Dreaming of a deceased loved one: what does it mean?

Thank you Blair. Right after my loved one crossed over, he came to me in a dream/sleep connection. He stood in front of me and was wearing a black Patagonia vest. I noticed this was odd, because he only wore north face as a brand. He gave me a beautiful bouquet of colorful flowers and hugged me. Then he was gone. Since that time I have noticed that Patagonia seems to be a sign from him. Also, in a reading you gave me last year, he wanted you to ask me if “I got the flowers”. Amazing! Love never dies. Xo

I found this article to be very interesting, thank you for that. I do have a question because you brought up something I can’t answer on my own.

I have had visitation from my parents (along with other loved ones) a few times. Perhaps it’s just my mind ‘blurring’ the lines, but I can swear that at the same time they were present, there were others around whose faces I could not see, similar to the UPS delivery person you referenced in your article. For instance, we will be meeting in a park that we went to many times when I was a child. We’ll be walking along the path and pass by other people whom I cannot really ‘see’, such as their faces, but I can see us passing by them. Thank you for your wonderful newsletters.

My mother does not come often but when she does it is about a message the dream is about. She does not speak, ever. Instead she watches. It always feels like she wrote the dream script and is now watching to see how it turns out. When she was alive I did not like her. She had a mean streak and enjoyed hurting my feelings. I did not speak to her the last 5 years of her life so I am really surprised that she comes. She comes only once per year or so.
I had a dog who clearly saw spirits. He was smart and had this look in his eyes like he was wise. He comes in dreams and behaves in a human manner. Like when I was given some photos in a dream, I turned and gave them to the dog and he took them to another room and spread them out to look at them.

I very rarely remember dreams. Sometimes I wake up and think, “what was that?” But I did one time connect with my dad and I KNEW it was him and it was real. I was having extreme troubles in my personal life with a relationship that was failing. I was terribly depressed. My dad came to me just before I woke up. And I remember it to this day. It was in the early 90’s. My dad didn’t say anything to me. He just came to me and hugged me. It was so incredibly real. I felt the love gush from him to me while he was holding me. When I woke up, I felt incredibly rested. I felt energized. I felt extreme warmth and love. I’ve never felt anything like it before. It made me very happy. Shortly thereafter, I almost died. He came to me then and stopped me from going into the light. He’s always there I think.

2004-2005 changed drastically for my family. The years my oldest son (age then, 28) and my husband of almost 30 years were both diagnosed with cancer within months of each other. Our son is a survivor, and husband passed one month after diagnosis, in January, ’05. That year, October, I believe is when I met a man who would become a great friend and who would eventually become my husband, James.
One early morning in ’06 in a dream, I was standing in James’s kitchen talking to James who was standing in his living room and there was a large hallway (dog trot style) between us. Suddenly my deceased husband appeared between us . He was vivid, full bodied and actually wearing a shirt which I still had in the closet. He was known for his large charming smile and there he was, smiling at me. He walked towards me and with a felt swoosh through me..I asked James “do you see this?” He said he didn’t see what happened, then my deceased husband walked back through me from behind, same swoosh was felt then walked to the living room and walked through James turned around and came back towards me with that same smile. JAMES said “what was that?”. He had felt it!! I explained to him what had just happened and then I awakened with that VIVID memory and a peace in knowing we (our two son’s and I ) were safe with James. I actually didn’t feel I needed confirmation that James was to be the one I would marry, it was just known to me that it was right for us to be together. The peace I felt in that dream, and as I awakened was obvious to me. I haven’t had another dream of my deceased husband, not one that I can remember at least. And actually held onto that particular shirt he was wearing in the dream for a long time. James and I married in September, 2009. Living life as it is handed to us and happy! 11 years after this dream, I remember it as clearly as the day I awoke with that memory. I remember the peace I was provided through that experience as well. Unfortunately, I am unsure what became of the “shirt” because we purchased a new home, and afraid it was lost in the move. Although it MIGHT be in storage.
Isn’t this AWESOME!!??

I lost my 16.5 year old Yorkie Cocoa this summer due to my negligence when I left her out in the backyard and she drowned in the pool. I have not been able to forgive myself, I kept her ashes lit a candle several times in her memory, but know she is gone it hurts every day. I did adopt a stray 6 months ago and he is a hyper crazy dog but I am working with him none the less. Last week I had what felt like a conscious dream of Cocoa pulling on her leash next to my scotty Kyra, and thought she is no longer here I must be dreaming. I then woke up and fell asleep again and Cocoa was there again, I pulled her over, picked her up and kissed her crying all the time I miss you, I miss you so much. I could feel her body first time in a dream I was ever aware of something having form and substance I know she was there. I pray she is at peace and happy I adopted her at the age of 2 from an abusive owner, when I was ill I made one mistake that caused her death.

Hi there,

My late father died a little over 6 months ago. Since his passing, I observed several signs around his home and I also had 4 different dreams about him.

The first one appeared to be a warning because the event of his death triggered several issues regarding my inheritance, which other relatives are still trying to tamper and play with.

The second was an assuring dream in one of his old homes where I was as tall as a small child and he simply held me close to his chest and he was significantly taller in his team.

The fourth strangely came at a night when the chandelier and the stretch cables over his sick bed in his room suddenly began shaking even though there was no earthquake and nothing was going on in the floor upstairs. That night I asked him to visit me in a dream if that was his spirit shaking those items on the ceiling and I did see him. He was in his death bed with the blanket over his face. A man who may have been his father or spiritual father was standing over his bed and when the blanket was lifted to reveal his face, my father woke up and began crying. It was as though he did not want to die. What is strange is that I have no siblings, but a young man, who was his other son in this dream, and I took our turn after the elderly man to run up to his death bed. We were both crying too and trying to reach him as fast as possible. We knew we had to say Good Bye one last time before he closed his eyes and died again. What is strange is that my father died overseas in a 3rd world country where he lived, where I am right now, and I do sometimes suspect that he was murdered and the murder was committed in such a way to make it seem like it was a death that came to him naturally. My husband and I knew the maid at his home was being bribed under the table by my uncle who is now trying everything he can to make impossible for me to claim my father’s estate. I do believe my uncle conspired with the maid to expedite his death after he began transferring some of his properties to me because he strangely died in less than a month since I flew back to the States.

Please tell me what I can do to connect with my father’s spirit and get the answers I need.

So I had a dream of some guy I sort of knew in high school, he passed away 3 years ago. A month before he passed away I seen him and he didn’t see me but I felt the urge to speak to him but didn’t. Anyways well I had a dream of him but In the dream we were dating and I secretly would knock on the door and we’d kiss and what not, it felt so real. I felt warm, safe and loved and when I woke up still felt that. I had a crush on him my sophomore year and I think he did to but we never ended up really talking cuz he was really shy and ended up dating another girl etc.. well it felt so real, I woke up not remembering our surroundings but him and the moment we were having.. was it real or fake?

Thanks for this been wondering if my dreams are of my son Jonathan. Sometimes I only recognise the energy and it’s as I see him in an alternate life with other members.

2 and a half weeks after my Nana passed away. I had the most beautiful dream. I think she took me to her, we were in a VERY bright place with beautiful music playing. My nan looked younger, she was standing tall and even walked about (had been in a wheel chair for over 20 years). Her hair was coloured brown not grey. She was wearing the outfit she wore to my wedding 15 years ago and makeup. I think the message (no conversation) tell the family I’m young and fit again. She looked so happy. I totally believe I saw her for real and all her pain and illnesses are gone.

I’ve heard of these dreams and believe it had one last night. My mom died 1/11/18 from COPD & congestive heart failure. (She was on oxygen 24/7) It was terrible to watch. Last night in my “dream” she was laying in a bed blinking her eyes in an odd manner like there was something stuck in her eyes , her hair done and about 10 years younger and she wasn’t wearing any oxygen. She looked great.
She said something to me but I couldn’t hear so I leaned in and I asked her what she said to which she whispered “I’m blind”
I immediately woke from my dream and have been perplexed since becasue she didn’t have an eyesight pr Been when she was alive and it had nothing to do with her death. I feel like it’s a message but I have no idea what it means. Has anyone had this happen ?

My very first visit from a loved one that was like this was when I was 14 both my parents had passed and I moved into my Aunts House, she called me Cinderella, she even laughed when she said it! Her eldest Son died 7 months after my mom in 1972, she was never the same, I sat up in my bed he called my name came and sat on my bed and promised me everything would be ok, I always thought he meant she would give me everything she stole from
My Dad and I but actually I have been blessed with Beautiful children, Grandchildren and more love than a Woman could ever want, meaning more than any money she took, her kids are all miserable so he was totally right, everything is just perfect and I cherish that visit to this day 41 years later I can see it like it was yesterday! I thought I was crazy and was afraid to say anything but no doubt in my mind and was later told that lots of my ancestors were mediums and empaths

My mom passed away when I was 17. When I was 24, I had a visit from her. My husband & I were camping, and it was a peaceful evening as I fell asleep. Her image was very clear, but the background was total blackness. She looked healthy again, not the cancer ridden body she had at the end of her life on earth. She didn’t use words; she motioned with her arms like she was rocking a baby. I said “you can’t have a baby anymore!” She continued to sway her arms back & forth, & convinced me that I was the one to be having a baby! It has been a lasting memory that never faded. I’m happy that she was the one to give me such wonderful news! My baby is now 39 yrs old with babies of his own. So true that love never dies!

