Dreaming of a deceased loved one: what does it mean?
Visitation dreams: Have you ever woken up dreaming of dead relatives talking to you, or dreaming of someone who has passed away, wondering if it's real or not?
Visitation Dreams just happen to be one of five common signs our deceased loved ones show us.
It happens to almost everyone at one point or another. And I've got good news for you: many times those connections are real.
So the question is: how can you tell the difference between a dream and a spirit connection?
First, let's define the difference between the two.
What is the difference between a regular dream and a dream visitation?
Regular Dreams
Regular dreams are a naturally occurring phenomenon. Dreams tend to be complete nonsense and often weird.
You woke up and get ready for work. As you leave your house, you climb upon a giant rubber duckie and float down the street. You then actually wake up and wonder, “what the heck was that all about?”
That's a dream. Many aspects of it might seem very real and clear. Your street, your house, front door, even the giant rubber duck might have all seemed real.
But it is just nonsense.
Typically, when you “see” people in dreams, they are simply roles. Most often you don't see faces or great details. Yes, you “saw” the UPS driver drop off a package… but when you wake up, you can't remember it was a man or woman. You saw the role, not the person.
These are simply dreams. Visitation dreams are much, much different!
Visitation Dreams Characteristics
Can dead people communicate through dreams? In my book, Afterlife, I shared how my spirit guides revealed to me that we don't dream of our loved ones.
Instead, our loved ones come to us either before or after we get into the dream state. Rather than call them visitation dreams I call them sleep connections. Big difference.
When you are asleep, your critical mind shuts down, and it leaves it free for our loved ones to easily communicate with us.
When a deceased loved one connects with us while we are sleeping, you will know it is them. It will be 100% clear.
Example from before: in a dream, you won't remember very much detail about the UPS driver coming to your door. It will just be someone delivering a package.
However, when your loved one comes to you, you will see them clear as day. You'll see all their features, all the details, and characteristics they have.
It will be just like a person standing in front of you when you are awake.
You will know it is them.
Signs Our Loved Ones Send Us
Please remember this: there are no rules: they can talk, show signs, hug us, kiss us, give us something, trigger a memory, etc.
It's unlimited.
That said, as a spiritual advisor I find that people get upset with these connections if the dead loved one does not behave in a certain way.
“My Mom came to me and hugged me, but she didn't say anything about her granddaughter!”
Be still. Be happy that they came to you. The fact they came to you is a sign in itself and shows that love never dies. It shows they are there; they are aware of everything that goes on and love never dies.
Still Not Sure If It Is A Visitation Dream Connection?
In my 30-years as a psychic medium, please let me share the two biggest key indicators that you had a direct communication dream visitation.
1. You'll wake up feeling like they were just standing beside you. Remember, your deceased loved ones are energy, so the feeling that “if I had have opened my eyes a moment sooner I would have seen them,” is a sure sign.
Of course, had you opened your eyes a moment earlier, you wouldn't have “caught” them. But cherish that feeling! It means they were there.
2. Your loved one will often show you a secondary sign soon after. Not always – and I'm not guaranteeing it – but it is more often true than not.
It might be a sighting of a bird, a familiar or unique sound or song, a touch, smell or taste. Be open to these.
Here's a bonus sign: do you have a pet? They often act strangely after connection. Remember, they are better at picking up on spirits than we are. After all, they haven't been “taught” that dead don't talk or appear.
Love Never Dies
Your deceased loved ones WANT to connect with you. For almost everyone, this is one of the easiest ways to connect.
Know the difference between a real connection and a simple dream.
Once you know the difference and start trusting in the visitations, you will find that many of your loved ones will start connecting with you. Make sure you recognize the signs that your dead loved ones are sending you.
Why? Because they will know and understand that you are now an open door for them.
Your loved ones want to connect. Let them and experience the fact that love never dies.
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I had a visitation the other night – first of all – I had a stroke in September and three weeks after that I was told I had cancer….well, in this visitation a friend of the family came and delivered an envelope to my daughter and she gave it to me. It was a ‘get well card’ ! Is there a special meaning to that?
So I had a dream of some guy I sort of knew in high school, he passed away 3 years ago. A month before he passed away I seen him and he didn’t see me but I felt the urge to speak to him but didn’t. Anyways well I had a dream of him but In the dream we were dating and I secretly would knock on the door and we’d kiss and what not, it felt so real. I felt warm, safe and loved and when I woke up still felt that. I had a crush on him my sophomore year and I think he did to but we never ended up really talking cuz he was really shy and ended up dating another girl etc.. well it felt so real, I woke up not remembering our surroundings but him and the moment we were having.. was it real or fake?
I had a dream my deceased brother came to me crying saying he wants to come home. Can you tell me what that means
Me and my moms friend passed away in a car accident in october and we are 1 month away from it being 1 year from her passing and she came to me in a dream a few days ago it was so real and vivid, we didnt talk, but I was in the car with her and she was driving, she grabbed my hand and a message was imprinted into my mind, I actually felt her hand like she was actually real, i knew the message wasnt really for me but for my mother who is very very heart broken over her besties death, I told my mother the message and she said she found it funny(not actually funny) that i said the message to her because the night she came to me was the night my mom stayed up crying until 5 am for her best friend to come back to her, so she could hug her one last time and me and my both cried
wow that is tough. crying. sounds like he may be between realms.
Wow just what I needed to read this week cause I had a strange dream visit and was unsure I know it was now because my cat was acting weird thank you love and light
Wow!! This is awesome! I had a dream about my mom just hours ago.. Then I see this
Confirms what I have already known.
Thank you very much Blair.
Blessings multiplied,
Andrea.
My good friend passed away after a long illness. I dreamed about him I opened a door to a small room he was sitting down I was so happy to see him again.
Henry! I said Hi we hugged he looked wonderful and healthy. He told me to say hi to my boyfriend for him. They were very good friends. Then I remember him giving me a message to give to someone I believe it was for my
Boyfriend. It was important. I remember thinking wow I’m so happy to know this and pass it along it was something I didn’t know anything about but I knew when I told it to my Boyfriend he would know what it all meant.
I don’t remember the Message and it’s really bothering me.would someone know how to connect with Henry again?
Thanks for reading.
I’m concerned as I dreamt my dead mum said I’d soon be with her this is the 2nd time in the space of 4 years. She’s been dead since 2006.
I think they are not in our “time” construction, so “soon” to them could mean 40 years from now, or more or less.
About a week before my mother died. She told me she kept dreaming about Christmas trees. I asked her if this was a sign she was trying to tell me that she was going to die of for Christmas it was currently October. Last night almost 2 years after her death I had a dream a Christmas tree was in front of me the next frame put me on my street where I grew up. My dead father was standing in the street talking to someone. I immediately went to him and called his name dad. He turned around he didn’t say anything I told him dad you’re dead and I miss you very much please hold me. I threw my arms around him and he held me so tightly it felt real. I haven’t felt his touch and 18 years since hes died. Then I woke up and I sell fad because I wanted to ask him questions. I looked at his picture on my wall and I said dad I want to see you again because I want to talk to you please come back to me again. I had breakfast which took about an hour and then I laid back down and went to sleep. I immediately was standing in front of him again this time in a house and I said to him dad you’re dead I want to ask you how old are you. He answered and said I am 23 years old. I said to him but dad look at yourself you are obviously not 23 years old and you actually died at age 75 and then I woke up again. I cried and cried because I knew that this was real. I requested to go back into the Dream and I did. I haven’t dreamt of my father for 18 years and speaking to my girlfriend only last week I told her that I wish that I would dream of him because I miss them so much . I know in my heart that this was a visitation and I am not afraid and welcome it to happen any time.
Blair… My husband whom I loved and still love very much passed away 9 years ago. We were very close but each time I dream about him something always happens that saddens me and I don’t understand. Each and every time in my dreams he’s always turning away from me, either walking or running away from me. It’s never been that warm happy reunion others talk about and that scares me. Why does he always go away from me?
This happens in my dreams also of my husband of 5 yrs who passed almost 3 years ago now. When I dream of him he won’t look at me he turns around and never really talks but I can feel his emotions He also took his own life I know he knows I love him so very much and I know he loves me.in the dreams our 2 boys are there everytime and he’s hugging them I know he misses them and regrets leaving them. The only thing he’s ever said to me is “I feel dumb, and that’s all I have to say to you”. Not really the warm loving visitation I would like. But at least I know he’s watching over his boys.
I had a dream of my mother it was weird because all I heard was her boyfriend laughing and saying something I dont know what then all of sudden I heard plan as day my mom say ok we are almost there. But I never saw either of them then I woke up
Maybe you should tell him it’s okay. He seems ashamed…like he doesn’t want to go into detail about what he went through since he passed. Maybe you can pray for him to move past some things…sounds like he doesn’t forgive himself. Pray that he moves into a higher vibrational state.
Thank you Blair. Right after my loved one crossed over, he came to me in a dream/sleep connection. He stood in front of me and was wearing a black Patagonia vest. I noticed this was odd, because he only wore north face as a brand. He gave me a beautiful bouquet of colorful flowers and hugged me. Then he was gone. Since that time I have noticed that Patagonia seems to be a sign from him. Also, in a reading you gave me last year, he wanted you to ask me if “I got the flowers”. Amazing! Love never dies. Xo
Hi, I dream of my late fiancee once in awhile since he passed away 13 years ago. I just dreamed about us being in a hotel by the beach and I saw him and flt his presence I was saying, let’s go to the beach and put our feet in the water and I heard him say, it’s dusty in here and he was gone. I looked thru the peep hole and saw nothing. I felt like my dog was with me. I found a big piece of paper and Ron wrote my name all over it on both sides. Then I went in the other room and saw his clothes on the bed then my phone rang and woke me up. I went outside and got chills all thru out my body. I cried. He never seems to recognize me for the true love that we had.
I lost the love of my life to breast cancer 7 1/2 months ago. I am desperate for a visitation dream from her.
Hi Blair, i guess my question is what did he mean when he said it was dusty and why wont he recognize me as his one true love. We were so in love. He used to play his guitar for me especially in the morning as soon as i woke up. I miss him dreadfully. Thank you
I found this article to be very interesting, thank you for that. I do have a question because you brought up something I can’t answer on my own.
I have had visitation from my parents (along with other loved ones) a few times. Perhaps it’s just my mind ‘blurring’ the lines, but I can swear that at the same time they were present, there were others around whose faces I could not see, similar to the UPS delivery person you referenced in your article. For instance, we will be meeting in a park that we went to many times when I was a child. We’ll be walking along the path and pass by other people whom I cannot really ‘see’, such as their faces, but I can see us passing by them. Thank you for your wonderful newsletters.
We had a dear friend pass suddenly in a motorcycle accident. I’m pretty sure he came to visit me. In my visit we walked up to him at a motorcycle event he was working at and he walked up to me with his arms open to hug me. It was very special. I told his best friend about this and he was disappointed that he didn’t have the same experience. He did mention though when he visited his grave an acorn hit him from a tree that was not close enough to be fallen from. :-). Thanks for your letters of information!
My mother does not come often but when she does it is about a message the dream is about. She does not speak, ever. Instead she watches. It always feels like she wrote the dream script and is now watching to see how it turns out. When she was alive I did not like her. She had a mean streak and enjoyed hurting my feelings. I did not speak to her the last 5 years of her life so I am really surprised that she comes. She comes only once per year or so.
I had a dog who clearly saw spirits. He was smart and had this look in his eyes like he was wise. He comes in dreams and behaves in a human manner. Like when I was given some photos in a dream, I turned and gave them to the dog and he took them to another room and spread them out to look at them.
This is so wonderful. I love this. Maybe she has learned to be quiet (she hurt you when she talked) and pay attention! She probably really loved you but was just a mess and unable to know it or show it. And your dog! I’ve had dogs all my life and they are true spirit companions, both while “here” and after they die and move on.
Four months after my husband passed I had a visitation.My husband told me to download a story that I would find on Amazon called The Girl on the Stairs.He said it would explain everything.I opened my eyes and my IPad was on the floor next to the bed,I went on Amazon and there were four books with that title.My husband said the book would not coast anything and there was only one story that as a prime member I could get free.The short story was about a family that lost there daughter but her ghost was still around all the time.The last sentence of the story was .Be careful the ghost is watching you.
I very rarely remember dreams. Sometimes I wake up and think, “what was that?” But I did one time connect with my dad and I KNEW it was him and it was real. I was having extreme troubles in my personal life with a relationship that was failing. I was terribly depressed. My dad came to me just before I woke up. And I remember it to this day. It was in the early 90’s. My dad didn’t say anything to me. He just came to me and hugged me. It was so incredibly real. I felt the love gush from him to me while he was holding me. When I woke up, I felt incredibly rested. I felt energized. I felt extreme warmth and love. I’ve never felt anything like it before. It made me very happy. Shortly thereafter, I almost died. He came to me then and stopped me from going into the light. He’s always there I think.
Had a similar dream about my nephew who passed in a auto accident 5 yrs ago, He was so loved by all. Shortly after he crossed over I had a dream of him standing to the top of my driveway, I ran up to him so shocked to see him , he was standing there is nice bright clothing with a very care-free pleasant demeanor , he never spoke just smile, it felt so real . When I awaken I also felt so energized and great, my cousin explained to me that he had a similar dream of my nephew and he felt the same way. His sister in law just recently passed at the age of 30, her funeral is today and I had a dream of my nephew once again last that was so real and I felt so refreshed after. The only time I feel like this is when I meet him in my dreams.It seems like he makes his presence when I really need it. I miss him so.
Blair, last night my dogs were looking at things in the air and one of them was barking. My Blue passed away August 2015 and has been around a bit. In the evening I was visited by someone which was holding my hand; I could feel the fingers and asked for them to spell on my palm who it is. They did not, I just rubbed their fingers and then they left. I thanked my guide and hope I can figure it out.
