it was her. I said thank you mom 🙂 & just fell back to sleep. Thank you Blair for teaching me all i do know about spirit today!
Love & Light
April Penna
I have had many visitation dreams from my mother, father, and once with my grandmother. My question is this…in my last visitation dream with my mother I remember feeling so happy to see her again. We hugged and I could smell her hair and I distinctly remembered how short she was and chuckled about how I had to lean down to hug her. During the visit though my Mom was crying. I knew, without her saying it, that she was crying because she missed me. I told her I loved her and not to worry and we would be together again someday. I’ve had previous visitations with Mom in which I was the one being consoled and she reassured we would reunite someday. Why do you think this happened? From her perspective now surely she knows how this works. I didn’t think in the hereafter we would have emotions like that. I’ve had enough of these visitations that I can clearly distinguish them between dreams. This was definitely a visitation. Thank you for any input.
When my dad passed I was sleeping down stairs in the family room and this would be a day or 2 later What I wasn’t sure of if it was a dream or communicating with me but I was at the bottom of the stairs that led up to his bedroom and he was at the top of the stairs. All of a sudden I was at the top of the stairs and he hugged me and said he loved me and also said remember to always read the fine print. Which to this day I am not sure what that meant but I always do pay attention to fine print now more than ever. He also had a bright light around him like a glow and I really to this day only remember the top part of him like from the waist up. So what do you think of this, could this be him communicating with me. I have also had him come to me in a few more dreams but haven’t heard from him in a while. Although my daughter has had him come to her in her dreams where he will most of the time not say anything but she said it’s like he is right there, very real. I also remember him reluctantly telling me that about a year or so before he passed he would have visits from my grandmother who passed several years ago. At first he thought he was dreaming but he said he was awake and she would come to him and communicate to him that everything will be fine and he will be very busy when he crosses over. He didn’t tell anyone about these visits because he didn’t really believe in it at first but then he had to face that this was really happening and told us. She was giving him messages and even something about a picture when my mom was little that she explained to him, and he was trying to find it. I think it was to confirm it was her. He also said she was much younger and when she spoke her lips didn’t move and it sounded angelic very peaceful. He said like it was telepathy.
So do you think my dream was him talking to me and what do you think of his visits from my grandmother which he said helped him when his cancer was winning, he passed about 2 years after her first visit and she visited him right up to the end.
My sister visited me in the dream state so I know she is alright. My father did the same many years ago when he passed. During the day, wide awake my mother slapped me in the back of the head as she would when she was here! Know one else was around and I remember her slap! What kind of visitation is that? (LOL) Thank you Blair. People do not think I am so crazy any more.
Hi Blair
This is so weird that this email came to me about this subject. This past Sunday I had one of those visitation dreams. I could feel every emotion they were sending me. They were guiding me. I have always had these dreams growing up some great some not so good. I have had deceased loved ones come to me and tell me they are ok and show me were they reside waiting for there loved ones, is that weird??? Even from my husbands side of the family. I try to explain to my family but I know they look at me strange. God has always been in my life and I live by this path, if not I feel I would not be here. He has given me strength. Thanks for your gift it makes a lot of difference for us. Gives peace.
My uncle Hartley was in the hospital having surgery and his heart kept stopping and when they got his heart started again he showed me that he was in the hospital so in the morning I called my aunt DeeDee. She told me what happened. He was my favourite Uncle .He lived with us when I was younger. When he was gone he still shows me signs when he is around me
My Dad visits me quite often and he is always surrounded by a bright white light, so bright you need sunglasses…LOL!….this is true. One time he even had my deceased cat on his lap that passed away 2 weeks before he did. My cat was white and so was the cat on my Dads lap. He gave me a message to give to my Sister. How cool is that!
Hi Blair.
That was so good to read and confirm the visitation of loved ones.I lost my loving boyfriend 19 years ago.I was 20.When my son turned one in 2009.My loved one started visting me when I was sleeping.It was often until 2014 until me & my to be husband set a date for our wedding.In my loved ones visit he would hold me tight and make me feel loved.The love by him hugging me felt so pure it was amazing.He would talk often and say he loved me.Once he sang a wee tune and said I will always love you.In 2011 My daughter was born with a condition and we were in and out of hospital for 2 1/2 years,it had got rough.But I felt strong because I could feel him with me.I feel like he had a connection with my daughter as she was so sick but she was very strong.In December 2015 my future husband and I talked about getting married when my daughter was better and no more hospital visits.I had what was to be my 2nd last visit from him.He was on a big dirt hill,we both were,in the middle of nowhere.He had a cellphone and wanted to call a female to come and get him.I was saying “No stay,I can look after you”but he wanted to go and he gave me a hug.Our date was set for the wedding and one last visit from my loved one.I watched him as he came out of a house with a tuxedo on.He smiled and he walked off into the distance.I think he wore the tux maybe as asign or my wedding.He has not been back,I was sad for awhile but then I realised its ok because He had to let me go and I had to let him go.I feelgood now because I know he will always be with me.
My dad died this past Thanksgiving morning around 5:45 AM six weeks to the morning I had a visitation from him in a dream he walked me into his home he was being jokey with me as he usually was and then he walked out the front door and I didn’t see him anymore I felt that he was telling me the people that are buying his home he is fine with it I woke up feeling so good because I got to see My dad again and he looked really good I like your articles you do a good job and you explain things very well I have one of your books I do want to get the afterlife book when I go to Barnes & Noble again I will look it up thank you
I’m confused now Blair. So if we have a “dream” in which our deceased loved one is in with you and interacting with you and family. This is not a visitation. Can you explain for me what you mean by just before or just after. Sorry confused. Thank you.
Rene’ Baugher
Thank you , I know now without a doubt, my fiancé Jay came to me in my sleep! You are awesome, thanks for sharing
I was very sick a one time did not know yet what was wrong I thought it was my time I was loosing a lot of weight my loved one came to me and just said to me you are not coming here it is not your time.
I often have dreams of passed over loved ones. I have dreams of them guiding me and even showing me they’re happy. Sometimes I feel their energy when I am awake sometimes I feel drained by the contact, and then sometimes I just think I’m just crazy and making it all up. Can spirits attach. I do believe I am an open door for them.
I haven’t had a visitation. I usually can’t even remember my dreams. But I would love to to have a visit from my mom or sister or my brother. I could really use it right about now.
This confirmation of loved ones visits was very helpful . I get feelings & don’t know how to understand them.
Thank you! I had a dream last night and my girlfriend came through I knew it was a visit, not a dream.
Hi Blair, my mom passed away this January 6th, I’m hoping she can find away to connect with me so I know its her so far not yet that I know of. I’m having a hard time as I’m sure a lot of people do.I havnt had a dream connection with her yet anyway. thankyou to you and wendy I love your live sessions with all of us that catch you..
Thanks for this clarification Blair. Now that I think of it, I have had both kinds. The real and the just a dream. Nice to know the difference.
My brother passed away an the very Next nite I saw him around 4 am he was on a motorcycle looking like he was around 19 Ana when he passes he was 69. But he was dressed in a white shirt black jeans an he looked so happy he waved bye to me an I work crying but I saw it as a sign to me that by big brother was fine. An a few days later I had some car problems an some wonderful ppl helped me I felt my brother again assembling these wonderful ppl to get me home safe. An other things have happened I found a picture of him an my Mom an I never knew it existed , an one of him an I it was great an I knew he wanted me to have these pics.. I’ll never for get.
It was the second summer since my mom had passed..I was at my trailer all alone and that day had been missing her terribly..I cried and reminisced and told her how much I missed her..locked the door and went to bed..the next morning I woke up as I felt the bed depress..felt a stroke on my leg down to my toes..felt the bed go up again and now sat up in disbelief..saying “did this really just happen?”..not even 1min later the door to my trailer blew open with a bang..I got up and looked outside and at my watch..just shy of 8 am and no one was awake yet..there was no wind? What the heck?..I knew she had visited me..everyone I questioned said that no one was stirring yet.all slept in as it was Sunday morning..there were only 7 trailers on the hill including mine
Wow, amazing, The night before my mum passed away, i thought i was dreaming of being beside her in her room, as My Dad came an stood in the door way of her room.(Dad has been gone 12 Years now). I immediately felt calm, that my Dad was there to guide mum. I am so grateful for his presence to me.
Hi Blair, my daughter and I saw you in Peterborough Ontario last year. It was wonderful and can’t wait for you to come back. Since then, my husband passed and I feel that he is around me still but I’ve yet to dream about him. I’m sure he’s around because one day I was watching TV and his favourite commercial played back to back, at least 10 times. At the time I thought that this was very stupid so I changed the channel and this commercial started again. Finally I realized that this was my Richard and it made me smile cause I knew he was connecting with me. It stopped playing as soon as I acknowledged that it was him.
Thought I would add another dream..actually 2 related ones.. I was planning a trip to visit my bestie in BC with the intent of travelling to Vancouver Island to a small town where 25 years before..I had lost my fiancee who tragically drowned during a rafting incident ..I had always wanted to go back and throw a red rose into the river there for him..I hadn’t made any bookings yet.. This was about February..I dreamt that my friend and I were sitting on a small olive green love seat talking and in the white chair across from us sat my fiancée just smiling at us..I could see a yellow wall behind the love seat..I told my friend about it..then forgot about the dream.about 2 mos later as I was searching for a B and B for us to stay in..I was repeatedly drawn and attracted to a particular one.. I tried to book a suite that I wanted but was told it was unavailable at that time but they had another that was more expensive but that I could have for the same price..I took it..almost 4 mos go by..trip time..2nd dream..I wake up with a song in my head..I check the lyrics on YouTube and start playing the song..I am just bawling now as it’s an old song by The Association called Never my Love..as the video plays I see scenes of a couple on a beach that flood in old memories of the two of us at Long Beach Vancouver Island..just like the lyrics said..” How can you think love will end when I’ve said that I’d spend my whole life with you?” Never my love..lots of synchronicities happened along the way..flash forward to the B and B ..this is where I got goosebumps ..there was the room in my dream with the green love seat and white chair..but the wall was green too..I said to the owner..you painted that wall..it was yellow wasn’t it? He confirmed it.. And I saw a picture of it before he painted..same room..needless to say I was on the right place with my bestie and I knew my fiancée was with us 2.. The owners were also instrumental in helping me to locate the spot on the river where he drowned..as was my intuition..I got to do my tribute on the river in his memory as I had wanted to for 25 years
Just read your Visitation Dreams article. It makes so much sense and gives me new insight into the difference between the types of dreams. My late husband does connect with me in dreams. I have not really experienced him talking to me (or at least I don’t remember him doing so), he tends to hug me and hold my hand as he did so much before he passed. For many years my grandmother and mother have come through to me and I easily recognize signs they send me. During the worst of my grief over the loss of my husband I was blocked from allowing him to come through. Thanks for your insights and advice. I have come a long way. Love never dies.
I lost my twin sister. I miss her so much. Before she passed away we made a pact to give the other one a sign. I haven’t had a dream or pennies, nothing. It’s been 3 years. I need to know she is OK. Why haven’t I had dreams or something?? I am going to come to your meeting in Lake Havasu on the 20th of March. Our birthday is March 6th.
Thank you for all your information. although I haven’t “heard” from Mom in a while for me it’s an Owl that appears in my back yard usually when I am at my lowest…. but because of you I know she hasn’t left me….
Although I don’t recall dreams with Mom or Dad I am sure that they happen as there are so many time I wake with a peaceful mind.
Thank you again!
Hi Blair hope all is well.I have read your books. I want to thank you I just have a question that maybe one day you can answer it for me. I use to have a lot of nightmares growing up so I was told dream catchers would take them away so I am now in my 60s and I still hang them and I am wondering if this would stop my family from visiting me in my dreams. I don’t dream at all. Thank you
I wanted to know if my dreams are and you say they are. That makes me fell good, when I woke up from surgery I only wanted to know where my father was, because I was just talking to him. Everyone thought I was nuts and it was the drugs they gave me. I said no he was right here. Unfortunatly he has been gone 6 years. Now I feel he was with me and I was really talking to him and I am not crazy. Is that right? I can remember everything and we were at a floating table. My husband was so confused and actually walked out of the room a few mins because he thought I was loosing it.
Thank you so much for this ❤
About a week ago, my mom started appearing in my dreams. She passed almost 14 years ago. I was asking for a drink, but she didn’t answer. I kept asking if she could hear me, but no answer. When I woke up, I felt as though I was still with her.
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Blair..I was wondering does a loved always show up looking like them or will they sometimes show as someone you’ve never seen before but the feeling or connection. You feel to this person is so strong.. I dream of this man James..I don’t know him but he is such a reassurance and comfort I feel he might be my father
I had a very vivid dream three nights ago, my Greg visited me, we chatted in the dream, I knew it was a visit (thanks to your book) it was lovely
Hi Blair, I was at your show in St. Petersburg last night. It was awesome by the way!
I, like many hoped by a personal reading as I lost my mom back in April 2008 five months after losing our son (being 5 months pregnant). It was a devastating time for me. I know she connected with me when I found out I had breast cancer last November while also dealing with Lyme disease for the past 5 years. Lights kept coming on in my house for no apparent reason. When I asked her to turn the light off on the china cabinet light so that I would know if I was choosing the correct treatment, the light turned off. It was amazing! Then last night after your show, I had a visitation dream where she was laughing at me (we always goofed around together…she was a comedian) then she kissed me. So incredibly real. Thank you SO much for your show. It means so much to me and so many others.
I have had I think a few visitations from my husband. He always comes home, and I’m saying but I saw you die. And he tells me the doctors made a mistake, that he woke up in the morgue, his heartrate and breathing were so low it wasn’t picked up by the machines. Then people think I lied to them about him dying. And he tells me I told you I would never leave you. I have felt his hugs, his kisses, and wjen I open my eyes I expect him to be there. But he isn’t. I don’t know what he’s trying to tell me. Does he not realize he died, was he not really dead…I saw his body in the funeral home, none of the other family did, it would have been too traumatic for them, they didn’t sew him up after his autopsy and all of his organs were gone…did the doctors mess up…?
Dear Mr Robertson, Do you perform private readings? If so, I will travel to your location for the reading. I just recently lost my husband. Thank you.
My husband has come through when I have been sleeping, he will call my name and then I wake up
I know that all you have written is absolutely true. I have many sleep connections. I have many random dreams. I know the difference. I vaguely remember the random dreams .The sleep
Connections stay with me all day. It’ s a wonderful way to spend the hours of darkness.
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Both my mom and dad have visited me in dreams. My mom came to tell me that our dog Abbey was with her and she wanted me to know. After my dad passed, he came to me in a dream. He came to the door of my home and I was so happy to see him and hugged him. Then I was so suprised, realizing that he could walk as he had his leg amputated later in life. He smiled and said that he was whole again and felt great! Both were such detailed dreams.
One of my experiences while asleep was that I opened a door and walked into a room where there was a lady in a bed facing away from me. I knew the moment I saw her that it was my mom. I got into the bed and snuggled up to her and put my arm around her waist. I noticed her body was younger and slimmer than before she died. I said to her ” you’ve lost weight, and she telepathically said, ” that’s the way it’s supposed to be. ” I also noticed her hair was shorter and darker. Her love filled the room.
(This is how I knew it was her ): When I was twelve years old, I would hear my dad going out the door to work in the early morning. I would then go to mom’s room and get in bed behind her, put my arm around her and fall asleep til it was time to get up for school. She was a beautiful and loving mother in life and in death. I get euphoric every time I think of that time. Like you said, Blair, love never dies.
Thanks for all you do.
Hi ..
my little brother just lost one of his cousins not to long ago .. he was fairly young , left his infant daughter and the mother to morn ..
Mind you he isn’t a relative to me, only thru marriage and stuff.. I barely even met this guy ..
But I just woke up from a dream where he was in it asking of his girlfriend and telling me to make sure she was okay . He was happy full of love and touching and playing with my hair. When I woke up I had a strong urge to contact my little brother so he could tell the girlfriend..
My question is , how do I open myself up so I can receive more in my dreams? .. I lost my father almost 2 years ago and I would love for him to visit me .. I feel like he has before I just can never remember the whole dream ..
Hi my name is Debra I’m a Widow my husband died three years ago he got killed three men killed him in another country I remember when they brought him back home the next day we had the funeral for him but I felt it was something wrong a couple of days later I had a dream about him that he was looking at my window from the outside. I lived on the first floor back then his face was leaning close to the glass I seen him as clear as day like a few was right there he was trying to tell me something but I couldn’t hear him after that day and never seen him again can you please tell me what was that all about. He was on vacation with his friend his phone was in the bar restaurant he went out to get cigarettes which he stop smoking so I don’t understand this maybe he had a craving but all I know is what the friend told me that he was walking to the store to pick up cigarettes he was 2 blocks away from immigration he died in the Philippines but I still feel this something not adding up I know he wanted to tell me what happened but I guess I’ll never know.
My Mom has been in my dreams often lately.
OMG Blair it happened to me the other night , I had just got into bed and was laying on my left side when all of a sudden I felt something get into my bed which I thought it was my american bulldog but when I turn to fuss at her she was not there and my door was still closed, so I turned back on my left side and tried to go to sleep when I felt it again , I stayed still and felt someone laying up against my back with their head on mine and felt arms ontop of my arms and giving me a big bear hug , instantly I knew it was my husband who had passed away 11 months ago and I started crying and said his name out loud then about 10 seconds he was gone !!! I was so happy and filled with excitement I could hardly go to sleep. Ive waited so long for a sign, its when we don’t expect it that that will come. What a surprise 2 days before Easter
I recently moved from my house ito a condo, when I lived in my house I would occasionallly see cardinals in my telephone lines in my backyard and in the trees but never close to the house. However once I have moved a cardinal appears on my balcony and flies into the glass bedroom door, the other day he flew into the glass living room door a few times and at one point stood on the molding around the glass and looked into the living room for a few seconds and then flew to the banister of the balcony, stayed there for awhile singing then flew to a tree where he continued to sing for awhile.
I guess I want to know if this is a visitation sign from a loved one
Or am I reading too much into it.
I’m sure I had a visitation dream of my deceased mother coming to me walking over a farm towards an old abandoned house that I was standing on the porch looking through the glass double doors and my mum was telling me about how it had changed, apparently we lived there when I was a baby. I felt good after this dream.
This morning my husband who passed away 1yr THIS JUNE.Came to me as though he was right in the room with me I heard him as clear as if he was.He told me it’s time for me to get rid of his clothes and shoes to someone can use them.And then I yelled out his name and woke up and he was gone.Hazel
I believe I had a visitation dream last night. I dreamed I was moving into a humongous house in Maine (her state). Everywhere I turned there was another bedroom. I was trying to decide where my Dad (also deceased and in the dream) and I would sleep. In the kitchen, I came upon my Aunt who has been dead nearly 30 years. In life, no one would ever describe her as beautiful. She was morbidly obese. But, in she was beautiful. She didn’t speak to me. But I touched her cheek and told her how beautiful she looked. She was wearing lilac colored eye makeup. It was as if an artist had painted her face. The lilac extended beyond her eyes. It was very sparkly. It was a very pleasant dream.
My sister has come to me at least 3times, that I absolutely know for sure, were her! The first time, she whispered just my name, loudly enough in my mind, that it was almost like she whispered it right into my ear. The 2nd and 3rd times were both in sleep, the first showed me that she was on the other side, happy, healthy, full of life and love and joy, the 2nd time, was a waking dream, she put her face and hand right in front of mine and blew on her hand, towards my face, like when someone blows you a kiss. I’m ever grateful for her presence and her love and ESPECIALLY that first, wide awake visit, that left ZERO room for any doubt in my mind, that there is ABSOLUTELY Life, after this life….
Many years ago I was waiting for a job at CBS NEWS I hadn’t heard from them for 6 months since I went gorgeous and interview. It was the year my mom passed and I had alrwady felt her physically touch my head the week she passed So I had a dream one night I was standing before famous CBS news Walter Cronkite, he was on a throne and wearing a crown. I bowed to him. THE next morning I received a call from CBS news that they had a full time job for me
Hi! My name is Kanne. Just pronounce it like “Connie”. In 1997, I dated a guy named Demeatrias. He was my very first love. My first everything. He was in the 11th grade and I was in the 10th. We attended different schools. So, by the time he’d be graduating from high school, we decided it was best that we broke up. He went to Ohio for college and came back in 2003. We got back together. By that time, I had a daughter. She wasn’t quite 6 months at the time. I was in college and taking care of my daughter. While I had class, he enjoyed spending time with her. He taught her how to walk! I can remember one day out of the blue, he said to me, “You know, if anything were ever to happen to me, I’d make sure that you’d know as soon as it does.” I thought it was one of the weirdest things ever……
So fast forward to 2013. His cousin found me on Instagram and said he wanted to know that I was ok. Fast forward once again to January 2014………he had a heart attack and died in the 3rd. I called his mom as soon as I found out. She said, “Kanne……baby, Demeatrias just passed a half hour ago. How did you know?”
My husband died of als 10 years ago, only 54. We had 6 children 17-4. When he passed I felt angels intensely and was calm and felt love. I dream over and over that he never died and has been living close. He is not paralyzed, yet not back to his very physically fit self. I feel guilty to have moved on to have 3 more children. He is never mad and just wants to help me with all of the 9 children as if they were all his. He just starts organizing and fixing the the things I have not maintained and acts like my new spouse is insignificant,he’s aware he is there. My last dream ended with us dancing to our song ” beauty and the beast” . But his body became a wooden six panel pine door,normal head,neck,arms, knee down with feet. I always feel like it’s real when I wake up and just want back into my dream.
I had a dream of my son and he was saying to me ma get up we have to go to the store at that time it was 1:15 in the morning because I woke up and looked at the clock so I went back to sleep and my mother came to me and I told her what my son said and she said why would he want to go to the store at that time in the morning. Then I woke up at that time at 2;35 in the morning so was that just a dream
I have been having visitation dreams..I can’t believe how unbelievably beautiful they feel. So sad. My beautiful man passed away three months ago. I love him. The dreams are so real. Last night he was kissing me. I was telling him how in love I am with him. It was so amazing. I like being asleep. Funny thing is I woke up mid kiss. I could feel him..he was holding my hand. What an awesome feeling..just wanted to share.it felt so real. Lots of love.
I had received a quick (and somewhat disappointing) visitation “dream” from my husband about a month after he passed away. (It was just too short, and I barely got to interact with him.) After about 2 months, before I went to sleep, I asked him if he could visit me soon. (I also asked permission from God, in my prayers that night.) At about 3:00 am, I had a very powerful visitation dream from my husband. It’s odd because at first it seemed like a dream, but then, all of a sudden I realized it wasn’t. I looked at him, and he looked back at me like he knew of my sudden realization. I got a little scared and tried to wake up, but couldn’t. I went back into the dream and was suddenly face-to-face with him kissing!!! The feeling of love was overwhelming. I woke up crying tears of joy. Couldn’t sleep for the next couple of hours, and knew he was with me (in the spiritual realm) I’ve always been a person of faith, but this “sealed the deal”, as they say. THIS was REAL, and they are there, with us. We DO go on!!!
This happened to me one night ago. I felt like I was actually “hanging out” with my loved one. It was absolutely him and he almost had a glow to his complexion. I was sad when I woke up because I literally wanted to spend more time with him. When I went into my kitchen, I saw my bunny and wondered what the heck the bunny had done to his cage during the night. It looked like he must’ve been running around it like crazy! Very unusual!!!! A matter of a few hours later I was having lunch and my song for my loved one came over the restaurant! It’s not a common song at all and I was stunned. And tears started falling. I’ve been very open to messages from my loved one as I believe we have a soul connection (same soul group, twin flame, soul mate..I’m not sure which, but it’s something along those lines). .
I lost the love of my life about a month ago and I believe he came to me in a dream. Ive never had a visitation dream that I remember before. I was at a beach amd he was just stood there smiling at me. It felt so real and still does to this day. I remember the dream so well. I woke up asking if it was just my mind grieving for him or if it really was him. It was a comfort waking up from it and gives me confort to think about it. He has already given me the sence of touch for sure and delivered a messsage that hes with Jesus. Its pretty amazing as hes the first person ive lost who was very close to me. I never asked him to show his presence, but did ask him never to leave me.
Hi Jenny! The same thing happened to me. I hadn’t seen the love of my life for decades when out of the blue, I began having dreams of walking with someone, but I couldn’t see WHO. Night after night I dreamed, then it came to me! I thought I was being ridiculous, but I googled his name & up popped his obituary!! I’ve always believed in the afterlife…. God in His mercy gave me proof and the knowledge that my First Love, still loved me after all this time.❤️
During June of 2012 I began having strange dreams… Night after night, I was walking with someone in a shadowy place, but couldn’t see WHO ! They felt familiar somehow, but never spoke . This went on for over a month, when I got the uncanny feeling that this PERSON was My First Love, whom I hadn’t seen in
decades! I immediately googled his name and up popped his Obituary! He had passed away unexpectedly in June! I can’t begin to express the feeling that came over me! I then looked up his brother and got in touch. We hadn’t communicated since 1957….when I told him my story he was amazed!
Hi there,
My late father died a little over 6 months ago. Since his passing, I observed several signs around his home and I also had 4 different dreams about him.
The first one appeared to be a warning because the event of his death triggered several issues regarding my inheritance, which other relatives are still trying to tamper and play with.
The second was an assuring dream in one of his old homes where I was as tall as a small child and he simply held me close to his chest and he was significantly taller in his team.
The fourth strangely came at a night when the chandelier and the stretch cables over his sick bed in his room suddenly began shaking even though there was no earthquake and nothing was going on in the floor upstairs. That night I asked him to visit me in a dream if that was his spirit shaking those items on the ceiling and I did see him. He was in his death bed with the blanket over his face. A man who may have been his father or spiritual father was standing over his bed and when the blanket was lifted to reveal his face, my father woke up and began crying. It was as though he did not want to die. What is strange is that I have no siblings, but a young man, who was his other son in this dream, and I took our turn after the elderly man to run up to his death bed. We were both crying too and trying to reach him as fast as possible. We knew we had to say Good Bye one last time before he closed his eyes and died again. What is strange is that my father died overseas in a 3rd world country where he lived, where I am right now, and I do sometimes suspect that he was murdered and the murder was committed in such a way to make it seem like it was a death that came to him naturally. My husband and I knew the maid at his home was being bribed under the table by my uncle who is now trying everything he can to make impossible for me to claim my father’s estate. I do believe my uncle conspired with the maid to expedite his death after he began transferring some of his properties to me because he strangely died in less than a month since I flew back to the States.
Please tell me what I can do to connect with my father’s spirit and get the answers I need.
I need a some. Help..guidance if you will. My closest guy friend who also I had been intimate with at pints off and on…we had known each other since 07’. He passsed away December 21st 2014…just right before Christmas. I’d never lost someone before I was in such shock..he wasn’t there for me anymore I couldn’t call him,I’d pull up his contact to text him and realize he as gone. That following may I had this huge what seemed to be hours long of a connnecting dream first I saw him walking on the side of the road wearing clothes he wore back in the day…7-8th grade he was just walking blankly and I told the person driving “hey that was tyler” and I kinda like made it a misssionn to find him I was controlling this dream at this point so vivid I could pick out colors and faces and feelings..the energy was unreal. I eventually come to this place wheee I’m having to sneak in to retrieve something I wasn’t sure why I was go No where I was but I know how to hide and sneak around the building ones I came to this hall…giant wife hall. BRIGHT as could be I get like it was blinding me.!i heard people coming so I ran down the hall and went to the first room I saw on the right..when I got I. The room again everything clean,white,shining. And then in the middle of this room was a stand with an orb like thing on top…was glowing of different colors and then appears a small person who explained to me what the device does..she said that this is how we connect with you when it builds up enough energy we are able to send it out and had me place my hands on it as a was,the ord was warm and the colors were changing so fast almost flashing. Mostly purples and blues. She had given me so many small details about this device…and after m hands wheretaken off Tyler appears and full embraces me holds me so tight and said “I’m ok everything is ok” I was crying and upset and I just knew that at that time he was telling me he made it to heaven…I was so happy. But then it’s like he was suddenly gone and I just was lifted fro the room. He told me he would see me again. This was may 29,2016. Since then he’s popped in and out of my dreams very small bits then today before awakening me Tyler and some friend asked were walk-in around somewhere I had just been in a dream the day or two before…my friend with her boyfriend (I couldn’t see their faces) only his said L”hey there’s that guy yoI said looked like Tyler” and I tried to show tyler the guy as I was pointing the other mans face,who’d resembled Tyler so well started to get blurry but then when I looked back at Tyler he just kissed me,happy. Like a 2 second pop kiss with his arm around me and in my left side I remember hearing the pop of our lips and wondering if the people I was with saw it or heard it…as soon as this happened I woke up. This was today December,17th,2017. Also if this has any meaning my number is “17” I see it everywhere,it’s always a number I pick,I see at random. Ect. But every year as it gets closer to his passing….I see him more. I love it so much. I wish he could stay. I wish I could realize in my dream that I wanted to stay and keep myself there as long as possible. Sometimes this is…sometimes I just wake straight up. But I’m asking is…what is he telling me? What does this mean…with the relationship we had we were the best best of friends. But we also had intimate moments for years. The year of his passing we didn’t spend too much time together he got the no good girlfriend that changed everything. We just spoke on and off….I feel like I never got to say goodbye MY way…never saw his face for the last time..at the funeral I could hardly bare to look at him even though how handsome he looked in a button up red shirt “he prob would have never worn” lol bearing a red rose…he looked peaceful but I just ran after I saw him. He’s been stuck on my mind a daily thing…off what to do. I just want to be in heaven with him.
So I had a dream of some guy I sort of knew in high school, he passed away 3 years ago. A month before he passed away I seen him and he didn’t see me but I felt the urge to speak to him but didn’t. Anyways well I had a dream of him but In the dream we were dating and I secretly would knock on the door and we’d kiss and what not, it felt so real. I felt warm, safe and loved and when I woke up still felt that. I had a crush on him my sophomore year and I think he did to but we never ended up really talking cuz he was really shy and ended up dating another girl etc.. well it felt so real, I woke up not remembering our surroundings but him and the moment we were having.. was it real or fake?
I had a cousin that took his own life a few weeks ago he hasn’t sent me signs or anything. I’ve had dreams about him but I don’t think they were ‘visitation dreams’. Do you have any idea what’s going on?
Thanks for this been wondering if my dreams are of my son Jonathan. Sometimes I only recognise the energy and it’s as I see him in an alternate life with other members.
I had a dream a bout an elder telling ne to my face that it was too late I was able to say it was never too late she told me she was stuck in my sisters old house I told her its never too late just pray as I had told her to go to the light she kept saying its too late My husband woke me up saying I was talking in my sleep this happened in dec and I still remember it! Also I dont know where I just knew what to say to her was so suprising!
2 and a half weeks after my Nana passed away. I had the most beautiful dream. I think she took me to her, we were in a VERY bright place with beautiful music playing. My nan looked younger, she was standing tall and even walked about (had been in a wheel chair for over 20 years). Her hair was coloured brown not grey. She was wearing the outfit she wore to my wedding 15 years ago and makeup. I think the message (no conversation) tell the family I’m young and fit again. She looked so happy. I totally believe I saw her for real and all her pain and illnesses are gone.
Iam very worried about my dads sprit. He was vietanam vet, US NAVY, passed on veterans day this november 2017. Not that this matters, but he was my step dad and I was connected to him from the first day I meat him when I was 12. My mom suddenly passed in 2007 I was 33, there was no warning she was not ill, She just passed awat. My dad LOVED HER she was his life. 8 months after her passing, I asked dad to come live with me. 10 years he lived with me, my husband and kids. We never fought or argued. He had years of heart issues then lung cancer hit slow and then heart failuer. We knew time was short. Yet dad still passed in a sudden un expected way. The day before he died he told me he did not feel he had much longer. I HAVE BEEN DEVASTATED ever since. I know he always said when his time comes he would be with my mom. I HAVE HAD 2 DREAMS of him both very CLEAR!! The love and connection we are both missing eachother. He hugs me hard. I talk to him he responds to my questions. I ask him if he is happy where he is and both times he says he is not happy and he is not with my mom. The tone in his voice seems as if he does not understand. In my dreams we both know he is gone and he cannot stay long to talk. Is he not really HAPPY. Also he does not appear in the cloths we buried him. Both times he was wearing cloths I from his wardrobe. What does all this mean?