I took care of my Mother in Law for 3 1/2 yrs before she passed. In her final days I told her to come around me as a humming bird if she was still around us. Well it has happened only three times and at the same place when I’m going through a difficult time. Each time I see the humming bird I open my front door and there is a curved arch on my front porch. The hummingbird comes and hovers there for a few seconds so I see it and then zips off. This only happens when I’m facing a struggle and it only happen three times within 9 yrs. but I say OKAY Mom I know you are around me! I have lots of flowers (as I live in Fla.) and a humming bird feeder but never see them around the feeder or flowers. She was very close with our Boxer dog Teeko and we got a call from the vet that there was no hope and to come as he should be put down and when I opened the door to leave there was the humming bird in the arch way and I said to my husband Mom will be with us and will be waiting for Teeko. I believe next time the humming bird appears in the arch way it will be my Mother in law visiting!

There definitely is a difference between the two and every detail of the visit is real and remembered. It’s been a couple of years since my mom visited but I still remember it in detail and relish it! Thanks for being you.

I have had loved ones visit me after their passing telling me they are OK. Makes me feel so good when I wake.

i have had dreams of my brothe and i keep saying how good you look i never see his face but i think i see him where he lets me no that he is ok after a dream i have a cardinal that come to the house

Reading your article very interesting my husband died over six years ago and I’m wondering he came and kissed my four head and set me free we always watched the Waltons on television and he asked why I wasn’t watching them after he died what I couldn’t it was like a block there but after that kiss I was able to watch the Waltons . another incident six weeks after my dad passed away to the hour I had a morning visitation when I was sleeping and he came back because I told him before he died I want to know everything that I was telling him the spirit was showing me was true he came back and verify this for me thank God that he listened because I just built my spiritual strength up more . My house is so full of spirit beings I am very well protected and I think God for that also I believe very much so in the spirit realm that is more real to me then this earthly realm believe me and I thank God for people like you and you have a blessed wonderful day .

Blair, I had a very real dream of my grandma shortly after she passed. She my mom and I were standing at the fence talking, she told mom and I that we had to accept that she was gone so she could rest. My dad was in the yard mowing the lawn and grandma told us that he had accepted her passing and we needed to also, suddenly my mom asked me who I was talking to i told her grandma and she just walked away. Grandma gave me a hug and vanished. Shortly after that dream I started knitting and crocheting like grandma had. My dad told me grandma had given me her talent from beyond. I have always believed that she visited me that night. Annette Roberts

We took my Mom on a cruise. She had been just diagnosed with mesothelioma so we knew this would be our last trip with her. My Dad had passed away 15 years prior. I dreamt on the cruise that my Dad came to me in my favorite blue suit of his. It was so real, we were at a party and I knew if I turned away from him he would disappear. I asked him what I was supposed to do with my Mom and he just looked sad. Tears came down his face. Someone in the party called out to me and I turned away, and when I turned back he was gone. It was all so very real, not dreamlike at all.

Thank you very much. But since my husband died I haven’t been able to remember my dreams. Either before or after I wake up. If he’s communicating with me I’m not remembering it. Thank you Stacey

My Mother passed in the summer of 2014. I had only one dream since she left us, and that was the morning I awoke with a strong sense that she was trying to tell me something. Per usual, I checked my early morning emails and that’s when I saw you were coming to Scottsdale. I tried to shrug it off, but the sense of my Mother’s presence was so profound that I realized that she was trying to tell me to go see you. I was your first reading that evening… “A Mother named Margaret, or Margie, family of five, three of a kind two of another.” At first I asked my friend who recently lost her Sister, but she couldn’t give me a definite answer, so I then asked my Niece. You picked up that she wasn’t my first choice to take to the reading that evening. I took two photos with my Mother in them with the five children. You specifically said, my Mother told you that I brought two photos!!! Thank you for helping to bring me together with my Mother and easing my pain knowing my Mother is happy and with other family members. It’s amazing to me.

I recently experienced the worst thing that could ever happen to anyone, the loss of my only child. My emotions are all over the place . I have experienced many losses, but nothing feels as horrendous as this. I saw her in her bedroom, sitting like she normally would do. I felt her, she was real. My mom, who is also deceased , was dusting the mantel(as she always would when she was alive) and around my daughter’s ashes. My daughter told me that the ashes was not her, that she was here. I told her to please come to me before I fell asleep. She finally did and it has been a little over a month. I know this was the visit I was waiting for.

I had a dream years ago many years after my ex husband passed away while I was in the hospital with my mom. He came to me as my mom and I were at the back of the Jack in the Box in the parking lot and she was having problems and I looked up and saw a crowd of people coming towards me and in the middle was a tall man and his arms were spread out and as he came closer I realized it was my ex-husband. As he came closer he wrapped his arms around me and told me everything was going to be okay. I woke up after that and told my mom. it has been 20 plus years and I’ve never forgotten it.

I had a dream last night about a classmate I had in highschool. His name was Zach. He died sometime last year in Korea, in his military barracks. It was ruled as suicide but it seemed kinda off to me, and from what I’ve seen on Facebook, his sister thinks foul play was afoot too. To be clear, I hadn’t spoken to Zach in years. We weren’t especially close.

The dream was vivid, but at the same time, not. I can’t remember what kind of car he got out of, but I remember recognizing him, calling his name, and approaching him. He seemed surprised to see me. He was wearing the purple/pinkish T shirt I remember him wearing a lot in school.
We hugged really tightly. I remember that specifically, it was a really solid hug. And I remember being completely aware he was dead, and that this was a dream. But he looks at me after we hug, and he asks “Is this real?” And he seems to be in disbelief.
And I ask him “Does it feel real to you?”
And then I woke up. People talk about being visited in their dreams but honestly, it felt like I was the one visiting him? I’ve been thinking about it all day and night. We weren’t even close. We had a single class together and never hung out outside of it. Pretty confusing.

my grandmother passed just over a year ago and recently i have had 2 very intense dreams of her i could only hear her voice it was her voice it was so real i could hear her i could feel her with me and i woke up crying uncontrollably i could remember her voice broke i remember everything except wat she said i can’t get it out of my head but can’t remember i know she waa trying to tell me something i had another 1 last night i saw her this time and she was talking to me again and all i remember is her saying something about god and i woke up crying uncontrollably again. i know she was there but why can’t i remember what she is telling me

I had a visitation dream years ago. A co-workers husband came to me just before Christmas decorating a tree. I never met him before he passed and just knew his wife in by sight. He looked right at me with a beautiful smile, for a while, then faded away. I had not seen his wife in months but the next morning the first person I saw going into work was her. I passed on my experience and was rewarded with another beautiful smile and a thank you. She felt her husband was wishing her a Merry Christmas.
I was wondering why I don’t hear from my many family members who have passed. I never remember my dreams, that’s how know this was a visitation.
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The article was very helpful. You clarified the difference so very well. Thank you.

Hi Blair, I don’t dream I can’t remember the last dream I had. I don’t understand why or how this happens that someone doesn’t dream!

My mother was not a religious person-at all. She would not even participate in conversations near the topic of God, she hated going inside churches. This being said ; about 2 months after mom died, I had a dream where she was on her knees, on a conveyer belt , looking straight at me, moving backwards, she waved good-bye to me, and went through a pair of red velvet drapes. Does this mean she has entered Hell ? 2 months or so later, I spoke with a medium over the phone, she said mom was a lost soul. Mom passed away Oct. 19,2013 ; and what this medium told me; has bothered me as much as her passing away. Can you please shed any light on this for me. Thank you Blair.

Hi my husband died four years ago and I would love to have a visitation from him but he has never come to me in a dream. I ask him every night but no luck maybe he doesn’t want to contact me wish I knew.x

Blair-
Great article ! As always your “pearls of wisdom” invigorate my curiosity for
further spiritual knowledge. The distinction between the two states was clear, concise
and enlightening !
Thank you
Fenton Henrickson

I lost my sweet dog 5 days ago after 14-1/2 yrs. He had a stroke and died peacefully while I was at his side. I took his death very hard. The next night, for some strange reason, I woke up and saw a furry brown dog in the shadows and felt his presence, but it was only for a couple seconds. I thought it was his twin sister, so I went to check in the living room, but she was sound asleep in her bed. I didn’t realize pets who have passed could make contact with their owners.

I’m leaving one more comment only because I know it was her (my mom). Below, where you put your name, email address, and are supposed to put a website.. well… I put the arrow on it to type it in, and my mom’s full name was there… Then I felt her. I took apicture of it and sent it to my sister to make sure I wasn’t hallucinating.