I dream of my mom and dad all the time. We are always in the house I grew up in always. Sometimes my older brother will be there. He is deceased. I dream of them so much and I hear them see them it’s wonderful. I always have a safe calm feeling when I wake up. We were very. Lise in real life and I still have my parents ashes at home with me. Thank you Blair for confirming what I thought that my parents were really there
Thanks Blair, even though I have read your books a couple of times, I love to read them and your articles again and again. It doesn’t hurt to be reminded of the facts. Love never dies
My mom passed 35 years ago and I’ve only had 1 dream of her. I’ve meditated, prayed and followed your instructions and nothing. What am I doing wrong?
Lost the love of my life of 48 years in dec I cry at every little thing i think of will he ever let me know he is ok it sure would help ease the pain I feel
Wise words that give me comfort as I have always been an active dreamer – Thanks!
2004-2005 changed drastically for my family. The years my oldest son (age then, 28) and my husband of almost 30 years were both diagnosed with cancer within months of each other. Our son is a survivor, and husband passed one month after diagnosis, in January, ’05. That year, October, I believe is when I met a man who would become a great friend and who would eventually become my husband, James.
One early morning in ’06 in a dream, I was standing in James’s kitchen talking to James who was standing in his living room and there was a large hallway (dog trot style) between us. Suddenly my deceased husband appeared between us . He was vivid, full bodied and actually wearing a shirt which I still had in the closet. He was known for his large charming smile and there he was, smiling at me. He walked towards me and with a felt swoosh through me..I asked James “do you see this?” He said he didn’t see what happened, then my deceased husband walked back through me from behind, same swoosh was felt then walked to the living room and walked through James turned around and came back towards me with that same smile. JAMES said “what was that?”. He had felt it!! I explained to him what had just happened and then I awakened with that VIVID memory and a peace in knowing we (our two son’s and I ) were safe with James. I actually didn’t feel I needed confirmation that James was to be the one I would marry, it was just known to me that it was right for us to be together. The peace I felt in that dream, and as I awakened was obvious to me. I haven’t had another dream of my deceased husband, not one that I can remember at least. And actually held onto that particular shirt he was wearing in the dream for a long time. James and I married in September, 2009. Living life as it is handed to us and happy! 11 years after this dream, I remember it as clearly as the day I awoke with that memory. I remember the peace I was provided through that experience as well. Unfortunately, I am unsure what became of the “shirt” because we purchased a new home, and afraid it was lost in the move. Although it MIGHT be in storage.
Isn’t this AWESOME!!??
I had a strange dream about my dad. He told me he was at the Turkey farm. I had know idea what he meant by that. Later that morning I got the call he had passed away. A few days later my sibling were going through his stuff and found a stack of hats he had. In the middle of these hats was a hat that said Burkel Turkey Farm! They were so shocked. They sent me a picture of it lol. We have no idea where that hat came from! I’ve always been a believer in spirit and now they finally are too! They have always thought I was a little weird about things I’ve felt or seen. This just validated what I’ve told them all along. Thanks Blair, I hope to meet you some day , I always enjoy your messages!
I lost my 16.5 year old Yorkie Cocoa this summer due to my negligence when I left her out in the backyard and she drowned in the pool. I have not been able to forgive myself, I kept her ashes lit a candle several times in her memory, but know she is gone it hurts every day. I did adopt a stray 6 months ago and he is a hyper crazy dog but I am working with him none the less. Last week I had what felt like a conscious dream of Cocoa pulling on her leash next to my scotty Kyra, and thought she is no longer here I must be dreaming. I then woke up and fell asleep again and Cocoa was there again, I pulled her over, picked her up and kissed her crying all the time I miss you, I miss you so much. I could feel her body first time in a dream I was ever aware of something having form and substance I know she was there. I pray she is at peace and happy I adopted her at the age of 2 from an abusive owner, when I was ill I made one mistake that caused her death.
Vicki I think it is very possible that your little dog had a stroke or heart attack at her age and fell into the pool. Please don’t blame yourself. You gave her a wonderful life and she was obviously grateful.
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Hello Blair, I wanted to let you know that I read all your emails. I enjoy every single one and want to THANK YOU for sending out the information that’s so insightful and helpful in our daily lives. Sincerely, Terri
I bought tickets to go see you in Sacramento in January for my birthday . I had a great time and brought my daughter too.
After your event I went upstairs to sleep and was woken up in the midal of the night and was in the arms of someone I cloud not see but was engulfed and white light and I felt so great. Then he said look into my eyes several times , over and over . They were very light blue . Then as I was waking up I seen you .
Did this happen ?
Because I was asking for healing light too when you were helping someone else toothat night at the event .
Thank you for readding this even if you can’t respond . It was a wonderful experience .
Thank you Blair this does clarify things for me on dream visitations. Love it.
regarding dream visits-my husband and son visit me in dreams-my husband mostly! I would certainly love to see my son more often. Last week my husband was in my dream one night and during the course of the night, I woke up several times. I would go back into the same dream and he would be right there. He kept trying to find some money I had hidden and was very animate about it. Upon awakening, I knew he was trying to tell me something about a situation having to do with money, but I really had no clue. Several days later, I discovered that one of my W-2’s had the completely wrong social security number on it and I could not file my taxes right then. I am sure that my husband was trying to tell me to open them up and take care of the problem with my employer. It really is more in depth, but I am giving you the shorter version. Yes, they visit us!!! I know this was what my husband wanted me to get to the bottom of.
My dad & brother has come to me many times! But one evening i asked my mom ‘mom are you busy there? Why don’t you ever come to me” That early morning about 3 am. My mother kissed my cheek & stroked my face! I wasn’t scared because i knew it was her. I said thank you mom 🙂 & just fell back to sleep. Thank you Blair for teaching me all i do know about spirit today!
Love & Light
April Penna
I have had many visitation dreams from my mother, father, and once with my grandmother. My question is this…in my last visitation dream with my mother I remember feeling so happy to see her again. We hugged and I could smell her hair and I distinctly remembered how short she was and chuckled about how I had to lean down to hug her. During the visit though my Mom was crying. I knew, without her saying it, that she was crying because she missed me. I told her I loved her and not to worry and we would be together again someday. I’ve had previous visitations with Mom in which I was the one being consoled and she reassured we would reunite someday. Why do you think this happened? From her perspective now surely she knows how this works. I didn’t think in the hereafter we would have emotions like that. I’ve had enough of these visitations that I can clearly distinguish them between dreams. This was definitely a visitation. Thank you for any input.
When my dad passed I was sleeping down stairs in the family room and this would be a day or 2 later What I wasn’t sure of if it was a dream or communicating with me but I was at the bottom of the stairs that led up to his bedroom and he was at the top of the stairs. All of a sudden I was at the top of the stairs and he hugged me and said he loved me and also said remember to always read the fine print. Which to this day I am not sure what that meant but I always do pay attention to fine print now more than ever. He also had a bright light around him like a glow and I really to this day only remember the top part of him like from the waist up. So what do you think of this, could this be him communicating with me. I have also had him come to me in a few more dreams but haven’t heard from him in a while. Although my daughter has had him come to her in her dreams where he will most of the time not say anything but she said it’s like he is right there, very real. I also remember him reluctantly telling me that about a year or so before he passed he would have visits from my grandmother who passed several years ago. At first he thought he was dreaming but he said he was awake and she would come to him and communicate to him that everything will be fine and he will be very busy when he crosses over. He didn’t tell anyone about these visits because he didn’t really believe in it at first but then he had to face that this was really happening and told us. She was giving him messages and even something about a picture when my mom was little that she explained to him, and he was trying to find it. I think it was to confirm it was her. He also said she was much younger and when she spoke her lips didn’t move and it sounded angelic very peaceful. He said like it was telepathy.
So do you think my dream was him talking to me and what do you think of his visits from my grandmother which he said helped him when his cancer was winning, he passed about 2 years after her first visit and she visited him right up to the end.
My sister visited me in the dream state so I know she is alright. My father did the same many years ago when he passed. During the day, wide awake my mother slapped me in the back of the head as she would when she was here! Know one else was around and I remember her slap! What kind of visitation is that? (LOL) Thank you Blair. People do not think I am so crazy any more.
Hi Blair
This is so weird that this email came to me about this subject. This past Sunday I had one of those visitation dreams. I could feel every emotion they were sending me. They were guiding me. I have always had these dreams growing up some great some not so good. I have had deceased loved ones come to me and tell me they are ok and show me were they reside waiting for there loved ones, is that weird??? Even from my husbands side of the family. I try to explain to my family but I know they look at me strange. God has always been in my life and I live by this path, if not I feel I would not be here. He has given me strength. Thanks for your gift it makes a lot of difference for us. Gives peace.
My uncle Hartley was in the hospital having surgery and his heart kept stopping and when they got his heart started again he showed me that he was in the hospital so in the morning I called my aunt DeeDee. She told me what happened. He was my favourite Uncle .He lived with us when I was younger. When he was gone he still shows me signs when he is around me
My Dad visits me quite often and he is always surrounded by a bright white light, so bright you need sunglasses…LOL!….this is true. One time he even had my deceased cat on his lap that passed away 2 weeks before he did. My cat was white and so was the cat on my Dads lap. He gave me a message to give to my Sister. How cool is that!
Hi Blair.
That was so good to read and confirm the visitation of loved ones.I lost my loving boyfriend 19 years ago.I was 20.When my son turned one in 2009.My loved one started visting me when I was sleeping.It was often until 2014 until me & my to be husband set a date for our wedding.In my loved ones visit he would hold me tight and make me feel loved.The love by him hugging me felt so pure it was amazing.He would talk often and say he loved me.Once he sang a wee tune and said I will always love you.In 2011 My daughter was born with a condition and we were in and out of hospital for 2 1/2 years,it had got rough.But I felt strong because I could feel him with me.I feel like he had a connection with my daughter as she was so sick but she was very strong.In December 2015 my future husband and I talked about getting married when my daughter was better and no more hospital visits.I had what was to be my 2nd last visit from him.He was on a big dirt hill,we both were,in the middle of nowhere.He had a cellphone and wanted to call a female to come and get him.I was saying “No stay,I can look after you”but he wanted to go and he gave me a hug.Our date was set for the wedding and one last visit from my loved one.I watched him as he came out of a house with a tuxedo on.He smiled and he walked off into the distance.I think he wore the tux maybe as asign or my wedding.He has not been back,I was sad for awhile but then I realised its ok because He had to let me go and I had to let him go.I feelgood now because I know he will always be with me.
My dad died this past Thanksgiving morning around 5:45 AM six weeks to the morning I had a visitation from him in a dream he walked me into his home he was being jokey with me as he usually was and then he walked out the front door and I didn’t see him anymore I felt that he was telling me the people that are buying his home he is fine with it I woke up feeling so good because I got to see My dad again and he looked really good I like your articles you do a good job and you explain things very well I have one of your books I do want to get the afterlife book when I go to Barnes & Noble again I will look it up thank you
I’m confused now Blair. So if we have a “dream” in which our deceased loved one is in with you and interacting with you and family. This is not a visitation. Can you explain for me what you mean by just before or just after. Sorry confused. Thank you.
Rene’ Baugher
Thank you , I know now without a doubt, my fiancé Jay came to me in my sleep! You are awesome, thanks for sharing
I was very sick a one time did not know yet what was wrong I thought it was my time I was loosing a lot of weight my loved one came to me and just said to me you are not coming here it is not your time.
I often have dreams of passed over loved ones. I have dreams of them guiding me and even showing me they’re happy. Sometimes I feel their energy when I am awake sometimes I feel drained by the contact, and then sometimes I just think I’m just crazy and making it all up. Can spirits attach. I do believe I am an open door for them.
I haven’t had a visitation. I usually can’t even remember my dreams. But I would love to to have a visit from my mom or sister or my brother. I could really use it right about now.
This confirmation of loved ones visits was very helpful . I get feelings & don’t know how to understand them.
Thank you! I had a dream last night and my girlfriend came through I knew it was a visit, not a dream.
Hi Blair, my mom passed away this January 6th, I’m hoping she can find away to connect with me so I know its her so far not yet that I know of. I’m having a hard time as I’m sure a lot of people do.I havnt had a dream connection with her yet anyway. thankyou to you and wendy I love your live sessions with all of us that catch you..
Thanks for this clarification Blair. Now that I think of it, I have had both kinds. The real and the just a dream. Nice to know the difference.
My brother passed away an the very Next nite I saw him around 4 am he was on a motorcycle looking like he was around 19 Ana when he passes he was 69. But he was dressed in a white shirt black jeans an he looked so happy he waved bye to me an I work crying but I saw it as a sign to me that by big brother was fine. An a few days later I had some car problems an some wonderful ppl helped me I felt my brother again assembling these wonderful ppl to get me home safe. An other things have happened I found a picture of him an my Mom an I never knew it existed , an one of him an I it was great an I knew he wanted me to have these pics.. I’ll never for get.
It was the second summer since my mom had passed..I was at my trailer all alone and that day had been missing her terribly..I cried and reminisced and told her how much I missed her..locked the door and went to bed..the next morning I woke up as I felt the bed depress..felt a stroke on my leg down to my toes..felt the bed go up again and now sat up in disbelief..saying “did this really just happen?”..not even 1min later the door to my trailer blew open with a bang..I got up and looked outside and at my watch..just shy of 8 am and no one was awake yet..there was no wind? What the heck?..I knew she had visited me..everyone I questioned said that no one was stirring yet.all slept in as it was Sunday morning..there were only 7 trailers on the hill including mine
Wow, amazing, The night before my mum passed away, i thought i was dreaming of being beside her in her room, as My Dad came an stood in the door way of her room.(Dad has been gone 12 Years now). I immediately felt calm, that my Dad was there to guide mum. I am so grateful for his presence to me.
Hi Blair, my daughter and I saw you in Peterborough Ontario last year. It was wonderful and can’t wait for you to come back. Since then, my husband passed and I feel that he is around me still but I’ve yet to dream about him. I’m sure he’s around because one day I was watching TV and his favourite commercial played back to back, at least 10 times. At the time I thought that this was very stupid so I changed the channel and this commercial started again. Finally I realized that this was my Richard and it made me smile cause I knew he was connecting with me. It stopped playing as soon as I acknowledged that it was him.