I’ve heard of these dreams and believe it had one last night. My mom died 1/11/18 from COPD & congestive heart failure. (She was on oxygen 24/7) It was terrible to watch. Last night in my “dream” she was laying in a bed blinking her eyes in an odd manner like there was something stuck in her eyes , her hair done and about 10 years younger and she wasn’t wearing any oxygen. She looked great.
She said something to me but I couldn’t hear so I leaned in and I asked her what she said to which she whispered “I’m blind”
I immediately woke from my dream and have been perplexed since becasue she didn’t have an eyesight pr Been when she was alive and it had nothing to do with her death. I feel like it’s a message but I have no idea what it means. Has anyone had this happen ?
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I had a dream about my mom that’s been deceased since 1998..In this dream she came up to me in the store and smiled and She open her arms up to hug me and I just fell into her and I remember saying they told me you were dead? My mom never said anything she just seemed so happy and kept smiling.. lately I have been under alot of stress is could this be way of her saying it’s going to be ok..it sure feels like it
My male dog was hit by car on the 20th and he was hit close to home.can a dog spirit go into other dogs that are male that are in you house because my mom friend just brought her male over here that was a different breed and a little smaller then e was and this dog came to me he sleeps with my me talks and all like my other dog and just a minute ago my female started humping her daughter witch was his daughter to and the mom dog is fixed and she has never been like this be for could it be that my male dog who has passed put his sprit in that male dog or my female dog because all of the sudden my mom and daughter were playing and they stopped and acted as if they were depressed and scared
How do I get your book … afterlife ?
My husband passed 17 months ago and came to me in a visitation dream, he was just sitting in his usual place on the sofa, dressed in his usual clothes, very vivid color. He didn’t say anything but so startled to see him I woke and sat up. He was gone but I talked to him, shook for an hour. I had never heard of this happening before.
Thank you. Jean
A friend of mine that I’ve known for 30 years just contacted me over the phone and told me that she had a dream of my mother last night who has passed 3 years ago. she told me there was a man standing with her but couldn’t really see his face only that he was tall ,dark hair . my friend also told me that my mom looked very young Slim blonde hair like they did back in the 60s she wanted to hug my friend but my friend said no cuz she was scared that it was a sign of death to her . said my mom was happy and she wanted to contact me but she couldn’t ,so she got my friend to call me and to get me over to the house right away in this dream. I ended up coming over all rushed and asked my friend what does she want? she said look and there was my mom standing there. she said I started crying and my mom had taken me aside to tell me something and then she walked away and vanished what does this dream mean? was it a visitationm is there a meaning to this?
I had a dream tonight that I was out with my friends like usual and I received a phone call from my mother an she told me that my father has passed. Current my dad and I are not talking and it’s been months I have always been close to my dad we just fell off over some fuse. Anyways at first I didn’t feel any emotion but later it hit me. I was out drinking I sat on some rocks by the beach talking on the phone with my mom than I just start crying so much… I was also drinking for some reason in my dream I was trying to cover up my feelings in front of my friends. But once I was at the store buying Medicine I seen a man right I front of me who was my dad. I looked at him an ignored him because I didn’t realize it was my dad or I was just in denial but then I glazed at him again then that’s when I knew it was him. I said Papi ? He said yes mija. I saw him. Every little detail of him. It was crazy I was crying so much am he was talking to me telling me his dead now explaining to me how he was feeling but he seemed happy. I was crying and telling him how bad I felt I thought I wasn’t ever gonna see him again and apologize and just give each other’s hugs. I was so sad that he left and I couldn’t make things better. But he gave me a hug and I felt good I felt happy he came to me. Than I woke up at 4am crying and just felt really weird. The crazy part is that my dad is not dead. We haven’t spoke in a min so I’m scared is this a sign that something might happen I feel like his living soul visited in my dreams since we are not physically taking. Lately I’ve been having lots of death dreams like frienda and fam passing and water. Please help
Me understand.
I recently lost my fiancé due to a car crash, we have been in a Long distance relationship for almost three years. He has been gone for over a month,and I dream about him consecutively for 3days and stops,and then dream of him again consecutively. Today I dreamt about him, I hear his voice in one of the dreams, it was a continuing dream as I fell asleep again after waking up, I went back to thesame dream. The last part of my dream, I was trying to call him on the phone but he didnot answer, and in my dream, I felt my head had goosebumps, and I immediately knew it was him, slowly as I woke up, I had goosebumps all over my body and imagined that he was hugging me. It was weird for me to have that feeling as I was covered in thick blanket and I did not feel even a bit of a cold, just the chills on my left side of the body, as I was sleeping on my right.
Hi,
I lost my father this month. Twelve days later, I had a dream of him walking past me looking healthy and about 15 years yoi ger. I said dad? And he sakd I am fi e , I am doing good. Was it a visitation dream?
My husband had been gone almost 9 months. I ask him every night to come to me but he never has. I am so sad and last. I have so many questions. Why hasn’t he come to me?
I have had visitation dreams. First one was from my Son and the second more recent one was from my Dad. Both times, I knew I was visiting them because even in my sleep I knew I was sleeping and I knew they came to talk to me. I remembered every detail in the morning, seen their faces, how happy they are. It was amazing. Thank you for verifying that for me…many people think you’re crazy when you tell them.
Hi..since my ex husband passed. He had committed suicide by hanging.. my daughter also had a friend whom committed suicide. Besides electric things acting funny. My daughter sees the numbers 357 a lot. Also when we brought home this diver guy home,my 3 yr old,then 2 was yelling at the diver saying papa wake up. She’s never met him or knew the word papa. Plus always seems to be in our dreams. Most not talking. We understand most things but not the numbers..what does this mean?
I had one from my father, he was standing in front of me, hair blowing a little in the wind, his face, eyes, strands of hair all visible and clear, he said nothing, just smiled, he appeared as he looked in his early 40’s….I went to hug him but I woke up before I got to do so, I could feel his energy still with me, everything exactly as you just described, have not had one since but I cherish that one so ❤️
Thank you Blair. You confirmed what I believed was true. My mother visited me as I was waking up 3 weeks after her passing. I heard her call my name twice. I saw her wearing familiar clothing, holding a bouquet of flowers as she smiled at me. The same way you revealed she was smiling at me when I saw you in Lake Havasu. She seemed SO happy. I’m SO happy to have you as a spiritual advisor. Thank you. I truly believe that love never dies ♡
I lost my beloved husband almost 3 years ago, i cant understand why ne has not visited me.
Yes, I have had visits from my paternal grandfather and father. My grandfather and grandmother came together. He was standing, she was sitting. I immediately ran to hug him and he was gone or I woke up. I was walking into a room with a hallway to the left. There sat about 10 people. I only recognized my husband, who is still alive, my father and I think my maternal grandma in the very back. I had kept walking past them trying to figure out why they had gathered in the hallway and didn’t tell me. It was as if my husband had arranged it.
My father in law, Bill, was a jokester. He always made everybody laugh. He and my mother in law, Pat, had always wanted to take us to Hotel Del Coronado for their Sunday brunch. Bill was a man who loved to eat. He worked hard and stayed skinny. He passed away in 2001, and we never got to go to that brunch. His death was devastating to our family. In 2003 my mother in law passed away. My heart was broken as she was a dear friend as well as my mother in law. A few days later I woke up laughing after Bill came to me when I was sleeping and said, “We moved! It’s just like the Hotel Del Coronado!” I knew then that they were both okay and they were happy to be together again.
Hi Blair, I think I have had a few visitations as I can feel and see shapes of people. Like while sleeping I wake up and see shapes of people I know (usually people that are still alive). And one time I seen a beautiful little baby. If I move or talk they are gone.
Thanks for this info.
I read on face book you have couple of new books out. Will be buying them soon, have so enjoyed your books.
Love and light
Fay
I had a visitation or connection seven years ago. My sister died by suicide on January 21, 2011. Her daughter’s 12th birthday was on February 9th. At a park. I had never been to the park before so I had no idea what it looked like. She connected with me the night before the party. I don’t remember everything but I do remember that the setting was at that park (which I didn’t realize until I got there). She was dressed just like she would have been if she had gone in her physical state. I remember telling her she was supposed to be there and she said, “I will be and I’ll be right by you.” I had been so emotional about that day up until I woke up the next morning. It was a perfect birthday party at the park.
Exactly! Years ago my dad came to me in my sleep and it was so real that when I awoke I was looking for him to be standing next to my bed. That’s when I knew. I have never doubted that was a real visit. A few years ago I saw you at an event in Houston and you gave me a message from my dad. You told me I was his favorite child. It’s true. I knew that and was a great validation. A year later I went to a James Van Praagh event and he also brought e a message from my dad…Guess what the very first thing he said to me was? “You were his favorite.” Haha anyway, I remember you saying James Van Praagh was your favorite. Just wanted to share that with you. 😉
Thank you for that Blair.
I have had many visits in my dreams from my loved ones.
You are right. Those ones I always remember.
I have given many many hugs to my loved ones in my dreams.
Very comforting and reassuring that they are still around.
It was my Moms anniversary of her passing on Mar 6.
I received many messages from her and even felt her presence with me in my
kitchen. Thanks for sharing your wonderful gift! Love and Light ❤️❤️
Since Dec when my wife of 29 years past in 2016 . I have had many validation dreams . My children have also and they always say I saw mom in a dream last night . They know the difference and believe the same as myself in spirit. They of course are adults and we share if one has a validation dream of there mom Kim . It just warms my heart knowing she’s ok on the other side. My first validation dream my wife Kim came towards me in what looked like a grey mist . I saw her face and just as I had known her for years . She put her arms around me and told me everything will be alright. Then Kim left and I asked her to stay but she just faded and said good bye . I woke from this dream with many tears as we had known each other forty years . I know shes ok on the other side and very thankful for all the validation dreams I do receive. You told me Blair we can get through grief but we never get over our loss . You know I am greatful for all I have learned about spirit and healing . We have to live life and our love ones are still with us , ( Loveneverdies ♥️)
Hi Blair
I read this tonight and I know now that my Dad comes to visit me when I sleep. I have had many night that I see him, touch and hug him and he even talks to me. I see him plane as day. and in the morning I still remember him begin in my dream. what he wore to what he said to me. thank you for sharing this. I see he’s face and it his my Dad. I miss him so..
Sir, You are correct. I used to think about my death date which is 17 July, 2017. But on 17th July, I forget to remember her date of death. Accidently, I remember that I had an dream on 17th July that my wife body with her death face. I recalled why she came on my dream with such dead body face. After two days, I remember that that is the day of her death which I forget and she remind her about the death day.
I am talking to so many souls but I could not talk to my wife and her name is Vallikannu. All the souls which I am talking to them and I asking them where is my wife soul and why she is not talking to me. They all said that she is with the god and she is not in a position to talk to you no. I am really worrying about that my wife is not calling and am very eager to talk to her. I am praying her soul every day and I do not pray god due to no justice from the God and people around me.
Thanks and Regards,
Swaminathan
I don’t dream, and I don’t have visitation dreams. Disappointing. I sometimes get signs from Tom and/or Pat, I like when I do.
I just remembered, I did have one visitation. My son was being shipped to Iraq and I was worried sick. Early one morning, I was lying in bed, semi awake, crying, and my mother came to me. She enveloped me with a blanket of love, such as I never felt from her before. She told me not to worry, my son would be all right. I felt such relief, my worry was gone. And, my son came home unharmed.
I truly believe in life after death. I know that they are around me and they love to play tricks on me and my daughter. She also believes. Thank you for all that you do.
My very first visit from a loved one that was like this was when I was 14 both my parents had passed and I moved into my Aunts House, she called me Cinderella, she even laughed when she said it! Her eldest Son died 7 months after my mom in 1972, she was never the same, I sat up in my bed he called my name came and sat on my bed and promised me everything would be ok, I always thought he meant she would give me everything she stole from
My Dad and I but actually I have been blessed with Beautiful children, Grandchildren and more love than a Woman could ever want, meaning more than any money she took, her kids are all miserable so he was totally right, everything is just perfect and I cherish that visit to this day 41 years later I can see it like it was yesterday! I thought I was crazy and was afraid to say anything but no doubt in my mind and was later told that lots of my ancestors were mediums and empaths
My Mom came to me just before she actually passed away. My family sent me home that night because I was caring for her all week and I was completely drained. Her voice came into my ear loud and clear “Better days are coming, Ree” Ree is my childhood nickname. I jumped so high off the bed expecting to see her standing there. It was an overwhelming feeling. At 6am I’m sitting on my bed in my apt wondering if I should call the house thinking she had passed. I pondered until 8am and they told me she had a very restless period and they were on the phone with Hospice @ 6am and they had given her an additional dose of Morphine to calm her. I believe it was her first visitation.
After that she came to me just before Father’s Day telling me what to write in a card for my Stepdad. I was crying while writing this card and she was sitting in her normal seat on the sofa and was very very happy (more then normal happy) and laughing. I got mad and asked her “What are laughing at – I’m in tears over here?” Her only response was laughing and smiling and I woke up.
After that she came to me several times but 2 days before another was going to pass. It scared me and at the same time I felt she was telling she was there to welcome them. The first was a newborn infant who died after 300+ days in the hospital. He never was “awake” or responsive during this time but in my dream she brought him to my job in a car seat and he was just a laughing and his little arms and legs were moving with joy. He passed 2 days later. After another dream/death happened I told her I didn’t want to know this was gonna happen – it stopped. No more dreams at all since then.
My mom passed away when I was 17. When I was 24, I had a visit from her. My husband & I were camping, and it was a peaceful evening as I fell asleep. Her image was very clear, but the background was total blackness. She looked healthy again, not the cancer ridden body she had at the end of her life on earth. She didn’t use words; she motioned with her arms like she was rocking a baby. I said “you can’t have a baby anymore!” She continued to sway her arms back & forth, & convinced me that I was the one to be having a baby! It has been a lasting memory that never faded. I’m happy that she was the one to give me such wonderful news! My baby is now 39 yrs old with babies of his own. So true that love never dies!
I lost my wife at the age of 52 to esophageal cancer i have not had a visit in my dream ,i hope i can get one ,i miss her so much my heart hurts. i feel i have no purpose in life she passed away febuary 4 of this year . i cry all the time and can’t stop thinking about her!
I took care of my Mother in Law for 3 1/2 yrs before she passed. In her final days I told her to come around me as a humming bird if she was still around us. Well it has happened only three times and at the same place when I’m going through a difficult time. Each time I see the humming bird I open my front door and there is a curved arch on my front porch. The hummingbird comes and hovers there for a few seconds so I see it and then zips off. This only happens when I’m facing a struggle and it only happen three times within 9 yrs. but I say OKAY Mom I know you are around me! I have lots of flowers (as I live in Fla.) and a humming bird feeder but never see them around the feeder or flowers. She was very close with our Boxer dog Teeko and we got a call from the vet that there was no hope and to come as he should be put down and when I opened the door to leave there was the humming bird in the arch way and I said to my husband Mom will be with us and will be waiting for Teeko. I believe next time the humming bird appears in the arch way it will be my Mother in law visiting!
I have not recently had any dreams about my loved ones, but have previously dreamed about relatives who have passed on, or have dreamed about someone who I have not seen in a long while and then find out they or a loved one of theirs has passed away. As recently as this morning though, I wake up and ‘feel’ the presence of my dead cat curled up beside of me on the bed.
There definitely is a difference between the two and every detail of the visit is real and remembered. It’s been a couple of years since my mom visited but I still remember it in detail and relish it! Thanks for being you.
I’ve had several revealing dreams. The latest on was my husband dancing holding me close, smiling saw his beautiful face, smile hair, made me feel warm being held by him. Slow dancing neither wanting to let go of each other. Woke up smiling feeling light and happy. Was a wonderful feeling didn’t want to wake up, didn’t want him to go. Always wonder could we really have been that close that we could feel each other.
I have had loved ones visit me after their passing telling me they are OK. Makes me feel so good when I wake.
about four or five years ago, my dad came to me and it was very real and distinct. he was wearing the same light blue sweater with a hole in the sleeve that he wore all the time when he was alive. He said something like “your mother is not happy here anymore” or some words similar to that (she was still alive at the time). She only lived about a year or two after that dream. I think he was preparing me.
i have had dreams of my brothe and i keep saying how good you look i never see his face but i think i see him where he lets me no that he is ok after a dream i have a cardinal that come to the house
This was RIGHT ON TIME for me as a “friend” who happen to mention to that my dad who passed 9/6/17 had gave me a gift of a visitation! SHE tried to tell me it wasn’t, BUT I KNOW BETTER! Very funny, very specific, I still remember EVERY detail from almost a month ago! My dad was Hilarious in life, and still just as silly and funny in the afterlife! The jist of it was I was outside back door of my parents house, my mom was bitching about him smelling like cigarette smoke, ( he quit back in late 60’s early 70’s) she telling me to go ahead and smell his breath…me laughing cause he now had his beautiful black hair back and it was long, kinda like Fabio, lol, was teasing him about I was glad he had his hair back, saw his fishing pole, which he loved to fish, and he would sneak cigarettes from me when mom wasn’t around when he would take us on cruises! So with all that being said, mind you NEVER saw my mom, only heard her complaining from another part of house, I said, “ok, daddy, let me smell your breath”, he never said anything the whole time, only had HIS SILLY “shit eating grin” on his face, and when we leaned in to each other with his mouth opening up for me to smell his breath…I woke up! Of course laughing my butt off because that would be typical MY DADDY!! I KNOW you can’t answer each and every one, and I DONT EVEN NEED any validation… My problem comes from the friend, who DOES have some kind of “gift” trying to INSIST that it wasn’t one! As I have discovered I also have a gift THAT SHE DOESNT KNOW ABOUT, and have begun expanding it with the help of a TRUSTED MENTOR! So my dear Blair, if you have any time and would like to inpart any wise words concerning that “friend”, I’d love to hear! Love and Light to you, my dear.
Cindy
Reading your article very interesting my husband died over six years ago and I’m wondering he came and kissed my four head and set me free we always watched the Waltons on television and he asked why I wasn’t watching them after he died what I couldn’t it was like a block there but after that kiss I was able to watch the Waltons . another incident six weeks after my dad passed away to the hour I had a morning visitation when I was sleeping and he came back because I told him before he died I want to know everything that I was telling him the spirit was showing me was true he came back and verify this for me thank God that he listened because I just built my spiritual strength up more . My house is so full of spirit beings I am very well protected and I think God for that also I believe very much so in the spirit realm that is more real to me then this earthly realm believe me and I thank God for people like you and you have a blessed wonderful day .
If you only have a few memories of a parent taken away from you at a young age and they have passed away would they come visit?
Blair, I had a very real dream of my grandma shortly after she passed. She my mom and I were standing at the fence talking, she told mom and I that we had to accept that she was gone so she could rest. My dad was in the yard mowing the lawn and grandma told us that he had accepted her passing and we needed to also, suddenly my mom asked me who I was talking to i told her grandma and she just walked away. Grandma gave me a hug and vanished. Shortly after that dream I started knitting and crocheting like grandma had. My dad told me grandma had given me her talent from beyond. I have always believed that she visited me that night. Annette Roberts
Interesting…I went to the cemetery to put flowers on my parents grave and I sat a talked to them , which I have never done before, but anyway on my ride home a red bird flew by in front of my van and I remembered a saying something about seeing cardinal in your yard means a loved one is near I don’t know how true that is but that’s what I thought of. My Dad and I went to the cemetery quite often to put flowers on Mom’s grave and he had a favorite road that we always went down to get there and as I was turning on that road I seen the cardinal. Was it a sign or not I don’t know.
My dog also looks up toward the ceiling alot and I look up thinking he see a bug or something but nothing is there. Could that be a sign? Again I don’t know.
My Dad passed on June 10, 2016 at 94 and Mom passed on February 14, 1999 at 73.
We took my Mom on a cruise. She had been just diagnosed with mesothelioma so we knew this would be our last trip with her. My Dad had passed away 15 years prior. I dreamt on the cruise that my Dad came to me in my favorite blue suit of his. It was so real, we were at a party and I knew if I turned away from him he would disappear. I asked him what I was supposed to do with my Mom and he just looked sad. Tears came down his face. Someone in the party called out to me and I turned away, and when I turned back he was gone. It was all so very real, not dreamlike at all.
I’ve had several visitation dreams from my 19 year old daughter since she transitioned last year. I have a journal, and I journal all the visitation dreams I can remember with her. Makes me so happy to see her beautiful face ~ Miss her so much
Thank you very much. But since my husband died I haven’t been able to remember my dreams. Either before or after I wake up. If he’s communicating with me I’m not remembering it. Thank you Stacey
Wow this helped a lot . I lost my father a year or so ago and had a dream about him he appeared in a t v a older one like black and white and he was waving happily to me and he looked amazing and young he appeared in the credits that are in the bottom of the screen Ib my dream I ran to tv on my knees so happy to see him
My Mother passed in the summer of 2014. I had only one dream since she left us, and that was the morning I awoke with a strong sense that she was trying to tell me something. Per usual, I checked my early morning emails and that’s when I saw you were coming to Scottsdale. I tried to shrug it off, but the sense of my Mother’s presence was so profound that I realized that she was trying to tell me to go see you. I was your first reading that evening… “A Mother named Margaret, or Margie, family of five, three of a kind two of another.” At first I asked my friend who recently lost her Sister, but she couldn’t give me a definite answer, so I then asked my Niece. You picked up that she wasn’t my first choice to take to the reading that evening. I took two photos with my Mother in them with the five children. You specifically said, my Mother told you that I brought two photos!!! Thank you for helping to bring me together with my Mother and easing my pain knowing my Mother is happy and with other family members. It’s amazing to me.
Thanks for the great information, Blair. Very informative as always. Wishing you and yours peace, love and healing white light.
I recently experienced the worst thing that could ever happen to anyone, the loss of my only child. My emotions are all over the place . I have experienced many losses, but nothing feels as horrendous as this. I saw her in her bedroom, sitting like she normally would do. I felt her, she was real. My mom, who is also deceased , was dusting the mantel(as she always would when she was alive) and around my daughter’s ashes. My daughter told me that the ashes was not her, that she was here. I told her to please come to me before I fell asleep. She finally did and it has been a little over a month. I know this was the visit I was waiting for.
I had a visitation and it was so clear & felt real, which I believe it was. I remember a lot of the details to this day. David did give me a message at that time. It felt amazing the next morning & real.
I had a dream years ago many years after my ex husband passed away while I was in the hospital with my mom. He came to me as my mom and I were at the back of the Jack in the Box in the parking lot and she was having problems and I looked up and saw a crowd of people coming towards me and in the middle was a tall man and his arms were spread out and as he came closer I realized it was my ex-husband. As he came closer he wrapped his arms around me and told me everything was going to be okay. I woke up after that and told my mom. it has been 20 plus years and I’ve never forgotten it.
When I dream of my mother or father, I’m always fighting with them. We didn’t fight when they were here in earth. Why?
I had a dream last night about a classmate I had in highschool. His name was Zach. He died sometime last year in Korea, in his military barracks. It was ruled as suicide but it seemed kinda off to me, and from what I’ve seen on Facebook, his sister thinks foul play was afoot too. To be clear, I hadn’t spoken to Zach in years. We weren’t especially close.
The dream was vivid, but at the same time, not. I can’t remember what kind of car he got out of, but I remember recognizing him, calling his name, and approaching him. He seemed surprised to see me. He was wearing the purple/pinkish T shirt I remember him wearing a lot in school.
We hugged really tightly. I remember that specifically, it was a really solid hug. And I remember being completely aware he was dead, and that this was a dream. But he looks at me after we hug, and he asks “Is this real?” And he seems to be in disbelief.
And I ask him “Does it feel real to you?”
And then I woke up. People talk about being visited in their dreams but honestly, it felt like I was the one visiting him? I’ve been thinking about it all day and night. We weren’t even close. We had a single class together and never hung out outside of it. Pretty confusing.
Blair, I have had 3 dream visitations in the exactly one year since my deceased loved one left. I didn’t doubt any of them. I could describe each to you now but this would be too lengthy if I did. I will concisely say that in the first one, I heard my loved one saying my name to me “over the telephone” in the clearest voice – that’s it – but it was him. Secondly, woke up from a bad dream and his hand/arm was moving between my arm/body from armpit down arm past my fingers – literally felt the moving and knew it was him perhaps trying to protect me. And lastly, I was in awakening state from dream and was hugging myself with both of my arms and as the more “alert” I became, his arms were directly under my arms and I could feel him “hug” me with his arms pulling my mid-section to his arms. These connections have all been quick but leave no doubt in my mind that it is my deceased loved one.
my grandmother passed just over a year ago and recently i have had 2 very intense dreams of her i could only hear her voice it was her voice it was so real i could hear her i could feel her with me and i woke up crying uncontrollably i could remember her voice broke i remember everything except wat she said i can’t get it out of my head but can’t remember i know she waa trying to tell me something i had another 1 last night i saw her this time and she was talking to me again and all i remember is her saying something about god and i woke up crying uncontrollably again. i know she was there but why can’t i remember what she is telling me
Hi Blair,
This is week will be the second anniversary of my husbands passing. I have had one dream connection. I wish it was more but appreciate he came through.
I want to thank you for all the tools you have shared to make these connections.
Brenda
I had a visitation dream years ago. A co-workers husband came to me just before Christmas decorating a tree. I never met him before he passed and just knew his wife in by sight. He looked right at me with a beautiful smile, for a while, then faded away. I had not seen his wife in months but the next morning the first person I saw going into work was her. I passed on my experience and was rewarded with another beautiful smile and a thank you. She felt her husband was wishing her a Merry Christmas.
I was wondering why I don’t hear from my many family members who have passed. I never remember my dreams, that’s how know this was a visitation.
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I once had a visitation come to me in the form of an orb. I was in bed for the night. I’m pretty sure I was awake when it happened. It was a big ball of white light that moved from my closet door then moved up to me and past me. There was a woman’s face in it. She had beautiful blond curly hair with blue eyes and very red lipstick on. I didn’t know who she was. I described her to my mom because she resembled pictures of women back in the 1940’s. She told me that she was my moms cousin. She knew immediately. She said that she died in her 20’s of a rare disease. I couldn’t believe it! She has never come again to visit. When she passed me I felt a breeze. I stayed awake for a long time after that!! It was so amazing! Thanks for letting me share.
The article was very helpful. You clarified the difference so very well. Thank you.
At this present moment I am on compassionate care leave so I can take care of my mom who is dying from liver and lung cancer. This is not fun to go through. I just pray that she doesn’t suffer. She keeps telling me she doesn’t believe in the afterlife but I do 100%. I really hope she comes to me when she is gone so I know she made it. I did see my brother once after he pasted and he felt the same as my mom about the after life.
Hi Blair, I don’t dream I can’t remember the last dream I had. I don’t understand why or how this happens that someone doesn’t dream!
I had a very vivid dream after my dad passed in 1986, and it is still clear in my mind. In the 1st part of the dream I saw his casket and when I looked in I saw his face decomposing. The next second there was a big white tent on the lawn of his house and inside was my dad (looking great), all of his grandchildren and me sitting in a circle. He was telling us all just how beautiful heaven is. I woke up in a cold sweat, but I know that he was letting me know that he was happy and in heaven. It was terrifying in the beginning, but so beautiful in the end.
My mother was not a religious person-at all. She would not even participate in conversations near the topic of God, she hated going inside churches. This being said ; about 2 months after mom died, I had a dream where she was on her knees, on a conveyer belt , looking straight at me, moving backwards, she waved good-bye to me, and went through a pair of red velvet drapes. Does this mean she has entered Hell ? 2 months or so later, I spoke with a medium over the phone, she said mom was a lost soul. Mom passed away Oct. 19,2013 ; and what this medium told me; has bothered me as much as her passing away. Can you please shed any light on this for me. Thank you Blair.
Blair, my experience I believe was a visitation from my mom who I was incredibly close to. I was sitting on the couch and she showed up at my place in my dream. We sat for what seemed for hours talking about old times and looking at photo albums. I felt extreme love from hearing her voice and looking at her warm smile. When I woke up even I though I felt groggy as if I was in a deep sleep I realized it was a dream. I have never felt so happy and some sort of euphoria came over me is the only way I can describe it. It made me feel amazing like I didn’t have a care in the word and put me in the best mood for the day!! It stayed with me for awhile. The only downside is it felt so real that for a split second I realized she was not here with me so I felt a pang of sadness. It made me cry for a moment but then I held onto that unbelieveable happiness that I just felt. I believe I an intuitive person who senses and feels things so maybe everyone’s experience is different but yes I would say you could definitely tell the difference. I am grateful for the visit as she was a wonderful loving mom who I miss everyday.
Hi my husband died four years ago and I would love to have a visitation from him but he has never come to me in a dream. I ask him every night but no luck maybe he doesn’t want to contact me wish I knew.x
Blair i had a dream/visit that my deceased son was standing right in front of me….but it was a womans voice telling me my son sees me cry everyday…and that he knows im hurting…i truly believe it was a visit…cld the womans voice be a past loved one of mine…or my spirit guide?
Blair-
Great article ! As always your “pearls of wisdom” invigorate my curiosity for
further spiritual knowledge. The distinction between the two states was clear, concise
and enlightening !
Thank you
Fenton Henrickson
Omg i just had a dream Friday about my husband everything felt so real like he wasn’t even gone the hugs the kiss the touch the love when i woke up i just felt evrything was so real i said to myself tgat hes not gone i just saw him it was just so real our love for each will never die after two years of him being gone the love is still so strong i just love him so much and in my dream he still felt and showed the exact same love as he alway did
I lost my sweet dog 5 days ago after 14-1/2 yrs. He had a stroke and died peacefully while I was at his side. I took his death very hard. The next night, for some strange reason, I woke up and saw a furry brown dog in the shadows and felt his presence, but it was only for a couple seconds. I thought it was his twin sister, so I went to check in the living room, but she was sound asleep in her bed. I didn’t realize pets who have passed could make contact with their owners.
My mother passed almost 4 years ago unexpectedly. Both my sister and I have “felt” our mother’s presence. We describe it as a chill factor.. We felt it prior to her funeral as she passed through all of us and stopped at me. My sister says she has talked at her house and I heard it when I was visiting, then felt her presence. It’s unbelievable at the feeling.
I’m leaving one more comment only because I know it was her (my mom). Below, where you put your name, email address, and are supposed to put a website.. well… I put the arrow on it to type it in, and my mom’s full name was there… Then I felt her. I took apicture of it and sent it to my sister to make sure I wasn’t hallucinating.
Blair, my daughter passed away on July 12, 2017, she had not spoken to our family in six years, since her Dad passed away. She was a very bitter, unkind person and ended up with no friends or even family. I’ve never been touched by her since she passed, and I wonder if she got her wish to be with her Dad, or are there other places that she could be?
I lost my Husband suddenly on 17th September I woke up on the .Monday morning and he was asleep could not wake him he lost his mum 2 weeks prior I’m list heart broken h was my love and soul mate I so desperately want a sign and know he is with me I thought I heard someone say they’ve me in my ear that morni g a fees hours after not sure if I. Is heard right or someone said that to me as a friend or it was my Husband I miss him so so much I do believe in afterlife bit I so want a sign
I need help understanding what might be going on with my granddaughter. My husband past away 3 years ago and she has been seeing him a lot with red eyes and it scares her. What does that mean?, why red eyes?
I dreamt I was driving and as I came up to this light I looked over and it was my deceased father who seemed very much alive. He jumped out and asked where was I going. My daughter was with me.
He said now what are you forgetting , wearing a tall purple hat, he gave it to me and gave my daughter one. I gave him a big hug and I didn’t want to let him go, but he said I gotta go. When I woke up it was if I were still trying to hold on with a hug. What is the meaning?
My beloved sweetie pie passed 2/13/18. The week before Christmas I was very ill, sleeping on the couch. Somewhere along the way I awoke for a moment looking at Greg’s chair and there he was, sitting plain as day. watching over me. All the items I had piled on his chair were nowhere in site. This happened about a half dozen times – I wasn’t dreaming and not quite asleep or fully awake – until I waved at him as I did so many times in the past. He then gave me his signature nod, I felt loved and at peace and there was nothing scary about the encounter. so I settled back in for more sleep. A few minutes later it finally hit me, wait a minute…. how can that be? Now I was wide awake, I looked over at his chair and he was gone. All the stuff I had piled on the chair was there, everything looked as it did before I laid down. That was the most beautiful encounter I have ever had. I will continue to ask God to invite him to visit me more often.