I lost my Husband suddenly on 17th September I woke up on the .Monday morning and he was asleep could not wake him he lost his mum 2 weeks prior I’m list heart broken h was my love and soul mate I so desperately want a sign and know he is with me I thought I heard someone say they’ve me in my ear that morni g a fees hours after not sure if I. Is heard right or someone said that to me as a friend or it was my Husband I miss him so so much I do believe in afterlife bit I so want a sign

I dreamt I was driving and as I came up to this light I looked over and it was my deceased father who seemed very much alive. He jumped out and asked where was I going. My daughter was with me.
He said now what are you forgetting , wearing a tall purple hat, he gave it to me and gave my daughter one. I gave him a big hug and I didn’t want to let him go, but he said I gotta go. When I woke up it was if I were still trying to hold on with a hug. What is the meaning?

My aunt passed away a couple months ago. She used to love across the street from me. The other night just before I woke up, I saw her standing in front of me smiling. I did dream that night, but she was separate from the dream. I had asked her to visit me prior to that night. She was older when she passed, so when I saw her she was not in a young body. She looked healthy and happy. She was also very tan. I only remember her with fair skin, but when I told my other aunt about the visit she said that my aunt was always tan because she loved to work outside. As she got older, she lost pigment. Thank you so much for this article to validate her visit!

My wife passed away recently. A friend of hers made contact with me last night telling me she had dreamt about my loving wife the night before. She thought it might be a message. She dreamt we where in a big unfamiliar house. There where lots of children and other people. She did not recognize any of them but felt like she knew some. She said we sat on cushions on the carpet, opposite each other just talking. My wife was there sitting behind me. She said she was confused and asked her I thought you died. My wife then answered I always with Desiree(me). She said as she said this my wife looked at me saying I am always just behind her. She said she looked healthy, happy and younger. Just the way she always remembered her. Before my wife died she had cancer and was really sick, bedridden.

What does this mean. Is she at peace or is she looking after me?

Thanks for sharing your experience with the spirit world, I have had many experiences with my loved ones. It’s great to hear someone say your not crazy.

I’m going thru a very bad divorce. And I dream about him several times. Some are about his health and I also beg him to take me back. Several months ago he threatened to shoot me. So I left my home of 30+ years. Why do I keep dreaming about him? I loved what we had together for 19 of the 27 years we were married.

My son died in 2015 from cancer and a few months later when I was sleeping he walked up to me and put his arms around me and held me for what seemed a long, long, time. I could feel him holding me. Then he backed away and said “I have to go back”. I started to cry and said something like ” I don’t want you to leave” and he said again ” I have to go back”. Then he turned and walked away. When I woke up I KNEW that that was real and I felt so loved and peaceful knowing he was alright.

After that, I started talking to him periodically during the day as I was doing things. He always teased me about how many clothes I had so when I would go into my closet to get something I would say things like “Gosh, what do I wear today”, etc. and then I would say “hear” him teasing me and I would say “I know Eric, I have too many clothes! But I love clothes and shopping!” This went on even as I would go to a store I would walk in and say, “I know Eric, I don’t need anything, but I’m just going to look and if I see something I HAVE to have then I will get it!” 2 or 3 months later he came to me again and he had on a button-down oxford cloth shirt that was so white it was glowing. He was glowing and looked so clean and fresh and beautiful! We started talking about clothes and I guess shirts came up and he started telling me that he had shirts in different rooms and I said “Eric, how many shirts do you have?” And he (having a wonderful sense of humor) said “Oh, thousands!” I burst into tears and woke up. I giggle to this day and am so happy that he could keep his wonderful sense of humor. I always could make me laugh like no one else could.

Hi, Thank you for this information. Its a coincidence that last night I had a Visitation in my dream and today I see this in my e- mail. Last night I saw my husband as plain as day. He was hugging me, he is tall, and it was his face and beautiful wavy grey hair. I can still feel the warmth of his body holding me.

I’m responding to your email today about dream visitations. I think they are amazing. I’ve had visitation dreams to numerous to count. My son Nick seems to appear at just the right time. When I’m dealing with a lot of stress or illness he appears. My Mom and dad have shown up. You feel so good when you wake up. My son always leaves me feeling loved and hugged.
A lot of different spirits show up in my house. I’ve told my husband it feels like our home is a central clearing house. When my dad visits he smokes as does my son. Different brands however. I’ve actually had to ask them not to continue smoking as it makes me cough. I’ve gotten lots of perfume smells as well. The best thing for me and my husband is when we’re making a special dish and we use what is now known as the magic bowl. I ask for help with cooking and the love just wraps around you and what we make is awesome. It feels like there are so many spirits helping. (at this point people roll their eyes and look at us like we’re crazy) Are we just imagining this?
Actually Blair you helped me a long time ago. You appeared with your stories about your spirit guide and how the afterlife was. Everything you wrote validated my beliefs. So thank you
very much. One day I hope to see you in person when you come to Windsor ON.

I do have visitation dreams with my loved one who passed in November……and when I wake I feel as if he is actually in bed with me…I put my arm over to touch him and then I know he is not there but he was very much so in my dream…….I treasure these moments and know he is with me……bless him for being there……..

Thank you for explaining the difference in a dream and a visitation Blair……it sure made a lot of sense….

Be safe, be well and thank you for being there for people like me… Love and light to you always

Margo

It’s been one year, seven months, 29 days since my husband died. The only visitation I’ve had was when I “saw” him standing next to the bed…and then poof, he was gone. It was so dimensional. I’ve had a dream or two where I knew he was in the dream, but I couldn’t see his face and there was no interaction. I have had numerous “signs” but I would love to dream or have a visitation. I have written a note before going to bed, leaving it next to his photograph saying I would love to have him visit. But nope. Am I demanding too much?

This is kind of in reverse. I visited him. My brother died from suicide 7 months ago and tomorrow is his 27th birthday. Last night I dreamt that I was going somewhere with someone(not sure who it was and went ahead of me on foot). It wasn’t far, so I walked to where I thought we were going. This was in the daylight and people were around so I wasn’t scared, but the neighborhood was old like kind of in ruins as if I were in the Middle East somewhere. When I turned down the street, I saw the entrance sign above the opening to what looked like an outdoor market. It read “City of Deceased”. I walked in and there were lots of people and it was pretty crowded down a narrow road serving as the market. Everyone seemed focused on where they were going and no one was paying attention to me of course. Then there he was….my brother. He was the only one standing still facing toward me as I was walking forward. He was talking into his cell phone sounding frustrated asking it to call me. He was standing with 2 shopping carts full of what looked like groceries. When he saw me, he seemed relieved like he’d just gotten separated from me in the crowd. When I got to him I led him over to a set of benches in the shade to sit. I was so emotional that I leaned my head on him and cried so hard. He asked me, who did this to you?”, and i reflexively responded, “you, you did this to me”. It was like he was coming to a realization. I told him, “but I’m glad I’m here with you and I can hold you and feel your warmth even if it’s for one last time”, and he started tearing up. But the dream abruptly ended before I could explain and tell him anything else. I feel like I left him sad and confused. It didn’t feel like a “goodbye”. I feel like I need to reassure him and help him move on.

Hello Blaire! My parents have been gone quite a few years. My dad would visit and just stand watching, never say a word. But one night he came to visit and I told him I loved him and he leaned over and I kissed his cheek! I could feel the stubble on his face. When I woke up I felt happy , yet a bit lost. I wish it was a longer visit, but I know that my dad is happy and we’ll. I have seen my mom too, looking so young and happy, but she doesn’t seem to know I am there. I was with her when she passed and I am quite thankful for that.

Thank you for your insights, mine have always been I can sense who they are but not see them but the message or dream conversation is conveyed. My mum is the only one who comes and takes me on adventures but always tells me I have to go back and then she’s gone until the next time. It’s been awhile since her last one but know she’s still around,especially since my dad just passed.

I had my father come to.me there another night I was very upset by something my spouse did and I could hear my father claiming loving voice talking to me and last night he was playing a song that I can relate to about my love for my husband and earlier today I found the song and listen to the song and understand the song and words and meaning behind the song. He has played music to me before. In fact my mother who is alway dead. Does the same thing but she try’s to sing what ever the song and it song that she never know or heared of and doesnt know the words .this her way of communicating me?

Thank you for this. I now know they were visiting me. Even during the day I’ll be driving a song we shared will come on I’m crying a cardinal will pass I’ll feel her energy so strong I literally look over at my empty seat but sometimes I know shes there. I had a dream about her last night and found this, this am. I wake up feel like shes in my bed ,during the day I can feel her next to me so strong sometimes. She leaves me pennies and signs. I’m also very intune with my dreams I have the same dream every year same season for years, I wake up use bathroom go right back into my same dream where I left off I make conscious decisions and yes I’m sleeping but my mind knows in my dream hey dont do that or it’s ok it’s just a dream, I’ve always been able to do this.

I had a dream about my partner who passed away in March, he was just standing there in like a light type form and he just smiled at me like he was proud and happy and like he was saying he loved me and then all of a sudden I woke up..