Thought I would add another dream..actually 2 related ones.. I was planning a trip to visit my bestie in BC with the intent of travelling to Vancouver Island to a small town where 25 years before..I had lost my fiancee who tragically drowned during a rafting incident ..I had always wanted to go back and throw a red rose into the river there for him..I hadn’t made any bookings yet.. This was about February..I dreamt that my friend and I were sitting on a small olive green love seat talking and in the white chair across from us sat my fiancée just smiling at us..I could see a yellow wall behind the love seat..I told my friend about it..then forgot about the dream.about 2 mos later as I was searching for a B and B for us to stay in..I was repeatedly drawn and attracted to a particular one.. I tried to book a suite that I wanted but was told it was unavailable at that time but they had another that was more expensive but that I could have for the same price..I took it..almost 4 mos go by..trip time..2nd dream..I wake up with a song in my head..I check the lyrics on YouTube and start playing the song..I am just bawling now as it’s an old song by The Association called Never my Love..as the video plays I see scenes of a couple on a beach that flood in old memories of the two of us at Long Beach Vancouver Island..just like the lyrics said..” How can you think love will end when I’ve said that I’d spend my whole life with you?” Never my love..lots of synchronicities happened along the way..flash forward to the B and B ..this is where I got goosebumps ..there was the room in my dream with the green love seat and white chair..but the wall was green too..I said to the owner..you painted that wall..it was yellow wasn’t it? He confirmed it.. And I saw a picture of it before he painted..same room..needless to say I was on the right place with my bestie and I knew my fiancée was with us 2.. The owners were also instrumental in helping me to locate the spot on the river where he drowned..as was my intuition..I got to do my tribute on the river in his memory as I had wanted to for 25 years
Just read your Visitation Dreams article. It makes so much sense and gives me new insight into the difference between the types of dreams. My late husband does connect with me in dreams. I have not really experienced him talking to me (or at least I don’t remember him doing so), he tends to hug me and hold my hand as he did so much before he passed. For many years my grandmother and mother have come through to me and I easily recognize signs they send me. During the worst of my grief over the loss of my husband I was blocked from allowing him to come through. Thanks for your insights and advice. I have come a long way. Love never dies.
I lost my twin sister. I miss her so much. Before she passed away we made a pact to give the other one a sign. I haven’t had a dream or pennies, nothing. It’s been 3 years. I need to know she is OK. Why haven’t I had dreams or something?? I am going to come to your meeting in Lake Havasu on the 20th of March. Our birthday is March 6th.
Thank you for all your information. although I haven’t “heard” from Mom in a while for me it’s an Owl that appears in my back yard usually when I am at my lowest…. but because of you I know she hasn’t left me….
Although I don’t recall dreams with Mom or Dad I am sure that they happen as there are so many time I wake with a peaceful mind.
Thank you again!
Hi Blair hope all is well.I have read your books. I want to thank you I just have a question that maybe one day you can answer it for me. I use to have a lot of nightmares growing up so I was told dream catchers would take them away so I am now in my 60s and I still hang them and I am wondering if this would stop my family from visiting me in my dreams. I don’t dream at all. Thank you
I wanted to know if my dreams are and you say they are. That makes me fell good, when I woke up from surgery I only wanted to know where my father was, because I was just talking to him. Everyone thought I was nuts and it was the drugs they gave me. I said no he was right here. Unfortunatly he has been gone 6 years. Now I feel he was with me and I was really talking to him and I am not crazy. Is that right? I can remember everything and we were at a floating table. My husband was so confused and actually walked out of the room a few mins because he thought I was loosing it.
Thank you so much for this ❤
About a week ago, my mom started appearing in my dreams. She passed almost 14 years ago. I was asking for a drink, but she didn’t answer. I kept asking if she could hear me, but no answer. When I woke up, I felt as though I was still with her.
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Blair..I was wondering does a loved always show up looking like them or will they sometimes show as someone you’ve never seen before but the feeling or connection. You feel to this person is so strong.. I dream of this man James..I don’t know him but he is such a reassurance and comfort I feel he might be my father
I had a very vivid dream three nights ago, my Greg visited me, we chatted in the dream, I knew it was a visit (thanks to your book) it was lovely
Hi Blair, I was at your show in St. Petersburg last night. It was awesome by the way!
I, like many hoped by a personal reading as I lost my mom back in April 2008 five months after losing our son (being 5 months pregnant). It was a devastating time for me. I know she connected with me when I found out I had breast cancer last November while also dealing with Lyme disease for the past 5 years. Lights kept coming on in my house for no apparent reason. When I asked her to turn the light off on the china cabinet light so that I would know if I was choosing the correct treatment, the light turned off. It was amazing! Then last night after your show, I had a visitation dream where she was laughing at me (we always goofed around together…she was a comedian) then she kissed me. So incredibly real. Thank you SO much for your show. It means so much to me and so many others.
I have had I think a few visitations from my husband. He always comes home, and I’m saying but I saw you die. And he tells me the doctors made a mistake, that he woke up in the morgue, his heartrate and breathing were so low it wasn’t picked up by the machines. Then people think I lied to them about him dying. And he tells me I told you I would never leave you. I have felt his hugs, his kisses, and wjen I open my eyes I expect him to be there. But he isn’t. I don’t know what he’s trying to tell me. Does he not realize he died, was he not really dead…I saw his body in the funeral home, none of the other family did, it would have been too traumatic for them, they didn’t sew him up after his autopsy and all of his organs were gone…did the doctors mess up…?
Dear Mr Robertson, Do you perform private readings? If so, I will travel to your location for the reading. I just recently lost my husband. Thank you.
My husband has come through when I have been sleeping, he will call my name and then I wake up
I know that all you have written is absolutely true. I have many sleep connections. I have many random dreams. I know the difference. I vaguely remember the random dreams .The sleep
Connections stay with me all day. It’ s a wonderful way to spend the hours of darkness.
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Both my mom and dad have visited me in dreams. My mom came to tell me that our dog Abbey was with her and she wanted me to know. After my dad passed, he came to me in a dream. He came to the door of my home and I was so happy to see him and hugged him. Then I was so suprised, realizing that he could walk as he had his leg amputated later in life. He smiled and said that he was whole again and felt great! Both were such detailed dreams.
One of my experiences while asleep was that I opened a door and walked into a room where there was a lady in a bed facing away from me. I knew the moment I saw her that it was my mom. I got into the bed and snuggled up to her and put my arm around her waist. I noticed her body was younger and slimmer than before she died. I said to her ” you’ve lost weight, and she telepathically said, ” that’s the way it’s supposed to be. ” I also noticed her hair was shorter and darker. Her love filled the room.
(This is how I knew it was her ): When I was twelve years old, I would hear my dad going out the door to work in the early morning. I would then go to mom’s room and get in bed behind her, put my arm around her and fall asleep til it was time to get up for school. She was a beautiful and loving mother in life and in death. I get euphoric every time I think of that time. Like you said, Blair, love never dies.
Thanks for all you do.
Hi ..
my little brother just lost one of his cousins not to long ago .. he was fairly young , left his infant daughter and the mother to morn ..
Mind you he isn’t a relative to me, only thru marriage and stuff.. I barely even met this guy ..
But I just woke up from a dream where he was in it asking of his girlfriend and telling me to make sure she was okay . He was happy full of love and touching and playing with my hair. When I woke up I had a strong urge to contact my little brother so he could tell the girlfriend..
My question is , how do I open myself up so I can receive more in my dreams? .. I lost my father almost 2 years ago and I would love for him to visit me .. I feel like he has before I just can never remember the whole dream ..
Hi my name is Debra I’m a Widow my husband died three years ago he got killed three men killed him in another country I remember when they brought him back home the next day we had the funeral for him but I felt it was something wrong a couple of days later I had a dream about him that he was looking at my window from the outside. I lived on the first floor back then his face was leaning close to the glass I seen him as clear as day like a few was right there he was trying to tell me something but I couldn’t hear him after that day and never seen him again can you please tell me what was that all about. He was on vacation with his friend his phone was in the bar restaurant he went out to get cigarettes which he stop smoking so I don’t understand this maybe he had a craving but all I know is what the friend told me that he was walking to the store to pick up cigarettes he was 2 blocks away from immigration he died in the Philippines but I still feel this something not adding up I know he wanted to tell me what happened but I guess I’ll never know.
My Mom has been in my dreams often lately.
OMG Blair it happened to me the other night , I had just got into bed and was laying on my left side when all of a sudden I felt something get into my bed which I thought it was my american bulldog but when I turn to fuss at her she was not there and my door was still closed, so I turned back on my left side and tried to go to sleep when I felt it again , I stayed still and felt someone laying up against my back with their head on mine and felt arms ontop of my arms and giving me a big bear hug , instantly I knew it was my husband who had passed away 11 months ago and I started crying and said his name out loud then about 10 seconds he was gone !!! I was so happy and filled with excitement I could hardly go to sleep. Ive waited so long for a sign, its when we don’t expect it that that will come. What a surprise 2 days before Easter
I recently moved from my house ito a condo, when I lived in my house I would occasionallly see cardinals in my telephone lines in my backyard and in the trees but never close to the house. However once I have moved a cardinal appears on my balcony and flies into the glass bedroom door, the other day he flew into the glass living room door a few times and at one point stood on the molding around the glass and looked into the living room for a few seconds and then flew to the banister of the balcony, stayed there for awhile singing then flew to a tree where he continued to sing for awhile.
I guess I want to know if this is a visitation sign from a loved one
Or am I reading too much into it.
I’m sure I had a visitation dream of my deceased mother coming to me walking over a farm towards an old abandoned house that I was standing on the porch looking through the glass double doors and my mum was telling me about how it had changed, apparently we lived there when I was a baby. I felt good after this dream.
This morning my husband who passed away 1yr THIS JUNE.Came to me as though he was right in the room with me I heard him as clear as if he was.He told me it’s time for me to get rid of his clothes and shoes to someone can use them.And then I yelled out his name and woke up and he was gone.Hazel
I believe I had a visitation dream last night. I dreamed I was moving into a humongous house in Maine (her state). Everywhere I turned there was another bedroom. I was trying to decide where my Dad (also deceased and in the dream) and I would sleep. In the kitchen, I came upon my Aunt who has been dead nearly 30 years. In life, no one would ever describe her as beautiful. She was morbidly obese. But, in she was beautiful. She didn’t speak to me. But I touched her cheek and told her how beautiful she looked. She was wearing lilac colored eye makeup. It was as if an artist had painted her face. The lilac extended beyond her eyes. It was very sparkly. It was a very pleasant dream.
My sister has come to me at least 3times, that I absolutely know for sure, were her! The first time, she whispered just my name, loudly enough in my mind, that it was almost like she whispered it right into my ear. The 2nd and 3rd times were both in sleep, the first showed me that she was on the other side, happy, healthy, full of life and love and joy, the 2nd time, was a waking dream, she put her face and hand right in front of mine and blew on her hand, towards my face, like when someone blows you a kiss. I’m ever grateful for her presence and her love and ESPECIALLY that first, wide awake visit, that left ZERO room for any doubt in my mind, that there is ABSOLUTELY Life, after this life….
Many years ago I was waiting for a job at CBS NEWS I hadn’t heard from them for 6 months since I went gorgeous and interview. It was the year my mom passed and I had alrwady felt her physically touch my head the week she passed So I had a dream one night I was standing before famous CBS news Walter Cronkite, he was on a throne and wearing a crown. I bowed to him. THE next morning I received a call from CBS news that they had a full time job for me
Hi! My name is Kanne. Just pronounce it like “Connie”. In 1997, I dated a guy named Demeatrias. He was my very first love. My first everything. He was in the 11th grade and I was in the 10th. We attended different schools. So, by the time he’d be graduating from high school, we decided it was best that we broke up. He went to Ohio for college and came back in 2003. We got back together. By that time, I had a daughter. She wasn’t quite 6 months at the time. I was in college and taking care of my daughter. While I had class, he enjoyed spending time with her. He taught her how to walk! I can remember one day out of the blue, he said to me, “You know, if anything were ever to happen to me, I’d make sure that you’d know as soon as it does.” I thought it was one of the weirdest things ever……
So fast forward to 2013. His cousin found me on Instagram and said he wanted to know that I was ok. Fast forward once again to January 2014………he had a heart attack and died in the 3rd. I called his mom as soon as I found out. She said, “Kanne……baby, Demeatrias just passed a half hour ago. How did you know?”
My husband died of als 10 years ago, only 54. We had 6 children 17-4. When he passed I felt angels intensely and was calm and felt love. I dream over and over that he never died and has been living close. He is not paralyzed, yet not back to his very physically fit self. I feel guilty to have moved on to have 3 more children. He is never mad and just wants to help me with all of the 9 children as if they were all his. He just starts organizing and fixing the the things I have not maintained and acts like my new spouse is insignificant,he’s aware he is there. My last dream ended with us dancing to our song ” beauty and the beast” . But his body became a wooden six panel pine door,normal head,neck,arms, knee down with feet. I always feel like it’s real when I wake up and just want back into my dream.
I had a dream of my son and he was saying to me ma get up we have to go to the store at that time it was 1:15 in the morning because I woke up and looked at the clock so I went back to sleep and my mother came to me and I told her what my son said and she said why would he want to go to the store at that time in the morning. Then I woke up at that time at 2;35 in the morning so was that just a dream
I have been having visitation dreams..I can’t believe how unbelievably beautiful they feel. So sad. My beautiful man passed away three months ago. I love him. The dreams are so real. Last night he was kissing me. I was telling him how in love I am with him. It was so amazing. I like being asleep. Funny thing is I woke up mid kiss. I could feel him..he was holding my hand. What an awesome feeling..just wanted to share.it felt so real. Lots of love.
I had received a quick (and somewhat disappointing) visitation “dream” from my husband about a month after he passed away. (It was just too short, and I barely got to interact with him.) After about 2 months, before I went to sleep, I asked him if he could visit me soon. (I also asked permission from God, in my prayers that night.) At about 3:00 am, I had a very powerful visitation dream from my husband. It’s odd because at first it seemed like a dream, but then, all of a sudden I realized it wasn’t. I looked at him, and he looked back at me like he knew of my sudden realization. I got a little scared and tried to wake up, but couldn’t. I went back into the dream and was suddenly face-to-face with him kissing!!! The feeling of love was overwhelming. I woke up crying tears of joy. Couldn’t sleep for the next couple of hours, and knew he was with me (in the spiritual realm) I’ve always been a person of faith, but this “sealed the deal”, as they say. THIS was REAL, and they are there, with us. We DO go on!!!