My aunt passed away a couple months ago. She used to love across the street from me. The other night just before I woke up, I saw her standing in front of me smiling. I did dream that night, but she was separate from the dream. I had asked her to visit me prior to that night. She was older when she passed, so when I saw her she was not in a young body. She looked healthy and happy. She was also very tan. I only remember her with fair skin, but when I told my other aunt about the visit she said that my aunt was always tan because she loved to work outside. As she got older, she lost pigment. Thank you so much for this article to validate her visit!
I had a vision of my mother and Rex Moore standing beside each other and there smiling at me ,what does this mean
My wife passed away recently. A friend of hers made contact with me last night telling me she had dreamt about my loving wife the night before. She thought it might be a message. She dreamt we where in a big unfamiliar house. There where lots of children and other people. She did not recognize any of them but felt like she knew some. She said we sat on cushions on the carpet, opposite each other just talking. My wife was there sitting behind me. She said she was confused and asked her I thought you died. My wife then answered I always with Desiree(me). She said as she said this my wife looked at me saying I am always just behind her. She said she looked healthy, happy and younger. Just the way she always remembered her. Before my wife died she had cancer and was really sick, bedridden.
What does this mean. Is she at peace or is she looking after me?
I went to the church and saw legs, in the air, I thought I was just seeing something that really wasn’t there. I got into the church and started to light a candle for my son, and sat down to pray. All of a sudden I saw my son on the other side of the window. He was slender, in red shorts, t-shirt and showed his face and looked right at me. I motioned my lips and said I love you, he did not motion his lips, or say anything. He then put his head down, and soon was moving away. I went outside and saw him being taken by both arms, and his head was still in a down position. I felt shocked, and sad cause I don’t know if he was crying and couldn’t lift his head up, and did not want me to see him cry, not sure. I looked behind me outside and saw a tall figure, sitting in a tall chair looking at me. I think it was God, and thanked him and he knew I was confused. Confused because I wished so my son would of said something or motion his lips. But I’m so grateful for seeing my son, it’s a moment in time I’ll never forget.
Thanks for sharing your experience with the spirit world, I have had many experiences with my loved ones. It’s great to hear someone say your not crazy.
My blind grandmother raised me since birth. She passed away last Tuesday, we had her funeral this past Saturday. At her graveside I wrote a poem I had written after her passing about my memories with her and all her great qualities. Over the weekend I began reading and learning more about afterlife and I read your article about 5 signs our loved ones send. Sunday night while sleeping I believe my grandmother reached out to me. She was sitting on a stretcher in an ambulance, well and alive but I knew she had passed over, it’s like she had come back just to talk to me. I was standing in the door way of the ambulance, holding her hand and reading her my poem. I felt that she reached out to me and acknowledged to me that she knew about my poem I wrote her.
I’m going thru a very bad divorce. And I dream about him several times. Some are about his health and I also beg him to take me back. Several months ago he threatened to shoot me. So I left my home of 30+ years. Why do I keep dreaming about him? I loved what we had together for 19 of the 27 years we were married.
Thank you this confirms so much. I have tickets to your Orlando show Jan 11th, I cant wait!!!
My son died in 2015 from cancer and a few months later when I was sleeping he walked up to me and put his arms around me and held me for what seemed a long, long, time. I could feel him holding me. Then he backed away and said “I have to go back”. I started to cry and said something like ” I don’t want you to leave” and he said again ” I have to go back”. Then he turned and walked away. When I woke up I KNEW that that was real and I felt so loved and peaceful knowing he was alright.
After that, I started talking to him periodically during the day as I was doing things. He always teased me about how many clothes I had so when I would go into my closet to get something I would say things like “Gosh, what do I wear today”, etc. and then I would say “hear” him teasing me and I would say “I know Eric, I have too many clothes! But I love clothes and shopping!” This went on even as I would go to a store I would walk in and say, “I know Eric, I don’t need anything, but I’m just going to look and if I see something I HAVE to have then I will get it!” 2 or 3 months later he came to me again and he had on a button-down oxford cloth shirt that was so white it was glowing. He was glowing and looked so clean and fresh and beautiful! We started talking about clothes and I guess shirts came up and he started telling me that he had shirts in different rooms and I said “Eric, how many shirts do you have?” And he (having a wonderful sense of humor) said “Oh, thousands!” I burst into tears and woke up. I giggle to this day and am so happy that he could keep his wonderful sense of humor. I always could make me laugh like no one else could.
I was the last person to talk to my Mom before she passed away almost eight months ago – she looked me in the eyes, with a tear rolling down her cheek, right as she was leaving this world. I’ve questioned myself ever since – why me? Why not my brother, or my best friend who was like her own daughter, or her own brother?. A few days ago I had a beautiful dream about her. Everything about it was so vivid. She was standing at a good distance from me on the beach with no one else around. When I saw her I didn’t believe at first that it was her until I got closer. No words were spoken but we hugged for what seemed like a long time, then I woke up. I went back to sleep but it was still fresh with me when I woke an hour later. I remember what she was wearing and how pretty she looked. I felt blessed but sad at the same time because I still miss her terribly. I recently signed up for Blair’s posts, then I received the email about visitation dreams yesterday morning. I really believe that she did visit me, and even right after she passed away, we received two very powerful experiences that really made us believe that it was her.
Hi, Thank you for this information. Its a coincidence that last night I had a Visitation in my dream and today I see this in my e- mail. Last night I saw my husband as plain as day. He was hugging me, he is tall, and it was his face and beautiful wavy grey hair. I can still feel the warmth of his body holding me.
My first visitation dream as an adult was 5 yrs ago. I was visited by someone that died 4 yrs prior but I didn’t know they died. I was sad yet on a high for months. After that I started having dream visitations from many friends & family. I definitely opened a door! I welcome and enjoy the visits…
I’m responding to your email today about dream visitations. I think they are amazing. I’ve had visitation dreams to numerous to count. My son Nick seems to appear at just the right time. When I’m dealing with a lot of stress or illness he appears. My Mom and dad have shown up. You feel so good when you wake up. My son always leaves me feeling loved and hugged.
A lot of different spirits show up in my house. I’ve told my husband it feels like our home is a central clearing house. When my dad visits he smokes as does my son. Different brands however. I’ve actually had to ask them not to continue smoking as it makes me cough. I’ve gotten lots of perfume smells as well. The best thing for me and my husband is when we’re making a special dish and we use what is now known as the magic bowl. I ask for help with cooking and the love just wraps around you and what we make is awesome. It feels like there are so many spirits helping. (at this point people roll their eyes and look at us like we’re crazy) Are we just imagining this?
Actually Blair you helped me a long time ago. You appeared with your stories about your spirit guide and how the afterlife was. Everything you wrote validated my beliefs. So thank you
very much. One day I hope to see you in person when you come to Windsor ON.
I think I had a dream visitation with my grandparents. It happened shortly after I’d hung a picture of my grandfather in my home. I actually felt like I had gone to see them. I knew it was them, although their skin was very smooth and their eyes the brightest blue. They looked like them yet not. I could hear them speaking although their mouths didn’t move. They told me how much they enjoyed seeing my children, letting me know they are aware of our lives now. When I got pulled back it was like they were disappointed to see me go, like oh darn she’s leaving already, as I could see my grandma turn to my grandpa and laugh about it. Quite remarkable. Really stuck with me like it was a visit, details didn’t fade like they do with regular dreams. Is that what happens, do we “meet” somewhere? Wish I knew how to make that happen, I would do it again. 🙂
I do have visitation dreams with my loved one who passed in November……and when I wake I feel as if he is actually in bed with me…I put my arm over to touch him and then I know he is not there but he was very much so in my dream…….I treasure these moments and know he is with me……bless him for being there……..
Thank you for explaining the difference in a dream and a visitation Blair……it sure made a lot of sense….
Be safe, be well and thank you for being there for people like me… Love and light to you always
Margo
I hear my husband calling my name. It will wake me up. I don’t imagine it. I actually hear his voice.
It’s been one year, seven months, 29 days since my husband died. The only visitation I’ve had was when I “saw” him standing next to the bed…and then poof, he was gone. It was so dimensional. I’ve had a dream or two where I knew he was in the dream, but I couldn’t see his face and there was no interaction. I have had numerous “signs” but I would love to dream or have a visitation. I have written a note before going to bed, leaving it next to his photograph saying I would love to have him visit. But nope. Am I demanding too much?
Speaking of signs this is a true story I was thinking of my sister who is deceased her nick name was muffy LOL
the next day on my way home from work I turned the corner and the liscense plate on the car in front of me was
muffy – no I was not drunk – a few days later I saw it again
It has been several months and I take the same route home from work every day and haven’t seen it since. I guess it could have been a coincidence but wow what a coincidence! I choose to be believe she had a hand in it!
This is kind of in reverse. I visited him. My brother died from suicide 7 months ago and tomorrow is his 27th birthday. Last night I dreamt that I was going somewhere with someone(not sure who it was and went ahead of me on foot). It wasn’t far, so I walked to where I thought we were going. This was in the daylight and people were around so I wasn’t scared, but the neighborhood was old like kind of in ruins as if I were in the Middle East somewhere. When I turned down the street, I saw the entrance sign above the opening to what looked like an outdoor market. It read “City of Deceased”. I walked in and there were lots of people and it was pretty crowded down a narrow road serving as the market. Everyone seemed focused on where they were going and no one was paying attention to me of course. Then there he was….my brother. He was the only one standing still facing toward me as I was walking forward. He was talking into his cell phone sounding frustrated asking it to call me. He was standing with 2 shopping carts full of what looked like groceries. When he saw me, he seemed relieved like he’d just gotten separated from me in the crowd. When I got to him I led him over to a set of benches in the shade to sit. I was so emotional that I leaned my head on him and cried so hard. He asked me, who did this to you?”, and i reflexively responded, “you, you did this to me”. It was like he was coming to a realization. I told him, “but I’m glad I’m here with you and I can hold you and feel your warmth even if it’s for one last time”, and he started tearing up. But the dream abruptly ended before I could explain and tell him anything else. I feel like I left him sad and confused. It didn’t feel like a “goodbye”. I feel like I need to reassure him and help him move on.
This is so true, I have this happen a lot , my father, uncle, even other people’s relatives so I tell them what they say or what they look like sometimes they are younger than when the passed. I do remember my dreams but I can tell the difference, I also have lucid dreams.
Hello Blaire! My parents have been gone quite a few years. My dad would visit and just stand watching, never say a word. But one night he came to visit and I told him I loved him and he leaned over and I kissed his cheek! I could feel the stubble on his face. When I woke up I felt happy , yet a bit lost. I wish it was a longer visit, but I know that my dad is happy and we’ll. I have seen my mom too, looking so young and happy, but she doesn’t seem to know I am there. I was with her when she passed and I am quite thankful for that.
A few weeks ago my mom came to me in my sleep, I am planning to open my own business, I was frustrated and ready to stop. She came to me and told me to hold out a little longer, that I was smart and I would find a way. I thought when opening my eyes she would be there but of course she wasn’t. I felt so good I am still trying with much more optimism. She gives me physical signs often and loves to play with our cat (hide and seek).
Thank you for your insights, mine have always been I can sense who they are but not see them but the message or dream conversation is conveyed. My mum is the only one who comes and takes me on adventures but always tells me I have to go back and then she’s gone until the next time. It’s been awhile since her last one but know she’s still around,especially since my dad just passed.
After my love completed suicide, he came to me while i was sleeping ?, he was happy younger and glowing he was inside an old car he loved cars , but my question is he said come with me ?, and then his sister beeped the horn outside and woke me , i always wonder if he was saying to die and come with him or did he just want to show me something
I had my father come to.me there another night I was very upset by something my spouse did and I could hear my father claiming loving voice talking to me and last night he was playing a song that I can relate to about my love for my husband and earlier today I found the song and listen to the song and understand the song and words and meaning behind the song. He has played music to me before. In fact my mother who is alway dead. Does the same thing but she try’s to sing what ever the song and it song that she never know or heared of and doesnt know the words .this her way of communicating me?
Thank you for this. I now know they were visiting me. Even during the day I’ll be driving a song we shared will co.e on I’m crying a cardinal will pass I’ll feel her energy so strong I literally look over at my empty seat but sometimes I know shes there.
Thank you for this. I now know they were visiting me. Even during the day I’ll be driving a song we shared will come on I’m crying a cardinal will pass I’ll feel her energy so strong I literally look over at my empty seat but sometimes I know shes there. I had a dream about her last night and found this, this am. I wake up feel like shes in my bed ,during the day I can feel her next to me so strong sometimes. She leaves me pennies and signs. I’m also very intune with my dreams I have the same dream every year same season for years, I wake up use bathroom go right back into my same dream where I left off I make conscious decisions and yes I’m sleeping but my mind knows in my dream hey dont do that or it’s ok it’s just a dream, I’ve always been able to do this.
My dead aunt called me in my dream last night (I wasn’t very close to her) and she told me that she has him and is watching over him and not to go get him, that he doesn’t want to be there. It was so real, I saw her entire face and feature and heard her voice begging me to leave him be for now. I recently broke up with my fiancé and I’ve been devastated, he won’t talk to me at all and I woke up so upset that something happened to him. Could you please tell me what this visit from my aunt meant and what she is really trying to me?
I had a dream about my partner who passed away in March, he was just standing there in like a light type form and he just smiled at me like he was proud and happy and like he was saying he loved me and then all of a sudden I woke up..
Hi my mother come to me while I was sleeping I was at a strange place all of a sudden I felt & new my mother was there I looked to find her, saw her from behind yelled mum she keep walking but turn her head around & was talking to me but it was not her face but that didn’t worry me as I knew it was my mum… can loved ones look different
My grandfather died when I was 10 years old, yet I always felt connected to him. When I was 35 years old, my husband and I all but gave up attempts to have a baby. One night I dreamt I was a child gain, sitting on my grandfathers lap. We were laughing and I could feel the excitement and joy as I always remembered there being. He suddenly stopped and with a very stern look said “be careful.” That startled me awake . The next day I was driving home from work and in my head I heard “be careful” and within seconds there was a multi car accident in front of me! I was lucky not to be involved and knew my grandfather warned me. Weeks later i found out I was pregnant and delivered my son 2 weeks early… on my grandfathers birthday ❤️
I had one last night.. she wasn’t a relative tho. Her name is Annie. I know cause I was in her memory’s and he grandma was calling for her. She lived in a dark blue old house and I found her in a room she saw and I saw her. She took me to another time. It was black and white and it was her when she was older. Red lipstick, White vneck sweater scarf tied on neck, playing the piano. In front
Of her, there was a group of teenagers playing instruments I remember a guy in a black leather jacket. It was like she was trying to show me something.. she wasn’t scared. She was beautiful. Wonder what it meant. I tried to reach out again but nothing .. ♀️
I had a visitation dream of my brother in law, a few days after he passed away. 4 years later and I still remember the dream, how he looked, what he was wearing, the hug I felt in that dream. I woke up so happy and energized and just such a calm feeling that I’ve never felt before or since that dream. I’ve always hoped to have more loved ones visit me but I don’t know how to let them. I think the reason he visit me was because I felt so sick to my stomach full of guilt feeling like it was my fault that he passed and just full of regret for how we wouldn’t get along and fight. I miss him terribly. He was only 26 and had his whole life ahead of him.
Blair, my father in law passed away 30 days ago. Yo ugly I had a dream about him talking to me to give messages to his daughter, her husband and his wife. No message for my husband. In my dream I was the only one that could see him and I was telling the family things he wanted them to know. I could touch him in my dream. He wanted me to say so many things to tell specially to the daughter that I only remember a bit. He cried when he was telling me about his wife. He said to tell her not to cry anymore that he misses her too and then he started to cry. He said he will be back. Is this real? Is he communicating with me? This is the first time I experience something like this.
Thx
I had such a vivid dream where my mom was in her bed where she passed.. I went back there and asked her what was wrong and she told me she was in pain. I went to tell my brother we needed to call some meds in for mom cause she was in pain and he then looked at me and said mom is already gone Stephanie and I said no she’s in her bed. I then realized in the dream she was gone.. she died recently of cancer and kinda unexpected. I wasn’t ready fully. I was just wondering what this meant.
My son in law who took his own life has visited me many times. He always wanted to apologise. The last time he visited me was the end of last year. He had been gone for 9 years and it was close to his passing date. He asked me to relay a message to my daughter. He said he had worked through his problem and now his main focus was to look after his children and grandchildren. I hope this gives some hope to people who have lost loved ones in this way.
I had a dream of two aunts and my Mother they all have past away years apart I conversation was my aunt I asked her if she needed some help in her yard then we all started to look up into a beautiful valley focussing on some beautiful pine tree. Then the my cell phone woke me up it was my Sister she inform me my our cousin my aunt daughter pass away last night.
Had a dream about my first love that passed away about 10 years ago,We were high school sweethearts and after 6 years broke up,Mind you I am 64 years old now.He always comes to me in my dreams,but last night,He came to me and I knew he was there talking to me and then his whole body appeared before me ,His face clear as day and came and hugged me and talked with me,I dont remember what he said ,because I was so amazed his whole being was present,I am very spiritual,but then the dogs started barking and woke me up,So I was told myself to remember this and I cant get it out of my head,I knew this was a spirtual connection not just a dream that makes no sense.And So I found you.I have also been deep asleep and felt someone get on my bed,I could feel them crawl on,only to wake up and nobody there,fall back asleep and it happens again,now that is alittle scary,But I just tell myself its a spirit I know ,thats visiting,I let them get on the bed and the next thing I know I got that feeling that someone has just passed thru my body, crazy,Sure wish I knew who it was. Glad I found you.Thanks for listening
I believe I had a visitation dream a few nights ago. For background, my boyfriend died 5 months ago. I had a very vivid dream recently about him, I usually don’t remember dreams especially not vividly. In the dream it was based it in the future. We were in the house we looked into buying before he died. I was just off of work and he was waiting for me to get home. We started making dinner and going about our usual routine for the evening. I started hearing noises in the house. He didn’t say anything about it. I searched the house and found a puppy in one of the rooms. He was making jokes about it. This was the exact breed of dog he always talked about getting. He finally persuaded me to keep this puppy. He told me how happy he was about it and how much he loved me. He looked so happy holding this puppy while I finished dinner. My boyfriend struggled with depression before he died and for him to look so happy made me feel so good and connected to him. Is it possible for him to be reaching out to me in this dream even though it was set in the future and he is already gone?
After my mom passed I had a dream where the phone rang. I answered it & heard clear as a bell my mom & her older sister who had also passed, both on the line having a conversation. I repeated hello but they didn’t hear me. I was so excited i woke my husband up to listen then realized it was a dream. I am certain it was my mom letting me know she had met up with her sister in the afterlife.
I had another dream 2 days before my mom passed. She had been in a coma after a cardiac arrest having silent brain seizures. In my dream i saw my mom & dad who had already passed, walking hand & hand away from me. The next day visiting mom in the hospital, i noticed a different look in her eyes, as if her soul was gone. I knew the dream had meant dad had come to get her & cross her over. The next morning i got the call to come say my goodbyes but i knew she was already gone & with my dad. It was only her body giving out.
I had such dream about my husband who recently died.. Short but fell back asleep and it continued, again short but so real I felt the hug. So comforting. Very strange how vivid it was. Also had messages from 2 of my brothers years ago.
my adopted dog, the kindest soul! we had to put him down! but he was ‘gone’! i have been heartbroken! he has come to me in many dreams, and totally made me feel that hes happy!!!! my door bell rang at 6am !!! i was awake!! i had dreamed of him all night!!!! i scrambled to open the door!!!! no one in sight! my husband and son were in the kitchen!!! i adked ‘who was that at the door’? they both said! the door bell didnt ring!!!! IT DID!!!!!
I had a dream I was somewhere outside near a shop with people can’t remember who then I saw my brother I was so happy I ran 2 him he gave me a huge bear hug I didn’t want 2 let go I was so happy 2 see him b hugged by him he was wearing a blue checked flannel shirt he looked younger tho than last time I had seen him alive he looked good then we sat 2 talk then he said he had 2 go and was gone I ran in 2 the shop calling 4 him crying calling 4 my brother but he wasn’t there I was then crying calling 4 my sister I woke up sobbing uncontrollably I got up 2 look 4 my brother but he wasn’t here I tried 2 call my sister she called me back but I’m still upset and can’t stop crying my brother’s been passed 4 nearly 2 yrs I guess I miss him more than I realised
I have been getting visitations all my life and they have given me messages for others and of their knowledge of the other side . Some have told me when how long it will be till I see them again and why. I do ask others please pay attention to what your loved ones show you and believe in the after life of love.
I came home from work last Friday afternoon. Made some lunch,ate then settled down with my tablet to brouse around YouTube etc. I must of dosed off for what seem like a minute or two later,with the tablet still in my lap.
I found my self in a very summery,very vibrant back garden of sorts.I say that because it wasn’t mine!
I was still slumped and felt semi awake,with my back leaned up against a fence. All of a sudden I felt a clip from a hand on the back of the head via my right ear!! Now. I call that an old School clip. I had a few as a child and never like it! Still in the same state I jumped up and spun around to see who clipped me. I saw my friends older brother who had passed away 10 years ago. He looked very well,a younger version of himself. I always idealised this guy when I was growing up. He was 10/11 years older than us,always well dressed and quietly charismatic.He looked just the same. Everything was vivid!! HD!! I called his name in disbelief he just had a half smile with a disapproving glare and dropped his stare to the tablet. With that I jumped up out of my sleep.
Last night I have been woken up hearing my son call out Mum twice, he has been gone for 11 years and this is the 1st time I have hear him. Any ideas of what he is telling me?
I’m no expert but I’m thinking maybe go with the sense of feeling you felt during the dream, if it made you feel comfortable and peaceful I’d say he’s just saying hello, or if you felt uneasy maybe he’s trying to get your attention and send you a warning. If you have been worried about a certain thing lately, you might know what he’s trying to warn you about or if something pops in your head randomly it could also be a good idea to take it as a sign or message. Hope this helps x
I just dream my husband who passed away about a month and half ago.. On my dream my mother is giving him a sponge bath then when he rolled back his eye is gone like those in horror movie, just a dark circle. Then their is more to it on the dream but thats the only part i saw him.. What is the meaning of that. Im concern if his fine in after life. Why his beautiful eyes is gone. I hope you can help me.
My father died when I was very young from suicide. After a while of my family praising and treating him like some sort of God I started to resent and dislike him for leaving. My grandmother has been visited several times by a medium about him and while I’m at her place I’m convinced he is watching me. I have begged for answering for a long time and the other night I swear he visited me in a dream. But even when I tried to ask for answers he just smiled and said that he was always watching ( which is creeping me out). And I honestly still don’t know how to feel about it. Him leaving us caused my mother a lot of problems and made growing up very difficult. So I still don’t know how to feel about him….
I had a dream about my Grandad who passed away around two months ago. The only thing that makes me doubt it was a connection was that he was awfully short when he was quite tall. Apart from that though, this really made me feel as if he came to visit me. I wish he did. In the dream it didn’t last too long though as he had left the spirit door open and other deceased people came through which forced him to go back. Sadly. But I hope it was real as I felt as if he didn’t know I love(d) him – I needed him to know that
My best friend passed away eight years or so ago. When alive, she led a promiscuous lifestyle including drug abuse which led to her demise. I had a visitation from her about a month after she passed; however, on either side of her were two devils. She spoke to me and stated she had to sleep with a lot of scary “things” to visit me. I was so petrified, I told her in this visitation that she was dead and had to leave and I awoke hyperventilating and scared due to the devils holding each of her arms and staring at me. I have guilt over pushing her away in the visitation and can evil come with the person visiting me?
Blair i had the weirdest dream about actor Jonathan Brandis who died by suicide in 2003 from hanging. I’m a huge fan of his and even have a autograph.
There were 2 different parts. One part we were in this vehicle with another guy and I guess Jonathan wanted to die and take us with him by driving off some cliff. I yelled at the other guy to jump out as I tried to prevent the steering wheel from going in the wrong direction or something.
The 2nd part was different Jonathan was apparently already deceased but his spirit was around at this house of some kind. He was younger looking now. Probably around the age of when he did the never ending story. I physically hugged him. Hard to explain this but his spirit was apparently in a body that didn’t last long physically even though it was a kid version. He kept coming back like he was repeatedly given a physical body to come visit in again in this dream. Like someone might have been “Allowing” him. I felt connected to him somehow. There were other parts and people in the dream too. I remember wanting to talk to someone about what I was experiencing and wanting questions answered.
Jonathan’s suicide effected me deeply. I guess I in real life I feel some of the sadness he did.
What does it mean if you dream about being pregnant and feeling the labor pains and delivery in the dream and holding your new born I remember the room detail and what the baby looked like but was told I would never have children due to infertility this is before the loss of loved ones is this just a dream I woke up all sweaty and feeling pains in my lady parts and belly from the dream and called my mom asking where my baby was it was so real to me but like I said at that moment I never lost anybody or miscarried that I know of?? Was this real or just a dream
i believe i had a visitation dream but i’m not completely sure. i lost my great grandma 6 years ago, we were very close. last night i saw her she was clear as day, wearing her pink night gown and her hair looked greasy out of her curlers. she was standing in the doorway to her living room. it looked like she was looking at my great grandpa (her husband) once she realized i could see her. she kept saying “no this isn’t good, you’re not supposed to see me” she told me she loved me and then she left. does that mean anything? why wasn’t i supposed to see her? did she aim great grandpa and get me? i’m supper confused
I had a dream my aunt it was so vivid I knew she is dead and was very happy to see her and touched her hand and told her how much I miss her and asked her if she is in heaven and waited patiently for her answer and she said YES.. and I was so happy and excited for her but I felt she wanted to tell me something but she didn’t and I continued the dream wanted to tell mum that I saw her and then I woke up
I had a visitation dream. She passed away this month on the 15th she was 21 yrs old and was My sons ex-girlfriend.. All she wanted was to live with us n loved my son very much. Tbh mom got in between them so much n it all ended… It’s hard to accept she is no longer here. I loved her very much n protected her at times.. In my visitation I was walking down to my car with my husband and I noticed she was walking with my son. I looked at her and I was a bit confused but I was very happy to see her again. She was wearing a white summer dress eating a red lollypop, black wavy hair (hair was under n her shoulders) and kinda messy she loved messy hair but there was this glow around her as if the sun was behind her, it was a nice breezy day too. We made eye contact and she had a smile on her face very cheerful then I woke up like omg I saw her and she looked happy! It help me feel alot better since the last time I saw her was in her casket.. I gave her a kiss on her hands she was wearing gloves and i told her I’m here with u till the end.. I hope she heard me.. I kissed her hands and said good bye as I’m walking away n felt chills all over my body
.Cold chills I hope it was her hugging me… this was 3 days ago.
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My mother is in the hospital and has dreamed twice that she has to visit her deceased mother (passed away for 22 years) before she goes home. Does this have significant meaning? It has me worried. She’s been in the hospital for 36 hrs and already dreamed it twice.
My brother died 4 years ago, he commited suicide…3months after his death, i dreamed of him in a morgue, a very cold morgue. He’s crying and asking for forgiveness, he told me he just woke up in a very cold room and he didn’t know what happened. (He’s intoxicated with alcohol that time he commited suicide). Then I woke up remembered it clearly until now…then lately i dreamed of him again after 4 years…In a church he came out and reached me and I hold him, I hugged him tight and it felt so real and I missed him so much, his face is the same but he got thin and the place felt a little gloomy…I was forcing him to come with me and go home with me because it felt very real, HIM standing right in front of me like he’s just gone in other places, felt like he’s ALIVE and then he told me he can’t and a part of me know why…I looked at him and there’s a bit flash of his wife and daughter’s face and he just smiled at me again and I woke up…tell me if its a visitation or just a random dream…
I had several dreams…
Had a visit from both my parents with my mom holding my 1.5 yrs old son. They both were passed before he was born and although I’ve had them come to me before this one was extra special as it was the first time they connected with my son in a dream. Glad to know my feeling that it was real has some validity now.
If you use a dream catcher can good sports still contact you? As this is my deepest worry! The one things I dont want to lose is the only connections I have left and that is through my dreams?
I know I was visited by a loved one in my dream there is no doubt but I also seen something truely haunting that I can’t forget and I am trying to find someone who can help me understand what I seen my loved one urged me not to look that I wasn’t suppose to see what was on the other side but I looked anyway and seen something I know I should not have PLEASE!!!! If anyone can help me email me I just want to understand what I seen
I have dreams of dead rappers. 1 i know personally the other not at all only from his music. I had a dream with him in last night it was real. I saw him close up face to face he took my hand at one point . I can never remember what they say but I can feel their presence. I was a rapper too still am but without confidence. And I can’t tell if there saying Rap or don’t cuz it got them both killed. So weird
what I would like to know is, how do you stop the yelling and the screaming and the in your face confrontations, I have been having real conversations with people in my sleep since I was a child. I am writing them all down in a book for publication but some of them are just scary.
I need a guide
Yesterday I took a 20 minute nap, and my daughter was laying next to me , I had a dream about my twin brother that passed away 10 months ago In the dream I was sitting next to my daughter and he came up to us out of no were and smiled at me and my daughter Julie, he was so happy to see us especially Julie, in my dream I was speechless I was shacking I couldn’t believe my eyes I couldn’t help but cry in my dream I asked him how he was if he was okay , he told me he wasn’t ok and looked very sad after that , my life without him has been very hard I died when he died part of me left with him, we were so close he helped me raise my daughter , I know he came to visit us he was so happy to see Julie he smiled I haven’t seen him smile in years I was happy to see him ! My life without him by my side will never be the same I wish to be with him one day
Ive been having dreams of my friends son that passed then he brought along his friend that also passed. I wasnt real close with my friends son and never met the friend that also passed ever before but i know his mother. Should i tell both of them that their kids have come and talked to me in my dreams?
What does it mean if i had a nightmare of my grandma who passed away like a year ago and she visited in my nightmare and got hurt in my nightmare? I usually have theses terrifying nightmares that feel so real about my grandad who passed a long time ago they feel so real i wake up in sweats crying gasping for air sometimes. Sometimes bruising scratches…
I’m concerned as I dreamt my dead mum said I’d soon be with her this is the 2nd time in the space of 4 years. She’s been dead since 2006.
So, my grandmother passed away, coming up on a month ago and I have two instances, where I believe that she has communicated with me.
Last week I was reading an article similar to this one here, but explaining the different ways that our loved ones reach out to us. One on the list was them reaching out to us through music, and how they can make a song come on at the perfect time. So for whatever reason, on that number, I stopped and thought about a song that reminds me of her, and “3 Little Birds” by Bob Marley came to mind (she’s from Bermuda and loved reggae… and definitely Bob). Even though that song is what I thought about, I was trying to ignore that and think of another one of his songs that she loved, but the name would NOT come to mind, what so ever. So I then spoke out loud to her. Told her that I missed and loved her, and asked if she can please show me somehow, that she is okay… ***LITERALLY*** as soon as I looked back down, to continue reading the article, a commercial came on with 3 Little Birds playing in the background. I couldn’t help but to sport the hugest smile, I felt so much love and peace and couldn’t do anything but just tell her thank you.
Now last night for my dream. I began to walk down the hallway and all of a sudden she’s there. It felt so real. She had on this matching robe and nightgown that she loved! She also had dementia, but I felt that she was in her right mind.
So, As I was walking past her, I remember feeling confused as to why she was right in front of me. I said her name and she sort of mumbled something that I couldn’t understand, almost like she was also confused, but I felt she was okay. We begin to walk down the hall together and my aunt comes out of the bathroom. And I was telling her to look and see that granny is here, my aunt looked her, but she strangely said “I know, I see her, but she’s not actually here”. And I told her “I know, but just let me enjoy her”. The whole time she was there she didn’t say too much. I didn’t hear her voice, nor see her mouth move, but I know she said “it’s so much going on here (the world’s current state). It’s too fast paced”. Which is the only thing she said. We then went into the den and she sat on the arm of the couch. I asked her for a hug and I remember kneeling in front of her while hugging, because I was holding her waist and was looking up at her. I then asked for a kiss and she kissed me two times on my forehead. I remember smiling, feeling sooo much love. Then I woke up.
I know for sure these both were her reaching out to me. I just can’t wait to have more visits from her. I miss everything about her so very much.
Thanks for reading, if you did.
Love to you all!