My grandfather died when I was 10 years old, yet I always felt connected to him. When I was 35 years old, my husband and I all but gave up attempts to have a baby. One night I dreamt I was a child gain, sitting on my grandfathers lap. We were laughing and I could feel the excitement and joy as I always remembered there being. He suddenly stopped and with a very stern look said “be careful.” That startled me awake . The next day I was driving home from work and in my head I heard “be careful” and within seconds there was a multi car accident in front of me! I was lucky not to be involved and knew my grandfather warned me. Weeks later i found out I was pregnant and delivered my son 2 weeks early… on my grandfathers birthday ❤️

I had a visitation dream of my brother in law, a few days after he passed away. 4 years later and I still remember the dream, how he looked, what he was wearing, the hug I felt in that dream. I woke up so happy and energized and just such a calm feeling that I’ve never felt before or since that dream. I’ve always hoped to have more loved ones visit me but I don’t know how to let them. I think the reason he visit me was because I felt so sick to my stomach full of guilt feeling like it was my fault that he passed and just full of regret for how we wouldn’t get along and fight. I miss him terribly. He was only 26 and had his whole life ahead of him.

I had such a vivid dream where my mom was in her bed where she passed.. I went back there and asked her what was wrong and she told me she was in pain. I went to tell my brother we needed to call some meds in for mom cause she was in pain and he then looked at me and said mom is already gone Stephanie and I said no she’s in her bed. I then realized in the dream she was gone.. she died recently of cancer and kinda unexpected. I wasn’t ready fully. I was just wondering what this meant.

I had a dream of two aunts and my Mother they all have past away years apart I conversation was my aunt I asked her if she needed some help in her yard then we all started to look up into a beautiful valley focussing on some beautiful pine tree. Then the my cell phone woke me up it was my Sister she inform me my our cousin my aunt daughter pass away last night.

I believe I had a visitation dream a few nights ago. For background, my boyfriend died 5 months ago. I had a very vivid dream recently about him, I usually don’t remember dreams especially not vividly. In the dream it was based it in the future. We were in the house we looked into buying before he died. I was just off of work and he was waiting for me to get home. We started making dinner and going about our usual routine for the evening. I started hearing noises in the house. He didn’t say anything about it. I searched the house and found a puppy in one of the rooms. He was making jokes about it. This was the exact breed of dog he always talked about getting. He finally persuaded me to keep this puppy. He told me how happy he was about it and how much he loved me. He looked so happy holding this puppy while I finished dinner. My boyfriend struggled with depression before he died and for him to look so happy made me feel so good and connected to him. Is it possible for him to be reaching out to me in this dream even though it was set in the future and he is already gone?

I had such dream about my husband who recently died.. Short but fell back asleep and it continued, again short but so real I felt the hug. So comforting. Very strange how vivid it was. Also had messages from 2 of my brothers years ago.

I had a dream I was somewhere outside near a shop with people can’t remember who then I saw my brother I was so happy I ran 2 him he gave me a huge bear hug I didn’t want 2 let go I was so happy 2 see him b hugged by him he was wearing a blue checked flannel shirt he looked younger tho than last time I had seen him alive he looked good then we sat 2 talk then he said he had 2 go and was gone I ran in 2 the shop calling 4 him crying calling 4 my brother but he wasn’t there I was then crying calling 4 my sister I woke up sobbing uncontrollably I got up 2 look 4 my brother but he wasn’t here I tried 2 call my sister she called me back but I’m still upset and can’t stop crying my brother’s been passed 4 nearly 2 yrs I guess I miss him more than I realised

I came home from work last Friday afternoon. Made some lunch,ate then settled down with my tablet to brouse around YouTube etc. I must of dosed off for what seem like a minute or two later,with the tablet still in my lap.
I found my self in a very summery,very vibrant back garden of sorts.I say that because it wasn’t mine!
I was still slumped and felt semi awake,with my back leaned up against a fence. All of a sudden I felt a clip from a hand on the back of the head via my right ear!! Now. I call that an old School clip. I had a few as a child and never like it! Still in the same state I jumped up and spun around to see who clipped me. I saw my friends older brother who had passed away 10 years ago. He looked very well,a younger version of himself. I always idealised this guy when I was growing up. He was 10/11 years older than us,always well dressed and quietly charismatic.He looked just the same. Everything was vivid!! HD!! I called his name in disbelief he just had a half smile with a disapproving glare and dropped his stare to the tablet. With that I jumped up out of my sleep.

I just dream my husband who passed away about a month and half ago.. On my dream my mother is giving him a sponge bath then when he rolled back his eye is gone like those in horror movie, just a dark circle. Then their is more to it on the dream but thats the only part i saw him.. What is the meaning of that. Im concern if his fine in after life. Why his beautiful eyes is gone. I hope you can help me.

I had a dream about my Grandad who passed away around two months ago. The only thing that makes me doubt it was a connection was that he was awfully short when he was quite tall. Apart from that though, this really made me feel as if he came to visit me. I wish he did. In the dream it didn’t last too long though as he had left the spirit door open and other deceased people came through which forced him to go back. Sadly. But I hope it was real as I felt as if he didn’t know I love(d) him – I needed him to know that

Blair i had the weirdest dream about actor Jonathan Brandis who died by suicide in 2003 from hanging. I’m a huge fan of his and even have a autograph.

There were 2 different parts. One part we were in this vehicle with another guy and I guess Jonathan wanted to die and take us with him by driving off some cliff. I yelled at the other guy to jump out as I tried to prevent the steering wheel from going in the wrong direction or something. 

The 2nd part was different Jonathan was apparently already deceased but his spirit was around at this house of some kind. He was younger looking now. Probably around the age of when he did the never ending story. I physically hugged him. Hard to explain this but his spirit was apparently in a body that didn’t last long physically even though it was a kid version. He kept coming back like he was repeatedly given a physical body to come visit in again in this dream. Like someone might have been “Allowing” him. I felt connected to him somehow. There were other parts and people in the dream too. I remember wanting to talk to someone about what I was experiencing and wanting questions answered.

Jonathan’s suicide effected me deeply. I guess I in real life I feel some of the sadness he did.

i believe i had a visitation dream but i’m not completely sure. i lost my great grandma 6 years ago, we were very close. last night i saw her she was clear as day, wearing her pink night gown and her hair looked greasy out of her curlers. she was standing in the doorway to her living room. it looked like she was looking at my great grandpa (her husband) once she realized i could see her. she kept saying “no this isn’t good, you’re not supposed to see me” she told me she loved me and then she left. does that mean anything? why wasn’t i supposed to see her? did she aim great grandpa and get me? i’m supper confused

I had a visitation dream. She passed away this month on the 15th she was 21 yrs old and was My sons ex-girlfriend.. All she wanted was to live with us n loved my son very much. Tbh mom got in between them so much n it all ended… It’s hard to accept she is no longer here. I loved her very much n protected her at times.. In my visitation I was walking down to my car with my husband and I noticed she was walking with my son. I looked at her and I was a bit confused but I was very happy to see her again. She was wearing a white summer dress eating a red lollypop, black wavy hair (hair was under n her shoulders) and kinda messy she loved messy hair but there was this glow around her as if the sun was behind her, it was a nice breezy day too. We made eye contact and she had a smile on her face very cheerful then I woke up like omg I saw her and she looked happy! It help me feel alot better since the last time I saw her was in her casket.. I gave her a kiss on her hands she was wearing gloves and i told her I’m here with u till the end.. I hope she heard me.. I kissed her hands and said good bye as I’m walking away n felt chills all over my body
.Cold chills I hope it was her hugging me… this was 3 days ago.
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Thank you Blaire for all you do.

My brother died 4 years ago, he commited suicide…3months after his death, i dreamed of him in a morgue, a very cold morgue. He’s crying and asking for forgiveness, he told me he just woke up in a very cold room and he didn’t know what happened. (He’s intoxicated with alcohol that time he commited suicide). Then I woke up remembered it clearly until now…then lately i dreamed of him again after 4 years…In a church he came out and reached me and I hold him, I hugged him tight and it felt so real and I missed him so much, his face is the same but he got thin and the place felt a little gloomy…I was forcing him to come with me and go home with me because it felt very real, HIM standing right in front of me like he’s just gone in other places, felt like he’s ALIVE and then he told me he can’t and a part of me know why…I looked at him and there’s a bit flash of his wife and daughter’s face and he just smiled at me again and I woke up…tell me if its a visitation or just a random dream…

Had a visit from both my parents with my mom holding my 1.5 yrs old son. They both were passed before he was born and although I’ve had them come to me before this one was extra special as it was the first time they connected with my son in a dream. Glad to know my feeling that it was real has some validity now.

I know I was visited by a loved one in my dream there is no doubt but I also seen something truely haunting that I can’t forget and I am trying to find someone who can help me understand what I seen my loved one urged me not to look that I wasn’t suppose to see what was on the other side but I looked anyway and seen something I know I should not have PLEASE!!!! If anyone can help me email me I just want to understand what I seen

what I would like to know is, how do you stop the yelling and the screaming and the in your face confrontations, I have been having real conversations with people in my sleep since I was a child. I am writing them all down in a book for publication but some of them are just scary.

I need a guide

Ive been having dreams of my friends son that passed then he brought along his friend that also passed. I wasnt real close with my friends son and never met the friend that also passed ever before but i know his mother. Should i tell both of them that their kids have come and talked to me in my dreams?