This happened to me one night ago. I felt like I was actually “hanging out” with my loved one. It was absolutely him and he almost had a glow to his complexion. I was sad when I woke up because I literally wanted to spend more time with him. When I went into my kitchen, I saw my bunny and wondered what the heck the bunny had done to his cage during the night. It looked like he must’ve been running around it like crazy! Very unusual!!!! A matter of a few hours later I was having lunch and my song for my loved one came over the restaurant! It’s not a common song at all and I was stunned. And tears started falling. I’ve been very open to messages from my loved one as I believe we have a soul connection (same soul group, twin flame, soul mate..I’m not sure which, but it’s something along those lines). .
I lost the love of my life about a month ago and I believe he came to me in a dream. Ive never had a visitation dream that I remember before. I was at a beach amd he was just stood there smiling at me. It felt so real and still does to this day. I remember the dream so well. I woke up asking if it was just my mind grieving for him or if it really was him. It was a comfort waking up from it and gives me confort to think about it. He has already given me the sence of touch for sure and delivered a messsage that hes with Jesus. Its pretty amazing as hes the first person ive lost who was very close to me. I never asked him to show his presence, but did ask him never to leave me.
Hi Jenny! The same thing happened to me. I hadn’t seen the love of my life for decades when out of the blue, I began having dreams of walking with someone, but I couldn’t see WHO. Night after night I dreamed, then it came to me! I thought I was being ridiculous, but I googled his name & up popped his obituary!! I’ve always believed in the afterlife…. God in His mercy gave me proof and the knowledge that my First Love, still loved me after all this time.❤️
During June of 2012 I began having strange dreams… Night after night, I was walking with someone in a shadowy place, but couldn’t see WHO ! They felt familiar somehow, but never spoke . This went on for over a month, when I got the uncanny feeling that this PERSON was My First Love, whom I hadn’t seen in
decades! I immediately googled his name and up popped his Obituary! He had passed away unexpectedly in June! I can’t begin to express the feeling that came over me! I then looked up his brother and got in touch. We hadn’t communicated since 1957….when I told him my story he was amazed!
Hi there,
My late father died a little over 6 months ago. Since his passing, I observed several signs around his home and I also had 4 different dreams about him.
The first one appeared to be a warning because the event of his death triggered several issues regarding my inheritance, which other relatives are still trying to tamper and play with.
The second was an assuring dream in one of his old homes where I was as tall as a small child and he simply held me close to his chest and he was significantly taller in his team.
The fourth strangely came at a night when the chandelier and the stretch cables over his sick bed in his room suddenly began shaking even though there was no earthquake and nothing was going on in the floor upstairs. That night I asked him to visit me in a dream if that was his spirit shaking those items on the ceiling and I did see him. He was in his death bed with the blanket over his face. A man who may have been his father or spiritual father was standing over his bed and when the blanket was lifted to reveal his face, my father woke up and began crying. It was as though he did not want to die. What is strange is that I have no siblings, but a young man, who was his other son in this dream, and I took our turn after the elderly man to run up to his death bed. We were both crying too and trying to reach him as fast as possible. We knew we had to say Good Bye one last time before he closed his eyes and died again. What is strange is that my father died overseas in a 3rd world country where he lived, where I am right now, and I do sometimes suspect that he was murdered and the murder was committed in such a way to make it seem like it was a death that came to him naturally. My husband and I knew the maid at his home was being bribed under the table by my uncle who is now trying everything he can to make impossible for me to claim my father’s estate. I do believe my uncle conspired with the maid to expedite his death after he began transferring some of his properties to me because he strangely died in less than a month since I flew back to the States.
Please tell me what I can do to connect with my father’s spirit and get the answers I need.
I need a some. Help..guidance if you will. My closest guy friend who also I had been intimate with at pints off and on…we had known each other since 07’. He passsed away December 21st 2014…just right before Christmas. I’d never lost someone before I was in such shock..he wasn’t there for me anymore I couldn’t call him,I’d pull up his contact to text him and realize he as gone. That following may I had this huge what seemed to be hours long of a connnecting dream first I saw him walking on the side of the road wearing clothes he wore back in the day…7-8th grade he was just walking blankly and I told the person driving “hey that was tyler” and I kinda like made it a misssionn to find him I was controlling this dream at this point so vivid I could pick out colors and faces and feelings..the energy was unreal. I eventually come to this place wheee I’m having to sneak in to retrieve something I wasn’t sure why I was go No where I was but I know how to hide and sneak around the building ones I came to this hall…giant wife hall. BRIGHT as could be I get like it was blinding me.!i heard people coming so I ran down the hall and went to the first room I saw on the right..when I got I. The room again everything clean,white,shining. And then in the middle of this room was a stand with an orb like thing on top…was glowing of different colors and then appears a small person who explained to me what the device does..she said that this is how we connect with you when it builds up enough energy we are able to send it out and had me place my hands on it as a was,the ord was warm and the colors were changing so fast almost flashing. Mostly purples and blues. She had given me so many small details about this device…and after m hands wheretaken off Tyler appears and full embraces me holds me so tight and said “I’m ok everything is ok” I was crying and upset and I just knew that at that time he was telling me he made it to heaven…I was so happy. But then it’s like he was suddenly gone and I just was lifted fro the room. He told me he would see me again. This was may 29,2016. Since then he’s popped in and out of my dreams very small bits then today before awakening me Tyler and some friend asked were walk-in around somewhere I had just been in a dream the day or two before…my friend with her boyfriend (I couldn’t see their faces) only his said L”hey there’s that guy yoI said looked like Tyler” and I tried to show tyler the guy as I was pointing the other mans face,who’d resembled Tyler so well started to get blurry but then when I looked back at Tyler he just kissed me,happy. Like a 2 second pop kiss with his arm around me and in my left side I remember hearing the pop of our lips and wondering if the people I was with saw it or heard it…as soon as this happened I woke up. This was today December,17th,2017. Also if this has any meaning my number is “17” I see it everywhere,it’s always a number I pick,I see at random. Ect. But every year as it gets closer to his passing….I see him more. I love it so much. I wish he could stay. I wish I could realize in my dream that I wanted to stay and keep myself there as long as possible. Sometimes this is…sometimes I just wake straight up. But I’m asking is…what is he telling me? What does this mean…with the relationship we had we were the best best of friends. But we also had intimate moments for years. The year of his passing we didn’t spend too much time together he got the no good girlfriend that changed everything. We just spoke on and off….I feel like I never got to say goodbye MY way…never saw his face for the last time..at the funeral I could hardly bare to look at him even though how handsome he looked in a button up red shirt “he prob would have never worn” lol bearing a red rose…he looked peaceful but I just ran after I saw him. He’s been stuck on my mind a daily thing…off what to do. I just want to be in heaven with him.
So I had a dream of some guy I sort of knew in high school, he passed away 3 years ago. A month before he passed away I seen him and he didn’t see me but I felt the urge to speak to him but didn’t. Anyways well I had a dream of him but In the dream we were dating and I secretly would knock on the door and we’d kiss and what not, it felt so real. I felt warm, safe and loved and when I woke up still felt that. I had a crush on him my sophomore year and I think he did to but we never ended up really talking cuz he was really shy and ended up dating another girl etc.. well it felt so real, I woke up not remembering our surroundings but him and the moment we were having.. was it real or fake?
I had a cousin that took his own life a few weeks ago he hasn’t sent me signs or anything. I’ve had dreams about him but I don’t think they were ‘visitation dreams’. Do you have any idea what’s going on?
Thanks for this been wondering if my dreams are of my son Jonathan. Sometimes I only recognise the energy and it’s as I see him in an alternate life with other members.
I had a dream a bout an elder telling ne to my face that it was too late I was able to say it was never too late she told me she was stuck in my sisters old house I told her its never too late just pray as I had told her to go to the light she kept saying its too late My husband woke me up saying I was talking in my sleep this happened in dec and I still remember it! Also I dont know where I just knew what to say to her was so suprising!
2 and a half weeks after my Nana passed away. I had the most beautiful dream. I think she took me to her, we were in a VERY bright place with beautiful music playing. My nan looked younger, she was standing tall and even walked about (had been in a wheel chair for over 20 years). Her hair was coloured brown not grey. She was wearing the outfit she wore to my wedding 15 years ago and makeup. I think the message (no conversation) tell the family I’m young and fit again. She looked so happy. I totally believe I saw her for real and all her pain and illnesses are gone.
Iam very worried about my dads sprit. He was vietanam vet, US NAVY, passed on veterans day this november 2017. Not that this matters, but he was my step dad and I was connected to him from the first day I meat him when I was 12. My mom suddenly passed in 2007 I was 33, there was no warning she was not ill, She just passed awat. My dad LOVED HER she was his life. 8 months after her passing, I asked dad to come live with me. 10 years he lived with me, my husband and kids. We never fought or argued. He had years of heart issues then lung cancer hit slow and then heart failuer. We knew time was short. Yet dad still passed in a sudden un expected way. The day before he died he told me he did not feel he had much longer. I HAVE BEEN DEVASTATED ever since. I know he always said when his time comes he would be with my mom. I HAVE HAD 2 DREAMS of him both very CLEAR!! The love and connection we are both missing eachother. He hugs me hard. I talk to him he responds to my questions. I ask him if he is happy where he is and both times he says he is not happy and he is not with my mom. The tone in his voice seems as if he does not understand. In my dreams we both know he is gone and he cannot stay long to talk. Is he not really HAPPY. Also he does not appear in the cloths we buried him. Both times he was wearing cloths I from his wardrobe. What does all this mean?
I’ve heard of these dreams and believe it had one last night. My mom died 1/11/18 from COPD & congestive heart failure. (She was on oxygen 24/7) It was terrible to watch. Last night in my “dream” she was laying in a bed blinking her eyes in an odd manner like there was something stuck in her eyes , her hair done and about 10 years younger and she wasn’t wearing any oxygen. She looked great.
She said something to me but I couldn’t hear so I leaned in and I asked her what she said to which she whispered “I’m blind”
I immediately woke from my dream and have been perplexed since becasue she didn’t have an eyesight pr Been when she was alive and it had nothing to do with her death. I feel like it’s a message but I have no idea what it means. Has anyone had this happen ?
she loves you very much she there with you always she might be wanting you to get checked or want you to check your heatlth
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I had a dream about my mom that’s been deceased since 1998..In this dream she came up to me in the store and smiled and She open her arms up to hug me and I just fell into her and I remember saying they told me you were dead? My mom never said anything she just seemed so happy and kept smiling.. lately I have been under alot of stress is could this be way of her saying it’s going to be ok..it sure feels like it
My male dog was hit by car on the 20th and he was hit close to home.can a dog spirit go into other dogs that are male that are in you house because my mom friend just brought her male over here that was a different breed and a little smaller then e was and this dog came to me he sleeps with my me talks and all like my other dog and just a minute ago my female started humping her daughter witch was his daughter to and the mom dog is fixed and she has never been like this be for could it be that my male dog who has passed put his sprit in that male dog or my female dog because all of the sudden my mom and daughter were playing and they stopped and acted as if they were depressed and scared
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My husband passed 17 months ago and came to me in a visitation dream, he was just sitting in his usual place on the sofa, dressed in his usual clothes, very vivid color. He didn’t say anything but so startled to see him I woke and sat up. He was gone but I talked to him, shook for an hour. I had never heard of this happening before.
Thank you. Jean
A friend of mine that I’ve known for 30 years just contacted me over the phone and told me that she had a dream of my mother last night who has passed 3 years ago. she told me there was a man standing with her but couldn’t really see his face only that he was tall ,dark hair . my friend also told me that my mom looked very young Slim blonde hair like they did back in the 60s she wanted to hug my friend but my friend said no cuz she was scared that it was a sign of death to her . said my mom was happy and she wanted to contact me but she couldn’t ,so she got my friend to call me and to get me over to the house right away in this dream. I ended up coming over all rushed and asked my friend what does she want? she said look and there was my mom standing there. she said I started crying and my mom had taken me aside to tell me something and then she walked away and vanished what does this dream mean? was it a visitationm is there a meaning to this?
I had a dream tonight that I was out with my friends like usual and I received a phone call from my mother an she told me that my father has passed. Current my dad and I are not talking and it’s been months I have always been close to my dad we just fell off over some fuse. Anyways at first I didn’t feel any emotion but later it hit me. I was out drinking I sat on some rocks by the beach talking on the phone with my mom than I just start crying so much… I was also drinking for some reason in my dream I was trying to cover up my feelings in front of my friends. But once I was at the store buying Medicine I seen a man right I front of me who was my dad. I looked at him an ignored him because I didn’t realize it was my dad or I was just in denial but then I glazed at him again then that’s when I knew it was him. I said Papi ? He said yes mija. I saw him. Every little detail of him. It was crazy I was crying so much am he was talking to me telling me his dead now explaining to me how he was feeling but he seemed happy. I was crying and telling him how bad I felt I thought I wasn’t ever gonna see him again and apologize and just give each other’s hugs. I was so sad that he left and I couldn’t make things better. But he gave me a hug and I felt good I felt happy he came to me. Than I woke up at 4am crying and just felt really weird. The crazy part is that my dad is not dead. We haven’t spoke in a min so I’m scared is this a sign that something might happen I feel like his living soul visited in my dreams since we are not physically taking. Lately I’ve been having lots of death dreams like frienda and fam passing and water. Please help
Me understand.
I recently lost my fiancé due to a car crash, we have been in a Long distance relationship for almost three years. He has been gone for over a month,and I dream about him consecutively for 3days and stops,and then dream of him again consecutively. Today I dreamt about him, I hear his voice in one of the dreams, it was a continuing dream as I fell asleep again after waking up, I went back to thesame dream. The last part of my dream, I was trying to call him on the phone but he didnot answer, and in my dream, I felt my head had goosebumps, and I immediately knew it was him, slowly as I woke up, I had goosebumps all over my body and imagined that he was hugging me. It was weird for me to have that feeling as I was covered in thick blanket and I did not feel even a bit of a cold, just the chills on my left side of the body, as I was sleeping on my right.