I had one from my mawmaw. I wasn’t able to see her 5 years before she died, so it had been a while. I felt regret and cried every month for about a few years after she passed. One night, I dreamed I was sitting with her in her living room, and she was hugging me, she looked exactly the same as I remembered her, I could even smell her it was so realistic. She didn’t say anything tho, just hugged me and maybe even smiled I can’t remember. It was closure for me and ever since I haven’t cried.
Hi! My close cousin passed away unexpectedly from pneumonia they said. I had no time to say good bye. I’ve been waiting for him to come and see me in my dreams. It’s been 5 months and finally I had a dream but it was him in his coffin and the wind started blowing real hard and the wind took him and I watched him blow away. I don’t understand what that meant. I remember just looking at him laying there. And I wasn’t afraid either.
i had a dream about my step dad dead and he is laying on my bed after that in my dream and he talks to me he is elderly im a little worried
My Nan passed away 14years ago, I dreamt last night that she wasn’t happy where she was, I was crying in the dream and woke up absoultey sobbing, it has totally knocked me today, i’m a mess.
My father died when I was 4. I have a photo of him on my nightstand. All my life ( I am 60 yrs old now) I have really grieved the fact he died when I was so young and I have always felt so cheated and wondered how different my life would have been if he’d been there. I KNOW he is always with me. He has came through to me through others several times and through many many signs, but I always wonder…why doesn’t he come directly to me? One night before turning in, I held that picture to my chest and asked…why don’t you come to ME directly. That very night I had a dream he was with me, he came to me, held me in his arms and said…we will be together again. It will seem like a long time to you, but like five minutes to me. He just continued to hold me and I could feel so much love. In a way it made me feel sort of strange because I was only 4 when he passed and only have a few faint memories of him. But I could feel his love, and I was so happy and my heart was so full but I was still uneasy for some reason. I have NO DOUBT it was a dream connection with him and he is with me. I have had many signs throughout my life.
I recently heard from another medium, Marisa Ryan on YouTube, that if you continue to let yourself grieve that it makes it very hard for a loved one to come through to you, but instead be joyous they are there and communicate with them more and exercise the connection. Do you agree that continuing to grieve the unfairness and the loss can cause it to be harder for them to connect directly? You are my favorite A#1 Medium and you are so legit. Do you agree with this? Love and light to you Blair!
I’ve had 4 separate dreams and each of them happen either a week or month after they pass. Except this last one. My first one was my grandfather the night before I had a dream that the nurse said not too much longer. The next day I had fallen asleep in the waiting room and I heard someone (it sounded like my mom) say it’s time. I opened my eyes and no one was there. My parents were gone to a dr appointment and my daughter and uncle were sleeping. I just got up and walked back to his room. I was telling my sister and cousins what happened and they thought it was weird. So I talked to him saying how handsome he looked for my nana. The nurse came in to check him and said its getting closer. Within 5 minutes he was gone. The next one was a family friend of my husband didn’t know him very well. But he passed away a month later I had a dream and all my grandparents and my husband’s dad and John(family friend) we were on my mom’s living room and he was wearing white shirt an blue shorts and he didn’t have his oxygen tank. Which that is always what he had when I saw him. He told me to tell his family he’s ok. Third one was my cousin Sal he showed up at my mom’s house and told me to tell his family that he felt good and he’s ok. So this last one was really hard on me. My ex father inlaw has been gone for 7 yrs. I had a dream I was at my ex husband’s house down stairs where his parents stay. He showed up and said that the place looked really nice. Let them know they did a good job. He hugged me and I can smell him and I told him we all miss him and he said I miss you all too i cried and I woke up with tears running down my face. Come someone please explain these to me.
Thanks, Blair, for this great website and your newsletter. Although I’ve learned over many years pretty well how to tell the difference between a visitation/message and a dream, it’s so affirming to read what you and others in the comments have to say. The very first time I was sure I was being spoken to by a “dead” person was a very long time ago. My grandmother and my mother didn’t get along well and my mother spent much of her life hurt by it. My grandmother kept “pestering” me, as she liked to call it. She want’ed me to tell my mother that she really loved her and was sorry she’d been partial to her sons. I had to find a way to tell my mom that without saying that I had actually “heard” from her mother. I did, and my grandmother stopped dropping in that way. Some years afterward, my mother thanked me for “helping her” understand her mother. She said it had made her feel better.
I have been visited by both my parents in my dreams. Most often I wake myself up laughing-belly laughing, and such a feeling of joy and peace. I asked my father how much he loved my mother ( I loved hearing his story about him falling in love at first sight), he said “She is my erasmus “. I had never heard that word before; it means beloved in Greek ( they were set up on blind date by a Greek friend and met at a Greek restaurant)
Il lost 2 loved ones this year, my beautiful aunt as well my cousin who was severely delayed.
In my dream, I went to heaven knowing it was just to see them both.
I first saw my cousin, who was talking and laughing, which he was not able to. In my dream I hugged him and said I couldn’t believe you can talk! His response was, up here, everything is different, and I am doing okay.
I immediately saw my aunt after in the same room, who I ran to and hugged crying saying how much I missed her.
I then work up from the dream.
Is it simply a message saying their okay and together?
Hi
Over the last 2 nites I’ve found myself chatting in me dreams to two total characters
First nite it was a chap called Alfred de gurney
And last nite it was a lady called
Patricia de rosa or rosea
I cannot remember the conversation but the names stuck in my head ….what does this mean if anything
i had a dream of my dad last night he said baby im tired and his voice sounded so strained whitthered and it seemed he tried so hard to get the words out he called on a wire phone then one time in the drean he was holding me from behind and we were just sitting on something. Then i asked him if he wanted go get a room hd said yes because hr needef some rest what fo u think it means he dies in june of 2020 and j missed his last phone call i miss him he and i were extremely close please respond.
Hello, thank you for discussing this. I’ve had several sleep visitations from my 19 year old daughter, who transitioned 3 years ago. I could feel her presence, and we hugged for a long time
I had been my 98 yr. old mother’s caregiver for the past 12 yrs. My mom & I were very close. I was a late in life baby that came along 19 yrs. after my 2 brother’s. Plus I was the little girl she had hoped for. She & I endured many loses of our family member’s, one especially tragic was my second eldest brother’s death @ 34. We never really found out what had happened to him, but it involved police brutality. That was 48 yrs.ago, so you can imagine how things could have easily been covered up! Transparency was non existent. I have never gotten over the loss of my closest, beloved brother. He in fact 2 wks. before he died, had a dream of his impending death! He told my mom & myself, that he dreamed he was standing in a line of people whom were going to the gallows! My mom was freaking out & didn’t want to hear anymore of my brother’s dream! But I had always been interested in the paranormal & premonition dreams, so I wanted him to continue w/ the dream & what happened next! He went on to say that the next scenario was where he saw himself in a casket & my mom was standing by the casket, crying & he was trying to say to her “Mom, I’m not dead, I’m not really dead!” That “message” is what I have carried w/ me all these years. After he had passed, my mom had a realistic visitation, where she actually felt his face & hands. Also there were other auditory things that occurred in the house where we all lived. It all stopped a few months after he had passed & then 40 yrs later, my 2 yr.old granddaughter & I were downstairs late one evening & I was trying to get the baby back to sleep, she was lying down on the bed & I was sitting beside her, when all of a sudden she sat up & started crawling towards the end of the bed! When she got to almost the end of the bed, she turned on a dime & crawled as fast as she could back to the head of the bed & she was trembling! I was trying to ask her what was wrong, & I just asked her, “what is it baby? Did you see something? & She was only 2, but she could communicate pretty well. So she shook her head yes, that she had seen something, so I calmly asked her “was it a person?” & She said yes, then I asked, is it a boy, or a girl? She told me it was a boy, then she pointed to the t.v. @ the end of the bed & said ” he’s right there”!! If that isn’t proof of a visitation I don’t know what is! I continued to watch her & kept looking in the direction where she had pointed, wishing I could see what she had. Then all of a sudden my grandbaby sits up & starts waving bye-bye to the “boy” that she was seeing. The next morning still in shock of what I had witnessed w/ her the night before, & telling my mom & other’s what had happened, I decided to find a picture of my brother to show it to my grandbaby to see her reaction if any, to it. & She said the person in the picture was who she had seen!! When my mom passed away 2 years ago, I had a weird incident happen with my cell phone. About a month after she was gone. I started to text a friend one afternoon, when the phone started typing out words on it’s own! I was so busy trying to stop it from rapidly typing out random words, that @ first I didn’t notice what it was spelling out but I had seen that the first few words were mom, love & blessings! Then it was saying something about coming up to the hospital, (which she had been in for 2wks before they put her in hospice @ home) as the text was continuing on , it repeated these words several times, “Her, her, her, then it spelled here, here, here! I would say it was about 20 repeats for each word! Then in my effort to stop it from texting so I could actually see what all was typed out, I must of caused it to delete all of it! I just witnessed something pretty miraculous & now it was gone. I had to believe it was my mom not only sending her love & blessings, but showing me she learned (she was always in the dark about texting & how all modern technology works! ) @ 98 she wasn’t about to try & figure out how to do it this late in life! She knows now! So yeah, I believe, just wish she would message me, or call my name again, sending my ❤️ to all my family that have gone beyond the veil.
I enjoyed it and I think it was very informational
This has reassured me that my grandparents were with me last night. So helpful and reassuring. Thank you
I dream of my deceased boyfriend almost every other night. I dream about trying to hang out with him and when I get the chance I see him in my dreams and hug him and we get to have a moment to ourselves all over again. We meet up In our dreams like if it were real life. I get excited to share that moment with him like if I were given a second chance.
I had a dream of someone that I loved very much he passed away two years ago in the dream I just I was like oh my God I haven’t called him he’s going to be so mad at me and his number popped up in my dream like an big numbers like used to whole number and in my dream I knew he wasn’t here I knew he was dead and and I knew in the dream also I’m saying myself that’s not his number anymore I don’t know how much talk to him and when I woke up I was so confused and it is a I’m still thinking about it Lino as do you know I’ve had maybe just like I’ve had two dreams of them the last one previous to this one he tipped his hat to me which I figured that meant he was gone like gone and then like a year later just about his mom passed anyway I just want to know what does that mean
Thank you for sharing n letting me keep the love alive with my deceased Son I had never dreamed about him when he was alive n now that I do, he never talks to me. As my loved ones before him. It is good to know. Love never dies.
My husband died almost 5 yrs ago, quite suddenly. He wore my favorite Cologne. Evey so often I can smell it. Mostly at a door or gate. I always tell him hi. It is a nice way for him to let me know he is around.
I’m very appreciative that information is available to help me better understand why I am being spiritually connected with someone almost 1 time a week
Thank u for sharing information on being connected with someone in my dreams. I love seeing him in my dreams it makes me feel less sad about not seeing him in real life . Love is strong.
Thank you. I had a friend/co worker who passed in early August from COVID. It hit really hard. A few days ago, right before my alarm went off, I had a dream about her. In the dream, this person is not my friend but an exact look alike. Just like you wrote above, I can see her as clear as day, every feature, what she wore, with her hair pulled into a bun on top of her head. I walked up to her and even fully aware that “this” person was not my friend, I hugged her and just cried. I woke up crying, feeling extreme sadness. It’s been a few days and I still feel emotional about it. In my heart I know it was her and I am so grateful that she came to me.
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I lost my dad in April my mam 15years ago my dad was all I had I was in my bedroom but not asleep my son had two of his friends sleepover who are 15loud boys however when I got into bed around 4.30am I am unsure of what it or where I went I saw my mam and dad before me there was some sort of pale orange light warmth around both my dad said he was OK and happy snfd together he then said we are sending someone to yiu i saw the man whom is actually known to me briefly then felt as if he was actually laying beside me on my bed very closely to my back I had overwhelming feeling of completeness peace and as this was happenings o had feelings of awareness of my tears of both sadness and happiness of my parents visiting but tried to shake off the persons presence of the person he said he was sending it was strange bit very real now this person has turned up strong what is this I knew him briefly but after one visit feel has if I have known him always I did not tell him what I saw but do not understand how my dad could know him has he had never met him before he died
My mom passed almost 3 yrs ago and I have had one dream with her in it and we were just doing normal things that we would do. I could see all of her body, just not her face. I am not sure what that means. Please help me to understand!
Wow, that it so great to read these. I have a question. I saw my dad in my dream who passed away three years ago in the dream today when he was crossing over. He was laying in bed and had tears on his face and what it seemed like couple of hrs after I saw his spirit exiting his body. I saw the white cloud as it was pulling upward and staying, “I’m Michael now” and i woke up. I prayed the night before to find out all my spirit guides names and what they look like. Does it mean that my dads spirit’s name is Michael? Do they change the names?
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You have said even if you don’t get an individual reading during the large group to stay tuned in that there might be a message or confirmation. Well the day before, I went on my walk at the park and it was late afternoon and on the fence birds were flying and perching, I usually don’t see birds out by then. Anyway, there were 2 cardinals in the mix of birds and one would walk alongside me for a bit and fly away. Throughout my walk they flew up to me and flew away. A women was told of cardinals in her reading and that was meant for me, too.
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I had a connection with my nearly 7-year deceased grandmother last night. I saw her sitting in her chair that she always sat in, cross-stitching, which was her favorite thing to do. I ran over and hugged her, and it smelled like her. I started crying and she told me that she loved me, and my family and told me that she is sorry that she didn’t take care of herself because she cannot see me now. while in the dream i was 10, which was the age I last saw her. Now that I am awake i cannot stop crying.
I recently lost my mom from COVID. I’ve been haveing a hard time with everything. And last night mom came to me. She was so beautiful she reached out and touched me. And told me everything was gonna be ok. And that she loves me I told her I’m sorry and that I love her. I’ve never had a dream like this before. Plus my cats have been acting weird to.
I have seen my grandmother standing by a fence one breef moment and other time’s my other (mom shirley ) saw and described my parents coming here to my home to visit .I have seen other folks in our historical museum why is it I am able to see them clear as day am not afraid of this but fascinated
Hi I had a dream of my mum who passed away suddnely in nov 2002 she passed with brain hamerrage.
In my dream i saw my mum clear as day she was sat down with blanket over her sat in chair she use to sit in at her home she was talking to me saying they told her she had 5 yrs live because she had brain injury and in my dream i rember saying but mum that like me. saying i have brain armumsy u cant say when. I dont know what the message but it felt like a visition from my mum o i wasnt scared.I just wondeing if she came to warn me or message but not sure what. i know he annisvasary coming up in nov of passing. And i always worry i will die the way my mum did but the strangest thing when my mum had gone from my dream i had the most werid feeling it was like something had passed through as my body shuddeed like when u sense something wrong somewher but not sure what.
My mother died almost four years ago she came to me in a dream , her hair was beautiful and snow white and so was her skin , and all she said was she knew she was dead. I don’t understand what it means.
Last night my son contacted me in a dream. He called me on the phone and said “hi mom. I’m sorry”. His voice was so clear. It took place at 2:45 am. I woke up crying and then sobbing. What does this mean?
Most of my dreams appear as you say visitation dreams do. I see the people clearly and I always do completely plausible things, in terms of real-world physics. It’s usually not as /me/ me or things /I/ would do in my day to day life or in places I’ve ever been but it’s not unreasonable to say I wasn’t in someone else’s day to day life. I have had a few dreams where I can’t recall faces once I wake up but that was when I dreamt of celebrities. I did recently dream of my two dogs that have passed away and there were two presences I didn’t see but felt in the room and a woman who was not at all clear other than the fact that she was an older woman. All the details of that dream were blurred but the two dogs and the fish she gave us. (If you have any insight on this dream I would appreciate that as well.)
I don’t dream all that often but when I used to dream more often when I was younger, I dreamt as you describe dream visitations and all the details would eventually blur away as I woke up. Recently, I’ve been dreaming a bit more often and it’s been of people in my life. Once it was a dream of my grandma who I refuse to talk to getting bad news to find out from my mother that my grandma’s sister is in the hospital. That’s the only dream that I’ve connected to my reality but I’ve never dreamt like regular dreams. All this is probably unneccesary information but:
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I didn’t know my biological father in the portion of my life where memories were formed but I found out that he passed away a few years back. Is there any way you know of that I can reach out to him in the spirit realm. Any response would be greatly appreciated but it would mean the world to me if I could get an answer before Halloween ends. Thank you so much for reading my comment.
I had a visit from George. We had a complicated relationship….he was kind of a Rock Star – Noted Artist – Crazy – Passionate – Gorgeous HOT MESS! He had lots of issues – one of them being me. He was obsessed!
I ended our romance only to find he was terminally ill. I helped him and spent time with him until he died. He was angry and jealous.
About a week after he left us … I dreamed we were sitting face to face. It was so REAL! I asked if it was a Really him! Yes – he nodded. I asked him if he liked where he was …. he looked at me with dismay – but didn’t speak.
thank you im 10 and my passed away grandma visited me 1 time and never talked to me and there was this brown dog and 3 men in my dream to and my grandma passed away in march an passed away 3 days before my birthday so everyone was sad on my birthday
So I decided to listen to meditative mind on YouTube. I came across a video Angelic Healing Sleep Music in black screen, just so I can try to connect with my wife that passed away on December 29th 2018 from breast cancer. I eventually fell asleep listening to the video. In my dream my bedroom lit up with a bright beautiful light, I sat on my bed staring at the light and saying how beautiful it was, than I felt someone lift me up and holding me from behind as we floated in the air. They brought me back into my bed in a lying position while still holding me. Than floated me up one more time and I asked, is that you babe? Referring to my wife. She ( my wife) didn’t reveal her face to me, she revealed her hands to me instead, and that’s how I knew it was her. She lay me back on my bed and I awoken. It was the most beautiful dream I have ever had. I just wished she could of revealed her face to me. Love you my sweet angel
My visitation dream was so clear and I was 100% certain it was really my dad reaching back to me. I was 8 years old and he had just died. I answered the doorbell and it was totally black outside. I was about to go back inside because there was no one there, when suddenly dad appeared above me suspended in the air, completely lit from within so I could see him clearly against the dark all around him. He smiled at me and waved and I remember thinking oh my gosh, it’s dad, but he’s dead! I felt only happiness and love and without speaking I heard his voice in my head say “Don’t worry, I’m alright”
I am so grateful he was able to do this for me.
I’m now 62 and he came back only once more a few years ago. He was sitting by my bedside and he said “ you are okay, and I have to move on now , but if you ever need me, I’ll be here for you. “ I remember thinking oh no, please don’t leave me, because I had always felt all my life that he was with me. I had never come to terms with his death until I got counselling about 10 years ago. So maybe he knew I was okay.
What if they never come back?
My dad passed away Jan 4th, 2020. Here for the past few weeks I have been dreaming about him every night! Some nights it’s just a simple hug from him, sometimes it’s a phone call. I really do enjoy these visits, I’ve just been wondering if dreaming about him every night if there is more to the meaning than just dreaming about him (I’m sure that doesn’t make a whole lot of sense lol). One thing that I do know, I have had a difficult time finding peace with his passing. I have felt very angry, not at him just the way he passed. I’m trying every day to find peace with him being gone, the hardest thing to do.
I have been sick since about April of this year 2020 the doctors can’t figure out what’s wrong and now I’m having dreams of loved ones that have passed come to me and consoled me about me having cancer. This isn’t one dream not even two it’s continuing especially my grandmother. Are they trying to prepare me, warn me and tell me they’ll be there for me this is what the doctors can’t figure out. We have 5 cats and all of them act more and more weird with me the worse I am getting and now they don’t even sleep in our room with me having these dreams. Please please help me to understand. Thank you for your time
I was surprised to see my mom who passed away a little over 2 years ago in my dream standing near the family dinner table smiling watching over the shoulder of who was sitting there and when i realized it was her i must of made a crazy face bc she was surprised too. She seemed surprised too that I saw her there… So i hope your right that she will come back.. Bc we both were surprised and i woke up like noooo i finally got there and didnt get the hug or her words of advice or anything just shocked i made it and saw her. I think she was too.
Hi i have been amazed by what happend to me and never knew if it was real . Anyway my wifes mother was in the hospital dieing from cancer we lived in colorado and her mother was in new york i only met her three times well her mother was induced into a medical induced coma and my wife was struggling to go see well i woke up christmas eve having dreamnt of being in the new york hospital with her mother she talk to me and asked why her daughter wasnt there and with this since of eurgcie she tells me you need to her to get here now that she will not be here in the morning if i dont her daughter will be forever hurt for not being there when she dies and go now i wake up almost if i havent even been asleep i tell my wife and she calls her family she asks her father to get her a plane ticket now and after he does he tells her that he got a ticket for the next hour then says i dont know how to say this u have to hurry the doctors says sheprobably wont make it through the night .. my wife made it and early morning on christmas her mother past sad and it hurt. But was that real or just a dream i had because i was concerned for my wife or did her mother while she was in a coma somehow enter my sleeping mind and trll me for real to get her daughter there.
I had a dream that the my late dad said he didn’t died. I also dreamed about my late grandmother agreeing that my dad didn’t died. It was weird because my dad gone out of the door but the next thing I remembered is that I’m talking with my late grandmother outside and my dad came out of the door again. Please help me interpret this. Thank you!
I had a stroke 2 years ago. On that day my father stood at the doors of the ER he said come with me. He showed me my 2 daughters who were then home sitting on the couch waiting for a call from my husband at the Hospital for an update. Our 2 dogs sat and sniffed like they were crying I was told for hours. My mom showed up and said it’s time to go and reached out her hand. My father told me if I leave who will take care of all these people showing me my family. I woke up and told the drs please don’t let me die I can’t go. Since then my father has visited me several times on his fishing boat and has told me once I finish what I need to I can go be with him. That was 1 stroke and 2 heart attacks ago. Every time I have heart issues or brain issues since that day I have 2 bluebirds and 1 cardinal who visit my window ledge. Can you explain.
What if you dream all night long of people you haven’t met and you see every detail of them perfectly clear to the point where you could draw them? Have done this nightly since I was 12 (I’m 34). Astral projection? I never have “weird dreams” of rubber duckies and pink elephants and whatever else. Always people, always clear faces, always communicating to me through my mind.
My father recently passed away, it was very fast and very dramatic. He did not have time to say goodbye. We were very close. I was probably the person in the world he loved the most. He would always choose me over anyone or anything. A dream or visit last night, he said, “I’m going to do better.” then a bit later when I asked him what do you mean? He said, “I won’t wait, I will go to the hospital.” I am afraid he still thinks he is alive, what is he didn’t follow the light to heaven? He seemed to believe he could try and play out everything differently so that he would live. I cried and I put his hand to my cheek, it was exactly his hand. We stayed like that, with my cheek nestled in his hand as I cried until I woke.
My best friend passed away in a car accident two months ago. A few nights after the wreck I had a dream and it was just me and her together at the bowling alley we have in our town. I asked her if she was watching over us and with us and she told me she was. Then last night i remember when i woke up that I had a dream with her in it. We were with our friends and it was normal. We were hanging out like we usually would except I knew she passed in the dream. I even mentioned it to her. I remember her hair was in a ponytail and I knew she had passed but we were still hanging out. What does this mean?
Last night I dreamt I was in a car accident, I went in a house to call 911, when I came out my grandmother was standing there (she passed almost 13 years ago, right after my son was born and today is his 13th birthday). I cried and went up to her, hugged her and told her I missed her, when she hugged me back, I told her, “I don’t understand, I can feel you and smell you, you are really here” she smiled and said she missed me so much. Then turned around and a door appeared and she walked through it. I immediately woke up, feeling her near me, cried a lot but an so happy, I know she was there.
My boyfriend passed not too long ago and it has been a very rough difficult time for me. I have not been myself since and many who know me from family members right down to my closest friends have taken notice that I am not the same person I once was before my boyfriend. I have always thought of myself as a practical strong woman (along with many others) and I myself haven’t the slightest clue as to who I am and don’t even recognize myself these days. About a couple of months after my boyfriends passing I had a dream of him. He was sitting down talking to me as I was standing up. I’m not sure where we were at if it was a restaurant or hotel setting of some sort, I did see people around and could clearly see the ocean from where we were at which indicates we were by the beach somewhere. Right before I woke up he told me ” you are going to live with me when I say” and of course I was excited and replied by saying ” yes I am! where are we going?’ then he said “by the beach” I woke up feeling happy and content with a warm feeling inside. However, I am not sure what the meaning of the dream was, what is he trying to tell me? This has been bothering me for quite some time and am wondering if anyone might possibly have any thoughts.
Disclaimer: Ive never had any sort of dream about anyone who has passed prior to these occasions. My Aunt and my grandmother crossed over 6 months ago one day a part opposite sides of my family .. I have had two vivid dreams of only my aunt since. The first one was her telling me about the vibrant colors of the spirits hair where she was…she said “some even have red hair like me.” She did have red hair in her younger years. I felt at peace knowing she was no longer suffering and I feel that was her way of telling me. She battled cancer.
The second dream i had about 2 weeks ago. We were walking along this path.. and she was walking on the left side of me she looked over at me and said.. “you know what I love? I love looking down on everyone’s golden smiles.” In both dreams other living relatives were around us and I kept thinking in my dream… why does she want to talk to me? And she’s only here a short moment why doesn’t anyone else want to spend time with her? There is never any closure or goodbyes in my dreams.. which makes me think she will visit again. What are your thoughts?
I dreamt, this morning, about an old boyfriend; a beautiful man named Brooke. However, I was telling him that when he came into the world the next time, he should be sure to let people know when he was feeling depressed so that he could get the help he needed. I was giving him advice, he had no message for me – he just looked at me while I spoke; our faces were very close. He had taken his own life after suffering from paranoid schizophrenia. I did not experience this unfortunate aspect of his life; we had been apart for years at the time he left.
I’ve had one of this visits, although I couldn’t see his face. I knew it was him. Actually I wasn’t even trying to look at his face, because I was so caught up in his voice and movement of his hands and arms, it was the most amazing and beautiful thing I’ve ever experienced and when I woke. I just wanted to go back to sleep hoping that it would continue, but I knew it wouldn’t. He was letting me know that he was fine and in such a beautiful place, he kept saying “see how beautiful it is mom, it’s so beautiful huh??? He must’ve said that like 3 to 4 times and it was. I remember it like it was yesterday and every detail was so clear. I know he’s ok, but it still hurts today as much as it did the day he passed!!
Ihave frequent dreams of loved ones and friends who have passed, I even talk to them. I asked my grandmother how she was and if she could walk through walls now lol. She said she was good and yes her spirit could and I said show me. She did and I said cool and woke up standing and my hands were on the wall.
Yesterday morning I had a visitation from my grandmother who passed away 3 years ago. I was attending a family gathering at my Aunt’s house and the family was out in the backyard for a little while. When we got back inside, we all noticed that the living room was decorated for Valentines Day with pink and red balloon bouquets, heart confetti and my cousin Ashley’s name was cut out of red card stock and taped to the tops of all the chairs. Suddenly my Aunt comes down the hall wearing pale, yellow pajamas with feet in them and pink star gazer lilies down the front of them. (Don’t know if there was any significance to this) but we all sat there staring at my Aunt thinking how silly she looked when my cousin Ashley entered the room carrying her daughter in an infant seat. She walked toward my Aunt to give her a hug not realizing that my grandmother was sitting in a recliner to the left of where my Aunt was standing. Ashley turned her head to the left and as soon as she noticed who was sitting in the recliner, she made a beeline for Grandma to shower her with lots of hugs and kisses. We all started clapping and crying because we knew how excited Ashley would be to see our Grandma. In the excitement, Ashley didn’t realize that Bailee (Ashley’s daughter) had tipped over sideways in the baby carrier but luckily she was buckled in and didn’t get hurt. Ashley had come for a surprise visit and no one knew she was coming except for my Aunt. For a long time my cousin Ashley struggled with fertility issues on top of having PCOS, and ended up adopting a beautiful baby girl that she named Bailee. Grandma passed away before she ever got to meet Bailee and I think she came to me to let me know that she is aware of Bailee and that she is always watching over the family and wanted me share her “visitation” with my cousin Ashley. I remember waking up with tears running down my face and thanked Grandma for giving me that gift.
Hi Blair
I am enjoying your book The Afterlife I have almost completed it..
I hope that one day I will be able to attend one of your shows.
My question to you is if you have many loved ones on the other
Side and you get a sign say a Butterfly how do you know who
The sign is from..? Which loved one?
I thought I was asleep but one night my husband who died came to me it seemed like he fell through the ceiling and he lay down beside me and I put my head on his shoulder and we talked about the dogs who died before he died and I asked him if he seen them and some yes and then o asked him for sex and he said he wasn’t aloud and then he said he had to go and then got sucked up through the ceiling is this real
I have had visitations from three family members at the exact time of
Death. The are the most vivid, real and warm loving
Dreams and the happen at the exact time
Of
Death and each family
Member has hugged
Me and I felt them pass through my body when they die and they wake me up the minute they pass.
I always communicate with the dead in my dreams and even some not if this world.I talk to my dead relatives they give me tips on how to get through life.The others try to scare me and I always tell them to go away and that they don’t scare me.It’s almost every night and has been for the past 10 years.
My husband had a visitation last night…he said he was painting his dad’s room…came downstairs to kitchen…then the kitchen table flew in the air and smashed into the water tank…he moved it back..then a piece of wood was leviatating and then went spinning around crashing into the walls…my husband said out loud..it’s ok dad i am making your room better….then from around the corner from the laundryroom…his friend Joe came walking by…looking at him smiling…my husband said to him…it’s ok man…it’s ok man….both his dad abd his friend are past….my husband thinks Joe came to him in his dream and feels Joe is unsettled because he died to soon…any thoughts to that please and thank you
I had a dream where I turned a corner & my Mum who passed 10th October 2019 was standing there with my brother who is still with us, I couldn’t believe it, so my first thought was where has she been all this time..I approached my brother who said he was so sorry (for what I don’t know) I went to touch him & my hand went straight through his body, at that point I said have I died? Then I woke upx
Not sure if it was a visitation or a dream, but I took a 3hrs nap in the afternoon. My grandma, raised me from birth and considered me her last born and I called her mummy. She passed away suddenly Dec 12 and I feel so lost and empty since then.
Well before my nap, I was looking at her pictures and remembering things she used to say, I missed her so much. I fell asleep and she appeared in ” a dream” she was walking ahead of me and I followed behind, we hot to a big bar gate, she stopped so did I. She looked back at me with out speaking, I was saying something to her, can’t remember what, but she looked ahead through the gate and it seemed like there was a huge house on a mountain at a distance. The gate was closed. I called out mummy, Mummy and woke up yo my daughter calling me mum as it wastime to wake up and get ready for work. Mummy looked younger, healthy. She didn’t say a word, she didn’t look angry but she didn’t smile either.
Hello there I had 2 just after my brother died but the second time I remember 3 indentical people waiting at the bottom of the stairs,as we were upstairs it felt like they were like his chaperones really,I just wonder if anyone else had this as well
Blair: Once in a while I dream of my mom but she is laying in the coffin and never speaks. It seems like a scary dream and I just want to get away.
I just woke up from having a dream of my great grandmother. We were very close when she was alive. The dream I had had felt so real. In my dream she hugged me. It felt like I could feel her. Her arms around me and everything. I starting crying a little in my dream as she hugged me and she asked me what was wrong. I said I just miss you so much. She relied back that she missed me too. We hugged for a few minutes it felt like and I woke up. When I woke up my pillow was wet from tears. I cried for a little bit after being awake. I have never felt a dream so real in my life.
Expecting My Mom who just passed to contact me- we spoke about that. However she had dementia and I’m wondering now if that will be possible – I’ve had visits from other loved ones – at one point I had to say – stop coming… lol
My papaw passed away almost 2 months ago and I’ve had such a difficult time, as I was very close to him. I keep dreaming of him. Last night I had what I believe was my 3rd visitation dream with him. They all have been very vivid- to a point that I am upset when I wake. In my dreams, we have conservations knowing that he has passed. For example, asking him if he is doing okay in Heaven, asking him if he still visits us, telling him that we miss him, etc,. Although I am upset when I wake, I feel at peace knowing that I’ve seen him and was able to communicate. I hope this is a visitation dream.
I was sitting in a bar with my x he was looking at this old guy walking towards us I had my back to him, x said god he looks familiar… the old man then stopped at our side put one hand on my hand and the other on x’s shoulder, said to him, if you let her go it will be the worse thing you ever do, believe I know.. with that he squeezed my hand x’s shoulder and walk away I could see him x had his back to him, and disappeared… I looked at x and said omg that’s you!!