I’m concerned as I dreamt my dead mum said I’d soon be with her this is the 2nd time in the space of 4 years. She’s been dead since 2006.

I had one from my mawmaw. I wasn’t able to see her 5 years before she died, so it had been a while. I felt regret and cried every month for about a few years after she passed. One night, I dreamed I was sitting with her in her living room, and she was hugging me, she looked exactly the same as I remembered her, I could even smell her it was so realistic. She didn’t say anything tho, just hugged me and maybe even smiled I can’t remember. It was closure for me and ever since I haven’t cried.

i had a dream about my step dad dead and he is laying on my bed after that in my dream and he talks to me he is elderly im a little worried

My father died when I was 4. I have a photo of him on my nightstand. All my life ( I am 60 yrs old now) I have really grieved the fact he died when I was so young and I have always felt so cheated and wondered how different my life would have been if he’d been there. I KNOW he is always with me. He has came through to me through others several times and through many many signs, but I always wonder…why doesn’t he come directly to me? One night before turning in, I held that picture to my chest and asked…why don’t you come to ME directly. That very night I had a dream he was with me, he came to me, held me in his arms and said…we will be together again. It will seem like a long time to you, but like five minutes to me. He just continued to hold me and I could feel so much love. In a way it made me feel sort of strange because I was only 4 when he passed and only have a few faint memories of him. But I could feel his love, and I was so happy and my heart was so full but I was still uneasy for some reason. I have NO DOUBT it was a dream connection with him and he is with me. I have had many signs throughout my life.
I recently heard from another medium, Marisa Ryan on YouTube, that if you continue to let yourself grieve that it makes it very hard for a loved one to come through to you, but instead be joyous they are there and communicate with them more and exercise the connection. Do you agree that continuing to grieve the unfairness and the loss can cause it to be harder for them to connect directly? You are my favorite A#1 Medium and you are so legit. Do you agree with this? Love and light to you Blair!

Thanks, Blair, for this great website and your newsletter. Although I’ve learned over many years pretty well how to tell the difference between a visitation/message and a dream, it’s so affirming to read what you and others in the comments have to say. The very first time I was sure I was being spoken to by a “dead” person was a very long time ago. My grandmother and my mother didn’t get along well and my mother spent much of her life hurt by it. My grandmother kept “pestering” me, as she liked to call it. She want’ed me to tell my mother that she really loved her and was sorry she’d been partial to her sons. I had to find a way to tell my mom that without saying that I had actually “heard” from her mother. I did, and my grandmother stopped dropping in that way. Some years afterward, my mother thanked me for “helping her” understand her mother. She said it had made her feel better.

Il lost 2 loved ones this year, my beautiful aunt as well my cousin who was severely delayed.
In my dream, I went to heaven knowing it was just to see them both.
I first saw my cousin, who was talking and laughing, which he was not able to. In my dream I hugged him and said I couldn’t believe you can talk! His response was, up here, everything is different, and I am doing okay.
I immediately saw my aunt after in the same room, who I ran to and hugged crying saying how much I missed her.
I then work up from the dream.

Is it simply a message saying their okay and together?

i had a dream of my dad last night he said baby im tired and his voice sounded so strained whitthered and it seemed he tried so hard to get the words out he called on a wire phone then one time in the drean he was holding me from behind and we were just sitting on something. Then i asked him if he wanted go get a room hd said yes because hr needef some rest what fo u think it means he dies in june of 2020 and j missed his last phone call i miss him he and i were extremely close please respond.

I had been my 98 yr. old mother’s caregiver for the past 12 yrs. My mom & I were very close. I was a late in life baby that came along 19 yrs. after my 2 brother’s. Plus I was the little girl she had hoped for. She & I endured many loses of our family member’s, one especially tragic was my second eldest brother’s death @ 34. We never really found out what had happened to him, but it involved police brutality. That was 48 yrs.ago, so you can imagine how things could have easily been covered up! Transparency was non existent. I have never gotten over the loss of my closest, beloved brother. He in fact 2 wks. before he died, had a dream of his impending death! He told my mom & myself, that he dreamed he was standing in a line of people whom were going to the gallows! My mom was freaking out & didn’t want to hear anymore of my brother’s dream! But I had always been interested in the paranormal & premonition dreams, so I wanted him to continue w/ the dream & what happened next! He went on to say that the next scenario was where he saw himself in a casket & my mom was standing by the casket, crying & he was trying to say to her “Mom, I’m not dead, I’m not really dead!” That “message” is what I have carried w/ me all these years. After he had passed, my mom had a realistic visitation, where she actually felt his face & hands. Also there were other auditory things that occurred in the house where we all lived. It all stopped a few months after he had passed & then 40 yrs later, my 2 yr.old granddaughter & I were downstairs late one evening & I was trying to get the baby back to sleep, she was lying down on the bed & I was sitting beside her, when all of a sudden she sat up & started crawling towards the end of the bed! When she got to almost the end of the bed, she turned on a dime & crawled as fast as she could back to the head of the bed & she was trembling! I was trying to ask her what was wrong, & I just asked her, “what is it baby? Did you see something? & She was only 2, but she could communicate pretty well. So she shook her head yes, that she had seen something, so I calmly asked her “was it a person?” & She said yes, then I asked, is it a boy, or a girl? She told me it was a boy, then she pointed to the t.v. @ the end of the bed & said ” he’s right there”!! If that isn’t proof of a visitation I don’t know what is! I continued to watch her & kept looking in the direction where she had pointed, wishing I could see what she had. Then all of a sudden my grandbaby sits up & starts waving bye-bye to the “boy” that she was seeing. The next morning still in shock of what I had witnessed w/ her the night before, & telling my mom & other’s what had happened, I decided to find a picture of my brother to show it to my grandbaby to see her reaction if any, to it. & She said the person in the picture was who she had seen!! When my mom passed away 2 years ago, I had a weird incident happen with my cell phone. About a month after she was gone. I started to text a friend one afternoon, when the phone started typing out words on it’s own! I was so busy trying to stop it from rapidly typing out random words, that @ first I didn’t notice what it was spelling out but I had seen that the first few words were mom, love & blessings! Then it was saying something about coming up to the hospital, (which she had been in for 2wks before they put her in hospice @ home) as the text was continuing on , it repeated these words several times, “Her, her, her, then it spelled here, here, here! I would say it was about 20 repeats for each word! Then in my effort to stop it from texting so I could actually see what all was typed out, I must of caused it to delete all of it! I just witnessed something pretty miraculous & now it was gone. I had to believe it was my mom not only sending her love & blessings, but showing me she learned (she was always in the dark about texting & how all modern technology works! ) @ 98 she wasn’t about to try & figure out how to do it this late in life! She knows now! So yeah, I believe, just wish she would message me, or call my name again, sending my ❤️ to all my family that have gone beyond the veil.

This has reassured me that my grandparents were with me last night. So helpful and reassuring. Thank you

I had a dream of someone that I loved very much he passed away two years ago in the dream I just I was like oh my God I haven’t called him he’s going to be so mad at me and his number popped up in my dream like an big numbers like used to whole number and in my dream I knew he wasn’t here I knew he was dead and and I knew in the dream also I’m saying myself that’s not his number anymore I don’t know how much talk to him and when I woke up I was so confused and it is a I’m still thinking about it Lino as do you know I’ve had maybe just like I’ve had two dreams of them the last one previous to this one he tipped his hat to me which I figured that meant he was gone like gone and then like a year later just about his mom passed anyway I just want to know what does that mean

My husband died almost 5 yrs ago, quite suddenly. He wore my favorite Cologne. Evey so often I can smell it. Mostly at a door or gate. I always tell him hi. It is a nice way for him to let me know he is around.

Thank you. I had a friend/co worker who passed in early August from COVID. It hit really hard. A few days ago, right before my alarm went off, I had a dream about her. In the dream, this person is not my friend but an exact look alike. Just like you wrote above, I can see her as clear as day, every feature, what she wore, with her hair pulled into a bun on top of her head. I walked up to her and even fully aware that “this” person was not my friend, I hugged her and just cried. I woke up crying, feeling extreme sadness. It’s been a few days and I still feel emotional about it. In my heart I know it was her and I am so grateful that she came to me.

I lost my dad in April my mam 15years ago my dad was all I had I was in my bedroom but not asleep my son had two of his friends sleepover who are 15loud boys however when I got into bed around 4.30am I am unsure of what it or where I went I saw my mam and dad before me there was some sort of pale orange light warmth around both my dad said he was OK and happy snfd together he then said we are sending someone to yiu i saw the man whom is actually known to me briefly then felt as if he was actually laying beside me on my bed very closely to my back I had overwhelming feeling of completeness peace and as this was happenings o had feelings of awareness of my tears of both sadness and happiness of my parents visiting but tried to shake off the persons presence of the person he said he was sending it was strange bit very real now this person has turned up strong what is this I knew him briefly but after one visit feel has if I have known him always I did not tell him what I saw but do not understand how my dad could know him has he had never met him before he died

Wow, that it so great to read these. I have a question. I saw my dad in my dream who passed away three years ago in the dream today when he was crossing over. He was laying in bed and had tears on his face and what it seemed like couple of hrs after I saw his spirit exiting his body. I saw the white cloud as it was pulling upward and staying, “I’m Michael now” and i woke up. I prayed the night before to find out all my spirit guides names and what they look like. Does it mean that my dads spirit’s name is Michael? Do they change the names?
Please email me when you have the free time. Greatly appreciated it. Thank you so very much.