Hi,
I lost my father this month. Twelve days later, I had a dream of him walking past me looking healthy and about 15 years yoi ger. I said dad? And he sakd I am fi e , I am doing good. Was it a visitation dream?
My husband had been gone almost 9 months. I ask him every night to come to me but he never has. I am so sad and last. I have so many questions. Why hasn’t he come to me?
I have had visitation dreams. First one was from my Son and the second more recent one was from my Dad. Both times, I knew I was visiting them because even in my sleep I knew I was sleeping and I knew they came to talk to me. I remembered every detail in the morning, seen their faces, how happy they are. It was amazing. Thank you for verifying that for me…many people think you’re crazy when you tell them.
Hi..since my ex husband passed. He had committed suicide by hanging.. my daughter also had a friend whom committed suicide. Besides electric things acting funny. My daughter sees the numbers 357 a lot. Also when we brought home this diver guy home,my 3 yr old,then 2 was yelling at the diver saying papa wake up. She’s never met him or knew the word papa. Plus always seems to be in our dreams. Most not talking. We understand most things but not the numbers..what does this mean?
I had one from my father, he was standing in front of me, hair blowing a little in the wind, his face, eyes, strands of hair all visible and clear, he said nothing, just smiled, he appeared as he looked in his early 40’s….I went to hug him but I woke up before I got to do so, I could feel his energy still with me, everything exactly as you just described, have not had one since but I cherish that one so ❤️
Thank you Blair. You confirmed what I believed was true. My mother visited me as I was waking up 3 weeks after her passing. I heard her call my name twice. I saw her wearing familiar clothing, holding a bouquet of flowers as she smiled at me. The same way you revealed she was smiling at me when I saw you in Lake Havasu. She seemed SO happy. I’m SO happy to have you as a spiritual advisor. Thank you. I truly believe that love never dies ♡
I lost my beloved husband almost 3 years ago, i cant understand why ne has not visited me.
Yes, I have had visits from my paternal grandfather and father. My grandfather and grandmother came together. He was standing, she was sitting. I immediately ran to hug him and he was gone or I woke up. I was walking into a room with a hallway to the left. There sat about 10 people. I only recognized my husband, who is still alive, my father and I think my maternal grandma in the very back. I had kept walking past them trying to figure out why they had gathered in the hallway and didn’t tell me. It was as if my husband had arranged it.
My father in law, Bill, was a jokester. He always made everybody laugh. He and my mother in law, Pat, had always wanted to take us to Hotel Del Coronado for their Sunday brunch. Bill was a man who loved to eat. He worked hard and stayed skinny. He passed away in 2001, and we never got to go to that brunch. His death was devastating to our family. In 2003 my mother in law passed away. My heart was broken as she was a dear friend as well as my mother in law. A few days later I woke up laughing after Bill came to me when I was sleeping and said, “We moved! It’s just like the Hotel Del Coronado!” I knew then that they were both okay and they were happy to be together again.
Hi Blair, I think I have had a few visitations as I can feel and see shapes of people. Like while sleeping I wake up and see shapes of people I know (usually people that are still alive). And one time I seen a beautiful little baby. If I move or talk they are gone.
Thanks for this info.
I read on face book you have couple of new books out. Will be buying them soon, have so enjoyed your books.
Love and light
Fay
I had a visitation or connection seven years ago. My sister died by suicide on January 21, 2011. Her daughter’s 12th birthday was on February 9th. At a park. I had never been to the park before so I had no idea what it looked like. She connected with me the night before the party. I don’t remember everything but I do remember that the setting was at that park (which I didn’t realize until I got there). She was dressed just like she would have been if she had gone in her physical state. I remember telling her she was supposed to be there and she said, “I will be and I’ll be right by you.” I had been so emotional about that day up until I woke up the next morning. It was a perfect birthday party at the park.
Exactly! Years ago my dad came to me in my sleep and it was so real that when I awoke I was looking for him to be standing next to my bed. That’s when I knew. I have never doubted that was a real visit. A few years ago I saw you at an event in Houston and you gave me a message from my dad. You told me I was his favorite child. It’s true. I knew that and was a great validation. A year later I went to a James Van Praagh event and he also brought e a message from my dad…Guess what the very first thing he said to me was? “You were his favorite.” Haha anyway, I remember you saying James Van Praagh was your favorite. Just wanted to share that with you. 😉
Thank you for that Blair.
I have had many visits in my dreams from my loved ones.
You are right. Those ones I always remember.
I have given many many hugs to my loved ones in my dreams.
Very comforting and reassuring that they are still around.
It was my Moms anniversary of her passing on Mar 6.
I received many messages from her and even felt her presence with me in my
kitchen. Thanks for sharing your wonderful gift! Love and Light ❤️❤️
Since Dec when my wife of 29 years past in 2016 . I have had many validation dreams . My children have also and they always say I saw mom in a dream last night . They know the difference and believe the same as myself in spirit. They of course are adults and we share if one has a validation dream of there mom Kim . It just warms my heart knowing she’s ok on the other side. My first validation dream my wife Kim came towards me in what looked like a grey mist . I saw her face and just as I had known her for years . She put her arms around me and told me everything will be alright. Then Kim left and I asked her to stay but she just faded and said good bye . I woke from this dream with many tears as we had known each other forty years . I know shes ok on the other side and very thankful for all the validation dreams I do receive. You told me Blair we can get through grief but we never get over our loss . You know I am greatful for all I have learned about spirit and healing . We have to live life and our love ones are still with us , ( Loveneverdies ♥️)
Hi Blair
I read this tonight and I know now that my Dad comes to visit me when I sleep. I have had many night that I see him, touch and hug him and he even talks to me. I see him plane as day. and in the morning I still remember him begin in my dream. what he wore to what he said to me. thank you for sharing this. I see he’s face and it his my Dad. I miss him so..
Sir, You are correct. I used to think about my death date which is 17 July, 2017. But on 17th July, I forget to remember her date of death. Accidently, I remember that I had an dream on 17th July that my wife body with her death face. I recalled why she came on my dream with such dead body face. After two days, I remember that that is the day of her death which I forget and she remind her about the death day.
I am talking to so many souls but I could not talk to my wife and her name is Vallikannu. All the souls which I am talking to them and I asking them where is my wife soul and why she is not talking to me. They all said that she is with the god and she is not in a position to talk to you no. I am really worrying about that my wife is not calling and am very eager to talk to her. I am praying her soul every day and I do not pray god due to no justice from the God and people around me.
Thanks and Regards,
Swaminathan
I don’t dream, and I don’t have visitation dreams. Disappointing. I sometimes get signs from Tom and/or Pat, I like when I do.
I just remembered, I did have one visitation. My son was being shipped to Iraq and I was worried sick. Early one morning, I was lying in bed, semi awake, crying, and my mother came to me. She enveloped me with a blanket of love, such as I never felt from her before. She told me not to worry, my son would be all right. I felt such relief, my worry was gone. And, my son came home unharmed.
I truly believe in life after death. I know that they are around me and they love to play tricks on me and my daughter. She also believes. Thank you for all that you do.
My very first visit from a loved one that was like this was when I was 14 both my parents had passed and I moved into my Aunts House, she called me Cinderella, she even laughed when she said it! Her eldest Son died 7 months after my mom in 1972, she was never the same, I sat up in my bed he called my name came and sat on my bed and promised me everything would be ok, I always thought he meant she would give me everything she stole from
My Dad and I but actually I have been blessed with Beautiful children, Grandchildren and more love than a Woman could ever want, meaning more than any money she took, her kids are all miserable so he was totally right, everything is just perfect and I cherish that visit to this day 41 years later I can see it like it was yesterday! I thought I was crazy and was afraid to say anything but no doubt in my mind and was later told that lots of my ancestors were mediums and empaths
My Mom came to me just before she actually passed away. My family sent me home that night because I was caring for her all week and I was completely drained. Her voice came into my ear loud and clear “Better days are coming, Ree” Ree is my childhood nickname. I jumped so high off the bed expecting to see her standing there. It was an overwhelming feeling. At 6am I’m sitting on my bed in my apt wondering if I should call the house thinking she had passed. I pondered until 8am and they told me she had a very restless period and they were on the phone with Hospice @ 6am and they had given her an additional dose of Morphine to calm her. I believe it was her first visitation.
After that she came to me just before Father’s Day telling me what to write in a card for my Stepdad. I was crying while writing this card and she was sitting in her normal seat on the sofa and was very very happy (more then normal happy) and laughing. I got mad and asked her “What are laughing at – I’m in tears over here?” Her only response was laughing and smiling and I woke up.
After that she came to me several times but 2 days before another was going to pass. It scared me and at the same time I felt she was telling she was there to welcome them. The first was a newborn infant who died after 300+ days in the hospital. He never was “awake” or responsive during this time but in my dream she brought him to my job in a car seat and he was just a laughing and his little arms and legs were moving with joy. He passed 2 days later. After another dream/death happened I told her I didn’t want to know this was gonna happen – it stopped. No more dreams at all since then.
My mom passed away when I was 17. When I was 24, I had a visit from her. My husband & I were camping, and it was a peaceful evening as I fell asleep. Her image was very clear, but the background was total blackness. She looked healthy again, not the cancer ridden body she had at the end of her life on earth. She didn’t use words; she motioned with her arms like she was rocking a baby. I said “you can’t have a baby anymore!” She continued to sway her arms back & forth, & convinced me that I was the one to be having a baby! It has been a lasting memory that never faded. I’m happy that she was the one to give me such wonderful news! My baby is now 39 yrs old with babies of his own. So true that love never dies!
I lost my wife at the age of 52 to esophageal cancer i have not had a visit in my dream ,i hope i can get one ,i miss her so much my heart hurts. i feel i have no purpose in life she passed away febuary 4 of this year . i cry all the time and can’t stop thinking about her!
I took care of my Mother in Law for 3 1/2 yrs before she passed. In her final days I told her to come around me as a humming bird if she was still around us. Well it has happened only three times and at the same place when I’m going through a difficult time. Each time I see the humming bird I open my front door and there is a curved arch on my front porch. The hummingbird comes and hovers there for a few seconds so I see it and then zips off. This only happens when I’m facing a struggle and it only happen three times within 9 yrs. but I say OKAY Mom I know you are around me! I have lots of flowers (as I live in Fla.) and a humming bird feeder but never see them around the feeder or flowers. She was very close with our Boxer dog Teeko and we got a call from the vet that there was no hope and to come as he should be put down and when I opened the door to leave there was the humming bird in the arch way and I said to my husband Mom will be with us and will be waiting for Teeko. I believe next time the humming bird appears in the arch way it will be my Mother in law visiting!
I have not recently had any dreams about my loved ones, but have previously dreamed about relatives who have passed on, or have dreamed about someone who I have not seen in a long while and then find out they or a loved one of theirs has passed away. As recently as this morning though, I wake up and ‘feel’ the presence of my dead cat curled up beside of me on the bed.
There definitely is a difference between the two and every detail of the visit is real and remembered. It’s been a couple of years since my mom visited but I still remember it in detail and relish it! Thanks for being you.
I’ve had several revealing dreams. The latest on was my husband dancing holding me close, smiling saw his beautiful face, smile hair, made me feel warm being held by him. Slow dancing neither wanting to let go of each other. Woke up smiling feeling light and happy. Was a wonderful feeling didn’t want to wake up, didn’t want him to go. Always wonder could we really have been that close that we could feel each other.
I have had loved ones visit me after their passing telling me they are OK. Makes me feel so good when I wake.
about four or five years ago, my dad came to me and it was very real and distinct. he was wearing the same light blue sweater with a hole in the sleeve that he wore all the time when he was alive. He said something like “your mother is not happy here anymore” or some words similar to that (she was still alive at the time). She only lived about a year or two after that dream. I think he was preparing me.
i have had dreams of my brothe and i keep saying how good you look i never see his face but i think i see him where he lets me no that he is ok after a dream i have a cardinal that come to the house
This was RIGHT ON TIME for me as a “friend” who happen to mention to that my dad who passed 9/6/17 had gave me a gift of a visitation! SHE tried to tell me it wasn’t, BUT I KNOW BETTER! Very funny, very specific, I still remember EVERY detail from almost a month ago! My dad was Hilarious in life, and still just as silly and funny in the afterlife! The jist of it was I was outside back door of my parents house, my mom was bitching about him smelling like cigarette smoke, ( he quit back in late 60’s early 70’s) she telling me to go ahead and smell his breath…me laughing cause he now had his beautiful black hair back and it was long, kinda like Fabio, lol, was teasing him about I was glad he had his hair back, saw his fishing pole, which he loved to fish, and he would sneak cigarettes from me when mom wasn’t around when he would take us on cruises! So with all that being said, mind you NEVER saw my mom, only heard her complaining from another part of house, I said, “ok, daddy, let me smell your breath”, he never said anything the whole time, only had HIS SILLY “shit eating grin” on his face, and when we leaned in to each other with his mouth opening up for me to smell his breath…I woke up! Of course laughing my butt off because that would be typical MY DADDY!! I KNOW you can’t answer each and every one, and I DONT EVEN NEED any validation… My problem comes from the friend, who DOES have some kind of “gift” trying to INSIST that it wasn’t one! As I have discovered I also have a gift THAT SHE DOESNT KNOW ABOUT, and have begun expanding it with the help of a TRUSTED MENTOR! So my dear Blair, if you have any time and would like to inpart any wise words concerning that “friend”, I’d love to hear! Love and Light to you, my dear.