I woke up grasping for air….
My X isn’t dead
i dreamed my dad and i were talking….just hanging out……i woke disappointed it was only a drean as i miss my dad so much …..infact i just bought him flowers from a local floiist when his grave is to be delivered to go on his grave for Fathers’ day…..even tho i live states away from his cemetery…….so i dreamed of my dad and i talking….within a couple days i came across a song id never heard and played it…..it was exactly how i feel about my dad…….the song is Talking to the Moon…..by Bruno Mars……
My daughter had a dream about my dad once and she never had met him…..he died b4 her birth….but she was in college and dreaned my Dad came to her and he called to her, Christine! they walked closer to each other…..then he said to her……”Tell your mother I love her”…….(tears when i heard this)
Sorry last post didn’t send I had a visual dream I’m sure I was talking to my dad on my bed he was talking about things that’s happening after he died and knew everything even from that week and he was given out den laughing den giving out again witch was him wen he was alive to but he told me stuff that’s still happening and even said one or to things about what’s going to happen is that normal or am i gone mad I kept going into the same dream my dad was murdered but he didn’t seem angry over that he seemed angry that we should be closer no arguing but there’s 4 of us were very close all live in the same eara we’d die for one another I don’t understand why he wants us closer wud one of us be pulling apart from my mam and sisters it’s so confusing
My late son visited me after being gone for 16 years, he sat on my bed and was crying saying “he’s really sick mom” I told my husband that morning, we both thought perhaps he was trying to tell us something was wrong with one of our surviving sons, but about a month later, my husband started getting sick and was in fact, dying! I will always believe that my son did try to warn us. My husband’s illness was sudden and swift.
My 22 yr old son passed away in his sleep in August of last year and I am absolutely broken. I have had just a handful of dreams about him and in every dream except the very 1st one he is always so happy. He suffered a great deal from mental illness but to see him so happy makes me happy I just want to hear his voice. These dreams feel so real when I wake up I can still remember the look on his face and exactly what he was wearing in the dream. I hope he is reaching out to me I miss him so much its unbearable.
I just had a dream my friend came to me gave me a hug said shes ok
I lost my cousin tragically and nrakes me i can feel when he visits me. I’m broken
I just had a very vivid dream of my mom. She passed in 2016. She was in my kitchen. We were hugging. She had on a big old lady pink sweater. She said she was camping with her family and they got caught in the rain. Her hair was slightly damp and slightly crunchy from the water and hairspray mix on it. I buried my face into her shoulder/neck area. I could smell her. With every inhalation. I didnt want it to stop. She said she remembered certain smells too. I was crying (I was also slightly hyperventilating in real life as well, my CPaP machine picked it up). I knew she was about to go and I was going to wake up. She told me not to cry. I asked her if I’d be with her again someday. She simply said “yes, with all of us” and I woke up. I opened my eyes and the sob that was trying to come out in my sleep just let loose. I could still feel her in my arms and smell her hair. I love those dreams and yet can’t stand them. I just wanted that moment to be so much more real buy im thankful I get anything from her especially after 5 years gone. As I sat in bed sobbing, low and behold my cat jumped up on me, layer right down across my stomach/leg area and was doing big purrs. He said there until I got up about 10 minutes after waking up.
Things been happening
My daughter just passed and I was so confused til now thank u
My son came to me today. This is the second time he has visited me. The first time I was not allowed to touch him. This time it was in my kitchen. He just appeared there and we hugged. A good sorta long hug. My husband walked in from the living room. He saw my arms in a hug position but did not see my son. He said nothing and I didn’t explain. He is a non believer. It’s only important that I believe.
I had a very vivid dream with my late ex husband where he told me that he wanted us to Marry again so when it happens(meaning when he dies again) I will inherit the Condo and his assets…he also told me that he was sorry for what Bill did to me…Originally my late ex Husband Peter had Will where I was to inherit everything but after he got sick with Cancer is brother Bill took over and two days before Peter passed he made him sign a new Will where Bill will inherit everything…does this dream meant he is thinking about me?
I had a dream… I was walking upstairs(different house) went to a double doors room. There a lady was standing looking away from me and I asked “how can I help you?” When she turned around it was my mother in law…. we hugged and she told me to ask my daughter (I forgot what to ask), then she said her use my phone so she can believe you…. my alarm sounded and I woke up… minute or two later a noise in my living room and it was a sign that felt down behind my tv… sign reads “All things are possible if you believe”….
Boyfriend
I went to GE to work. My mother wanted me to go, giving me her blessing. She was in good health and promised me she would come visit in the spring. Six weeks later, she died unexpectedly. I never forgave myself for leaving. After her funeral, I returned to GE, crying myself to sleep every night; it seemed like weeks I cried myself to sleep. One night, she visited me in a dream. We were walking together with our arms intertwined, talking about something. All of a sudden, she was not with me. I turned around and told her to hurry and catch up with me. She told me, “You have to go on with me now, I can’t come with you. You will be okay.” As she turned to walk away, I woke up crying and sobbing, begging my mother to not leave me. A calm came over me after her visit. I never cried or felt sad again. I miss her still, but not like I want to cry, kind of like I can’t wait to see her in heaven again, when I die.
Dreamt that my husband picked up my late mother from airport. When she came in and asked me, “where were you?” I was making her favirite foods. What does this mean?
Brunch of BS.
I’m still not sure if it was just a dream or if it’s really my mom in my dream. She looks all alone and the image looks like she’s in dark clothes in a darkened room. I know in my dream it’s her. I can tell by her body shape. I miss her a lot and she’s been on my mind more often lately
I keep wondering if she knows what I’m doing with my creativity and Art and if she would be proud of me. I feel a strong longing for her lately more then ever before, and now understand more then ever what trials she went through in her life. I appreciate her more then I ever have before and regret not being a better daughter to her when she was here.
Do you think it was her reaching out to me?
Sincerely, Gladys
Thank you for this! My dad visits me, quite often. And I know it’s a real visit. I was having a very hard and emotional day and I said “Daddy, I need you right now!” My dad always said “I’m just a call away and I’ll be there!” And he always was. That night I was dreaming I was at my Grandparents house staring out the back glass door and I felt a tap on my shoulder. And when I turned around, I see my daddy. Clear as day he says “Well, I’m here!” And has a huge smile and his arms wide open. And I went in for a huge hug and I could smell his scent. A unique scent of cigarettes and Irish spring bar of soap. Very comforting!
During a nap today, he came to me, and I held his face and said “I want to look at you as long as I can! I miss your face so much. Do you miss us?” And he said “Baby, I don’t have to miss y’all anymore!” ❤️
He then asked me a question and made a statement that I can’t remember!! I need to remember! How can I manifest his words back into my head?!
It was important. I need to get it back!
I had a strange dream last night, I was at my friends house and my mother was there making something to eat and sitting on the couch with me she didn’t speak just kept looking at me and smiling. I woke up this morning thinking it was real and is she still around. It was her 3 month anniversary of her death on the 22rd was this a visitation?
28.07.21 around 2am. 5 weeks since my fiance passed away-
Dream that Mitch took me somewhere, by the hand flung a circle of what I can only describe as mist in the air, we both floated up into it, I was a sort of a misty state while mitch was almost a solid state.
we lay on our backs just floating around the circle his head on my stomach, I was playing with his hair and stroking his face and beard. he told me we had an hour then we didnt speak just floated together.
My son mitchy then woke me up asking for a cuddle so didnt finish the dream.
I woke up feeling almost peaceful, I was smiling, It felt so intimate. Its the first time ive not been scared in the dark for 5 weeks and I could almost feel him in the room.
Does anyone know what this means? or had similar experience?
I had a dream last night of my deceased husband and my deceased 14 year old son, and there was a baby girl in a pink footed onesie, she was about 8 months, my husband hugged me but was running around fast not looking at me, and my son did look at me and the little girl I picked her up and said this is my son, she said I know who he is with a smile, my question is who is that little girl in my dream? I hope to connect more often with them.
I really do believe in visitation dreams
My little brother passed 9 months ago, it hit our family hard,I know he is with us but upto last night I didn’t hear his voice or see his smile,last night I was with my sister and brother (whilst I was asleep) and my little brother walked in and said you’ve been thinking of me haven’t you? With his big beautiful smile,I hugged him so hard I didn’t want to open my eyes
I recently experienced something that might be like what you describe, but it didn’t feel like a dream nor did it feel like I was awake. It happened about 3 weeks after a person died of covid. I hadn’t spoken to him for over 6 years when I told him to never call me again. I loved him very much a long time ago. I can’t remember what he was saying, but it was definitely a “real” feeling. I had been having a hard time getting over his death, but after this incident, he hasn’t been on my mind much at all.
I just dreamed of my brother this morning. I saw his face clearly as it was only 12 inches or so from my face. He looked much younger and healthier, but not necessarily happier. He had a troubled look on his face and kept breaking eye contact nervously. I was thinking, “Man… it’s Kevin… my dead brother”… looking around nervously I finally looked directly at his face, his hair, eyes mouth… I started to tear up and chokingly asked “So… how’s it been going?”… I watched him look down and wrinkle his brow as his lip began to tremble as he started to tear up. He shrugged his shoulders as if to say “I don’t know… okay I guess”. Still staring at him, I began to cry and woke up. When I awoke, I had a burning lump in my throat and was choked up and tearing up…
I’ve dreamed of my Mother and Brother before, often, but this was the first time I ever saw any of their faces so clearly. It had always bothered me before that I could never remember to look at their faces. They were always in my side vision as we did something though.
I’m guessing those were just dreams or one of them knocking to get in and the one time I saw my brothers face clearly I had let him in and it was an actual visitation… that didn’t go so well…
I had a dream vision my grandson died recently in a car accident, I think of him every night he was 6 4 in his height I dreamed I heard his kind if music in my dream I say him on my road with familiar cloth he may wear he was very tall in my dream tall as the trees he was so tall when I passed him he didn’t see me but I seen him clear as day, when I passed him I said thank you God and I woke up also he was wearing a shirt that he wears often, what does this mean
Thank you
I had a visit last night from my mothers old boyfriend for 10years who sadly 4weeks ago committed suicide , He was a big part of my life and like my best friend. I’ve secretly been struggling with drink problems to the point where I can’t sleep on a night .I’ve a beautiful family wife and kids and my drinking has become an issue .Last night I had a dream where I was half asleep / awake I felt myself wanting to wake myself up in the dream I was so scared I was being dragged by male nurses in to a mental asylum, then he appeared I was shouting what can I do I need to change I felt like I was going insane ,he looked at me and shrugged his shoulders and said all I can say is four stages he then smiled and walked off ,I woke up sweating but felt strange and burst in to tears I went straight on my phone and typed in 4 stages I was shocked what came up 4stages of alcoholism!! I read the website and it’s opened my eyes to my issues .
I suffer from really bad sleep of late due to stress anxiety brought on by drinking , I’ve a normal life a job wife and children , I didn’t think i had a problem with drink I’m in the construction trade I work hard and like a beer to relax….little did I know or I just put blinkers on to the fact it was affecting my life and others around me , The strangest thing happened to me last night I was in a sleep/awake state dreaming I was being pulled / man handled by to make nurses in to a mental asylum and I knew I wasn’t fully sleeping and I knew if I woke the nightmare would end but I couldn’t wake and in my dream I knew I had to make my way home to wake myself up but I could free myself from the nurses grip I was petrified, but my mothers ex partner who was like a father to me for 10years but sadly committed suicide 4weeks ago appeared then time stood still nothing but silence around me ,I screamed to him what do I do what do I change …..he simply said 4stages then he smiled and shrugged his shoulders and walked and disappeared,then the madness started again I managed to struggle free and was stood above myself looking down at my wriggling around in bed sweating and I screamed !! I heard my own voice and woke to instantly break in to tears nearly !! He was there as clear as day I felt him I knew it was him and the words played over in my head so I picked up my phone I woke my wife to explain and I put 4stages in to google straight away it came up with 4 stages of alcoholism I clicked and read and instantly realised I have a problem and I need to change!! I don’t believe in ghost or spirits but I can’t say it was a dream because he was there . I don’t understand how this has happened
I had a vision of my deceased ex-husband. I have been questioning whether he went to heaven or hell because he wasn’t a very good person in life. This vivid nightmare took place in what I can only refer to as a part of what hell might look like. Everyone is in Black there was satanic marks everywhere and I was being pulled through there with people having this colorful stuff injected into their mouth. They kept trying to get me to take some of it and I would and my ex-husband sat in a chair while this huge male figure pumped a ton of this stuff in his mouth. When I turned around not to watch it and then look back there is a picture sitting next to him of a skeleton with a dagger in it and he was thrown over some sort of object and I ran trying to get away from these people and when I woke up I had a deep scratch below my kneecap when I took a picture of the scratch, above the scratch you could see a face all those small you could see eyes and a mouth and you could see to me in the mail and to the right of the scratch there is a definitive I just one eye staring back at me. I truly thought my husband (ex), had hopefully repented his sins before he died and had gone to heaven but now I definitely know that he did not…… Why did she show me this?
So the other night I had a dream about my mom. I could actually touch her. I felt her. I can’t stop thinking about it. I hope it happens again soon. Love you mom.
Thank you Blair. I heard your words clearly today while out running. Love never dies. It was extremely comforting so thank you fir your timely email. I need a little pick me up!!
I dream about my deserved loved ones every week when my mom first died I had a dream I asked her mom when you died did you leave your apartment she shook her head yes and she was seated in a chair in her apartment with her back to me it felt like we were both there
It’s like you look into my sole and new what I was feeling my husband been gone 7 yrs it took him 5 yrs to visit me it was a dream I never felt before I woke up and new he was here I even ask my kids where there dad went
Hi everyone.
Whoever is reading this, please explain to me.
I woke up at 2:44am
I dreamed about my lost cousin Brian that has passed away 4 years ago.
The first time my cousin came to visit was after 5 months of his death. I was going through some arguments with my daughter’s father. Brain came visit me sitting on ny couch looking at me saying Stop crying, ok! YOU GOT THIS and he smiled at me, I smiled back.
The second time my cousin came to visit me was today on September 7. I got released from the hospital on September 5th, They had to drained the pus out of my breast. I have removed a nipple piercing that caused an breast infection.
I’m at the mall. I was using the washroom washing my hand and talking to someone ( thats I don’t know who that was )
I came out of the washroom I seen him right there sitting up nice and tall, wearing all black. He smiled at me, walked where there was chairs. As I followed him he sat down and I took out my phone tired to take pictures of him. As I got in front of him he gave me my purse, felt his hand warm hand. He smiled at me & I smiled at him with tears. My husband woke me up kissing me.
I have seen Brian very clear.
No words spoken.
Felt his energy
Felt him so real
Hello on august 30th 2021.my best friend that I’ve know ever since elementary school.he was more like my brother.you.name some things we more in likely have done it.but on the 30th he pit a rope in a tree and hung himself he was Bron august 19th 1979.he had problems him and his wife and he had 2 kids and son and a daughter. And on that day I don’t know if this is even true or not
I wasn’t there.but they were trying to take the rope from my bff.(let’s just call him meh.)and guess he said see if you can stop me now.and hung himself. I don’t have same question I want to ask you. But I’ll ask them on another day.
I’ve been having deaths in my family and just lost a uncle this morning and my dream I had an grandma who is my ex grandma but mine too came in a dream I don’t remember but she was clear . I don’t remember the dream but she was there . I woke up and forgot about it and open my phone to a text that my uncle passed from COVID and it hit me I seen her again .
My mother whom passed fifty years ago came to see me in my sleep. In my dream she sat down beside me and she told she had to go as my father was waiting for her. He passed four years after her. My mother was in spirit and she had separated from her body a long time ago. She was so beautiful and peace and love exuded from her. I felt everything and she was speaking to me from the mind. I saw my dad and my mum said the needed to go, it was like she was asking me permission to let her go so I told her to go to him and she got up and left. I saw her spirit merge with my dad’s and then I woke up.
my boyfriend of over 20 years just passed, I had a dream that I was standing in the hall talking to my daughter and someone knocked at the door, she turned and opened the door and it was him knocking with a big grin on his face. thats all
i remember
my boyfriend of over 20 years just passed, I had a dream that I was standing in the hall talking to my daughter and someone knocked at the door, she turned and opened the door and it was him knocking with a big grin on his face. thats all
i remember i remember thinking what is he doing here and the dream stopped
Just dreamed I saw my mother laying next to me in my bed..& I was like how did u get here? & she was laughing, I never wanted her in my bed cause thought she have a peeing accident… she just passed in April & we lived together as I was her caregiver.. when I looked over at her she was laughing.. then smiling.. then I woke up..( my mom suffered in tremendous pain for over 20 yrs)
What does this mean?
I had a dream I hugged my mom who has passed away and wanted me to help her with something also a other spirit person came in my dream to scare me but that’s why I hugged my mom so I wouldn’t be scared and it felt so real to
This information I found by accident after a 3am “experience” of my brother standing to my left. He gave me two clear and concise messages. It was definitely him. There is no doubt in my mind. He told me a present day message meant for me directly. Then (I think as confirmation) a future message. – prediction
And as he said goodbye he mentioned my pet’s health – reassuring and instruction…
He walked in a dark tunnel
I can recall every detail.
I feel excited and kinda happy that he was here.
Thank you for sharing this with me.
Hello, I hope your day is well. Before I share my dream I would like to extend a thank you for what you do. That being said. My mom passed away about 4 years ago. I haven’t had any visitations that I was aware of. Many of my family did. Dreaming and while awake. It wasn’t until I started dating this woman that I started to see. Cardinals, songs, lady bugs, and so forth all when being in or about to be in contact with this woman. This morning around 3/4 am I swore my mom was right here having a sleep over with me. All snug and tucked in. Covered in the dark. Back to me both of us sleeping. And I remember thinking right before I woke up. Mom, ahh, would it be wrong to snuggle up and spoon her sniff her in. I wondered if it was real but it felt real it felt like she was right here sleeping next to me…. Not moments later the woman text me to see how I was feeling.
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I have health issues and dreamed of a open doorway and bright light and my dead grandpa whos been dead for 24 years and he took my hand and was leading me into the light but I was scared and didn’t want to go. What’s that mean?
i know i’ve been visited. i’ve dreamt of her only twice that i can remember.
2013 – i had a dream my mother and i were at an old mall at the top of the escalators. we saw my gramom coming up the escalator. when she got to the top we hugged and were so happy to see each other. then she took my mom by the hand and they started down the escalator. i started to follow and my gramom turned to me and said “you stay here. it’s not your turn.” my mom passed about a week 1/2 later.
then
2021 – Tuesday night i dreamt i was in her old house. she and my papa came thru the door like they’d been on vacation. i hugged and kissed them both, then papa was no longer there. just gramom. she asked me if i wanted to go somewhere and for the life of me i can’t remember what she said. i told her yes and she told me it opened in 3 weeks, which in my dream made me think this “place” was a movie. yesterday, on my fridge handle there was a ladybug. something she collected, that always reminds me of her. i looked for other ones in the house because sometimes we get invaded. it was the only one.
now i’m giving myself anxiety thinking i’m going to die in 3 weeks. also, if it’s going to be true, i want to quit my job and do everything i can possibly do. lol
i just don’t understand why my mom wouldn’t have been the one to come and get me.
My dad passed away early 2020 and has been frequently visiting me in my dreams ever since. In the dreams, he and I are both aware that he is dead and is only in my presence because I’m dreaming. I’ll ask him to come back all the time. Last night, he said “why can’t we just go back in time or you ask me to come back?” And I said “Dad, I ask you to come back every time I see you.” And the dream just carried on. It feels like he was there in real life after I wake up. When he first passed away, he used to tell me things like “I don’t want you to worry about me.” Or “Before I go I want you to know that I’m okay.” And it would mess me up….but it’s as if we see each other so frequently now that it’s like we can have casual conversation, even about the fact that he’s dead. I look forward to dreaming because he’s usually there.
After 30 years of marriage I realized my husband was a narcissist. Pleasant to your face drama behind your back. I loved this man and am still with him but he has never admitted to cheating, even though the woman’s sister told me who he was with and her with him. My mother died in 2007 my brother died in 2009. I have never dreamt of both my mother and my brother at the same time.
In the dream my husband was moving furniture out of our house that we both own and I kept asking him “what are you doing?0. He kept ignoring me. I said to him “we are married you can’t legally do this”, he handed me a Manila envelope. I seen there was one child moving in however his new woman was in Aruba l! I asked why he is doing this and he said “to surprise her!!” My heart was broke!
My brother said nothing and I ran up to my mothers house to let her know what was going on, she claimed she already knew and basically everyone knew but me!! I told my mom that he was yes he’s running off of the neighbor and Mom said “this has been been going on all along and what do you care you don’t love him anyway· The point is I still don’t want to be surprised or the rug pulled out from under my feet should this actually happen. I lost 47 ponds when I felt he was cheating and rather than take accountability he lies and denied until this day is never told the truth which is why I’m asking because I no longer have trust. I’ve asked them to move out he won’t. I told him I would buy him out and give him his share of the house he won’t. In a prior deal over 30 years ago I dreamt of my deceased father but I said to him, you can’t be here your dead!! So in that dream I actually knew he was deceased but I didn’t realize my mother and my brother were dead in my dream!! Could this really be true could my mother and my brother really be trying to send me a message or a warning? I woke out of my sleep when I had this dream and my heart was pounding out of my chest!! My husband was right beside me asleep. Please help!!!
50 years ago I loved a little red haired girl while we both were in university. She broke my heart. She married another man. I hadn’t thought about her for years. The other night I had visions of her having sex with him. I about half way woke up in agony. I had this happen off and on for two weeks. Finally I said while halfway a sleep, “What do you want from me, Kathy?!!”. Suddenly she was there. There was a faint blue glow and there she was. I could feel and smell her. She said “I’m SORRY” . She sounded so sad and broken. I said “I’m sorry too.” Then I said ” It really wasn’t your fault.In the end it was my crazy father”. Just like that she was gone. Have you any idea how badly you have been hurt if you are still grieving 50 years later? I think she was using her memories to get my attention. I don’t know if she is alive or not. I have looked all over for records and found NOTHING. I think she passed and had to stop and make peace with me first. I am so sad.
I frequently dream about a guy I was in love with a long time ago and searched for j a couple times and since learned he committed suicide in 2010, iny dreams we are happy being together and in every dream we are.
I’ve been really sick, bowel problems requiring multiple major surgeries and threatening my life I’m heading into my biggest and scariest surgery yet with quite unfavourable outcomes and have been very fearful I’ve had many many surgeries and I’m usually calm and collected but this one is really playing on my mind I’m a single mother of 3 I am all they have and need to be here for them. My Aunty who was like a mother to me died of bowel cancer many years ago she came to me told me I’m having similar problems to her, hugged me, talked to me about my children particularly my daughter she told me she watches over her like she did me when I was a child, she told me when I feel that “feeling” it’s her. I’m blurry on some things I asked her about heaven and I can’t remember the answer but I feel like we spoke for ages I’ve been extra emotional since.. just crying non stop. My mother had her visit her just last week not quite as much chat but she’s definitely letting us know she is here, it’s quite amazing I’ve had people who I haven’t seen since a child dream about me and tell me god is trying to reach out to me and have had some let’s say crazy experiences but can’t quite get the message that’s being sent to me. I think it’s fear to be honest. But the last year has been a whirlwind.
My Mom passed 1 year ago. She was in the middle stages of dementia/alzheimers and was being cared for in a memory care unit. We hadn’t been able to physically see her in 7 months because of covid lockdown. She passed away at 4:30 am and that morning I was standing in her house getting some things for my Step-dad who was getting released from the hospital in an hour or so. I felt my Mom’s presence all around me. Very strong. I spoke outloud and said I loved her. At 5 am, I received the phone call. I knew what it was about before I answered.
A few days later, Mom visited me in a “dream ” it was so real. We talked. I asked her questions and she answered. She told me she wasn’t ready to die because there were things she still wanted to do. I said let’s do them. She said she can’t. They won’t allow me. She said she wasn’t in pain anymore and for me to not feel guilty and I was a good son. She said she loved me and her time with me was almost over. She told me they had let her come to me because I was hurting. A few other things were said and then she faded away in front of my eyes. I called for her, but nothing. I woke up immediately and called out for Mom. This woke my wife up and I relayed what had happened.
This visit was so real. I saw my Mom clearly as if we were standing together. After all this time. I remember the details of this visit as if it happened yesterday.
I been married 24yrs I’ve had my ups and downs with my marriage but we never left each other’s side. I been cheated on and I still stayed .my husband and I did have a lot of good times too beside what and how he treated me I still loved him. After a year my husband straightened out his life and focus on me and him .last year my husband had cancer and passed away at the age of 46 yrs old . I stayed by his side every day the only time I left was to go work .I had to make money in case to help he had no insurance or family left to help us at all So the only time I left the hospital was to work cleaning and go back to the hospital after. We basily lived
At the hospital. My husband passed away Jan 19 th 2019 and ever since I been having bad dreams about him like mixed dreams and it’s always about either he is gone and I can’t find him or he left me for someone else or I don’t know where he is so I’m filing for a divorce. Or like in another dream I found him passed out outside. I’m not sure if he is telling he doesn’t love me or he never wanted to be with me I’m so confused and hurt I have no ideal what to think. He knows I forgave him for eve the has happened in the passed . I just wish I could have some good dreams about him.
When he first passed away the same night I think he came to me because I was seeing stuff the only he would do .I do go see him a lot and I’m the beginning a butterfly landed right next to me and sat their for awhile can anybody help me figure out my bad dreams
I had a visitation dream of my deceased friend. I asked her if she was in heaven? And she said not yet. Then I woke up. I know it was a visitation since I’ve had a lot of love ones “visit me. But baffles me when my deceased friend said she wasn’t in heaven yet? What does that mean?
I’ve just had a dream about my grandma. She was sat down and when I approached her she looked radiant. She was wearing a vivid red dress and really smiling. She looked in her 50s, she passed away in her 80s.
I did hug her but she didn’t embrace back. She also had a little boy with her but I don’t know who he was.
Today is my birthday and my favourite colour is red, I think she came to me to wish me a happy birthday.
It was lovely
I had a dream it started off like a normal dream. In fact during my dream me and my husband were in a fight. However right before I woke up I remember I went into my grandparents house and my grandpa came in the door hugged me and said it’s good to be home. I woke up in tears. It felt so real. He passed away 4 months ago.
I had a dream about my mums dog she come to me in my dreams a glass of water was shacking on a table I looked up and poppy my mother’s dog was sat there looking at me it felt so real she was all grey with big brown eyes completely covered I told her to come to me but she left through 2 big glass double doors even after I woke it still seemed so real is this a visitation dream please let me know thanks.
Thank you for letting me know, lost my sister due to murder. This morning coming out of sleep, it was so clear in my dream when she was in front of me. We were talking but can’t remember what was said. I was blessed she could speak for fire burnt her from the inside out. I could see her so clearly and told me she is hom, which was the only thing I could understand after the talking, she was happy. even though taken so tragically, I then received a dream of water and animals, but I was in protection of them. Strange but somehow I know she was letting me know something. The next day her son is visiting us and his grandma since her death in 2020. I was asked to look out for him, as she requested a month before her death. I heard the sign. I will always protect him. Thank you for helping me understand the dream and why it was so clear. With gratitude
I’ve been able to control.my dreams. Every know and then. Bit last night was very weird my deceased dad showed up with my alive mom. I knew I was dream so I gave my mother a date in my dream.to see if .aybe possibly she was there with me in her own dream state with my dad. Time will tell. If she get the date wrong I still will wait for.that date and
Go from there. And not tell her. I haven’t seen my dad in my dreams in years ontop of that. So yeah very odd
Wow just landed here after a true sit straight up from a horror dream! And a google search while still slowing my heart rate and breathing down!
My parents, grandma and her parents were there, but it wasn’t a visitation I don’t think, it was Christmas at my late Nanna’s house, but turned into a weird, creepy, psychic themed, then horror day time , accidental 3 hour sleep, watching a crime case on YouTube I think!
BUT – my dad passed nearly 18 years ago (I was 31, he was just 51 – but expected, cancer unfortunately), I literally saw him, every single night… then totally out of the blue, my young mum passed suddenly almost 5 years ago, and I stopped dreaming of dad, and every dream she was there, as clear as anything…. But so much, and so real, that I can honestly say I still feel like she’s here and have not even grieved for her (we were more like best friends/close sisters, only 16 years between us). The last few years, I dream of mostly both of my parents, almost every night or day, without fail. They’re so real, they sometimes send me into a depressive spin, waking to realise they’re not here, especially mum as it was SO incredibly sudden, and no goodbyes, which is so impossible to accept (blood clot to heart after surgery) and I feel like I’ve lost her all over again (Yes, I know, I need therapy!!)
They must be “visiting” me right?? I get the odd perceived, more signs from dad than mum, and my husband who is a straight up, non believer 0f any of this stuff – has actually SEEN my dad TWICE here at my house (I’ve lived here 21 years, so pre losing both my parents) which I thought odd, as my husband and I – we dated when we were young (I was 18) and he didn’t really get to know my “all boyfriend hating dad” haha. We met again almost 8 years ago and took up where we left off in 1991!
Why would dad “appear” to him (awake) and not me? He was very close to my mum , and he gets signs ALL THE TIME from her.
I don’t get much except the dreams.
my poor little girl, she’s just turned 18, just LONGS to dream of her nanny (mum helped me raise her after my ex husband up and left after my dad died, my girl had only just turned one!)
Mums death affected her the most. She’s been in and out of hospital with severe depression since she was just 13. She just wants SOMETHING from nanny, and given that they both used to say to me – that they loved each other, just a little bit more than they loved me (Gee thanks!) I wonder why my poor girl has had no signs or dreams from her beloved nanny (she still talks about her every day as if she was here and it breaks my heart how much it’s ruined her teenage years…….
And to make things worse, just 6 weeks ago, my step dad (nanny’s second husband – and my girls Poppy as she was barely 2 when mum and he met – we went over to him to do a welfare check, he’s been reclusive for the last 2 years, we found him deceased and decomposing at home for at least a week. (No we didn’t see him) We’re all heartbroken but my girl seems kind of ok…. I’m just waiting for it to actually hit her, he’s the only Poppy/grandpa and stable male figure in her whole life and they were also incredibly close, especially after my mum died. That’s someone literally dying of a broken heart and I’m so scared how this might really tip Miss 18 over the edge, just as she was getting her life on track- finished school a semester early (3 months) and started a full time job this week until she starts studying to become a social worker. All she wants to do it help kids like her who have grown up with depression , abandonment and sadness…….
Sorry for rambling , post dream still waking up trying to get all these thoughts out! Would welcome any ideas, suggestions for my 18 year old. I’m nearly 50 now, I’ll deal with it in my own way, even if that means denial forever, but she’s got her life ahead of her……
My Mother came to me in my dream.
She laid next to me in my bed although I couldn’t see her . But I could touch her hand .. Asked her what was wrong she said she was going into second phase..
I keep dreaming the same dream that my deceased husband comes back to me and our girls but in my dream I talk to him of course and so excited to see him… But I always end up trying to get in touch with my current boyfriend telling him I miss him and want him to come back to me. Can you please explain this to me. It is happening often.
I need answers! My husband grandmother passed away 13yrs and i was dreaming about her, what does it mean?
Last night, my 12 year old daughter took a shower and saw a black shadow behind her in the mirror. She was so scared she came to me crying. That night, I dreamed of my cousin who died about 10 years ago, was my childhood friend growing up, and he seemed happy. We would always work on bikes together, at one point he had an”bike shop” in his garage when he was 11, and worked on them together. Anyways, In the dream, he was younger looking (died at age 20 but looked younger, appeared taller and older, riding a bike). He seemed happy. I was telling someone something about him that applied to the context of the dream, when he rode by on his bike. I don’t remember him saying anything, but I introduced him to this friend, and hugged him. He appeared happy and at peace. The dream switched over to something else and I didn’t see him again, but it left me with a feeling of him being happy, at peace, and me crying when I woke up. I don’t know what to think but I’m going to take away the important of him being at peace, happy, and remember the best parts about him. I wish it meant something more and maybe time will tell, but that was what I felt at that moment in time. Now, I am wondering if my daughter saw him before I dreamed of him,
I jus had a visitation dream jus now I woke up and it was an aunt. I felt like if I would have opened my eyes sooner she would have been standing there. She was so beautiful, young omg! Jus to tell u she looked so beautiful like when I first seen my aunt at a very young age. Either way in my dream she asked me about some rings I was looking at. I told her yeah!’ I’m thinking about this ring. She was like nice. Did u know that ring there will have u choose any loved one that has passed. I’m thinking what!? She said yes u can choose anyone in ur life that has passed and it will bring them bk to u. I was trying to jus grasp what she was saying. I started think I can’t jus choose one. I have 4 kids that passed, my aunts ofc and my cousins Red that what we called him. I looked at her and she had the sweetest smile. I ended up waking up it was so real I could feel the hug and the poking at my arm.