I had a connection with my nearly 7-year deceased grandmother last night. I saw her sitting in her chair that she always sat in, cross-stitching, which was her favorite thing to do. I ran over and hugged her, and it smelled like her. I started crying and she told me that she loved me, and my family and told me that she is sorry that she didn’t take care of herself because she cannot see me now. while in the dream i was 10, which was the age I last saw her. Now that I am awake i cannot stop crying.

I have seen my grandmother standing by a fence one breef moment and other time’s my other (mom shirley ) saw and described my parents coming here to my home to visit .I have seen other folks in our historical museum why is it I am able to see them clear as day am not afraid of this but fascinated

My mother died almost four years ago she came to me in a dream , her hair was beautiful and snow white and so was her skin , and all she said was she knew she was dead. I don’t understand what it means.

Most of my dreams appear as you say visitation dreams do. I see the people clearly and I always do completely plausible things, in terms of real-world physics. It’s usually not as /me/ me or things /I/ would do in my day to day life or in places I’ve ever been but it’s not unreasonable to say I wasn’t in someone else’s day to day life. I have had a few dreams where I can’t recall faces once I wake up but that was when I dreamt of celebrities. I did recently dream of my two dogs that have passed away and there were two presences I didn’t see but felt in the room and a woman who was not at all clear other than the fact that she was an older woman. All the details of that dream were blurred but the two dogs and the fish she gave us. (If you have any insight on this dream I would appreciate that as well.)

I don’t dream all that often but when I used to dream more often when I was younger, I dreamt as you describe dream visitations and all the details would eventually blur away as I woke up. Recently, I’ve been dreaming a bit more often and it’s been of people in my life. Once it was a dream of my grandma who I refuse to talk to getting bad news to find out from my mother that my grandma’s sister is in the hospital. That’s the only dream that I’ve connected to my reality but I’ve never dreamt like regular dreams. All this is probably unneccesary information but:

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I didn’t know my biological father in the portion of my life where memories were formed but I found out that he passed away a few years back. Is there any way you know of that I can reach out to him in the spirit realm. Any response would be greatly appreciated but it would mean the world to me if I could get an answer before Halloween ends. Thank you so much for reading my comment.

thank you im 10 and my passed away grandma visited me 1 time and never talked to me and there was this brown dog and 3 men in my dream to and my grandma passed away in march an passed away 3 days before my birthday so everyone was sad on my birthday

My visitation dream was so clear and I was 100% certain it was really my dad reaching back to me. I was 8 years old and he had just died. I answered the doorbell and it was totally black outside. I was about to go back inside because there was no one there, when suddenly dad appeared above me suspended in the air, completely lit from within so I could see him clearly against the dark all around him. He smiled at me and waved and I remember thinking oh my gosh, it’s dad, but he’s dead! I felt only happiness and love and without speaking I heard his voice in my head say “Don’t worry, I’m alright”
I am so grateful he was able to do this for me.
I’m now 62 and he came back only once more a few years ago. He was sitting by my bedside and he said “ you are okay, and I have to move on now , but if you ever need me, I’ll be here for you. “ I remember thinking oh no, please don’t leave me, because I had always felt all my life that he was with me. I had never come to terms with his death until I got counselling about 10 years ago. So maybe he knew I was okay.

My dad passed away Jan 4th, 2020. Here for the past few weeks I have been dreaming about him every night! Some nights it’s just a simple hug from him, sometimes it’s a phone call. I really do enjoy these visits, I’ve just been wondering if dreaming about him every night if there is more to the meaning than just dreaming about him (I’m sure that doesn’t make a whole lot of sense lol). One thing that I do know, I have had a difficult time finding peace with his passing. I have felt very angry, not at him just the way he passed. I’m trying every day to find peace with him being gone, the hardest thing to do.

I was surprised to see my mom who passed away a little over 2 years ago in my dream standing near the family dinner table smiling watching over the shoulder of who was sitting there and when i realized it was her i must of made a crazy face bc she was surprised too. She seemed surprised too that I saw her there… So i hope your right that she will come back.. Bc we both were surprised and i woke up like noooo i finally got there and didnt get the hug or her words of advice or anything just shocked i made it and saw her. I think she was too.

I had a dream that the my late dad said he didn’t died. I also dreamed about my late grandmother agreeing that my dad didn’t died. It was weird because my dad gone out of the door but the next thing I remembered is that I’m talking with my late grandmother outside and my dad came out of the door again. Please help me interpret this. Thank you!

What if you dream all night long of people you haven’t met and you see every detail of them perfectly clear to the point where you could draw them? Have done this nightly since I was 12 (I’m 34). Astral projection? I never have “weird dreams” of rubber duckies and pink elephants and whatever else. Always people, always clear faces, always communicating to me through my mind.

My best friend passed away in a car accident two months ago. A few nights after the wreck I had a dream and it was just me and her together at the bowling alley we have in our town. I asked her if she was watching over us and with us and she told me she was. Then last night i remember when i woke up that I had a dream with her in it. We were with our friends and it was normal. We were hanging out like we usually would except I knew she passed in the dream. I even mentioned it to her. I remember her hair was in a ponytail and I knew she had passed but we were still hanging out. What does this mean?

My boyfriend passed not too long ago and it has been a very rough difficult time for me. I have not been myself since and many who know me from family members right down to my closest friends have taken notice that I am not the same person I once was before my boyfriend. I have always thought of myself as a practical strong woman (along with many others) and I myself haven’t the slightest clue as to who I am and don’t even recognize myself these days. About a couple of months after my boyfriends passing I had a dream of him. He was sitting down talking to me as I was standing up. I’m not sure where we were at if it was a restaurant or hotel setting of some sort, I did see people around and could clearly see the ocean from where we were at which indicates we were by the beach somewhere. Right before I woke up he told me ” you are going to live with me when I say” and of course I was excited and replied by saying ” yes I am! where are we going?’ then he said “by the beach” I woke up feeling happy and content with a warm feeling inside. However, I am not sure what the meaning of the dream was, what is he trying to tell me? This has been bothering me for quite some time and am wondering if anyone might possibly have any thoughts.

I dreamt, this morning, about an old boyfriend; a beautiful man named Brooke. However, I was telling him that when he came into the world the next time, he should be sure to let people know when he was feeling depressed so that he could get the help he needed. I was giving him advice, he had no message for me – he just looked at me while I spoke; our faces were very close. He had taken his own life after suffering from paranoid schizophrenia. I did not experience this unfortunate aspect of his life; we had been apart for years at the time he left.

Ihave frequent dreams of loved ones and friends who have passed, I even talk to them. I asked my grandmother how she was and if she could walk through walls now lol. She said she was good and yes her spirit could and I said show me. She did and I said cool and woke up standing and my hands were on the wall.

Hi Blair
I am enjoying your book The Afterlife I have almost completed it..
I hope that one day I will be able to attend one of your shows.
My question to you is if you have many loved ones on the other
Side and you get a sign say a Butterfly how do you know who
The sign is from..? Which loved one?

I have had visitations from three family members at the exact time of
Death. The are the most vivid, real and warm loving
Dreams and the happen at the exact time
Of
Death and each family
Member has hugged
Me and I felt them pass through my body when they die and they wake me up the minute they pass.

My husband had a visitation last night…he said he was painting his dad’s room…came downstairs to kitchen…then the kitchen table flew in the air and smashed into the water tank…he moved it back..then a piece of wood was leviatating and then went spinning around crashing into the walls…my husband said out loud..it’s ok dad i am making your room better….then from around the corner from the laundryroom…his friend Joe came walking by…looking at him smiling…my husband said to him…it’s ok man…it’s ok man….both his dad abd his friend are past….my husband thinks Joe came to him in his dream and feels Joe is unsettled because he died to soon…any thoughts to that please and thank you

Not sure if it was a visitation or a dream, but I took a 3hrs nap in the afternoon. My grandma, raised me from birth and considered me her last born and I called her mummy. She passed away suddenly Dec 12 and I feel so lost and empty since then.
Well before my nap, I was looking at her pictures and remembering things she used to say, I missed her so much. I fell asleep and she appeared in ” a dream” she was walking ahead of me and I followed behind, we hot to a big bar gate, she stopped so did I. She looked back at me with out speaking, I was saying something to her, can’t remember what, but she looked ahead through the gate and it seemed like there was a huge house on a mountain at a distance. The gate was closed. I called out mummy, Mummy and woke up yo my daughter calling me mum as it wastime to wake up and get ready for work. Mummy looked younger, healthy. She didn’t say a word, she didn’t look angry but she didn’t smile either.

Blair: Once in a while I dream of my mom but she is laying in the coffin and never speaks. It seems like a scary dream and I just want to get away.