Cindy
Reading your article very interesting my husband died over six years ago and I’m wondering he came and kissed my four head and set me free we always watched the Waltons on television and he asked why I wasn’t watching them after he died what I couldn’t it was like a block there but after that kiss I was able to watch the Waltons . another incident six weeks after my dad passed away to the hour I had a morning visitation when I was sleeping and he came back because I told him before he died I want to know everything that I was telling him the spirit was showing me was true he came back and verify this for me thank God that he listened because I just built my spiritual strength up more . My house is so full of spirit beings I am very well protected and I think God for that also I believe very much so in the spirit realm that is more real to me then this earthly realm believe me and I thank God for people like you and you have a blessed wonderful day .
If you only have a few memories of a parent taken away from you at a young age and they have passed away would they come visit?
Blair, I had a very real dream of my grandma shortly after she passed. She my mom and I were standing at the fence talking, she told mom and I that we had to accept that she was gone so she could rest. My dad was in the yard mowing the lawn and grandma told us that he had accepted her passing and we needed to also, suddenly my mom asked me who I was talking to i told her grandma and she just walked away. Grandma gave me a hug and vanished. Shortly after that dream I started knitting and crocheting like grandma had. My dad told me grandma had given me her talent from beyond. I have always believed that she visited me that night. Annette Roberts
Interesting…I went to the cemetery to put flowers on my parents grave and I sat a talked to them , which I have never done before, but anyway on my ride home a red bird flew by in front of my van and I remembered a saying something about seeing cardinal in your yard means a loved one is near I don’t know how true that is but that’s what I thought of. My Dad and I went to the cemetery quite often to put flowers on Mom’s grave and he had a favorite road that we always went down to get there and as I was turning on that road I seen the cardinal. Was it a sign or not I don’t know.
My dog also looks up toward the ceiling alot and I look up thinking he see a bug or something but nothing is there. Could that be a sign? Again I don’t know.
My Dad passed on June 10, 2016 at 94 and Mom passed on February 14, 1999 at 73.
We took my Mom on a cruise. She had been just diagnosed with mesothelioma so we knew this would be our last trip with her. My Dad had passed away 15 years prior. I dreamt on the cruise that my Dad came to me in my favorite blue suit of his. It was so real, we were at a party and I knew if I turned away from him he would disappear. I asked him what I was supposed to do with my Mom and he just looked sad. Tears came down his face. Someone in the party called out to me and I turned away, and when I turned back he was gone. It was all so very real, not dreamlike at all.
I’ve had several visitation dreams from my 19 year old daughter since she transitioned last year. I have a journal, and I journal all the visitation dreams I can remember with her. Makes me so happy to see her beautiful face ~ Miss her so much
Thank you very much. But since my husband died I haven’t been able to remember my dreams. Either before or after I wake up. If he’s communicating with me I’m not remembering it. Thank you Stacey
Wow this helped a lot . I lost my father a year or so ago and had a dream about him he appeared in a t v a older one like black and white and he was waving happily to me and he looked amazing and young he appeared in the credits that are in the bottom of the screen Ib my dream I ran to tv on my knees so happy to see him
My Mother passed in the summer of 2014. I had only one dream since she left us, and that was the morning I awoke with a strong sense that she was trying to tell me something. Per usual, I checked my early morning emails and that’s when I saw you were coming to Scottsdale. I tried to shrug it off, but the sense of my Mother’s presence was so profound that I realized that she was trying to tell me to go see you. I was your first reading that evening… “A Mother named Margaret, or Margie, family of five, three of a kind two of another.” At first I asked my friend who recently lost her Sister, but she couldn’t give me a definite answer, so I then asked my Niece. You picked up that she wasn’t my first choice to take to the reading that evening. I took two photos with my Mother in them with the five children. You specifically said, my Mother told you that I brought two photos!!! Thank you for helping to bring me together with my Mother and easing my pain knowing my Mother is happy and with other family members. It’s amazing to me.
Thanks for the great information, Blair. Very informative as always. Wishing you and yours peace, love and healing white light.
I recently experienced the worst thing that could ever happen to anyone, the loss of my only child. My emotions are all over the place . I have experienced many losses, but nothing feels as horrendous as this. I saw her in her bedroom, sitting like she normally would do. I felt her, she was real. My mom, who is also deceased , was dusting the mantel(as she always would when she was alive) and around my daughter’s ashes. My daughter told me that the ashes was not her, that she was here. I told her to please come to me before I fell asleep. She finally did and it has been a little over a month. I know this was the visit I was waiting for.
I had a visitation and it was so clear & felt real, which I believe it was. I remember a lot of the details to this day. David did give me a message at that time. It felt amazing the next morning & real.
I had a dream years ago many years after my ex husband passed away while I was in the hospital with my mom. He came to me as my mom and I were at the back of the Jack in the Box in the parking lot and she was having problems and I looked up and saw a crowd of people coming towards me and in the middle was a tall man and his arms were spread out and as he came closer I realized it was my ex-husband. As he came closer he wrapped his arms around me and told me everything was going to be okay. I woke up after that and told my mom. it has been 20 plus years and I’ve never forgotten it.
When I dream of my mother or father, I’m always fighting with them. We didn’t fight when they were here in earth. Why?
I had a dream last night about a classmate I had in highschool. His name was Zach. He died sometime last year in Korea, in his military barracks. It was ruled as suicide but it seemed kinda off to me, and from what I’ve seen on Facebook, his sister thinks foul play was afoot too. To be clear, I hadn’t spoken to Zach in years. We weren’t especially close.
The dream was vivid, but at the same time, not. I can’t remember what kind of car he got out of, but I remember recognizing him, calling his name, and approaching him. He seemed surprised to see me. He was wearing the purple/pinkish T shirt I remember him wearing a lot in school.
We hugged really tightly. I remember that specifically, it was a really solid hug. And I remember being completely aware he was dead, and that this was a dream. But he looks at me after we hug, and he asks “Is this real?” And he seems to be in disbelief.
And I ask him “Does it feel real to you?”
And then I woke up. People talk about being visited in their dreams but honestly, it felt like I was the one visiting him? I’ve been thinking about it all day and night. We weren’t even close. We had a single class together and never hung out outside of it. Pretty confusing.
Blair, I have had 3 dream visitations in the exactly one year since my deceased loved one left. I didn’t doubt any of them. I could describe each to you now but this would be too lengthy if I did. I will concisely say that in the first one, I heard my loved one saying my name to me “over the telephone” in the clearest voice – that’s it – but it was him. Secondly, woke up from a bad dream and his hand/arm was moving between my arm/body from armpit down arm past my fingers – literally felt the moving and knew it was him perhaps trying to protect me. And lastly, I was in awakening state from dream and was hugging myself with both of my arms and as the more “alert” I became, his arms were directly under my arms and I could feel him “hug” me with his arms pulling my mid-section to his arms. These connections have all been quick but leave no doubt in my mind that it is my deceased loved one.
my grandmother passed just over a year ago and recently i have had 2 very intense dreams of her i could only hear her voice it was her voice it was so real i could hear her i could feel her with me and i woke up crying uncontrollably i could remember her voice broke i remember everything except wat she said i can’t get it out of my head but can’t remember i know she waa trying to tell me something i had another 1 last night i saw her this time and she was talking to me again and all i remember is her saying something about god and i woke up crying uncontrollably again. i know she was there but why can’t i remember what she is telling me
Hi Blair,
This is week will be the second anniversary of my husbands passing. I have had one dream connection. I wish it was more but appreciate he came through.
I want to thank you for all the tools you have shared to make these connections.
Brenda
I had a visitation dream years ago. A co-workers husband came to me just before Christmas decorating a tree. I never met him before he passed and just knew his wife in by sight. He looked right at me with a beautiful smile, for a while, then faded away. I had not seen his wife in months but the next morning the first person I saw going into work was her. I passed on my experience and was rewarded with another beautiful smile and a thank you. She felt her husband was wishing her a Merry Christmas.
I was wondering why I don’t hear from my many family members who have passed. I never remember my dreams, that’s how know this was a visitation.
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I once had a visitation come to me in the form of an orb. I was in bed for the night. I’m pretty sure I was awake when it happened. It was a big ball of white light that moved from my closet door then moved up to me and past me. There was a woman’s face in it. She had beautiful blond curly hair with blue eyes and very red lipstick on. I didn’t know who she was. I described her to my mom because she resembled pictures of women back in the 1940’s. She told me that she was my moms cousin. She knew immediately. She said that she died in her 20’s of a rare disease. I couldn’t believe it! She has never come again to visit. When she passed me I felt a breeze. I stayed awake for a long time after that!! It was so amazing! Thanks for letting me share.
The article was very helpful. You clarified the difference so very well. Thank you.
At this present moment I am on compassionate care leave so I can take care of my mom who is dying from liver and lung cancer. This is not fun to go through. I just pray that she doesn’t suffer. She keeps telling me she doesn’t believe in the afterlife but I do 100%. I really hope she comes to me when she is gone so I know she made it. I did see my brother once after he pasted and he felt the same as my mom about the after life.
Hi Blair, I don’t dream I can’t remember the last dream I had. I don’t understand why or how this happens that someone doesn’t dream!
I had a very vivid dream after my dad passed in 1986, and it is still clear in my mind. In the 1st part of the dream I saw his casket and when I looked in I saw his face decomposing. The next second there was a big white tent on the lawn of his house and inside was my dad (looking great), all of his grandchildren and me sitting in a circle. He was telling us all just how beautiful heaven is. I woke up in a cold sweat, but I know that he was letting me know that he was happy and in heaven. It was terrifying in the beginning, but so beautiful in the end.
My mother was not a religious person-at all. She would not even participate in conversations near the topic of God, she hated going inside churches. This being said ; about 2 months after mom died, I had a dream where she was on her knees, on a conveyer belt , looking straight at me, moving backwards, she waved good-bye to me, and went through a pair of red velvet drapes. Does this mean she has entered Hell ? 2 months or so later, I spoke with a medium over the phone, she said mom was a lost soul. Mom passed away Oct. 19,2013 ; and what this medium told me; has bothered me as much as her passing away. Can you please shed any light on this for me. Thank you Blair.
Blair, my experience I believe was a visitation from my mom who I was incredibly close to. I was sitting on the couch and she showed up at my place in my dream. We sat for what seemed for hours talking about old times and looking at photo albums. I felt extreme love from hearing her voice and looking at her warm smile. When I woke up even I though I felt groggy as if I was in a deep sleep I realized it was a dream. I have never felt so happy and some sort of euphoria came over me is the only way I can describe it. It made me feel amazing like I didn’t have a care in the word and put me in the best mood for the day!! It stayed with me for awhile. The only downside is it felt so real that for a split second I realized she was not here with me so I felt a pang of sadness. It made me cry for a moment but then I held onto that unbelieveable happiness that I just felt. I believe I an intuitive person who senses and feels things so maybe everyone’s experience is different but yes I would say you could definitely tell the difference. I am grateful for the visit as she was a wonderful loving mom who I miss everyday.
Hi my husband died four years ago and I would love to have a visitation from him but he has never come to me in a dream. I ask him every night but no luck maybe he doesn’t want to contact me wish I knew.x
Blair i had a dream/visit that my deceased son was standing right in front of me….but it was a womans voice telling me my son sees me cry everyday…and that he knows im hurting…i truly believe it was a visit…cld the womans voice be a past loved one of mine…or my spirit guide?
Blair-
Great article ! As always your “pearls of wisdom” invigorate my curiosity for
further spiritual knowledge. The distinction between the two states was clear, concise
and enlightening !
Thank you
Fenton Henrickson
Omg i just had a dream Friday about my husband everything felt so real like he wasn’t even gone the hugs the kiss the touch the love when i woke up i just felt evrything was so real i said to myself tgat hes not gone i just saw him it was just so real our love for each will never die after two years of him being gone the love is still so strong i just love him so much and in my dream he still felt and showed the exact same love as he alway did
I lost my sweet dog 5 days ago after 14-1/2 yrs. He had a stroke and died peacefully while I was at his side. I took his death very hard. The next night, for some strange reason, I woke up and saw a furry brown dog in the shadows and felt his presence, but it was only for a couple seconds. I thought it was his twin sister, so I went to check in the living room, but she was sound asleep in her bed. I didn’t realize pets who have passed could make contact with their owners.
My mother passed almost 4 years ago unexpectedly. Both my sister and I have “felt” our mother’s presence. We describe it as a chill factor.. We felt it prior to her funeral as she passed through all of us and stopped at me. My sister says she has talked at her house and I heard it when I was visiting, then felt her presence. It’s unbelievable at the feeling.
I’m leaving one more comment only because I know it was her (my mom). Below, where you put your name, email address, and are supposed to put a website.. well… I put the arrow on it to type it in, and my mom’s full name was there… Then I felt her. I took apicture of it and sent it to my sister to make sure I wasn’t hallucinating.
Blair, my daughter passed away on July 12, 2017, she had not spoken to our family in six years, since her Dad passed away. She was a very bitter, unkind person and ended up with no friends or even family. I’ve never been touched by her since she passed, and I wonder if she got her wish to be with her Dad, or are there other places that she could be?
I lost my Husband suddenly on 17th September I woke up on the .Monday morning and he was asleep could not wake him he lost his mum 2 weeks prior I’m list heart broken h was my love and soul mate I so desperately want a sign and know he is with me I thought I heard someone say they’ve me in my ear that morni g a fees hours after not sure if I. Is heard right or someone said that to me as a friend or it was my Husband I miss him so so much I do believe in afterlife bit I so want a sign
I need help understanding what might be going on with my granddaughter. My husband past away 3 years ago and she has been seeing him a lot with red eyes and it scares her. What does that mean?, why red eyes?
I dreamt I was driving and as I came up to this light I looked over and it was my deceased father who seemed very much alive. He jumped out and asked where was I going. My daughter was with me.
He said now what are you forgetting , wearing a tall purple hat, he gave it to me and gave my daughter one. I gave him a big hug and I didn’t want to let him go, but he said I gotta go. When I woke up it was if I were still trying to hold on with a hug. What is the meaning?