My younger sister died just a few weeks ago After a15 month battle With cancer.“I had a dream about my sister last night. We were sitting at a round table it was her younger self. She had short dark hair. We were holding hands across the table. I asked her is this was real or just a dream, she only smiled didn’t answer me. Then She was arguing with someone said that the ultra sound wasn’t good enough a ct scan was better then she opened her purse and pulled out these red candies (looked like her iron pills)and nudged me to take them. Then I was trying to nurse a baby and I told her I couldn’t and she was nodding approvingly like I was doing ok when I was obviously struggling. Then my phone beeped it was a text from Andrew her son which woke up . Such a vivid dream She was beautiful ”
Good clarity..I feel very close to my granny we share the same birthday as does my daughter. I was thinking of granny during the week and she was visited my dream last night..thank you for helping me to know this
Right after my mother died of heart problems, I had 3 dreams/ connections with her. It was amazing. She appeared old and sick and I was hugging her. As I was hugging her, I heard her voice coming from a different direction. I turned and there she was young and healthy in a very pink aura? Another dream I felt her hug me. Yes there was a bird afterwards. Just a few examples of what I encountered!
I had a dream i was walking with someone but I couldn’t see the person . and we went to my deceased friends house, the door was open and it was dark when u walked inside it had those plastic fly things on the door it was clear coloured. anyway the house was bare besides a couch in the lounge room the couch was a copper brown colour and my friends was cream, outside the back door was 3 dolls the size of a one or two year old baby .with tan skin they all where wearing purple island dresses with white flowers on them. and where leaning against wall covering there eyes with hands when I walked up to them they started to move there legs and eyes etc I quickly left the property
I had a visitation dream on 12/12/2018 (my 48th birthday) from my late husband. When he passed we weren’t on the best of terms. He had been deceased for 19 years at the time he came to visit me. Although I have dreamt of him over the years…this was very different…he was there talking to me. He told me I needed to forgive him so I could let go of the pain and hurt and to go on with my life happy. He was warning me in a sense of what was happening in my present life. He was so clear. I forgave him and that moment and I have been able to mourn hi. All of my memories of him came back. I look for him daily now. I miss him so much and I truly forgave him that night and I pray he comes back.
I have a story too tell. These are all greats happenings. My father died new years. Day at 357 am. I was 14. Now im 46. I was woke in the am i looked at my clock and it was 357 am. Pitch black room then in front of ne my vision was filled with Gold and white shimmering light . like sparks in a tunnel flying towards me I couldn’t move or speak. Someone was in that i new. It lasted a minute or so and then i just remember gasping g ad it released. Me. My mom came in my room a few hours later woke me up told me that you have something to tell me but I looked at her before she say anything and I said I know my dad died she turned white as a ghost how could how could you know that because she just had got the call it wasn’t a dream I was wide awake I’ve been wondering what is All About Eyes as if anybody else has gone through that I sure would like to talk to them about it
I’m so glad I found this information. I fell asleep for 15-20 minutes. Had a dream of visiting a sick person I new from my job. I didn’t know she was in a slight coma. Two weeks later I saw her, she walked pass my office, came back thanking me for saving her life. I looked confused, she said, you came to me while I was sick. You were sitting in a chair quietly, we didn’t talk but you were there. I said, no, that didn’t happen? Then it came to me, that it did happened. She just kept thanking me for saving her life. I’ll never forget this connection and just wondering if I’ll ever experience this again. Or if I have but haven’t had anyone to come back and tell me. This happened about 15 years ago. The lady is still alive to this day at 107. In the past, those that I have lost come and visit me time to time. All I can say is, it’s amazing what our mind, heart’s and souls can do. If we truly believe and put our trust deep within ourselves. My saying is, stay true to you and watch what miracle happens in due time. Stay Blessed.
Wow losted my partner Mark his frunal was last Thursday I dreamt about mark so so clearly in the dream but I couldn’t believe mark was in my dream so quickly after sudden death
I just want to know more about this
I found this heartwarming meant so much to me as I’ve had these visits from my son my daughter as well as a loved partner of my first child my mother and sometimes my father.i often wonder why not my father so much .thank you .charlotte Marguerite browne.
I had a visitation dream last night, my mom had a still birth. my baby brother passed away 10weeks ago I never met him, I did see pictures of him. 7 days ago I got his little foot print tattooed on my arm, and last night I closed my eyes and saw his face but grown up as a new born as what he would’ve looked like now if he was born. He was coming towards me and crying, I could see in his watery brown eyes that he was upset. He was wrapped up in a hospital baby blanket. Then minutes later after I opened my eyes n closed them again I saw him but so much more clearer and this time he was coming towards me faster and screaming crying I could see his little nose scrunched up and his little cheeks all red from crying. I wasn’t scared but I couldn’t understand what it meant. Today marks the 10weeks since he passed. His due date was October 16th and that’s the day me and my mom got his foot print tattooed.
I have had several visitation dreams and I love every one of them. I recently fell and hurt myself and she came to me three nights in a row. I know she was concerned about me. What a wonderful feeling to wake up and know she was there.
My best friend just lost her closet family friends mom who she was very close to. She told me about a dream she just had last night with her in it. In the dream she asked if my best friend wanted to see how she died and she said okay and she went to open up a laptop to show her, but people kept coming by or passing them during the dream which would immediately caused the person who passed to close the laptop.
What could this mean?
I had a definite visitation dream of my deceased daughter and my deceased boyfriend I was with for 10 years. I feel confused.
I had a dream like I was in a store line about to check out. But I didn’t, I walk out the line and my cart was push out the line and taken back. I went to look for my cart but never found it. I saw my dad who pass away 9 years ago standing a a look like gift wrap and balloons stans. Waving at me holding a pink gift bag smiling and Waving. And a lady gave me a big gift bag with balloons on it read you’re number 1 .and a number 1 balloons all on it.. my dad looked so happy and excited trying to give me another gift bag. Wonder what is it he trying to tell me or give me.
We lost my dad 9 years ago in 2012 very suddenly and I have never had a visitation dream from him until last night. October 13 we lost my brother. He had some mental issues and turned to alcohol. This particular time he had been falling and had hit his head numerous times which caused swelling and a severe brain bleed. We have all felt so guilty thinking we could’ve done more to help him. As I lay down to sleep last night my dad came to me clear as day and said “sheli, it’s not your fault, it’s not anyone’s fault. I need you to tell them that.” My dad always knew what to say to make you feel better and was always correct in what he had to say. I can’t tell u how comforting it was to hear his voice and reassure my mom, sister and myself that it wasn’t our fault.
My deceased aunt came to me in a dream. I was at a job working in a conference room. She showed up at the job and a receptionist brought her into the room because she came looking for me. She looked beautiful but she could not speak, kind of tearful and she was kind of weak. In life she was a strong willed person. When she got to me she handed me an envelope and hugged me so tight. I could feel how tight it was and I wouldn’t let her go either. I suddenly woke up but I could still feel that closeness and that tight feeling. I felt like she may have been coming to get me. Several people who have been in my life have recently passed and my health is not the best. That was my thought. My friends didn’t think so.
My mum passed away 5 months ago. 2 days after she died, I had a “dream”. I was in a room with a large window through which I could see black space and stars. I didn’t initially see mum, but knew she was with me in the room. I immediately panicked because it felt so real, and told her that “no, this is too much..this is too real”, almost as if I was blaming her. I could then see her. She gave me a smile with an eye brow raised..that look she always gave me when she thought I was worrying too much. She was dressed in a white robe, but I could see she had a scar on her chest, which after the dream I thought strange (as she hadn’t had a mastectomy), until I remembered she had a pacemaker and they would have removed that prior to the cremation. Mum then hugged me (or at least it went dark, but I felt we were hugging) and she said “thank you for looking after me and Heidi”. Heidi is her dog that she adored, and I am now looking after her. The moment she said Heidi, I woke up and immediately started to cry. I know it was mum…it was great that she made contact with me…I’m so thankful…I hope she comes and visits me again…next time I won’t be so shocked,
I am 68. My mom died 10 years ago and my dad 20 years ago. We was a very close family. Just the three of us.
I have had several dreams or visitations, of them in the background. I was trying to get to their house or trying to call them but couldn’t. Their presence in my dreams are becoming clearer. They are always silent but I feel they are with me. Kinda looking over me. I want to remember these visitations and learn from them. I want to communicate with them.
My brother was found unconscious by me in my house he was taken to the hospital that night I freed he came to my house and he was begging for me to let him in and I wouldn’t and then something dark came and took him dragging him away and I couldn’t help him. Later we were told that his brain was dead just his stem was all that was working he died 10 days later. He hasn’t came to me since. What did that mean?
I have a friend that his uncle has been coming to him and it’s not a dream because he sees him clearly.I just explained to him before I read this that he’s trying to tell you something.Be aware what he’s doing more closely ask him what he wants.Now my friends father’s ill and I believe he’s uncle is preparing him by opening the door all the time when he sees him that his father’s going to go through the door soon.After reading what you wrote it seems I might be right.I believe in spirit.Ive seen my grandmother when I was thirteen.When she passed she actually calledy mom told her she be fine and loved her.My mother talked half hour to her hung up the phone and the hospital called right away to day my grandmother had passed a half hour ago.Myother was never spiritual to that day and my grandmother was gone but she called my mother to say goodbye.Im so interested in all this.I believe also that I’m a bit phychic I’ve been hearing himmin alot and I’ve recorded sitting in my apt spoken out loud seen orbs come and heard voices on my recording I’m opening up.Thank u
I just woke and remembered that my deceased mother in law talked to me. She passed away almost one year ago. Husband and I couldn’t attend her funeral due to covid19 travel restriction.
In the dream she said my father in law is dying soon from heart attack. I asked her how did she know and she said her teacher/master told her about it. My father in law is still a healthy person . I am not sure if this dream is a warning message.
I had a old deceased girlfriend come to me when I was asleep. She ran her hands all over my head
We had a torrid love affair for two months then she went to France to school and never came back.
My mom has been dead 8 yrs. I ve never not once dreamed of her. Our relationship was never great, I was severely abused and given up for adoption to my grandmother. She came to me in spirit form like a dog, then slowly mirrored her physical image she put her hands on my face and looked me dead in my eye. Boom gone.
I had a visitation from my mother it felt so real we talked we cried and hugged my heart was pounding she told me she was ok she was with my grandparents her brother and sister she said she would come back to see me one day she said it might not be for awhile but she would be back i dont know how real this was but i woke up sat upright in bed and my cheeks were wet from crying it really felt amazing and she had a beautiful glow about her she looked just as she did before she got sick
I had a dream of my deceased grandparents. All of my brothers were with us and it was a great time. They seemed very happy The. I remember gazing out of my window and the nyc skyline was there and I could see all the city movement.
Dream my dead brother came out of a room said dad keeps talking to me( dad is alive) followed him to another room where he and my dad were having a conversation, the kicker was both my brother and dad both had my dad’s face
My son passed about a month ago. He was partially disabled and in poor health and needed a knee scooter to get around. A couple days after I had a short dream that he was standing in the hallway next to my office and was healthy with his hair nicely combed and nice clothes’ on. I said “you can’t be here your are dead” and looked at me and smiled. I felt he was telling me he was OK now.
ok so I dreamed of my dead grandpa and the only thing he said was what are you doing in the playful tone he used to always use when saying it and I showed him that there was a trap door leading into another living room and as soon as I looked back up he was gone and a toy was playing music and slowly being pushed off the table in my dream I said I’m tired of this stupid ghost sh*t and right after that I woke up I live with my bf and his family and they are mediums so I can understand why I said I’m done with the ghost stuff but still I need to know if that was my grandpa sending me a message or just visiting me bc I saw him clear as day while everyone else was sort of blurred out my grandpas birthday was two days ago and I dreamed about him yesterday while I was taking a nap
Why is it that most of my dreams with my beloved husband we are arguing? Why can’t I see his face? I could hear his voice but I just wish I could see his face.
Ok so I had a dream rite before I woke up last night that I was standing in a building by a door wat my boyfriend was out front of the building I could see him through the glass door a women came u an stood next to me an said I’m Kaitlyn please say hi for me then I wke up an just knew Kaitlyn wanted me to yell my bf hi..so I ask my boyfriend if he knew so.eone that passed named Kaitlyn he initially said no I described what she looked like come to find out he had an aunt Kaitlyn that died 5 years ago an that’s what she looked like. I had no clue he even had an aunt katlyn do u think this was her way or saying hi..or it’s just a crazy made up dream?
My friend who died just over 2 years ago came to me very vividly in a dream last night. She looked beautiful, all made up and confident. I was shocked and said “What are you doing here?” She replied “It’s easy!”. What does this mean?
Thank you, Charlotte
My deceased wife visited me in this manner and was very real and vivid. When I was younger though I had two dreams that seemed to be just as real of two people I’ve never met, one was Barbara Eden and the other is Cyndi Lauper. Is it possible that minds in the dream state can meet others also in a dream state and interact with one another?
I had a visitation dream, my grandad who passed away due to medical error and who I was really close with came to me. He was standing outside my house. I could see him clearly, I could see that he looked as going as he did before he fell ill, and was wearning his favorite clothes. I asked him why I didn’t get scared as my first reaction when I saw him all in person knowing he passed. He said that if you love somebody, you don’t get scared and its natural. Then we exchanged few sentences and before he left he said that I have to do something but he didn’t say what. And then he said he doesn’t have a lot of time. And I felt as if it meant he will disappear and won’t be able to connect with us? As of reincarnate? Me and him both believed in reincarnation. Please tell me what I means, I don’t know what I have to do and I’m scared for him.
A few weeks ago my mom came to me in a dream. We were in my childhood home and I kept hearing her call my name to help me move the furniture. She always told us she was never going to leave that house. I don’t think she likes what the new owners have done to the home. She looked so wonderful. I was so happy to see her!
I had a dream about my BestFriend who was killed by gun violence 2 months ago , I’ve never felt pain like this in my life , we always used to joke around about who was the better driver between us and i had been telling him about how i used to always have strange dreams of just random sentences that stuck with me, One day shortly after his death i had become very emotional while driving and told him that if he ever wanted to hang out again that my passenger seat is always open , in my dream i was driving down a long straight road and by BestFriend was in my passenger seat , it was weird because he gave me a Warning not to return to another “Friend” of mines house , i also remember saying “its crazy that your still alive , what would have happened if they killed you”. It turns out the”Friends” house he told me to avoid ended up being the ones that murdered him . Pay attention to your dreams this world works in mysterious ways our human minds will never be able to fully grasp.
My grandson passed away three weeks ago.. he came to his mom and said he was ok and gave her a huge hug! She also had nightmares in between what does this mean?
I often visit my dead grandparent while lucid dreaming, and most of the times when i go to find him, there are some difficulties in my path until i reach him in his bed as always sometimes standing but more usual he is on the bed sleeping and I have to hurry up because of the difficulties in my path that my fake evil grandmother in dream puts in my way like ghosts or monsters or just this fake spirit that appear as my grandmother(that still alive and she believes too much in God-orthodox and i am okay with her in real life-i don’t know why she is bad in my dreams and wants the bad for me and my grandfather – that he is dead-while dreaming of course.I think because it is just a spiritual form of entity that has to play a role in my dreams-it happened to be a bad character spirit or whatever that is. Because i am lucid dreaming, i often try to avoid her in my dreams to see my dead grandfather in the bed and i say to him that it’s me and he says i know. Other times older times i asked him if he was in paradise and he told yes every time i asked him in different old dreams. But because of the enviroment that i see him in dreams is pathed with monsters or that fake grandma spirit that she says to me that i am not allowed to see him every time when that happens and i sometimes in old times-3 years only time he is dead but okay-i see his eyes missing, one time his half entire arm was missing and i found it and he said hey thx that is mine give to me.. or he is fine but he says to me that she that evil entity that she almost killed him in my dreams yes i know how that is happening but i saw fear in his eyes.. But in dreaming logic is not always necessary. It is always like that. Also i told them that i know that i am dreaming and she said to me how do you know- that evil fake grandma entity-and since from then she is trying hard to push me away from seeing my granddad, only a few time she allowed me to see him without that hatred.
Another part is that my whole family is in my dreams but i believe that my granddad is real because he showed me in which room someday to know where i would always find him,and also when i visit him in the bed in my dreams as always i always i ask him if he is really him and he says to me always yes i am the real one. Because in some of my dreams there were 4 versions of him that were in different rooms but they were just other entities with my grandad form. But when i found the real one by asking are you my granddad and he said to me yes, he was happy to see me and i always find him there sleeping in the bed most of the times. Yes of course in dreaming. I usually wake him up to see if he is good or if the evil entity has punish him for no reason and after that is that i kill her with a vaze or knife or anything i find in my dream easily but she respawns everytime until my next dream and that is bad. Ah… Never will be at peace to see my dead grandparent easily through lucid dreaming mostly.Ahhhh. Unfair life also in dreaming…
At first when i told them that i am lucid dreaming that evil grandma entity and when my grandad tell me that he is punished for no reason yes while dreaming of course,i get anything i found on my dreams enviroment and i use it to kill those entities. I did that when the fake evil grandma entity was with some other people that i didn’t know or seen ever. I tried to kill them but then they leave my family members and were like black shadow spirits like always they don’t die but re form, they are many in many room of my house in my dreams and they are re spawned until my next dream.
Dreams what you can say all about me is weird in dreams. Also i recently lucid dreamt about myself to be the flash through a dream and felt so good. I was with a villaim and i was saying 4 quatrillion speed and cooldown speed and i was like having unlimited faze through walls and speed and i fazed once in a wall to escape through a nightmare. Other time i was spider man and was shooting spiderweb or electric spiderweb. – I was dreaming for one year that i can fill myself with electricity and shoot it from my hands yeah that reminds of black lightning hero hehe lol but that is what dreamt.
All in all, those are great fellings escaping through nightmares and make them dreams. I love lucid dreaming but it happened when my granddad died 3 years before. I didn’t see him when he was in hospital and i think that is the real reason for letting me vissiting him in my dreams.
I had a dream last night that I saw my grandma. I was her first and favorite grandchild and after 10 months her loss has still been so very hard for me and it’s been really hard for me to accept that she’s gone. But last night she was in my dream and we both cried and we hugged. I asked if she was in heaven and saw her parents and her sister and she cried more and told me yes. She also told me she’s been watching me and my grandpa a lot too. I feel like this was some closure and something I’ve needed for quite some time. I’m actually crying writing this. I have always wondered if she was in a good place and she was at ease. I’ll never forget this moment. ❤
My husband and I were very close. He passed away on my birthday Aug 28th, just a little more than 3 months ago. I have only had one dream about a month after he passed. It was very vivid. He and I were sitting at the table in the kitchen, and I ask him did he remember the day he died. He answered me but it was garbled and I could not understand him. I pretended to understand him to keep from hurting his feelings. I then ask him was he in pain when he died, again he answered, but it was garbled and I could not understand him. I then woke up and was so devastated that I could not understand him…What does this mean?
Wow! This is EXACTLY what happened to me over several nights with my ex-husband who passed away. He came to me many times, slowly, then it was like he was right there with me. We hugged, kissed and I didn’t want it to end. I woke briefly and said no, please don’t leave and fell back to sleep and things picked up right where they left off. After awhile it became too painful for me because I didn’t understand why he was coming to me now especially since he cheated on me, walked out of our marriage and ended up marrying this person. I told him to leave me alone and not come back. After that he would drift in every now and then but eventually he didn’t return. It was difficult and I missed him but it was just too much for me. It’s been over 10 years but I still love him and a big part of me always will. I haven’t been able to have another relationship since. He never gave a reason for leaving but told me he still loved me. Anyway, I don’t know what he died from but my first visits were of him limping and that’s all I know. I’m really glad I inadvertently found your site. I’m a Christian and I know this is not something they support but what you described happened to me.
I have had visitation dreams with my mom, but the last couple of nights, more than one relative to part in dreams where we were ourselves, but didn’t communicate the I miss you’s. It was like we were playing parts in a dream. Buying puppies, enjoying a drive, checking in on my sleeping grandchildren. It’s confusing because I remember the dream vividly but it was very different than former ones that I knew were solely visitations. The addition of other departed relatives was also surprising. Still thinking about it tonight and wondering if I’ll experience a 3rd dream that continues the others.
Do sleep aids help or hinder visitation dream potential? Melatonin activates the pineal gland, which is supposed to be a 3rd eye vision kind of thing, right? But I sleep so fitfully I’m wondering if that’s why I haven’t had visits. Opinions?
Thanks.
DJ
I had a dear friend on a ventilator in the hospital with COVID-19, shortly after his admittance I had a dream that was so real I could dictate my actual thoughts into words. For most of my adult life I don’t recall ever having dreams probably because of my drug use through all these years. Here is the dream I had a few days before the machine keeping him alive was disconnected. He breathed on his own for an hour but never regained awareness and his body officially died, though the doctors said he was really dead days before the machine was unplugged. “Start dream now” a wide mass of dark blackish gray shadowy figures were all travelling in one direction neither up or down but across from where I stood still and then away from me. I don’t know that time was something measured here but I had been watching long enough to be noticed by one shorter shadow that stopped in front of me and came into focus for me to see a preteen black girl with hazel eyes lift her hand to point at me then said”Dead people like you have been helping my family for a long, long time”. To which confusion I could almost feel spread across my face and for a fact in my mind. I had actual control of the course of my response, and this is it “What do you mean, dead people like me?” This is when I really focus on her face with all my attention upon studying her face as I was saying this response i asked her. So after I asked “What do you mean dead people like me?” Her little face went from expressionless to completely displaying surprise or shock immensely. Immediately there after her eyes went from normal hazel within white to brightly shining golden orbs where her eyes had been. Then rapidly the gleaming almost pulsating almost blinding living golden orbs went from the size of her beautiful eyes to transforming into two golden orbs that took all my field of vision. All was gone or hidden behind the golden orbs. That is it and when I woke I didn’t even think about it or feel like it changed my normal pattern of waking up from sleeping good. Later that day in the evening taking about my friend to two other friends, something said made the dream come suddenly into like oh yeah guys well listen to this dream I had last night. After not thinking about it once all day long. My friend who passed is a white male 65 years old with a long history of drug use and being a hell raising, fighting, immoral outlaw who changed completely to someone I proudly called my friend. Her did all the work and he alone is responsible for his 180. But am fairly certain it wouldn’t have happened had I not entered his life and showed him there is still good people in this world and in the circle of addiction. Where it’s a dog eat dog world with very few exceptions to this rule of practicing addicts. And this one knew his pay and still was his friend with no judgement on his past Which Was Really Really Bad. He told me one day because of me he had confidence in his self again. He said he was a guardian and maybe I was too butt he wasn’t sure. He told others I was his very dearest and best friend and I know he meant it. I’m fighting for my eternal life as we speak
I had a dream of my dead auntie who gave me 2 gifs a picture frame of a unknown child and a kitchen dark blue apron was so
Strange anyone who knows what that mean I’d appreciate it
The love of my life passed last year from cancer. Although we did not end up together I always thought of him as my soul mate. And he was deeply shy and had commitment problems each time we ran into each other the chemistry was still obvious. Since passing I have had several dreams about him I see him clear can still describe what he was wearing in each dream. He looks fantastic a lot of the time the dreams are regarding his mother who stays next block from me. I always have and always will loved him. What does this mean?
Thank you .I so needed to read this
I wrote a depressing poem short after dream I was in my grandma house she passed away 1 year ago with a cousin I have been worried about and a nephew I have also been worried about. In the dream my cousin is mourning my grandma loss my nephew is being supportive
My grandma spirit is in the room but I’m the only one who can see talk to her but she was talking to me be she knew I could see her she followed us around the house even to a small church that’s across the street where a priest was waiting for me to do the honor and cut a ribbon or something for a church BBQ. But on the grill was a small that was prepared for church BBQ
I can’t remember the rest of the dream I woke up
I’m sorry on the grill was a big
snake, my grandma was not talking in the dream
I really do hope you can help me. My mother in law passed away recently. I dreamt about her last night that she came into my room and prayed and I heard her saying to help me make peace and understand. I than got of my bed in my dream and asked her if she’s going to heaven she just shook her head no so I asked if she’s with her parents once again just shook her head no so I started crying asking where is she going cos my
Mind went to one place but she shook her head no again but now that I’m awake I have the feeling she didn’t want answer that question and acted weird as if she’s not allowed to answer that. In my dream she also said about getting rid of a mattress.
What can this possibly mean
I found my husband passed away two days before Christmas from what they say is a suicide but I don’t think he did it on purpose, we was very happy and he is my true soul mate. Anyway I was just nodding off to sleep trying to fight it and I felt like both his hands was on my face and he whispered my name and told me he loves me then slowly appeared right in front of my face which scared me and I woke up then I had another one even more scary like I felt a gunshot in a way he may have and saw blackness and felt myself falling. I don’t know if I’m losing my entire mental state from this loss or if it was actually real.
My sister call me crying saying that my mother in law came to her in a dream and wanted her to give me and my husband a message that she was so proud of us and that she loved us. In her dream my mother in law was trying to talk to my husband who was also in my sister dream but she couldn’t reach out to him. So she ask my sister to give us her message. This sent chills down my spine hearing this . I often wonder if she like me as a daughter in law.
Thank you
I never met my maternal grandmother not even seen a picture of her she died when my mom was a teen. I always asked my mom about her I wanted to know as much as possible about her she would tell me stories about her. I loved my grandmother so much that I named my first born after her. At he time of the “dream “ I was 9 months pregnant with baby number 4 due in 3 weeks. “The dream” : I’m in the living room of my childhood home and my grandmother is their Im so excited to see her that I start telling her how much I have been wanting to meet and talk to her. She holds me by my arm and we start walking out the front door and down the street we walk and I just keep talking about how excited I’m to finally met as we keep walking hand in hand . We get to the end of the block she turns to me and puts her hand on my belly. And with no words she “tells me everything will be alright” I feel so much joy and love and suddenly I wake up. I could still feel her warmth and love I start to crying overcome by so many emotions. That morning I get the news that my brother died that night. I tell my mom that her mom came to me in my dream last night to let us know everything was going to be okay. I gave birth to a health baby two days after my brothers funeral.
Some days I get sad because my brother never met my daughter and then I remember about my grandmother she came to me to send her love and we had never met.. so he must know her and love her and protect her just like my grandmother has always protected me.
I don’t want y’all to think I’m crazy but I have dreams where i can tell what’s gonna happen like death or pregnancy and other things. When your having a dream about love ones that have passed away be careful because it can be someone or something that will harm you sometimes you can tell if it’s really them DO NOT let them touch you that’s one thing you never do
I think I’ve had a few visitations by my mother. She passed away a year ago, The first one was the night after she passed. She died suddenly after falling, she was placed into a coma and they found cancer in her brain and her lungs and she passed a few days later. The night after I had a weird dream. As I was slipping into sleep I floated without a body through my parent’s house. I heard her voice but couldn’t hear what she said. I looked to the chair and she was sitting facing my father, just watching him and didn’t seem to notice me at first. I glided (I couldn’t control my direction or movements) until I was near her and she was younger-looking, her eyes were such a beautiful blue, but there were no emotions, I would describe it the same way someone looks when they’re in shock. She must have sensed me and she suddenly snapped her head around and looked up directly looking into my eyes and then I felt myself being pulled back and I woke up. One week later I took a daytime nap and during this time I was dreaming as usual with random nonsense and then I was pulled into a white ordinary room that had a white table, and across from me was my mother, at first I didn’t look at her and she asks “What happened?” I explained to her that she fell and she lost the ability to talk and move her right side and they had found cancer throughout her brain and lungs. I suddenly looked at her as I realized she had spoken to me and she watched me for a little while and then I was thrown back into random dreams, I woke up when I tried to go back to the white room.
The next time I had a dream of her, I was observing her like I wasn’t there, and she was coughing blood into the tissue and hiding it. then I walked into her room and I saw her tissue and told her I was taking her to the hospital. I woke up to find my daughter standing against the wall like she was letting someone pass through my bedroom door, and I asked her what she was doing. She explained that she felt something coming towards her out of my room and it spooked her so she moved out the way.
I had a weird dream after that, but I’m not sure if she was trying to tell me that a family friend had passed, it was weird but the next day we were informed this friend had passed away and when I reflected on the dream, everything connected to this family friend, the “voice” in my head told me “the man doesn’t live here anymore.” during the dream, but I didn’t think anything of it except a weird dream.
The most recent dream was with both my parents (my father is still alive). In the dream, we are aware that my mum is terminal with cancer and she didn’t have much time left, we are in a room that I’ve never seen before, it’ is warm and cozy, like a cottage room. My mum and dad are resting on a fold-out sofa bed, and She looks content and peaceful, not in pain, she’s simply observing, I tell her I need to go and I lean down to hug her and say goodbye, and she pulls me down in a loving way and kisses me (I don’t remember a time she’s ever done that to me, maybe as a young child, I don’t know.) then smiles when I said “Bye, mum” the dream then slips away gently and I woke up in a weird soft way that never happens. I felt content like I finally got to say goodbye to her and she was there to hear it unlike when she was in the coma, since her passing I have always held that sadness of not being able to say goodbye while she’s conscious. Now though, I feel a peace over me and I feel that my mum knew I needed that closure, that time with her. Boy, this is so long!
My grandfather just passed last night. The night before I had a dream about him, but it was quickly followed by a nonsense dream about work and the memory of the work dream stuck over the memory of my grandfather. I think it was a very caring dream, in which he was telling me he loved me. It hit me so hard I was on edge all morning thinking I would get the call that he’d passed, but he didn’t pass until almost 24hrs later. He had Parkinson’s and from talking to family members he was I guess in an almost coma-like sleep since Monday. Hospice was just giving him morphine to alleviate his pain.
When I was 9 and my dad died, I had a similar thing happen. My dad hadn’t spoken to me on the phone in 2 years, and he hadn’t seen me in 4. I don’t know if we knew he died the next day, but I do know it hit me that I’d had the dream concurrently. The dream with my grandfather particularly impacted me because of how this happened with my dad. I’ve been trying to wrap my head around what happened all day today.
I lost my best friend to suicide, 7 1/2 years ago… every dream I have with her in it is essentially the same. I’m missing her, I’m with others who love and miss her too, and towards the end of the dream she enters the dream as if she had never passed away, but had to leave…but couldn’t successfully stay away and was coming back/home as to reveal we never lost her. That she’s been alive this whole time! And the last dream I had, as we hugged and couldn’t let each other go…she just kept saying over and over through the tears, “I’m sorry, I never wanted to go …so I came back “ everything about her seems more real then my own flesh…but everything else is such a blur when I try to remember anything.
What if it is a negative dream interaction? I seem to be having these with my deceased husband.
I had a dream that my dead father was going to buy me a cancer jacket for Christmas, it was a very nice jacket and I liked it a lot, but they told me they were made for people with cancer, I said I don,t know how anyone would know the difference. it was just a very nice jacket, and my father said well than I will get you one for Christmas.
My daughter recently took her own life out of no where. We have our reservations on wether the boyfriend had part in her death but regardless I have dreamt of her twice. In clear view…. This last time though I was laying in my bed sleeping (in my dream) when she comes in with a pillow case and I ask her what is in it and she throws a bird on me …. I cover my head with the blankets but I could feel this bird moving around on my head she did this three times in a row ….at first I was scared and then towards the end we were both giggling about it. …. She knows I don’t like animals. … Just wondering what this could mean and I sure would appreciate any feedback please . Thank you
I have never met my grandmother on father’s side. Family I dont know. I dont know what most of them look like. I had a dream my grandmother really wanted to meet me and we somehow arranged a meeting. I dreamed she walked up to me and gave me a big tearful hug and said she had always wanted to meet me. Did she pass and able to finally come see me. I dont know.