Expecting My Mom who just passed to contact me- we spoke about that. However she had dementia and I’m wondering now if that will be possible – I’ve had visits from other loved ones – at one point I had to say – stop coming… lol

I was sitting in a bar with my x he was looking at this old guy walking towards us I had my back to him, x said god he looks familiar… the old man then stopped at our side put one hand on my hand and the other on x’s shoulder, said to him, if you let her go it will be the worse thing you ever do, believe I know.. with that he squeezed my hand x’s shoulder and walk away I could see him x had his back to him, and disappeared… I looked at x and said omg that’s you!!
I woke up grasping for air….

My X isn’t dead

Sorry last post didn’t send I had a visual dream I’m sure I was talking to my dad on my bed he was talking about things that’s happening after he died and knew everything even from that week and he was given out den laughing den giving out again witch was him wen he was alive to but he told me stuff that’s still happening and even said one or to things about what’s going to happen is that normal or am i gone mad I kept going into the same dream my dad was murdered but he didn’t seem angry over that he seemed angry that we should be closer no arguing but there’s 4 of us were very close all live in the same eara we’d die for one another I don’t understand why he wants us closer wud one of us be pulling apart from my mam and sisters it’s so confusing

My 22 yr old son passed away in his sleep in August of last year and I am absolutely broken. I have had just a handful of dreams about him and in every dream except the very 1st one he is always so happy. He suffered a great deal from mental illness but to see him so happy makes me happy I just want to hear his voice. These dreams feel so real when I wake up I can still remember the look on his face and exactly what he was wearing in the dream. I hope he is reaching out to me I miss him so much its unbearable.

I lost my cousin tragically and nrakes me i can feel when he visits me. I’m broken

Things been happening

My son came to me today. This is the second time he has visited me. The first time I was not allowed to touch him. This time it was in my kitchen. He just appeared there and we hugged. A good sorta long hug. My husband walked in from the living room. He saw my arms in a hug position but did not see my son. He said nothing and I didn’t explain. He is a non believer. It’s only important that I believe.

I had a dream… I was walking upstairs(different house) went to a double doors room. There a lady was standing looking away from me and I asked “how can I help you?” When she turned around it was my mother in law…. we hugged and she told me to ask my daughter (I forgot what to ask), then she said her use my phone so she can believe you…. my alarm sounded and I woke up… minute or two later a noise in my living room and it was a sign that felt down behind my tv… sign reads “All things are possible if you believe”….

I went to GE to work. My mother wanted me to go, giving me her blessing. She was in good health and promised me she would come visit in the spring. Six weeks later, she died unexpectedly. I never forgave myself for leaving. After her funeral, I returned to GE, crying myself to sleep every night; it seemed like weeks I cried myself to sleep. One night, she visited me in a dream. We were walking together with our arms intertwined, talking about something. All of a sudden, she was not with me. I turned around and told her to hurry and catch up with me. She told me, “You have to go on with me now, I can’t come with you. You will be okay.” As she turned to walk away, I woke up crying and sobbing, begging my mother to not leave me. A calm came over me after her visit. I never cried or felt sad again. I miss her still, but not like I want to cry, kind of like I can’t wait to see her in heaven again, when I die.

Brunch of BS.

Thank you for this! My dad visits me, quite often. And I know it’s a real visit. I was having a very hard and emotional day and I said “Daddy, I need you right now!” My dad always said “I’m just a call away and I’ll be there!” And he always was. That night I was dreaming I was at my Grandparents house staring out the back glass door and I felt a tap on my shoulder. And when I turned around, I see my daddy. Clear as day he says “Well, I’m here!” And has a huge smile and his arms wide open. And I went in for a huge hug and I could smell his scent. A unique scent of cigarettes and Irish spring bar of soap. Very comforting!
During a nap today, he came to me, and I held his face and said “I want to look at you as long as I can! I miss your face so much. Do you miss us?” And he said “Baby, I don’t have to miss y’all anymore!” ❤️
He then asked me a question and made a statement that I can’t remember!! I need to remember! How can I manifest his words back into my head?!
It was important. I need to get it back!

28.07.21 around 2am. 5 weeks since my fiance passed away-
Dream that Mitch took me somewhere, by the hand flung a circle of what I can only describe as mist in the air, we both floated up into it, I was a sort of a misty state while mitch was almost a solid state.
we lay on our backs just floating around the circle his head on my stomach, I was playing with his hair and stroking his face and beard. he told me we had an hour then we didnt speak just floated together.
My son mitchy then woke me up asking for a cuddle so didnt finish the dream.
I woke up feeling almost peaceful, I was smiling, It felt so intimate. Its the first time ive not been scared in the dark for 5 weeks and I could almost feel him in the room.
Does anyone know what this means? or had similar experience?

I really do believe in visitation dreams

I recently experienced something that might be like what you describe, but it didn’t feel like a dream nor did it feel like I was awake. It happened about 3 weeks after a person died of covid. I hadn’t spoken to him for over 6 years when I told him to never call me again. I loved him very much a long time ago. I can’t remember what he was saying, but it was definitely a “real” feeling. I had been having a hard time getting over his death, but after this incident, he hasn’t been on my mind much at all.

I had a dream vision my grandson died recently in a car accident, I think of him every night he was 6 4 in his height I dreamed I heard his kind if music in my dream I say him on my road with familiar cloth he may wear he was very tall in my dream tall as the trees he was so tall when I passed him he didn’t see me but I seen him clear as day, when I passed him I said thank you God and I woke up also he was wearing a shirt that he wears often, what does this mean

I had a visit last night from my mothers old boyfriend for 10years who sadly 4weeks ago committed suicide , He was a big part of my life and like my best friend. I’ve secretly been struggling with drink problems to the point where I can’t sleep on a night .I’ve a beautiful family wife and kids and my drinking has become an issue .Last night I had a dream where I was half asleep / awake I felt myself wanting to wake myself up in the dream I was so scared I was being dragged by male nurses in to a mental asylum, then he appeared I was shouting what can I do I need to change I felt like I was going insane ,he looked at me and shrugged his shoulders and said all I can say is four stages he then smiled and walked off ,I woke up sweating but felt strange and burst in to tears I went straight on my phone and typed in 4 stages I was shocked what came up 4stages of alcoholism!! I read the website and it’s opened my eyes to my issues .

I had a vision of my deceased ex-husband. I have been questioning whether he went to heaven or hell because he wasn’t a very good person in life. This vivid nightmare took place in what I can only refer to as a part of what hell might look like. Everyone is in Black there was satanic marks everywhere and I was being pulled through there with people having this colorful stuff injected into their mouth. They kept trying to get me to take some of it and I would and my ex-husband sat in a chair while this huge male figure pumped a ton of this stuff in his mouth. When I turned around not to watch it and then look back there is a picture sitting next to him of a skeleton with a dagger in it and he was thrown over some sort of object and I ran trying to get away from these people and when I woke up I had a deep scratch below my kneecap when I took a picture of the scratch, above the scratch you could see a face all those small you could see eyes and a mouth and you could see to me in the mail and to the right of the scratch there is a definitive I just one eye staring back at me. I truly thought my husband (ex), had hopefully repented his sins before he died and had gone to heaven but now I definitely know that he did not…… Why did she show me this?

Thank you Blair. I heard your words clearly today while out running. Love never dies. It was extremely comforting so thank you fir your timely email. I need a little pick me up!!

It’s like you look into my sole and new what I was feeling my husband been gone 7 yrs it took him 5 yrs to visit me it was a dream I never felt before I woke up and new he was here I even ask my kids where there dad went

Hello on august 30th 2021.my best friend that I’ve know ever since elementary school.he was more like my brother.you.name some things we more in likely have done it.but on the 30th he pit a rope in a tree and hung himself he was Bron august 19th 1979.he had problems him and his wife and he had 2 kids and son and a daughter. And on that day I don’t know if this is even true or not
I wasn’t there.but they were trying to take the rope from my bff.(let’s just call him meh.)and guess he said see if you can stop me now.and hung himself. I don’t have same question I want to ask you. But I’ll ask them on another day.

My mother whom passed fifty years ago came to see me in my sleep. In my dream she sat down beside me and she told she had to go as my father was waiting for her. He passed four years after her. My mother was in spirit and she had separated from her body a long time ago. She was so beautiful and peace and love exuded from her. I felt everything and she was speaking to me from the mind. I saw my dad and my mum said the needed to go, it was like she was asking me permission to let her go so I told her to go to him and she got up and left. I saw her spirit merge with my dad’s and then I woke up.

my boyfriend of over 20 years just passed, I had a dream that I was standing in the hall talking to my daughter and someone knocked at the door, she turned and opened the door and it was him knocking with a big grin on his face. thats all
i remember i remember thinking what is he doing here and the dream stopped

I had a dream I hugged my mom who has passed away and wanted me to help her with something also a other spirit person came in my dream to scare me but that’s why I hugged my mom so I wouldn’t be scared and it felt so real to

Hello, I hope your day is well. Before I share my dream I would like to extend a thank you for what you do. That being said. My mom passed away about 4 years ago. I haven’t had any visitations that I was aware of. Many of my family did. Dreaming and while awake. It wasn’t until I started dating this woman that I started to see. Cardinals, songs, lady bugs, and so forth all when being in or about to be in contact with this woman. This morning around 3/4 am I swore my mom was right here having a sleep over with me. All snug and tucked in. Covered in the dark. Back to me both of us sleeping. And I remember thinking right before I woke up. Mom, ahh, would it be wrong to snuggle up and spoon her sniff her in. I wondered if it was real but it felt real it felt like she was right here sleeping next to me…. Not moments later the woman text me to see how I was feeling.