My beloved sweetie pie passed 2/13/18. The week before Christmas I was very ill, sleeping on the couch. Somewhere along the way I awoke for a moment looking at Greg’s chair and there he was, sitting plain as day. watching over me. All the items I had piled on his chair were nowhere in site. This happened about a half dozen times – I wasn’t dreaming and not quite asleep or fully awake – until I waved at him as I did so many times in the past. He then gave me his signature nod, I felt loved and at peace and there was nothing scary about the encounter. so I settled back in for more sleep. A few minutes later it finally hit me, wait a minute…. how can that be? Now I was wide awake, I looked over at his chair and he was gone. All the stuff I had piled on the chair was there, everything looked as it did before I laid down. That was the most beautiful encounter I have ever had. I will continue to ask God to invite him to visit me more often.
My aunt passed away a couple months ago. She used to love across the street from me. The other night just before I woke up, I saw her standing in front of me smiling. I did dream that night, but she was separate from the dream. I had asked her to visit me prior to that night. She was older when she passed, so when I saw her she was not in a young body. She looked healthy and happy. She was also very tan. I only remember her with fair skin, but when I told my other aunt about the visit she said that my aunt was always tan because she loved to work outside. As she got older, she lost pigment. Thank you so much for this article to validate her visit!
I had a vision of my mother and Rex Moore standing beside each other and there smiling at me ,what does this mean
My wife passed away recently. A friend of hers made contact with me last night telling me she had dreamt about my loving wife the night before. She thought it might be a message. She dreamt we where in a big unfamiliar house. There where lots of children and other people. She did not recognize any of them but felt like she knew some. She said we sat on cushions on the carpet, opposite each other just talking. My wife was there sitting behind me. She said she was confused and asked her I thought you died. My wife then answered I always with Desiree(me). She said as she said this my wife looked at me saying I am always just behind her. She said she looked healthy, happy and younger. Just the way she always remembered her. Before my wife died she had cancer and was really sick, bedridden.
What does this mean. Is she at peace or is she looking after me?
I went to the church and saw legs, in the air, I thought I was just seeing something that really wasn’t there. I got into the church and started to light a candle for my son, and sat down to pray. All of a sudden I saw my son on the other side of the window. He was slender, in red shorts, t-shirt and showed his face and looked right at me. I motioned my lips and said I love you, he did not motion his lips, or say anything. He then put his head down, and soon was moving away. I went outside and saw him being taken by both arms, and his head was still in a down position. I felt shocked, and sad cause I don’t know if he was crying and couldn’t lift his head up, and did not want me to see him cry, not sure. I looked behind me outside and saw a tall figure, sitting in a tall chair looking at me. I think it was God, and thanked him and he knew I was confused. Confused because I wished so my son would of said something or motion his lips. But I’m so grateful for seeing my son, it’s a moment in time I’ll never forget.
Thanks for sharing your experience with the spirit world, I have had many experiences with my loved ones. It’s great to hear someone say your not crazy.
My blind grandmother raised me since birth. She passed away last Tuesday, we had her funeral this past Saturday. At her graveside I wrote a poem I had written after her passing about my memories with her and all her great qualities. Over the weekend I began reading and learning more about afterlife and I read your article about 5 signs our loved ones send. Sunday night while sleeping I believe my grandmother reached out to me. She was sitting on a stretcher in an ambulance, well and alive but I knew she had passed over, it’s like she had come back just to talk to me. I was standing in the door way of the ambulance, holding her hand and reading her my poem. I felt that she reached out to me and acknowledged to me that she knew about my poem I wrote her.
I’m going thru a very bad divorce. And I dream about him several times. Some are about his health and I also beg him to take me back. Several months ago he threatened to shoot me. So I left my home of 30+ years. Why do I keep dreaming about him? I loved what we had together for 19 of the 27 years we were married.
Thank you this confirms so much. I have tickets to your Orlando show Jan 11th, I cant wait!!!
My son died in 2015 from cancer and a few months later when I was sleeping he walked up to me and put his arms around me and held me for what seemed a long, long, time. I could feel him holding me. Then he backed away and said “I have to go back”. I started to cry and said something like ” I don’t want you to leave” and he said again ” I have to go back”. Then he turned and walked away. When I woke up I KNEW that that was real and I felt so loved and peaceful knowing he was alright.
After that, I started talking to him periodically during the day as I was doing things. He always teased me about how many clothes I had so when I would go into my closet to get something I would say things like “Gosh, what do I wear today”, etc. and then I would say “hear” him teasing me and I would say “I know Eric, I have too many clothes! But I love clothes and shopping!” This went on even as I would go to a store I would walk in and say, “I know Eric, I don’t need anything, but I’m just going to look and if I see something I HAVE to have then I will get it!” 2 or 3 months later he came to me again and he had on a button-down oxford cloth shirt that was so white it was glowing. He was glowing and looked so clean and fresh and beautiful! We started talking about clothes and I guess shirts came up and he started telling me that he had shirts in different rooms and I said “Eric, how many shirts do you have?” And he (having a wonderful sense of humor) said “Oh, thousands!” I burst into tears and woke up. I giggle to this day and am so happy that he could keep his wonderful sense of humor. I always could make me laugh like no one else could.
I was the last person to talk to my Mom before she passed away almost eight months ago – she looked me in the eyes, with a tear rolling down her cheek, right as she was leaving this world. I’ve questioned myself ever since – why me? Why not my brother, or my best friend who was like her own daughter, or her own brother?. A few days ago I had a beautiful dream about her. Everything about it was so vivid. She was standing at a good distance from me on the beach with no one else around. When I saw her I didn’t believe at first that it was her until I got closer. No words were spoken but we hugged for what seemed like a long time, then I woke up. I went back to sleep but it was still fresh with me when I woke an hour later. I remember what she was wearing and how pretty she looked. I felt blessed but sad at the same time because I still miss her terribly. I recently signed up for Blair’s posts, then I received the email about visitation dreams yesterday morning. I really believe that she did visit me, and even right after she passed away, we received two very powerful experiences that really made us believe that it was her.
Hi, Thank you for this information. Its a coincidence that last night I had a Visitation in my dream and today I see this in my e- mail. Last night I saw my husband as plain as day. He was hugging me, he is tall, and it was his face and beautiful wavy grey hair. I can still feel the warmth of his body holding me.
My first visitation dream as an adult was 5 yrs ago. I was visited by someone that died 4 yrs prior but I didn’t know they died. I was sad yet on a high for months. After that I started having dream visitations from many friends & family. I definitely opened a door! I welcome and enjoy the visits…
I’m responding to your email today about dream visitations. I think they are amazing. I’ve had visitation dreams to numerous to count. My son Nick seems to appear at just the right time. When I’m dealing with a lot of stress or illness he appears. My Mom and dad have shown up. You feel so good when you wake up. My son always leaves me feeling loved and hugged.
A lot of different spirits show up in my house. I’ve told my husband it feels like our home is a central clearing house. When my dad visits he smokes as does my son. Different brands however. I’ve actually had to ask them not to continue smoking as it makes me cough. I’ve gotten lots of perfume smells as well. The best thing for me and my husband is when we’re making a special dish and we use what is now known as the magic bowl. I ask for help with cooking and the love just wraps around you and what we make is awesome. It feels like there are so many spirits helping. (at this point people roll their eyes and look at us like we’re crazy) Are we just imagining this?
Actually Blair you helped me a long time ago. You appeared with your stories about your spirit guide and how the afterlife was. Everything you wrote validated my beliefs. So thank you
very much. One day I hope to see you in person when you come to Windsor ON.
I think I had a dream visitation with my grandparents. It happened shortly after I’d hung a picture of my grandfather in my home. I actually felt like I had gone to see them. I knew it was them, although their skin was very smooth and their eyes the brightest blue. They looked like them yet not. I could hear them speaking although their mouths didn’t move. They told me how much they enjoyed seeing my children, letting me know they are aware of our lives now. When I got pulled back it was like they were disappointed to see me go, like oh darn she’s leaving already, as I could see my grandma turn to my grandpa and laugh about it. Quite remarkable. Really stuck with me like it was a visit, details didn’t fade like they do with regular dreams. Is that what happens, do we “meet” somewhere? Wish I knew how to make that happen, I would do it again. 🙂
I do have visitation dreams with my loved one who passed in November……and when I wake I feel as if he is actually in bed with me…I put my arm over to touch him and then I know he is not there but he was very much so in my dream…….I treasure these moments and know he is with me……bless him for being there……..
Thank you for explaining the difference in a dream and a visitation Blair……it sure made a lot of sense….
Be safe, be well and thank you for being there for people like me… Love and light to you always
Margo
I hear my husband calling my name. It will wake me up. I don’t imagine it. I actually hear his voice.
It’s been one year, seven months, 29 days since my husband died. The only visitation I’ve had was when I “saw” him standing next to the bed…and then poof, he was gone. It was so dimensional. I’ve had a dream or two where I knew he was in the dream, but I couldn’t see his face and there was no interaction. I have had numerous “signs” but I would love to dream or have a visitation. I have written a note before going to bed, leaving it next to his photograph saying I would love to have him visit. But nope. Am I demanding too much?
Speaking of signs this is a true story I was thinking of my sister who is deceased her nick name was muffy LOL
the next day on my way home from work I turned the corner and the liscense plate on the car in front of me was
muffy – no I was not drunk – a few days later I saw it again
It has been several months and I take the same route home from work every day and haven’t seen it since. I guess it could have been a coincidence but wow what a coincidence! I choose to be believe she had a hand in it!
This is kind of in reverse. I visited him. My brother died from suicide 7 months ago and tomorrow is his 27th birthday. Last night I dreamt that I was going somewhere with someone(not sure who it was and went ahead of me on foot). It wasn’t far, so I walked to where I thought we were going. This was in the daylight and people were around so I wasn’t scared, but the neighborhood was old like kind of in ruins as if I were in the Middle East somewhere. When I turned down the street, I saw the entrance sign above the opening to what looked like an outdoor market. It read “City of Deceased”. I walked in and there were lots of people and it was pretty crowded down a narrow road serving as the market. Everyone seemed focused on where they were going and no one was paying attention to me of course. Then there he was….my brother. He was the only one standing still facing toward me as I was walking forward. He was talking into his cell phone sounding frustrated asking it to call me. He was standing with 2 shopping carts full of what looked like groceries. When he saw me, he seemed relieved like he’d just gotten separated from me in the crowd. When I got to him I led him over to a set of benches in the shade to sit. I was so emotional that I leaned my head on him and cried so hard. He asked me, who did this to you?”, and i reflexively responded, “you, you did this to me”. It was like he was coming to a realization. I told him, “but I’m glad I’m here with you and I can hold you and feel your warmth even if it’s for one last time”, and he started tearing up. But the dream abruptly ended before I could explain and tell him anything else. I feel like I left him sad and confused. It didn’t feel like a “goodbye”. I feel like I need to reassure him and help him move on.
This is so true, I have this happen a lot , my father, uncle, even other people’s relatives so I tell them what they say or what they look like sometimes they are younger than when the passed. I do remember my dreams but I can tell the difference, I also have lucid dreams.
Hello Blaire! My parents have been gone quite a few years. My dad would visit and just stand watching, never say a word. But one night he came to visit and I told him I loved him and he leaned over and I kissed his cheek! I could feel the stubble on his face. When I woke up I felt happy , yet a bit lost. I wish it was a longer visit, but I know that my dad is happy and we’ll. I have seen my mom too, looking so young and happy, but she doesn’t seem to know I am there. I was with her when she passed and I am quite thankful for that.
A few weeks ago my mom came to me in my sleep, I am planning to open my own business, I was frustrated and ready to stop. She came to me and told me to hold out a little longer, that I was smart and I would find a way. I thought when opening my eyes she would be there but of course she wasn’t. I felt so good I am still trying with much more optimism. She gives me physical signs often and loves to play with our cat (hide and seek).
Thank you for your insights, mine have always been I can sense who they are but not see them but the message or dream conversation is conveyed. My mum is the only one who comes and takes me on adventures but always tells me I have to go back and then she’s gone until the next time. It’s been awhile since her last one but know she’s still around,especially since my dad just passed.
After my love completed suicide, he came to me while i was sleeping ?, he was happy younger and glowing he was inside an old car he loved cars , but my question is he said come with me ?, and then his sister beeped the horn outside and woke me , i always wonder if he was saying to die and come with him or did he just want to show me something
I had my father come to.me there another night I was very upset by something my spouse did and I could hear my father claiming loving voice talking to me and last night he was playing a song that I can relate to about my love for my husband and earlier today I found the song and listen to the song and understand the song and words and meaning behind the song. He has played music to me before. In fact my mother who is alway dead. Does the same thing but she try’s to sing what ever the song and it song that she never know or heared of and doesnt know the words .this her way of communicating me?
Thank you for this. I now know they were visiting me. Even during the day I’ll be driving a song we shared will co.e on I’m crying a cardinal will pass I’ll feel her energy so strong I literally look over at my empty seat but sometimes I know shes there.
Thank you for this. I now know they were visiting me. Even during the day I’ll be driving a song we shared will come on I’m crying a cardinal will pass I’ll feel her energy so strong I literally look over at my empty seat but sometimes I know shes there. I had a dream about her last night and found this, this am. I wake up feel like shes in my bed ,during the day I can feel her next to me so strong sometimes. She leaves me pennies and signs. I’m also very intune with my dreams I have the same dream every year same season for years, I wake up use bathroom go right back into my same dream where I left off I make conscious decisions and yes I’m sleeping but my mind knows in my dream hey dont do that or it’s ok it’s just a dream, I’ve always been able to do this.
My dead aunt called me in my dream last night (I wasn’t very close to her) and she told me that she has him and is watching over him and not to go get him, that he doesn’t want to be there. It was so real, I saw her entire face and feature and heard her voice begging me to leave him be for now. I recently broke up with my fiancé and I’ve been devastated, he won’t talk to me at all and I woke up so upset that something happened to him. Could you please tell me what this visit from my aunt meant and what she is really trying to me?
I had a dream about my partner who passed away in March, he was just standing there in like a light type form and he just smiled at me like he was proud and happy and like he was saying he loved me and then all of a sudden I woke up..