My dad passed away and about 6 months after he passed I had a visit. It was so strange because I remember laying down to take a nap and then I was walking into our dining room. My mom was sitting there, looking at me with a smirk on her face, and I looked over and there was my dad. He was 20 years old wearing his Army uniform. He was so handsome! I walked over to him and gave him a giant hug kissed his cheek and I said, ” Dad what are you doing here?” and he said, ” Shhhh no one is supposed to know”. He giggled I told him I loved him then walked back to my room. I woke up and I had to actually go to the dining room to check and see if he was still there. I could feel him I could smell his cologne….It was the most beautiful thing I have ever experienced. I miss him so much,
While sleeping I woke upto a woman huming a haunting tune. Can you explain what this ment. And why was it only myself who heard it
Hi i have had my visits in my sleep mostly from my uncle but last night i had a visit from a soldier from the civil war how do i know it was the civil war i saw he was wearing a confederate uniform and a cap only reason i had an idea of his uniform is i used to watch war movies with my dad when i was younger. Anyway we didn’t have a long conversation he asked me where is wife was he looked lost and confused even though he was on a battle field has i could see dead soldiers on the field. I have know idea what this means im not spooked by this visit has its not the first visit ive had i have woken up with a crowd of people around me whether im still dreaming i couldn’t tell you but all i could hear was whispering and then they left. I would really like someone to explain this to me.
I was napping with my grandson and I ended up in a living room/dining room. My mom was at the table and my cousin’s husband was in the dining room. He saw me and came towards me and asked.”Nikki let me see your grandson. ” I woke up because it was so strange but not scary. Was it real?
My grandfather on my dad’s side died when I was 5. At the time my sister was three months old and he was very fond of her. I have never dreamt of him before as I was very young when he died, my recollection of him is very limited. I am 38 now and a dad to a beautiful 18month old daughter.
Yesterday I dreamt of my grandfather: we were in our living room, he was on the floor playing with my daughter. He got up, looked at me, said “I enjoy and love Ivy-Ann very much!” turned to the door, opened it and was gone. Then I woke to an overwhelming sense of calm (and a smattering of longing). My cousin and I spoke about it at length and are convinced that he had a message specifically for me. I have tenuous connections to him by a socket set which he gave my father (my father in turn gave it to me), his silver pocket watch and his whisky hipflask. He was also a builder and I happen to be an architect.
To be honest, I rarely thought of him while growing up, save for the very few find memories that I do have of him. Even though I strongly feel and believe that I was visited by him, I would like to hear the opinions of others more knowledgeable than I.
My grandmother passed away a few weeks ago she was 91. She came to me in a dream last night on Feb. 3rd and she was happy. We were on what looked like a cruise ship and she had on a black sundress and a big floppy black and white hat and she said to me she was on vacation. I found it odd because she never took a cruise or vacation when she was here on earth. I just remember the hug she gave me and it was so sweet and smelled like her perfume. My grandfather passed in 2008 and he visited me once at he and my granny’s old house. He was standing in the front door looking out and he had on his overalls and the sun hit him so that he just shined and he said “Ash I’m alright” My mom, she left in 2013 and has also visited me a few times and each time she looks happy and healthy and she will always hug me or tell me she is ok. In real life she used to always smell sweet potatoes cooking and I would tell her she was crazy I didn’t smell anything, and I thought perhaps that was someone at that time talking to her.. well now I smell them randomly and I know it is her… it can’t be a coincidence that all 3 have visited me. I was very close to them all. I miss them so much. The world is so lonely without them… I get happy when I see white lights dancing on the walls because I know it’s one of them.. more than likely my grandad ..
July 2000 my mom passed and it was just a week or so after I had a sleep connection. She like appeared from nowhere and had startled me as I was cleaning my kitchen. She asked if we could sit and talk and I was so shocked and crying not knowing if I had done gone insane. She proceeds to tell me that God has given her just 1 hour a week to visit for now. I of course beg her to not use up her hour in just one visit. She was apologizing for me being the one that found her lifeless body. She then said one more thing before I go, from nowhere a man appears that I recognize. She grabs his hand and then grabs mine and continues I want to introduce you to your daddy. Well then I am flooded with overwhelming emotions as I have had so much animosity and pinned up anger towards this man. He knows it cause I can see the pained look on his face as he looks down . He was a coward in my eyes when I was just 4 yrs old I witnessed my hero my dad hang himself. Yes I do remember, I just learned to tie my shoes that night. It was Thanksgiving day and to this day I do not like to participate. I only recall him saying he was sorry and that he loved me with all his heart. I was crying as they walked away together and just vanished.
I had a visit in my dream last night from a friend who passed about 2 years ago. We used to be really close before he got a girlfriend years ago. In my dream last night I was with a friend and her friend, my mate Trent appeared in front of me and said ” how u going baby?” And gave me a hug. I felt so comforted and safe. The hug went for a good while. We didn’t let go, it was nice. After waking up I can still feel how warm and comfortable he was, I think he was wearing a hoodie. This is the second time I have dreamt of him since his passing and has left me thinking about him all day. He usually doesn’t cross my mind anymore as we both went seperate ways over the years. I feel as though he was protecting me from my friend that was in my dream before he showed up. What do you think.? The girlfriend of mine is amazing but I think she might be trying to compete with me atm as she’s not really feeling herself after losing her husband last year.
are my parents who are ded telling me i am goiing to die as i have recently been diagnosed with a polyp in my lung and my father died of lung cancer
My grandson died from fentynal overdose, he was just 25. He always stated that I was the only one that never abandoned him.
Not too long after he passed away, I heard a noise and woke up to him at the age of about 5. He was in his favourite pj’s. I said ” Oh Najee, I have missed you so much” he was crying, I asked what was wrong? Najee said he was scared, I asked about what? I opened my arms and asked him to come to me, he did. I wrapped my arms around him and cried with him. We used to have this sort of talk in my rocking chair this was a safe zone for him and my children and grandchildren, everything stayed there and advise was discussed. Najee said “grandma, I am scared, I don’t want to go downstairs, they are very bad people down there they are mean and scary”
I thought for a minute and realized that his life style was mixed with some bad stuff and yes, good also.
I told him, you know that when grandma says something, everyone listens. He nodded his head as it was buried in my chest next to my heart. I am going to tell thoes bad scary people to leave you alone and to go away, they will listen. He snuggled closer and said thank you grandma, I love you.
I said that he needed to do something for me tho, he said ok. I told him that right away, he needed to go directly to find God, do not stop or listen to anything, just don’t stop until you find him, he will be sure for grandma that you are safe and ok. Promise me that you will do that. He said I promise. I hugged him very hard and kissed his little head and said hurry, go now, it will be ok now, God will take care of you.
He left instantly, I cried in bed for some time. I would wager anything that he really was there I smelled him, held him heard him, felt his fear and love. I won’t ever believe that he was not or there.
There have been other signs but signs not really him with me in my grandma arms.
I have been having visitations from one of my best friends she been coming to me since I found out 100% that she passed but I have been seeing things in my dream with her in the first dream I had of her there was a glass of water and it sharded and scared me awake and she said me another objects and signs and I have no idea what she wants can you help maybe
My mama died on December 30th. I got a visit from her exactly one week later. She walked into the room, wrapped her arms around me and gave me a long hug, and then told me that she had to go back to heaven. I’ve always pretty much known the difference between a dream and an actual visit from my loved ones. I just knew when they were really there. I just wish she’d come back and see me again. I miss her more than anything.
First I never remember a dream , My Mom has been gone since 2009 I just fell a sleep sitting on the couch and I woke up and remembered the dream I had , my Mom was on the phone trying to talk to me and there seemed to be a lot of confusion in the room and I kept changing phones but could not hear clear what she was trying to say , I think a couple children were in the room , I said ok that’s better like I should have been able to her my Mom and I woke up ,please help me understand, my Mom was very spiritual and believed in dreams , she could always remember hers ?
I wake in the mornings and she is on my right hand side try to touch her but then realise it’s dream, vivid.
So I was in a small room ( About the size of a dressing wardrobe) and it looked like a bedroom… I went to turn the light on after I shut the blinds but there were so many switches hidden in the room. I pushed the switches next to the door but it didn’t do anything. But there was 2 switches above the bed and as soon as I pushed them, I immediately collapsed as a small vintage tv turned on and it looked like a camera watching a vintage doll that repeated my name on and on again each time I screamed for help. It kept on saying “Lily! Lily! Lily!” in a creepy voice that I don’t know if I heard it before. But all I know is that it was my worst nightmare EVER.
My mother, my best friend passed away almost 4 years ago this coning March 2022. I miss her dearly, not a day has gone by that I haven’t thought about her. Recently I had a dream that my mom was by my bed and I got up to give her hug, wrapped my arms around her and held her tight. Weird this was my husband woke me up and I was standing next to my bed with my arms wrapped around myself. I immediately remembered my dream and became emotional. Has this ever happened to anyone? In my dream I could smell her hair, feel her hugging me, then poof my husband asked what I was doing. And I was hugging myself. I felt lifted, like I had just had a moment with my mom. I loved it! If anyone has had similar dreams could you let me know. I hope it was a visit from her. I miss her and it made the rest of my day wonderful.
I just had a dream of two deceased ones came and checked me out . The two deceased ones were my Godmother Jacquie Chiapella and my friend Lanni Mowry. While Jacquie and Lanni checked me out, they didn’t saying anything. I missed them a lot included my mother. My mother passed away in October of 1995. Then I woke up at 9:30 in the morning and wondered if that my dream visitation. The incident occurred on February 22, 2022. Jacquie passed away on July 19th 2020 and Lanni passed away on December 7th 2019.
I got a phone call not half an hour ago to say my grandad has passed away, I was in the middle of having a dream about him and said to him that he was looking much better and a lot happier than he has in recent weeks, he just sat there and smiled, I’m quite freaked out and taken back right now, I have not had a dream in quite some time and definitely nothing as surreal… we’ve been expecting him to go, just not so quickly, he’s had a year long battle with cancer.
I had a moving dream vivid
I fell asleep yesturday afternoon for a quick nap and began to hear a voice in the distance like an old radio . Could not make head or tail of it, but then i concentrated and it got closer until i asked the voice, are you a spirit.
Then i heard lots of voices all quite happy and this one voice said yeah we are all spirits here. I was totalally gobsmacked and woke at that point.
is that a rubber Ducky moment??? It seemed so real like a lucid dream. I wanted to ask more questions but reality brought me back i am afraid.
My Dog and Brother visited me in a dream. My dog died a couple of weeks ago – my brother few decades back. I wondered, will I ever hold my dog again – few dreams later I did. My dog looks somewhat pixilated in my dreams. I could feel him but visually it was gray/drizzly outside and things where not bright and clear. I could see my brother was my brother my dog was my dog. However in all of my dreams it is overcast – what does that mean?
Dad and Mom Visitation Together – I want to share this wonderful experience of a visitation dream. My mom passed away about a month ago. My dad passed in 2006. They loved each other very much and were married for 55 years. About 2 weeks after my mom’s passing, I was taking a nap in my recliner. My mom and dad appeared in my dream, together holding hands and looking so happy. My dad wore his famous plaid shirt and my mom was in a red top (she always looked great in red). They were standing right in front of me, but made no attempt to touch me or I them. No halos or bright lights, just my younger, happier parents as they were before their sicknesses. They did relay a message to me, “You need to take better care of yourself”. I felt so special in their presence, I never wanted it to end, but of course it did. I have determined that I am very privileged to have experienced this visitation.
I know some people are skeptical, I previously was too, but I have experienced a peace that I never knew existed.
I keep having visitations about my friend who recently passed. In every single dream we are in a relationship and he tells me he doesn’t want to leave me. In one visitation he gave me a crystal. He told me when I hold this crystal it will keep him from passing over. He said he doesn’t wanna pass over yet. He wants to keep coming to visit and speak to me. He said he doesn’t want to leave my side. Like what does this mean? It feels so real.
My husband died unexpectedly of a heart attack. He was only 49. We were separated but remained close. I think he visits me. I’m not totally asleep ,just kind of falling asleep and I can feel him hugging me like he’s in bed with me. It’s happened more than once . Actually a few times. I have his remains here in my home. It’s a very comforting feeling. And it feels like he’s really touching me. It’s kind of hard to explain.
I was part of the group reading Saturday March 12 and 5 minutes before it was to start I started having electrical problems. First my laptop charging cord kept popping out of the jack. I would plug it in and it would immediately pop out, after at least a dozen attempts I gave up. There was a tiny bit of battery power left to allow me to log in and listen while I frantically installed zoom on my phone. I logged in again and only some of your sentences were coming through until my phone speaker was so full of static I couldn’t hear. Now I’m trying to get my phone to connect to an external Bluetooth speaker, a podcast was playing on it even tough my phone showed there was no podcast playing in the background and the speaker was connected to my phone and not another device. Now I’m digging through a drawer to find earphones until finally I could hear and see things clearly and sit down and breath. I asked my loved one out loud “what are you doing, why don’t you want me to connect?” As I listened to the readings my clothes dryer was going off and on by itself. This has been going on for a while, which I assumed was a spirit communication. So again I asked, “if you are trying to communicate with me, why all the computer issues to get through to Blair? Everything settled down and I could participate and I did some cleansing breaths to shake off my anxiety. As I listened my face started to feel very hot. I could see on my screen that my cheeks were bright red and and I thought “what is going on now?” It wasn’t until I had disconnected that I realized I had been holding my loved ones photo and had been caressing his cheek the whole time, like he use to do to me when he was alive. I have several spinal cord injuries and I struggled to participate for the 3 hours until the pain was just too much and I had to disconnect. I know he is with me and I talk to him daily. I have also purchased your books to improve my communication with him, I just have difficulty focusing at times and wanted desperately to get answers. I also don’t understand the electronic difficulties, when I had things set up and working hours in advance. I have many sleep connections where I actually levitate above my bed and float towards him. I’m so aware that I let my arms drop to feel for the bed below me and cannot touch it. I tell myself I’m just dreaming until I see, feel and touch him. It does not happen often but again, I know he’s with me.
My dad passed away March 1st 2021 and I was by his side just him and I when he past.
I had a dream last night that he called me on my mobile phone while I was visiting my mum at their home. I was alone in the room and we had a conversation telling eachother how much we miss eachother and love eachother, his voice was very clear it was very real.
When I hung up the phone after our conversation I went to my mum ( still in the dream) and told her that she would never believe what just happend!! I then continued to have a completely different dream about something random straight after.
I was happy when I woke up this morning as I felt like I’d just had a conversation with my dad so I called my mum and told her. I cant stop thinking about it.
Thank you for reading.
My boyfriends best friend visited him tonight in the many years he’s been gone he’s never dreamt of him. He overdosed and died. My bf woke up very scared bc his friend said “ let me see the bottom of your shoes” he said his friend then shook his head in disappointment and walked away. He wouldn’t answer or turn around when called after but before he disappeared he looked back and said I’ll see you soon. What does this mean
I have had a few dreams of deceased friends and extended family.
A close friend of mine who passed away, I had a dream of her deceased mother, who seemed to be sitting in a chair, in a very bright and calm setting, reading a book. She asked “ Where is Leanne?” (my friend who passed), as if she has not crossed over yet.
Another dream I had of my close friend Leanne, where she was in a hospital bed with her eyes closed. I looked into a mirror, in the dream and saw myself with blue hair, not quite sure what that meant. After I woke up, I had a heart attack. The doctors said I was very lucky and must have had someone watching over me. Still bugs me to this day.
I had a dream last night it started out as a crazy dream . But then my dead husband ( how has been dead for 19 years came into it . Everything came so clear in my dream like he was there with me . We talked and I tried to take him back with me. But he said he couldn’t do that . I have always had dreams of my love ones coming to me and letting me they died . I did the night he died . But nothing after that till now . Why is that?
Hi Blair, my husband only recently passed away five weeks ago I’m absolutely devastated, I would love a visitation from my husband just to let me know he is ok. Is it too soon after him just passing away with cancer? It would bring me so much comfort as I’m really struggling without him at the moment.
Many thanks
Shirley
I had a dream of my deceased friend. She was comforting me when I was crying. My friend was laying down on bed and said, “Come here”. So, I went to her and laid down with her. While I was crying and she comforted me. Then few minutes later she had to leave as I woke-up and my body was chilling a little bit and then went away. Before the incident occurred I saw purple clothes in same time I was crying. Anyway, I have never experience of waking up and my body is chilling for a few minutes and then goes away before. What is that means of waking up as my body chills same time?
I’ve been trying to understand what I’ve experienced. I can’t find anything, but these visitation dreams are the only thing remotely close.
Back in 2016 to 2018 I kept having a dream of a former friend asking me to keep in touch and take care of his wife. No explanation and one day, I called after losing touch foe those years in 2019. She told me she lost her husband, the 1 I had dreams about, in 2016. Then in 2017, I kept getting this bad feeling about my mother, I couldn’t find her, but odd dreams of her reaching out, trying to share various memories with no reason to why. I don’t even recall their significance. Then I had surgery 1 day, the next morning I received an email from hospital asking if I had kin in my State and she called when I suspiciously looked her up and verified she was in fact hospital staff. My mother had a stroke and was in icu in a coma with life support. The dr needed the bed, ya charming jerk… they called me to pull the plug the next day. I have been battling my decisions and dealing with grief. I am also clinically trained, so my rational mind is saying I’m just processing stuff. We’re they visits before their passing or after, idk? Is it possible she was nearly dead or in limbo so she could reach out to me?
I WAS IN A DREAM WED AND I REMEMBER THE FEELING OF KNOWING I WAS DREAMING AND BEING ASLEEP BUT THEN A SOFT VOICE MY DAD THAT HAS PASSED .I FEEL LIKE HE CALLED ME OUT OF MY DREm and he was next to me but saying Jennifer wake up over and over and right as I wake up I felt him grab my feet and it was over. Sorry about caps
For the past 2 nights I’ve been having a dream about my uncle it feels so real but when I wake up the only thing I feel is like a warmth beside me. I look over and no one is there. What does this mean? I’ve been having these dreams it’s like me and my uncle are having a conversation and I wake up hoping he’s there but he’s not. My ears have been ringing these past 2 days also? What does all of this mean??
I had a visitation dream this morning and it’s only been 3 days since my boyfriend has been gone . I’ve been depressed can’t even move out my bed and he came to me still in the hospital bed and said look at your phone it’s 3:00am , urging me to look at the phone than he said I want you to get dressed. I instantly woke up and checked my phone it was 3:00 am exactly!! I’m blown away and feel so much more at ease …
I had a dream not too long ago about my cat who went missing in the care of a Rover pet sitter. I never saw my sweet tiny 8 pound boy ever again. Within a few weeks of him missing, I suddenly had a visitation dream. In the dream he loved on me then jumped down off my lap and gave one last bath to his bonded mate female kitty, Olivia, they played briefly, and I telepathically felt he was telling me he’s okay now and told me bye bye. End of dream. I wonder if it was the moment he died. I wonder if this *really* was a visitation dream.
I dream and often have to tell the deceased that they have passed, or comfort them during to them feeling upset/angry or confused and usually by the end they accept what I’m saying and start to look child like. Sometimes they want me to tell someone living something. I have no idea what this is called, but it’s been happening for years.
Awesome thank you
MY DAD DIED ANGRY AT ME PURE EVIL TOOK PLACE IN HIS HOME TO ME FROM MY OWN FAMILIES.MY FEELINGS WERE HURT I SAID 1 UGLY THING TO 1 RELATIVE SHE CALLED HIM TOLD HIM..HE WAS KIND OF ELDERLY ABUSED SO MUCH EVIL TOOK PLACE..SISTERS.MOM.I THOUGHT I WAS CLOSE TO MY DAD.DAY OF FUNERAL WHEN I GOT HOME DOOR BELLS RUNG SO LOUD 4 TIMES EACH ELECTRIC SURGE .NEXT NIGHT I HAVE WEIRD DREAM ABOUT THE 1 THING I EVER SAD BAD.ATS IS IF I NEEDED TO APOLOGIZE THEN I STARTED PRAYING AND APOLOGIZED.THEN I FELT PEACE.WAS THAT DEMONS OR A WARNING IM DYING OR HATRED.
I had the most vivid dream of a baby who I “knew” was the child of my late husband and me. In life, we had no children and were together for 35 years before he passed 15 months ago, The baby was actively moving around and close to being newborn. It was a happy dream and lasted quite a long time. I didn’t have to write it down to remember it. This happened a week ago and it still is clear in my mind.
I was in bed and thought I heard footsteps, I got up checked around no one thankfully. I returned to bed and the next moment my dead mother was sitting next to me. I hugged her and we talked. I woke up wondering if this was a dream or real. I felt happy at seeing her.
The morning after mother’s day I woke up. Was seeing my smiling mother in laws face. Was so real and clear. Next day her grandsons wife had found a box of old pictures of her and pops in their garage! I’m sure she is hugging the family!
I woke up to a man with a white robe the face I did not know but cant forget it . It was very real I opened my eyes to this man in a white robe . When we looked at each other he had a look of disappointment and disappeared was it a loved one or an angel . It was so real it’s been a year and I think about it all the time and cant get hes face out of my mind . Thank you
This is probably a strange one. I had a visitation last night of my deceased brother. After a long time. I had 5 visitations of him since his death. They all happened within first few years. The first one was – we appeared in a space, I guess room. I was on one side him on the other. His face was emotionless, I could hear him trying to say something but his lips were not moving, the sound was like from under water so I keep saying I can’t hear you, I can’t understand, his lips don’t move and then he is gone. Very brief, few seconds if I should estimate. Next one was in a car. I appear in the passenger’s seat, he is driving. I realise in the dream he is dead and he came to visit me. I start frantically asking him questions about how he is. Again, no answer, few seconds and he is gone. Few more in similar manor, lips don’t move, emotionless face, very brief visit, very vivid, powerful, very different. Last night I was dreaming something and all of the sudden this was interrupted, I appeared in some space and see my brother quickly approaching me. His body is tall, like 3m, smudged, I see his face clear but it’s like a 2D poster picture cut out, I feel his energy, it’s overwhelming, I think my body is vibrating, I feel immense happiness, I know my brother came to see me, I bomb him with my energy and questions, then he is gone. Again, seconds. Again said nothing, again face like 2d picture. Can somebody clarify? If that is even possible. Thank you.
I dreamt of my older brother and in my dream his spirit guide was with him. She is female. I also felt as if his ex wife was going to experience a tragedy and then the presence of my living niece was there so I felt as if her spirit was in my dream
Thank you for this. I had definitely had a visitation from my mom about a year or two after she passed. I had only just turned 18 and was devastated by the loss of my mother and my best friend. I was conflicted with feelings of anger and loss. My dream was so real, not typical of a dream. She called me at work and I went home, walked into the living room and there she was. More beautiful than I had ever seen her with a full head of beautiful hair (she always wore wigs because she didn’t like her hair) and she was dressed in flowing white dress. Hugging her was like being home. It was tangible and I just couldn’t believe she was there. I asked where she was and she answered that she was there the whole time. I got angry and asked her why she would let me think she was gone because I hadn’t seen her since she passed. She hugged me again and said I have always been here and will always be with you. I will never leave you. Then I woke up feeling like I was just with her and couldn’t believe how real it was. I also had a couple of experiences at a particularly rough time in my life, during my first marriage. One was witnessed by my ex who also saw this. I was listing to music in my headphones while doing dishes in the kitchen when a small solid blue ball floated into the kitchen and exploded into a bright light. I heard my husband say, “did you see that?”. He said it passed by the bedroom door while he was in there as it floated into the kitchen. I saw this again in my apartment after we split. I have to think that was her as well but I haven’t had any recent dreams or that experience since. Anyway, reading your article just brought this back to me and I wanted to thank you for that.
My sister had a dream about my deceased ex husband and in her dream they where in a big house and he asked my sister where was I at because he had something to tell me see said he looked for me in different rooms but could not find me…what does that mean
My husband passed away a month ago 29 yrs it was sudden was told he was attacked had a heart attack I had my first dream I was alone felt someone was there woke up yelling his name 4 or 5 times in my sleep I yelled out very loud as was trying to find him or he was leaving not sure what does that mean in my dream? Is he trying to tell me something I had dreams like that week before he died I told him when he was alive about the dream that something bad will happen some men took him away separated him far from me and I was with strangers guiding me away I was lost couldn’t find him I had two dreams so real as if it’s what happened to him is there a meaning to these dreams a sign
My godmother visited me in a dream last night. She was a bright light that came in through the window.
She hugged me & seemed happy & healthy.
I woke soon after and could feel something in the bedroom . I felt I could smell her fragrance & feel her presence. I wasn’t scared in my dream but felt scared from the feeling in the room when I woke.
I felt guilty for feeling scared but so happy she visited me. ❤️
I love visitation dreams and pray for and invite them.I have had some unusual experiences with lights etc. It doesn’t scare me
At first I only saw him from behind .Then
Twice now he has shown his face. I feel he is looking out for me in away.I keep aski g why was I left behind. What’s my purpose on earth before we are united again
A couple of nights ago I had a dream which was so realistic I can remember every single detail,my friend who passed away in 1999 asked me out and I said yes and the rest of the dream was like a movie showing me what our lives would have been like if we had been a couple,it was the most perfect dream I have ever had and I could feel his arms around me,it just flowed perfectly not like a crazy dream jumping from place to place and when I woke up I felt so happy and peaceful,I’m certain it was a visitation dream
i had a dream of my mum who passed nearly a year ago. In the dream she had come to visit just for the day as she knew she was dead and we did too in my dream. she told me that she was in the waiting area, and wasnt up to speed with everything that had gone on since her death after I asked her what she thought of the funeral and if she had known her best friends son had died and had she had a chance to find him yet. As I said her reply was that she was in the waiting phase and that she was looking after my dad and with him. He is still alive…..im very interested in this dream and what it means.
They both came to me. One good in my dreams to tell me he was ok and the other, a dark presence that stood over me. Thank u so much for reconfirming what i thought i knew. Thank u for this!
I had what felt like a visitation dream 6 weeks ago. I try to pay attention to what goes on while I am asleep but usually have to write dreams down as quickly as possible as I usually forget them, or most of them. This one I didn’t and will never forget. It was a very strong, vivid experience. I saw a baby that I knew belonged to me and my husband who passed almost 17 months ago. We never had, or wanted to have, any children. I saw this baby very clearly. A bit older than a newborn and moving around, sometimes looking at me and sometimes looking away. I KNEW this was “our” baby and when I woke up the memory was incredibly clear and still is.
I had a dream that my mom visited me today and she sent me a song. Usually I don’t experience songs in my dreams let along remember a lot of details after I wake up. This is the first time after her passing that I have seen her in a dream or her sending me a message that I could actually remember. The song was Time in a bottle.
I had a visitation and I woke up sobbing my heart out because it was so real to see him. My fiancé died in November and we left on a bad note so this dream was us just lying there and I kept pulling him back. I feel the pain has come back from losing him but was so lovely to see him.
My mother passed away on the 6th of July and recently today I had a dream so vividly of me talking to my mom about my fiancé and he was there, me and him got into a argument and she was on the couch asking what was wrong I explained to her him hearting a girls picture in their story on Fb and possibly continue of conversation my mother stated to me it wasn’t right she agreed, I then got upset and said I was leaving to go somewhere and get some air then he said he was leaving, me my mother and him ended up at the door and a van pulled up with a light skin female in it with her mom and brother , and the girl got out aggressive and he started to explain it was only a quick 5 minutes and that he didn’t really like her my mom standing there filled with anger with me and me and the girl fought each other then my mom had her arms crossed and looked at me then I woke up can someone tell me was this a sign from my mother?
Hi I had a dream about my dad but he had four arms on the dream and one of them looked dysfunction. He hugged me . He was whispering to me but then went as if he didn’t want anyone else to hear. Any idea what that all means. I seen a flashing light and then he appeared daddy then came very clear. Is this real.
My stepdad passed in 2002. A few years later, when I was going through a rough patch, he visited me in my sleep. He hugged me and told me everything was going to be alright. He always had the warmest hugs, and I could feel the love and warmth in my visitation. It gave me an immense sense of peace and tranquility.
My dad passed in 1996. One night several years later, I was just falling asleep, or maybe already in twilight sleep. I didn’t see him, but I heard my dad say my name, loud and clear as day. It was so real that I sat straight up in bed, expecting to see him standing there.
After my boyfriend of 36 years passed away, approx 2weeks later he came to my room told me to wake up and he started dancing all around my room. He said look there fixed both legs work. He lost his leg in Vietnam and had an artificial leg. To this day and it’s been almost 13 years it was so real but I don’t know if I was dreaming or it really happened. I got up right after. I believe spirits come and visits you I’ve seen them but sometimes I wonder if it’s my imagination.
My grandson passed away when he was 3 yrs old … The night we got home from his funeral and we went to bed my grandson came to me in my dream and said to me (Grandma I Love You I’m ok I have to go now because God needs me)! He was exactly the way I last saw him I will never ever forget that dream it was so very precious to me!!
Thank you for this. I was feeling very alone today I’m wishing for my mother to talk to. I remember a dream I had years ago but have never forgotten. I walked into the kitchen where we lived long ago knowing that my mother was in there but when I got in the room nobody was there However the room was glowing with a sweet mellow Glow and it was warm and I felt totally loved. I knew that my mother had just gone out the other door and that was her essence in that room. It was so profound it brings tears to my eyes now. I wish I could go back to the feeling I had in that kitchen. I know she’s here with me now In a general way but I still wish I could have that experience again tonight when I’m going to sleep..I’m 85 now, 2 years older than she was when she left this earth. I understand so much more about her now than I did then and it only makes me love her more.
Hi, what could it indicate if you opened up a white back door in my house and a loved one appeared and walked pass. I remember feeling scared and saying to myself oh that’s so and so I shouldn’t be scared.
I then found myself in my bed really scared and it felt like someone was trying to hold me down and I remember trying to get up because I knew it was a dream or nightmare at the point. And I woke up really unsettled.
I never got to say goodbye to my ex husband he was in the hospital and I talked to him on a Thursday on a Friday I supposed to go downstairs and they passed away on Friday cuz he know but I still think about him and he is he okay is he with his mom and dad.i need to no.his name was Doyce
I dream about my grandmother from Cyprus, she wanted me to jump from my bedroom window to join her. What does this mean
I am a social worker I recently lost a client I was particularly close to. Coroner ruled she passed of a drug overdose but events surrounding her death are questionable. I feel there is more to what led to her passing. They did not find her for a couple of days. I had a very vivid dream about 3 days after we learned of her passing. I was in her apartment she was laying on the floor where they found her she was also standing over her body and she seemed lost. She was getting ready to ask me something, I ran out of the apartment to avoid puking. As I made it to the threshold I woke up gagging because I could smell death. I’ve never smelled a decomposing body in my waking life. The smell was like nothing I can even begin to imagine. This really has been bugging me any thoughts on what this could mean? I have never had a dream that intense to the point of waking up because of a smell.
Hi there!
I had a dream of my deceased mom and dad.
They were very much alive in my dream
They were siting side by side, on a couch.
I went over and kissed them both on the cheek
My dad and mom gave me a smile.
It was such a wonderful dream
I have been feeling very depressed.
Lots of worry in my life
It was a wonderful dream
Would you please tell me what this dream means
Thankyou so much.
I am nearly sure my mom came to me in my dreams soon after she passed.i am trying to get her to come back but nothing works..when I saw her it was so beautiful and can’t get it out of my mind..I know she was telling g me something.. I still haven’t been able to interpret the way she appeared..
My love passed away in 2011. He was the love of my life.My soul mate. The first Christmas without him I dreamed we were at a Christmas party. A dear friend said Janet will you go to the door? I opened the door and there stood Jim. He took me in his arms and held me so tight. I woke up and cried half of the night! His spirit was in my home for two years. I sold my home as I was leaving to follow the movers I said Jim I am moving back home you can come with me if you want! I closed the door and I have never seen or heard anything else.
I’ve had this a lot lately. Different loved ones. Being an Empath I find it intriguing and welcome the visits!
I was sleeping for several hours when I was awoken because I heard my sisters voice screaming at me “Lisa you need to talk to Dad!” Her screaming sounded urgent so it made me sit up wide awake. I then thought “what was THAT… I’ve never had a dream or nightmare in pitch black with no light or colors or visuals”
Is my sister dead?
A week later my 99 yr old dad started being seen driving by. He never stops or looks at me so one day recently the military choppers and jets were flying around my mom and I at home so I ran to the middle of the street to take photos and at the same time my dad drove down the street coming toward me so I stayed in the middle of the street and got happy and pointed through his windshield at him and laughed and he looked happy yet sad but his smile said “my daughter Lisa is so funny” but seeing his reaction made me run and sit down on the steps and let him drive off.