I have health issues and dreamed of a open doorway and bright light and my dead grandpa whos been dead for 24 years and he took my hand and was leading me into the light but I was scared and didn’t want to go. What’s that mean?

My dad passed away early 2020 and has been frequently visiting me in my dreams ever since. In the dreams, he and I are both aware that he is dead and is only in my presence because I’m dreaming. I’ll ask him to come back all the time. Last night, he said “why can’t we just go back in time or you ask me to come back?” And I said “Dad, I ask you to come back every time I see you.” And the dream just carried on. It feels like he was there in real life after I wake up. When he first passed away, he used to tell me things like “I don’t want you to worry about me.” Or “Before I go I want you to know that I’m okay.” And it would mess me up….but it’s as if we see each other so frequently now that it’s like we can have casual conversation, even about the fact that he’s dead. I look forward to dreaming because he’s usually there.

50 years ago I loved a little red haired girl while we both were in university. She broke my heart. She married another man. I hadn’t thought about her for years. The other night I had visions of her having sex with him. I about half way woke up in agony. I had this happen off and on for two weeks. Finally I said while halfway a sleep, “What do you want from me, Kathy?!!”. Suddenly she was there. There was a faint blue glow and there she was. I could feel and smell her. She said “I’m SORRY” . She sounded so sad and broken. I said “I’m sorry too.” Then I said ” It really wasn’t your fault.In the end it was my crazy father”. Just like that she was gone. Have you any idea how badly you have been hurt if you are still grieving 50 years later? I think she was using her memories to get my attention. I don’t know if she is alive or not. I have looked all over for records and found NOTHING. I think she passed and had to stop and make peace with me first. I am so sad.

I’ve been really sick, bowel problems requiring multiple major surgeries and threatening my life I’m heading into my biggest and scariest surgery yet with quite unfavourable outcomes and have been very fearful I’ve had many many surgeries and I’m usually calm and collected but this one is really playing on my mind I’m a single mother of 3 I am all they have and need to be here for them. My Aunty who was like a mother to me died of bowel cancer many years ago she came to me told me I’m having similar problems to her, hugged me, talked to me about my children particularly my daughter she told me she watches over her like she did me when I was a child, she told me when I feel that “feeling” it’s her. I’m blurry on some things I asked her about heaven and I can’t remember the answer but I feel like we spoke for ages I’ve been extra emotional since.. just crying non stop. My mother had her visit her just last week not quite as much chat but she’s definitely letting us know she is here, it’s quite amazing I’ve had people who I haven’t seen since a child dream about me and tell me god is trying to reach out to me and have had some let’s say crazy experiences but can’t quite get the message that’s being sent to me. I think it’s fear to be honest. But the last year has been a whirlwind.

I been married 24yrs I’ve had my ups and downs with my marriage but we never left each other’s side. I been cheated on and I still stayed .my husband and I did have a lot of good times too beside what and how he treated me I still loved him. After a year my husband straightened out his life and focus on me and him .last year my husband had cancer and passed away at the age of 46 yrs old . I stayed by his side every day the only time I left was to go work .I had to make money in case to help he had no insurance or family left to help us at all So the only time I left the hospital was to work cleaning and go back to the hospital after. We basily lived
At the hospital. My husband passed away Jan 19 th 2019 and ever since I been having bad dreams about him like mixed dreams and it’s always about either he is gone and I can’t find him or he left me for someone else or I don’t know where he is so I’m filing for a divorce. Or like in another dream I found him passed out outside. I’m not sure if he is telling he doesn’t love me or he never wanted to be with me I’m so confused and hurt I have no ideal what to think. He knows I forgave him for eve the has happened in the passed . I just wish I could have some good dreams about him.
When he first passed away the same night I think he came to me because I was seeing stuff the only he would do .I do go see him a lot and I’m the beginning a butterfly landed right next to me and sat their for awhile can anybody help me figure out my bad dreams

I’ve just had a dream about my grandma. She was sat down and when I approached her she looked radiant. She was wearing a vivid red dress and really smiling. She looked in her 50s, she passed away in her 80s.
I did hug her but she didn’t embrace back. She also had a little boy with her but I don’t know who he was.
Today is my birthday and my favourite colour is red, I think she came to me to wish me a happy birthday.
It was lovely

I had a dream about my mums dog she come to me in my dreams a glass of water was shacking on a table I looked up and poppy my mother’s dog was sat there looking at me it felt so real she was all grey with big brown eyes completely covered I told her to come to me but she left through 2 big glass double doors even after I woke it still seemed so real is this a visitation dream please let me know thanks.

I’ve been able to control.my dreams. Every know and then. Bit last night was very weird my deceased dad showed up with my alive mom. I knew I was dream so I gave my mother a date in my dream.to see if .aybe possibly she was there with me in her own dream state with my dad. Time will tell. If she get the date wrong I still will wait for.that date and
Go from there. And not tell her. I haven’t seen my dad in my dreams in years ontop of that. So yeah very odd

My Mother came to me in my dream.
She laid next to me in my bed although I couldn’t see her . But I could touch her hand .. Asked her what was wrong she said she was going into second phase..

I need answers! My husband grandmother passed away 13yrs and i was dreaming about her, what does it mean?

I jus had a visitation dream jus now I woke up and it was an aunt. I felt like if I would have opened my eyes sooner she would have been standing there. She was so beautiful, young omg! Jus to tell u she looked so beautiful like when I first seen my aunt at a very young age. Either way in my dream she asked me about some rings I was looking at. I told her yeah!’ I’m thinking about this ring. She was like nice. Did u know that ring there will have u choose any loved one that has passed. I’m thinking what!? She said yes u can choose anyone in ur life that has passed and it will bring them bk to u. I was trying to jus grasp what she was saying. I started think I can’t jus choose one. I have 4 kids that passed, my aunts ofc and my cousins Red that what we called him. I looked at her and she had the sweetest smile. I ended up waking up it was so real I could feel the hug and the poking at my arm.

Good clarity..I feel very close to my granny we share the same birthday as does my daughter. I was thinking of granny during the week and she was visited my dream last night..thank you for helping me to know this

I had a dream i was walking with someone but I couldn’t see the person . and we went to my deceased friends house, the door was open and it was dark when u walked inside it had those plastic fly things on the door it was clear coloured. anyway the house was bare besides a couch in the lounge room the couch was a copper brown colour and my friends was cream, outside the back door was 3 dolls the size of a one or two year old baby .with tan skin they all where wearing purple island dresses with white flowers on them. and where leaning against wall covering there eyes with hands when I walked up to them they started to move there legs and eyes etc I quickly left the property

I have a story too tell. These are all greats happenings. My father died new years. Day at 357 am. I was 14. Now im 46. I was woke in the am i looked at my clock and it was 357 am. Pitch black room then in front of ne my vision was filled with Gold and white shimmering light . like sparks in a tunnel flying towards me I couldn’t move or speak. Someone was in that i new. It lasted a minute or so and then i just remember gasping g ad it released. Me. My mom came in my room a few hours later woke me up told me that you have something to tell me but I looked at her before she say anything and I said I know my dad died she turned white as a ghost how could how could you know that because she just had got the call it wasn’t a dream I was wide awake I’ve been wondering what is All About Eyes as if anybody else has gone through that I sure would like to talk to them about it

Wow losted my partner Mark his frunal was last Thursday I dreamt about mark so so clearly in the dream but I couldn’t believe mark was in my dream so quickly after sudden death

I found this heartwarming meant so much to me as I’ve had these visits from my son my daughter as well as a loved partner of my first child my mother and sometimes my father.i often wonder why not my father so much .thank you .charlotte Marguerite browne.

I have had several visitation dreams and I love every one of them. I recently fell and hurt myself and she came to me three nights in a row. I know she was concerned about me. What a wonderful feeling to wake up and know she was there.

I had a definite visitation dream of my deceased daughter and my deceased boyfriend I was with for 10 years. I feel confused.

We lost my dad 9 years ago in 2012 very suddenly and I have never had a visitation dream from him until last night. October 13 we lost my brother. He had some mental issues and turned to alcohol. This particular time he had been falling and had hit his head numerous times which caused swelling and a severe brain bleed. We have all felt so guilty thinking we could’ve done more to help him. As I lay down to sleep last night my dad came to me clear as day and said “sheli, it’s not your fault, it’s not anyone’s fault. I need you to tell them that.” My dad always knew what to say to make you feel better and was always correct in what he had to say. I can’t tell u how comforting it was to hear his voice and reassure my mom, sister and myself that it wasn’t our fault.