It’s a state of emergency where I live right now and nobody really talks about whether we are all being killed or not.
We’ve all been hacked and forced apart…fires are all over around my brothers and sisters houses from Orange County to Sacramento.
I haven’t heard from my sister for at least 20 years…last we talked she was told she had breast cancer so I didn’t tell her about my possible ovarian cancer. My mom was just diagnosed with a brain tumor and keeps trying to kill Me and soooo I don’t know if the screaming I heard while sleeping meant she was dead yet with christ or was it a sign she’s still with me on earth but she can’t get through because it’s all so confusing and hard to deal with?
I only ever had one dream of someone who has passed on ever happen to me…. 11 years ago at the age of 17 i had lost my grandfather, it was hard for me being i was so close to him. Well because i live 6 hours away from them, i barely see him, The night before he passed away he asked my auntie to try and get a hold of me to tell me hes not doing too good and that he wants me to call him right away. I didn’t end up calling because I didn’t get my message until the next day and before I can reply back for a number he had already gone. I took it hard, I started doing drugs and getting into trouble, I dropped out of school at that time. Once i turned 18, i made the decision to go to my school and ask my student counselor to help me find help, I did not want to live my life like that and I wanted to prove to people that I can change and go back to school. Anyways, 3 months later i took the bus to treatment and started my healing journey. A few weeks of being in there I was already back to starting to feel myself again, I was already almost 30 days in to the program when this dream happed.
It was after lunch, we have a choice to take a nap 1 hour after lunch and because i just finished eating, i felt tired so i decided to go for a nap.. While in my dream, I was still in treatment, only in my dream we were given a day pass to go out for lunch with family . my uncle and cousin had picked me up to go out for supper. As we left the treatment centre we got on this bus or g train to this restaurant, as i walked in i remember seeing people at tables and saw my uncle sit at the table where my grandmother who is still alive sitting there as well as my grandfather (who passed away year before) I had to double look at them because in my dream i knew my grandfather was passed on so i was surprised to see him sitting there in the same clothes he wore in his casket. When I took my second look at them everyone around us disappeared and it was just my grandfather sitting at the table looking straight ahead toward the wall smiling. It wasn’t until I was beside him and said “Papa??” that he finally turned to look at me, grabbed the sides of my face with his hands and said “I am so proud of you and I love you” then he kissed me on the forehead and as i was tring to cry “papa, i miss you, i miss you!!!” he just disappeared and thats when i woke up. I woke up crying because it felt so real how it continuted on with me being in treatment in my dream as well. I felt so comforted and happy knowing I was able to have that dream of him…..
That was the one and only dream i have ever had of him but 11 years later and i can still remember every detail in that dream <3 but it also always made me wonder if that dream means something or was it really my grandfather coming to speak to me?
I dream of crying on my father’s arms and telling him I was ready to go with them because I was to tired ,he told me everything is going to be ok.OK..
Then I walk away to tge corner and came back and told him,
I’m ready but I’m loving this life alot..
My father died 9years ago and my mom 2 yes ago.
What if I have vivid bad, distressing dreams of my wife and another man? I dreamt last night of this, asked her why she is with him, and she said “because I like this man.” The guy was an old boyfriend whom I despise to this day because of the way he treated her, and also because of jealousy, of course. Later thr same night I went back to sleep and had a continuation of the same dream, but this time I was begging for forgiveness of my faults that I bieved were driving her to this guy. I profusely told her I’d go to counseling, therapy, anger management classes and fa.ily.counseling to.better handle.our son. She immediately gave me some water, told me to relax, and held my hand as we took a walk down our street, reassuring me that we were OK now. Then when I woke up, I told her about the dreams, as I talk to her every morning when I wake. After that, I saw a bird fly past my window. What does this mean? Thank you so much.
I seen my Mama sitting beside me in bed , in my dream. She was just sitting their looking at me.
I’m able to go into a communication type mode if I catch it just right as I’m falling asleep. Close my eyelids and adjust my eyes to where as if I were watching my eyelids as a movie screen, if that makes sense. But I have very vivid intense moments that can go good or bad. Once I was doing that, trying to pull myself into that certain state and I awoke and was being held to my ceiling, I couldn’t see it but it was a very dark shadow and it had one hand around my neck and one on a thigh and just pegged me to my ceiling and I saw myself laying in my bed trying to wake myself up and seconds later I did but it terrified me for weeks. I’m 43 and I had never met my mom’s mother as she died when my mother was only 16 and so I only ever heard about her and my mom had a bad childhood so when my mom was unable to get close with me as the only girl I often blamed my grandmother and there was a resentment there for what she let happen to my mom as a child and so I had a dream I was 19 and in the dream I could feel her I could tell her height the size of her breast does she hugged me you know like everything like the red lipstick and she just kept putting the hair behind my ears and telling me things were bad back then and when I told my mom about this dream my mom said come on I got to go I’ve got to show you where I grew up and she said everything that you described in the dream from the peeling paint on the outside of the house to the placement of the stove the bed against the wall everything she says there’s no way you could have known that and that’s the house that I grew up in. So ever since then I paid attention to my dreams but like you say you usually know which ones are trying to grab a hold of you but ever since that night on the ceiling I don’t know what to make that and then never told anybody what happened and feedback would be good
Last night a friend of our family died I was near her the night before they were her last hours. Caressed her and touched her arm continuously to show her I was there. Then went home and slept to wake up at a sudden dream where I just saw her clear blue eyes and then white smoke flowing! Couldn’t sleep. Remember Looking at the time it was 3:31. In the morning came to know she passed away 3;10! Didn’t remember the dream because was concentrated about the happening for all the day. Remember seeing a white feather and made me think about her. Then this eve this dream came back as a flash back as we were talking about hee!! Still open mouthed
Hi Blair my name is Lisa. My son passed away august 9th 2022. Almost 6 months ago. It’s the worst feeling ever to loose a son or a daughter. Nick is his name he was only 25 years old. Nick is sweet young man. Very well mannered. Beautiful smile. Awesome laugh. I miss him so much. And love him. I already had a visitation dream that was amazing felt like he was rite here still. I had a dream last week. I had a dream of nick we were on a cloud talking and laughing felt so real. That was just a dream rite. I have found dimes. I see the time 11:11 lots. And a 2 doves flew by our house 2 days after he passed away. I believe that was nick and my dad. Dad passed away 2019. Thank you Blair. I hope you have a wonderful day. I have 2 of your books I read. I really enjoyed reading them
Do they make you feel tired or drained almost like a hangover?
I dreamt that my Dad come to me and so I asked him was he in hell or heaven and he was so sad and said that he was in hell and he was so tired. What is the meaning of this dream? Please. My Dad is a very kind person, a religious person while he was alive and why was this dream? Maybe because I always thinking of him and asked myself always was my father in hell or heaven?
Is it possible to feel body chills after a deceased loved one visits you in a dream?
Thank you. My grandma prepared me in dream before she past and for that I was able to see her, to sing to her, to love her. Now as I wake I feel like I am still visiting. It’s been awhile, ,how I love her this feeling is good. Also my dog is staying close. Thank you for reassuring me. Bless you
Is it possible to visit the dead? Since a former lover died in 2016, I’ve had visitations. His recorded songs playing loudly by themselves through my house speakers in wee hours waking/startling me and my husband. People with psychic abilities stopping me on the street describing him walking next to me. A touch on my back during the night and it is not my husband. A medium friend asking me about a gift I bought but never gave him and never told her about. His visits are often playful. Like him when he was happy. The other night I dreamed of seeing him but it felt as though I dropped in on him. I was waiting for him. I saw him solid walking toward me. Another person guiding him. He looked healthy and gorgeous. He paused and I could see recollection and a light in his eyes and hesitation when he saw me. Almost like he wanted to stop but couldn’t. Like he was sleepwalking. He was guided past me. There was a seriousness to the “dream” I understood he couldn’t stop to talk. It was like my presence briefly reminded him of things he was forgetting. What was this?
I lost a partner to suicide in late 2020. There have been torrent of dreams for wo years, some silly sweet, some horrific, some unspeakably lovely. In short succession a year ago there were a trio over the span of a week that were intense and particular in a way that felt narrative and consistent. In the first neither of us knew she was dead. She’d come back from some long estrangement with all of us and I was overjoyed to see her. I fell onto a sofa with her hugging and kissing her. “I’m so glad you’re okay” I said, and she froze, like she was just realizing she was gone. I woke up. The second one I was at a gathering in a hotel lobby with our friends. She arrived with the daughter of our mutual best friend, still a child in the dream rather than the adult she is in reality. My love was haggard and unspeakably sad; withered. She abruptly got up to leave. I stood up to hug her goodbye and suddenly she towered over me. “You know”, she said, and I woke up. In the last she drove me to a house in a dilapidated state, covered in vines and debris. She gave me the option to tell everyone that she was going to kill herself and potentially save her, or remain silent and let her go. I chose to keep quiet in the dream. She took my hand and smiled, and I felt this pure, radiant love from her. I woke up, and felt all of that guilt that I couldn’t save her wash away. It was a gift. She remains a presence in dreams, and in the waking world. I know we’ll see one another again with confidence.
Hi i had a disturbing lucid dream. My partner had died by suicide a few days before. I was aware i was in bed dreaming and was paralysed. He appeared at the side of the bed, leaning over a chest of drawers upset. I asked him to come and hug me and reassured him that everything was ok. He came over and hugged me and kissed me. It went dark. In the kiss i felt suffocated. Like he was sucking my air out of me and i felt the strangling sensation he must have felt in the hanging. I felt i would die and struggled to wake as was paralysed. Im so scared he is not at peace. Ive had no more lucid dreams since. It was 2 months ago
Thank you that really helped me and I appreciate it it I enjoyed every second of seeing what I sense
Hi so the date is April 25,2023
In my dream there was a shadow figure standing in my door way watching the wall to the left. Then they came to get a closer look at me in the bed with my 2 little brothers. Then it returned to the position that it was standing in originally then the figure went to the closet opened it and closed it. I can sense my moms essence on the other side of the door but at this point I try to speak and can’t my voice is dry but I’m fight to say “mom help” but nothing is barely coming out. Now the shadow person looks my way and comes close now I can barely breath it was like it was sucking something from me. The eyes and mouth on the wall change colors I am trying to leave the bed and reach my mom but they won’t let me. I can see her light boy was it bright but as soon as she pushed on the door the shadow pushed to keep it closed and im fighting but can’t leave the bed and they won’t let her help me
I dreamt of my brother in law who passed tragically a year ago, we were in a room and he was sitting on the kitchen table dressed and looked like always drank a clear glass of water smiled at me, put the glass down and when I looked up he was gone. I pressed my bottom lip to the glass a couple of times like it would bring him back but it didn’t and I woke up. Was there something he wanted me to know?
I dreamed about a very close girlfriend who just passed away this March. Her birthday was in April.
I got a letter in the mail inviting me to go on a job interview I showed it to her and she offered to go with me. I can remember her laughter in the car as we went on our way. I remember seeing her hair as it was when she was younger long and flowing shimmering gold. We got to the person’s house and we went in I had my grandson with me he’s 4 years old. We got invited in then the baby my grandson went exploring and got lost so I went to look for him.
I left my girlfriend with the guy who wanted to interview with me and he tried to rape her. She screamed for me and we decided to leave quickly he was drunk. I couldn’t find my grandson all I could hear was him calling out help me help help. We left the house and went back to her house which used to be my house. And then I said we need to go back and get the baby something is wrong. So we drove back over there we brought a cop with us that we stopped along the way. I called 911 and there was another car at the house we got there they searched the house and couldn’t find him. I thought my son was going to be so mad at me because I lost his child. Then we were on our way back to the house and we got there a car pulled out and the police had him in the car and I just cried and kneeled down and hugged him. I was so scared and happy to see him at the same time. I asked what happened and he said that he was looking for me in the house and he wanted to go home so he just started walking home and he apparently went in the wrong direction. And I asked that anyone check him to see if he had been assaulted they said they didn’t think so and then I woke up
I forgot to mention because I just woke up disoriented. But my dog was barking softly and low and went to check on her and she was okay she didn’t need anything but she was looking kind of crazy weird
I dreamed about a very close girlfriend who just passed away this March. Her birthday was in April.
I got a letter in the mail inviting me to go on a job interview I showed it to her and she offered to go with me. I can remember her laughter in the car as we went on our way. I remember seeing her hair as it was when she was younger long and flowing shimmering gold. We got to the person’s house and we went in I had my grandson with me he’s 4 years old. We got invited in then the baby my grandson went exploring and got lost so I went to look for him.
I left my girlfriend with the guy who wanted to interview with me and he tried to rape her. She screamed for me and we decided to leave quickly he was drunk. I couldn’t find my grandson all I could hear was him calling out help me help help. We left the house and went back to her house which used to be my house. And then I said we need to go back and get the baby something is wrong. So we drove back over there we brought a cop with us that we stopped along the way. I called 911 and there was another car at the house we got there they searched the house and couldn’t find him. I thought my son was going to be so mad at me because I lost his child. Then we were on our way back to the house and we got there a car pulled out and the police had him in the car and I just cried and kneeled down and hugged him. I was so scared and happy to see him at the same time. I asked what happened and he said that he was looking for me in the house and he wanted to go home so he just started walking home and he apparently went in the wrong direction. And I asked that anyone check him to see if he had been assaulted they said they didn’t think so and then I woke up
I forgot to mention because I just woke up disoriented. But my dog was barking softly and low and went to check on her and she was okay she didn’t need anything but she was looking kind of crazy weird
Had a dream last night sacred out as a normal dream somehow my grandmother appeared hugged me and said “everything’s going to be alright” and I watched her leave a open window.
As she hugged me I saw no face but somehow just knew which grandmother it was my Dad’s Mom. Seen a light green dress with small white flowers on it.
Woke up crying thinking was that a spiritual dream or just a dream?
Now before I went to bed I also prayed to Mother of God to help with job opportunities and stress of finding a job.
I seen this on Sylvia brown praying to mother of god you be darn surprised on what happens. So I did so. Than had that dream.
I have never had a dream like it before nor have I ever woke up crying. Felt so real.
I used to work as a carer years ago. Recently I learned a client I looked after, who could not move when she was alive died. I connected with her daughter, who told me of the funeral arrangements. I have had three dreams where this lady I looked after has appeared. The last dream she was in a large waiting room made from marble. She seems happier and now appears to be able to move. If this is a visitation dream. Why i wonder does she appear to me and not her daughter? In the same waiting room i saw and spoke to my father, who has been dead for several years, we were estranged when he died.
My mom died in 2003. I loved her so much , but because my dad was such a mean jerk to everyone , I stayed away . This week I’ve had two very vivid dreams about her. In the first dream my mom told me to let my friend know (whom she also knew) that she had two messages for her about her getting money. The second dream, she was in different parts of a house, like I would walk into a room and she would already be there , either smiling or with a content look on her face. Then I’m jumping out of the way of different black widow spiders, terrified. Like one would be climbing on a web attached to a chair I was sitting in and I would move out of the way just in the nick of time. And this went on in all the rooms . One of the rooms a black widow was lowering itself right above my head and I jumped out of the way. This happened in every room , me running , scared , but I had to keep my composer because my mom was sleeping in one room and I wasn’t supposed to startle her or stress her out . So I kept moving , as to not let these black widows touch me. I remember seeing her Laying down , on her side with a serene smile on her face. What do you think about this dream? Thank you for your time, Katherine
My boyfriend passed. He was found sitting in his car at a gas station after having an asthma attack. He had chronic asthma and was a painter. I had a dream that I woke up from my own body on a bed and I pulled the curtain back and he was sitting on the floor with his legs crossed like a child. He was so sad and he handed a paper to me that said RIP LUIS AND MAYLIN. My name is Maylin and he was Luis. U told him that I couldn’t die right now and jumped back into my body and woke up. It felt so real! Like he was sitting right next to me. This happened 3 days after he died.
Woke up asking not to go I open my eyes to see blue crown returning to my head felt so peaceful
Hello I’m reaching out to you maybe you can help me answer…
My son has been seeing things these figures..
He first one day he was awake doing normal stuff then out of no where his eyes went blurry…
He then started seeing this figure with no face and a man shape started actions of wanting to be aggressive towards his dad.like want to punch him..
Then it disappeared..
He didn’t see it again being awake.. but has had dreams of this figure .. hurting him an turning into faces of people he loves..an then drowns my son in this dream.
Then about a year later this figure appears in a dream of his just recently…this time in his dream sees another figure a woman like red figure and both the red and blue figure are fighting…. he wakes up an sees a fast glimpse of the red and blue figure fighting each other…then it disappears..
Then he went to the park with his brothers and sisters…
This time while he’s awake…. playing the two figures red woman and blue man are fighting again… The blue he said turned into a evil mean thing then disappeared.. the red figure calls out to my son telling him not to worry I’ll protect you still no face yet… On who what it is…
Then few weeks ago.. while my son is playing his games on the TV in his room.. he said this red woman figure called out to my son…. A face he’s never seen…
He then asks me if there has been any family of mine that has passed away…
I told him yes showed him pictures of my aunt an he says mom this is the face I seen when I was playing my game in my room.. but she was older… Had kind of long hair..
My son said that the red woman figure finally had a face and said my name..
Tell Victoria that I love her…
Then the figure… Disappeared..
I’m sorry to bother but no one else I know that can tell me about the colors my son is seeing an the figures …
Or is this a message.. what does this mean… If I need to take my son to see you for help for my baby boy I will
He said he’s not scared of these things but that he thinks he can see things… but he doesn’t feel like anyone will believe him..
Then today the figure of my aunt comes again while I am talking to my son about him seeing these figure.. am him talking to who he said looked like my aunt who passed away about 5 Years now after being in a coma for 5-6 years..
The figure looks like my aunt and while on the phone with me he says my aunt that was once just a red figure of a woman type starts. Trying to talk to me through my son…
I’m stuck in this bad is this not godly…. Is this okay do I handle these things he’s seeing talking to is it really my ain’t my son sees or something being her… He also mentioned while we were talking that the figure to be my aunt stated her favorite bird was a hummingbird….
An that she loved and misses me kept saying that with short responses.
I had a dream there was two separate the made one I could tell the difference. It’s like I came out of the first dream with two people that was by my side in the first but they changed into my sister and my cousin who was also close with my aunt that passed. Well in first dream at the end I was with to strangers that I felt like was my best friends and my side of stomach hurt really bad had me on the ground so he said it was my appendix or gallbladder so we went to hospital and as I went threw the door I seen my aunt that has passed away couple years now . Well she was walkin toward me I looked back at my frie da and it was my sister and cousin that took the place of my two friends I was just with I took a double look cuz I knew I was in a dream and I looked back to my sister and said you see who that is and she said my aunta name and it made me cry right away I turned and locked eyes with my aunt we was mid was mid walkin toward each other and as we both reached out our hands she put hers down right before our hands almost touched I could feel the warmth almost and as she did that she turned in a room it was like half a patients room and supply closet . Both one room with curtain between . And I go in after her after lookin at my sister telling my cousin who it was . Which is three was close with her his eyes light up we all storm in and as we walk in there was a doc and patient on first half other the room we pay no mind and go to other far side of curtain there was the same person but when we tapped that person shoulder they stood up and turned around and from what I can remember it was her anymore I think it was a stranger and I started crying with my sister and cousin and woke up crying . I just had this dream . And also right as we was about to touch hands I remember her eyes locked with mine and she was smiling in the most peaceful way. Gives me chills. What you think happend there. Any feedback would be very appreciated I’m greatful
I’m reading this as I believe my late mum appeared to me whilst I was asleep last night . she kind of floated down to me and her face became clearer and clearer until she stood in front of me, smiled and went … that’s the first visit she made in the 11 years since she passed..
I had a friend get in a bad car accident they put him in a coma. He was not getting better. Like 4 days before he passed I had a vision of his grave stone at the cemetery. What does that mean?
I had 2 different dreams two nights in a row, I dreamed me and my two sisters we’re going to a yard sale at a church the church kept getting bigger and bigger and I turned around and look to call their names and it was gone I begin to cry ended up in this basement where many people were but they would not help me I said I’m calling my brother even though I knew he was deceased I pushed every button on the phone and he called me and he said sis what’s wrong and I told him I was lost and he said where are you at and I’ll be right there. The second one was last night I saw my mother playing his day working in the kitchen of our home place and I kept trying to tell her a man was pushing the door open trying to get in but she didn’t answer me and the man got in the house now that went upset me.
I wanted to share an experience I had a few years ago. My family and I had received the unfortunate news that my grandmother had passed away. My family and I attended her funeral and said our goodbyes. We were staying with other family members in there house. The night of I slept in the back room alone. I remember it being very dark. Instantly remember being in a dream with my nana by my side. We were at a local police station enquiring about a motorcycle. We couldn’t get past reception as I remember there was so disagreement about something. We left a little abruptly. As we walked out the motorcycle we were looking for appeared down the end of an alleyway. I said to nana, “let’s get it” . We ran towards the bike. We both jumped on and as I was about to start the bike I was confronted instantly with something of another world, that screamed in my face with a very high pitch than I immediately woke from the dream.
The next morning as I sat and ate breakfast I told my Aunty what I dreamt of. She was content that I had been visited. A couple of months passed and my folks told me there was something about a motorcycle that nana had purchased for a man, that had been stolen and some sort of investigation happening on it. This confirmed to me there is something bigger than what we experience here, in this realm.
I have had a visitation from my deceased husband one right after the other in the same night. They were both real, hearing his voice, what he said, and I woke up in a state of euphoria. This was maybe 6 months ago. I have gone to sleep asking for him to visit again but he hasn’t. Until this morning – I woke up at 4:20 am (I know I actually woke up, my alarm is set for this time daily for work and I take a thyroid pill at that time) and I smelled breakfast cooking downstairs. No one lives with me. It smelled exactly like when my husband would wake up early and make breakfast. I fell back to sleep thinking he’s downstairs. Then I was dreaming about a house that was heated by pillows… yeah, weird! All of a sudden, he is standing next to the bed holding a “heating pillow” and asks me to smell it. I was like, um, no… then we had a conversation and it felt so real! Was it a dream or a visit? Or did the dream morph into a visit? I was in my bed as I was when I fell ack to asleep after my alarm. I would love to think of it as a visit.
My old boyfriend died in 2021
I forgot how to spell his last name I haven’t thought about him the last time I saw him was 1989 we never say goodbye and we both loved each other dearly. I moved away he moved away and then late April 2022 I had this dream of our first date, where he kisses me passionately for five nights in a row, and I finally went and put his name. I only know the true three letters of his last name and date of birth .., I got all excited I saw his picture and then I realize that he passed away and I haven’t been normal since I missed so much this really happened to me or am I going insane
Had a wonderful visit last night ftom my son that passed from a TBI after a work acciden when he was 20yo. During this visit, I saw bruises on him and was comforting him, rubbing his arm which left me feeling calm and at peace, because I’ve thought about holding and smelling him daily since 11/2014.
I went for glass of water and to update my journal after waking when my phone suddenly powered off from an apparent empty battery but, my battery was 93% prior to shutting down , 1% as it shut down and 93% once it restarted which I contributed to energy needing to be used for his visit. My question; he was looked unwell, had fresh bruising on his chest and neck which make sense for his injuries, why would he be showing me this?
I had a connection dream in my bathtub when I was 36 years old with a celebrity that I had adored as a child and who had died about two and half decades before this connection. He told me that I must write a story about past lifetimes and I saw photo stills in black and white go through my head. After it was over, I woke up in a cold tub of water hearing a song written and recorded by he and his fellow band members. I got out of he tub and ran to my teenage daughter and told her about it. We were standing in my dining room when the lights flickered and surged one time, came back on and my cell phone which had been off began playing the song I had just heard. We both stood there, dumbfounded. To this day, I still feel his energy come to me, sometimes fleeting and sometimes it lasts. I am still trying to finish the book.
Why does my mom dream about my dad who passed away but she typically doesn’t remember the dream in her dreams she is with him but never sees his face for some reason, it was a difficult time as I took care of both of them but he was doing so well after heart surgery they wouldn’t take him at a vert good rehab instead they put him in a elderly home/ supposed rehab that is known for neglect as with my dad its a long story, finally after none of them listening to me. The one supposed doctor whos number the looser had given me I finally called and only because he was a perverted man which I only took the number for any emergencies after not being able to bring him home or moved to another facility because we weren’t aloud to use his cardiologist or pulmonologist who even worked at that hospital out of town, this hospital in town doesn’t even have a pulmonologist, lousy primary doctors who I’m stuck with being disabled badly & cant drive for seven years in chronic pain for 32. Which is another terrible story that is ti long and unbelievable to type here because the doctors here and hospital did nothing in five years to find causes knowing my spine upper and lower needed more operations after having eight botched spinal operations. Basically, I moved to help and be near my parents & no one would help me back in NJ family as well wouldn’t help me to just stay a few weeks it would of been a lawyers easiest win as all these doctors told me to get a attorney five years ago they refused to pay for the medical charges and lied about it despite pleading with them to send me to a neurologist and surgeon specialists. Even after the quack doctor they sent me to and all these other doctors said the same that it was imperative to go to one if two very skilled doctors or do anything to help as my fingers up to one side of my head now have no feeling yet i get shooting pain trying to just use my hand or turn my head. Its been constant and causing serious dangerous now & nothing helps and I look 50 years older in three years i live in fear the physical trauma is so bad. Its been two years i can’t even open a envelope & medicare wont cover my spine. My back has been collapsed for over ten years I loose feeling in my lower back, complete buttocks and both legs.& now I was told theres nothing that can be done for that & sitting is the worst now lying down I cant do anything to help anymore & my mom after two long battles just went through cancer at 78 & because my brother has been a major cause of our constant worries having no conscious heartless never contributed nothing since I needed to move in to help with bills & do everything for at least twelve years and he a nurse she got through the first two lengthly battles but in my condition and constant worries about her, if Ill make it myself, being stuck now to put up with my evil brother just to pay him when he’s doing nothing everyday and just before I was unable to drive us to doctors and go fir walks. He destroyed my brand new car that I only was able to drive for a year before my back became to severe to sit and having to turn my neck. Now we have a few months to move after stupidly my dad whom i do cherish kept renting instead of at least trying to buy even a small home never allowing my mol to take care of the finances which she has done an exceptional job despite my helping financially because her SS is only barely enough to cover the rent and at the worst time possible struggling more than I ever experienced in my life as I worked very hard until the work accident that caused my initial back and neck injuries that despite workers comp being responsible for anything related to those areas and one shoulder which they never acknowledged and its in the court documents from 1995, as I tried to continue working running a office after the accident wearing a brace using ice and heat I did not make it but a few years my pain was so bad back then but lived on my own my whole life once I turned 18.
My grandma visted me but I couldn’t hear her she wanted me to go closer to her but I felt weak and heavy like my heart was going slower. I called out grandma and I couldn’t get my self to wake up like it actually hurts to wake up. She recently passed and she was my everything
I totally agree.thank you for confirming.what about when a person you haven’t seen in years but you believe you have a twin flame-like connection?when they show up and they are just as vivid as the sleep connections with a past on loved one??
I had a very cool experience I’d like to share…
A day or 2 after my mom passed about 14 years ago, I believe my mom came to me in a dream clear as a bell with a lengthy message for me so I journaled it immediately because I don’t retain info very well. Sadly my letter disappeared and I do not remember the message. I tore the house apart many times to no avail. I have a little memorial box with the few things I have to remember her by, that I’ve not opened since the funeral due to so much trauma & dysfunction in my family. I’ve been through a lot of changes over the years, and attended Blairs event in Dearborn MI recently, which motivated me to open the box. No the letter was not in there as it was the first place I looked all those years ago. But what I did find was some things my mother wrote to me that I’d never read before! I sobbed and sobbed but it was so healing.
At Blains event I had also purchased his series of little books which taught me to be open to signs and experiences. Next thing I knew, feathers began appearing. I hadn’t seen a single feather in decades. But on the day I opened the memorial box, a beautiful, tiny, colorful feather, wafted downward info our doorway and my husband started to enter. We both saw it and I caught it in flight. That was the first of so many feathers that would land on our path in front of us and would show up in the most interesting locations, all different colors and sizes, outdoors and even indoors! I collected the first few and keep them in mom’s memory box with a note about their timing.
Yesterday morning I got up to use the bathroom and wanted to sleep a few more minutes. Next thing I knew, I was dreaming about my mom. She was standing in a doorway and I was so excited to see her so I ran over to her. Then it dawned on me that I was either dreaming or was having a “connection”, so I asked her, mom, what’s happening? Are you dead? (Which sounds so harsh but that’s how it came out in my dream.) As she stood there quietly looking at me, there was a blurriness that started to clear. You know how old pictures look and you really don’t think much about it, until you see a side by side comparison after technology has cleaned it up? It’s like when I asked her that question, a process took place to ensure I could see her crystal clear. I took a step closer and studied her face and I could see every detail and she wasn’t the old, withered woman devoured by dementia as I’d last seen her, but looked to be in her late 30’s/ early 40’s which is interesting to me because I didn’t remember her that way. Realizing this was a visitation, I suddenly felt pressed for time, so I quickly asked if I could hug her and without awaiting a response, I scooped my arms around her and held her tight and woke up right then in tears!
I remembered what Blair said about asking for a “bridge” so I did. A few minutes later when I turned on my phone, the first email I found was from Blair with the title, “HAVE YOU DREAMED OF A DISEASED LOVED ONE?”! It’s like I couldn’t believe it, yet wasn’t surprised at the same time! I was so excited to read it. It covered the couple questions I had, for example, I would have loved if mom would’ve reminded me of what she said to me in the dream I had when she first passed, or told me where the lost journal entry could be, and also found it odd that she didn’t speak to me at all, but only looked at me ALMOST expressionless. In his email, and in this blog in greater detail, he explains that it doesn’t take away from the fact that we had a visitation! Signs, messages, and visitations may not always come the way we want or expect, but are all we need and are proof that love never dies.
I accepted long ago that we don’t always get closure but can find ways to provide that for ourselves, and that not everything gets worked out on this side of heaven, but how wonderful to know we can choose to let things go and enjoy a sweet bond in new ways after we/they pass. Since I have released old indoctrination that no longer serves me, and have become open to how expansive God really is, my life has become very interesting and pretty magical, and I am loving this new phase of my journey. Thanks Blair for sharing some very cool tools with us, and so decisively, making things so fun and doable. Seriously though, WHAT A TRIP!
My grandma and grandpa are both deceased but my grandma in my dream I was in a bed and i felt her pull the covers back and she sat down next to me and said she needed to tell me something and I look out the window I see my grandpa waving then I seen cuckoo clocks and keys everywhere and then she disappeared I tried to get out but couldn’t all I seen were keys random keys everywhere so I looked out the window and both my grandparents were waving and disappeared what does this mean?
I had had dream my baby daddy keeps coming into my dreams alot like everyday when I go sleep wake up I can’t breath
Thankyou ❤️
My wife died 4 months ago, we were together 35 years, i have spoken to her in a dream, but last night was different she was cuddling me, and all of a sudden i held her hand, i could actually feel her pressing up against my back, it was so real, till i woke up!
I have always believed in the soul and spirit lives on after the death of our body, so its its really comforting to know we will meet up when its my turn to pass over!!
I recently lost my husband unexpectedly in June. Last night was the first night I had a dream and saw him standing there. Then there was a lady with a small child that said she was waiting to meet him for dinner as they always had lunch and dinner together. Then I told her he was deceased and the dream was over. I’m not sure what to make of this dream.
My sister passed away in 2013 from breast cancer. I think about her all the time and I miss her so incredibly much!
A few weeks ago I had what I believe is a visitation from her period I was winding down for the evening and had literally just close my eyes period I was not asleep I had just closed my eyes period and all of a sudden my sister appeared to me. She was in a bed and I believed she was in the hospital down. She looked like herself, not the way she looked when she passed away, which was she had no hair and ov been met, though she did not look too bad, but in the dream, she looks good and had a full head of hair. Like I said, she was in a bed. She turned her head towards me, smiled and waved and then she was gone. It lasted a whole maybe 5 seconds period it was just a flash but it was definitely something I experienced period it was not a dream because I was not sleeping, Of that I am sure!
What does this mean? I have had dreams about her in the past. Actually quite frequently. But this was the first time I had experienced what I consider to be a visitation.
What does this mean?