Hi my mother come to me while I was sleeping I was at a strange place all of a sudden I felt & new my mother was there I looked to find her, saw her from behind yelled mum she keep walking but turn her head around & was talking to me but it was not her face but that didn’t worry me as I knew it was my mum… can loved ones look different
My grandfather died when I was 10 years old, yet I always felt connected to him. When I was 35 years old, my husband and I all but gave up attempts to have a baby. One night I dreamt I was a child gain, sitting on my grandfathers lap. We were laughing and I could feel the excitement and joy as I always remembered there being. He suddenly stopped and with a very stern look said “be careful.” That startled me awake . The next day I was driving home from work and in my head I heard “be careful” and within seconds there was a multi car accident in front of me! I was lucky not to be involved and knew my grandfather warned me. Weeks later i found out I was pregnant and delivered my son 2 weeks early… on my grandfathers birthday ❤️
I had one last night.. she wasn’t a relative tho. Her name is Annie. I know cause I was in her memory’s and he grandma was calling for her. She lived in a dark blue old house and I found her in a room she saw and I saw her. She took me to another time. It was black and white and it was her when she was older. Red lipstick, White vneck sweater scarf tied on neck, playing the piano. In front
Of her, there was a group of teenagers playing instruments I remember a guy in a black leather jacket. It was like she was trying to show me something.. she wasn’t scared. She was beautiful. Wonder what it meant. I tried to reach out again but nothing .. ♀️
I had a visitation dream of my brother in law, a few days after he passed away. 4 years later and I still remember the dream, how he looked, what he was wearing, the hug I felt in that dream. I woke up so happy and energized and just such a calm feeling that I’ve never felt before or since that dream. I’ve always hoped to have more loved ones visit me but I don’t know how to let them. I think the reason he visit me was because I felt so sick to my stomach full of guilt feeling like it was my fault that he passed and just full of regret for how we wouldn’t get along and fight. I miss him terribly. He was only 26 and had his whole life ahead of him.
Blair, my father in law passed away 30 days ago. Yo ugly I had a dream about him talking to me to give messages to his daughter, her husband and his wife. No message for my husband. In my dream I was the only one that could see him and I was telling the family things he wanted them to know. I could touch him in my dream. He wanted me to say so many things to tell specially to the daughter that I only remember a bit. He cried when he was telling me about his wife. He said to tell her not to cry anymore that he misses her too and then he started to cry. He said he will be back. Is this real? Is he communicating with me? This is the first time I experience something like this.
Thx
I had such a vivid dream where my mom was in her bed where she passed.. I went back there and asked her what was wrong and she told me she was in pain. I went to tell my brother we needed to call some meds in for mom cause she was in pain and he then looked at me and said mom is already gone Stephanie and I said no she’s in her bed. I then realized in the dream she was gone.. she died recently of cancer and kinda unexpected. I wasn’t ready fully. I was just wondering what this meant.
My son in law who took his own life has visited me many times. He always wanted to apologise. The last time he visited me was the end of last year. He had been gone for 9 years and it was close to his passing date. He asked me to relay a message to my daughter. He said he had worked through his problem and now his main focus was to look after his children and grandchildren. I hope this gives some hope to people who have lost loved ones in this way.
I had a dream of two aunts and my Mother they all have past away years apart I conversation was my aunt I asked her if she needed some help in her yard then we all started to look up into a beautiful valley focussing on some beautiful pine tree. Then the my cell phone woke me up it was my Sister she inform me my our cousin my aunt daughter pass away last night.
Had a dream about my first love that passed away about 10 years ago,We were high school sweethearts and after 6 years broke up,Mind you I am 64 years old now.He always comes to me in my dreams,but last night,He came to me and I knew he was there talking to me and then his whole body appeared before me ,His face clear as day and came and hugged me and talked with me,I dont remember what he said ,because I was so amazed his whole being was present,I am very spiritual,but then the dogs started barking and woke me up,So I was told myself to remember this and I cant get it out of my head,I knew this was a spirtual connection not just a dream that makes no sense.And So I found you.I have also been deep asleep and felt someone get on my bed,I could feel them crawl on,only to wake up and nobody there,fall back asleep and it happens again,now that is alittle scary,But I just tell myself its a spirit I know ,thats visiting,I let them get on the bed and the next thing I know I got that feeling that someone has just passed thru my body, crazy,Sure wish I knew who it was. Glad I found you.Thanks for listening
I believe I had a visitation dream a few nights ago. For background, my boyfriend died 5 months ago. I had a very vivid dream recently about him, I usually don’t remember dreams especially not vividly. In the dream it was based it in the future. We were in the house we looked into buying before he died. I was just off of work and he was waiting for me to get home. We started making dinner and going about our usual routine for the evening. I started hearing noises in the house. He didn’t say anything about it. I searched the house and found a puppy in one of the rooms. He was making jokes about it. This was the exact breed of dog he always talked about getting. He finally persuaded me to keep this puppy. He told me how happy he was about it and how much he loved me. He looked so happy holding this puppy while I finished dinner. My boyfriend struggled with depression before he died and for him to look so happy made me feel so good and connected to him. Is it possible for him to be reaching out to me in this dream even though it was set in the future and he is already gone?
After my mom passed I had a dream where the phone rang. I answered it & heard clear as a bell my mom & her older sister who had also passed, both on the line having a conversation. I repeated hello but they didn’t hear me. I was so excited i woke my husband up to listen then realized it was a dream. I am certain it was my mom letting me know she had met up with her sister in the afterlife.
I had another dream 2 days before my mom passed. She had been in a coma after a cardiac arrest having silent brain seizures. In my dream i saw my mom & dad who had already passed, walking hand & hand away from me. The next day visiting mom in the hospital, i noticed a different look in her eyes, as if her soul was gone. I knew the dream had meant dad had come to get her & cross her over. The next morning i got the call to come say my goodbyes but i knew she was already gone & with my dad. It was only her body giving out.
I had such dream about my husband who recently died.. Short but fell back asleep and it continued, again short but so real I felt the hug. So comforting. Very strange how vivid it was. Also had messages from 2 of my brothers years ago.
my adopted dog, the kindest soul! we had to put him down! but he was ‘gone’! i have been heartbroken! he has come to me in many dreams, and totally made me feel that hes happy!!!! my door bell rang at 6am !!! i was awake!! i had dreamed of him all night!!!! i scrambled to open the door!!!! no one in sight! my husband and son were in the kitchen!!! i adked ‘who was that at the door’? they both said! the door bell didnt ring!!!! IT DID!!!!!
I had a dream I was somewhere outside near a shop with people can’t remember who then I saw my brother I was so happy I ran 2 him he gave me a huge bear hug I didn’t want 2 let go I was so happy 2 see him b hugged by him he was wearing a blue checked flannel shirt he looked younger tho than last time I had seen him alive he looked good then we sat 2 talk then he said he had 2 go and was gone I ran in 2 the shop calling 4 him crying calling 4 my brother but he wasn’t there I was then crying calling 4 my sister I woke up sobbing uncontrollably I got up 2 look 4 my brother but he wasn’t here I tried 2 call my sister she called me back but I’m still upset and can’t stop crying my brother’s been passed 4 nearly 2 yrs I guess I miss him more than I realised
I have been getting visitations all my life and they have given me messages for others and of their knowledge of the other side . Some have told me when how long it will be till I see them again and why. I do ask others please pay attention to what your loved ones show you and believe in the after life of love.
I came home from work last Friday afternoon. Made some lunch,ate then settled down with my tablet to brouse around YouTube etc. I must of dosed off for what seem like a minute or two later,with the tablet still in my lap.
I found my self in a very summery,very vibrant back garden of sorts.I say that because it wasn’t mine!
I was still slumped and felt semi awake,with my back leaned up against a fence. All of a sudden I felt a clip from a hand on the back of the head via my right ear!! Now. I call that an old School clip. I had a few as a child and never like it! Still in the same state I jumped up and spun around to see who clipped me. I saw my friends older brother who had passed away 10 years ago. He looked very well,a younger version of himself. I always idealised this guy when I was growing up. He was 10/11 years older than us,always well dressed and quietly charismatic.He looked just the same. Everything was vivid!! HD!! I called his name in disbelief he just had a half smile with a disapproving glare and dropped his stare to the tablet. With that I jumped up out of my sleep.
Last night I have been woken up hearing my son call out Mum twice, he has been gone for 11 years and this is the 1st time I have hear him. Any ideas of what he is telling me?
I just dream my husband who passed away about a month and half ago.. On my dream my mother is giving him a sponge bath then when he rolled back his eye is gone like those in horror movie, just a dark circle. Then their is more to it on the dream but thats the only part i saw him.. What is the meaning of that. Im concern if his fine in after life. Why his beautiful eyes is gone. I hope you can help me.
My father died when I was very young from suicide. After a while of my family praising and treating him like some sort of God I started to resent and dislike him for leaving. My grandmother has been visited several times by a medium about him and while I’m at her place I’m convinced he is watching me. I have begged for answering for a long time and the other night I swear he visited me in a dream. But even when I tried to ask for answers he just smiled and said that he was always watching ( which is creeping me out). And I honestly still don’t know how to feel about it. Him leaving us caused my mother a lot of problems and made growing up very difficult. So I still don’t know how to feel about him….
I had a dream about my Grandad who passed away around two months ago. The only thing that makes me doubt it was a connection was that he was awfully short when he was quite tall. Apart from that though, this really made me feel as if he came to visit me. I wish he did. In the dream it didn’t last too long though as he had left the spirit door open and other deceased people came through which forced him to go back. Sadly. But I hope it was real as I felt as if he didn’t know I love(d) him – I needed him to know that
My best friend passed away eight years or so ago. When alive, she led a promiscuous lifestyle including drug abuse which led to her demise. I had a visitation from her about a month after she passed; however, on either side of her were two devils. She spoke to me and stated she had to sleep with a lot of scary “things” to visit me. I was so petrified, I told her in this visitation that she was dead and had to leave and I awoke hyperventilating and scared due to the devils holding each of her arms and staring at me. I have guilt over pushing her away in the visitation and can evil come with the person visiting me?
Blair i had the weirdest dream about actor Jonathan Brandis who died by suicide in 2003 from hanging. I’m a huge fan of his and even have a autograph.
There were 2 different parts. One part we were in this vehicle with another guy and I guess Jonathan wanted to die and take us with him by driving off some cliff. I yelled at the other guy to jump out as I tried to prevent the steering wheel from going in the wrong direction or something.
The 2nd part was different Jonathan was apparently already deceased but his spirit was around at this house of some kind. He was younger looking now. Probably around the age of when he did the never ending story. I physically hugged him. Hard to explain this but his spirit was apparently in a body that didn’t last long physically even though it was a kid version. He kept coming back like he was repeatedly given a physical body to come visit in again in this dream. Like someone might have been “Allowing” him. I felt connected to him somehow. There were other parts and people in the dream too. I remember wanting to talk to someone about what I was experiencing and wanting questions answered.
Jonathan’s suicide effected me deeply. I guess I in real life I feel some of the sadness he did.
What does it mean if you dream about being pregnant and feeling the labor pains and delivery in the dream and holding your new born I remember the room detail and what the baby looked like but was told I would never have children due to infertility this is before the loss of loved ones is this just a dream I woke up all sweaty and feeling pains in my lady parts and belly from the dream and called my mom asking where my baby was it was so real to me but like I said at that moment I never lost anybody or miscarried that I know of?? Was this real or just a dream
i believe i had a visitation dream but i’m not completely sure. i lost my great grandma 6 years ago, we were very close. last night i saw her she was clear as day, wearing her pink night gown and her hair looked greasy out of her curlers. she was standing in the doorway to her living room. it looked like she was looking at my great grandpa (her husband) once she realized i could see her. she kept saying “no this isn’t good, you’re not supposed to see me” she told me she loved me and then she left. does that mean anything? why wasn’t i supposed to see her? did she aim great grandpa and get me? i’m supper confused
I had a dream my aunt it was so vivid I knew she is dead and was very happy to see her and touched her hand and told her how much I miss her and asked her if she is in heaven and waited patiently for her answer and she said YES.. and I was so happy and excited for her but I felt she wanted to tell me something but she didn’t and I continued the dream wanted to tell mum that I saw her and then I woke up
I had a visitation dream. She passed away this month on the 15th she was 21 yrs old and was My sons ex-girlfriend.. All she wanted was to live with us n loved my son very much. Tbh mom got in between them so much n it all ended… It’s hard to accept she is no longer here. I loved her very much n protected her at times.. In my visitation I was walking down to my car with my husband and I noticed she was walking with my son. I looked at her and I was a bit confused but I was very happy to see her again. She was wearing a white summer dress eating a red lollypop, black wavy hair (hair was under n her shoulders) and kinda messy she loved messy hair but there was this glow around her as if the sun was behind her, it was a nice breezy day too. We made eye contact and she had a smile on her face very cheerful then I woke up like omg I saw her and she looked happy! It help me feel alot better since the last time I saw her was in her casket.. I gave her a kiss on her hands she was wearing gloves and i told her I’m here with u till the end.. I hope she heard me.. I kissed her hands and said good bye as I’m walking away n felt chills all over my body
.Cold chills I hope it was her hugging me… this was 3 days ago.
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My mother is in the hospital and has dreamed twice that she has to visit her deceased mother (passed away for 22 years) before she goes home. Does this have significant meaning? It has me worried. She’s been in the hospital for 36 hrs and already dreamed it twice.
My brother died 4 years ago, he commited suicide…3months after his death, i dreamed of him in a morgue, a very cold morgue. He’s crying and asking for forgiveness, he told me he just woke up in a very cold room and he didn’t know what happened. (He’s intoxicated with alcohol that time he commited suicide). Then I woke up remembered it clearly until now…then lately i dreamed of him again after 4 years…In a church he came out and reached me and I hold him, I hugged him tight and it felt so real and I missed him so much, his face is the same but he got thin and the place felt a little gloomy…I was forcing him to come with me and go home with me because it felt very real, HIM standing right in front of me like he’s just gone in other places, felt like he’s ALIVE and then he told me he can’t and a part of me know why…I looked at him and there’s a bit flash of his wife and daughter’s face and he just smiled at me again and I woke up…tell me if its a visitation or just a random dream…
I had several dreams…
Had a visit from both my parents with my mom holding my 1.5 yrs old son. They both were passed before he was born and although I’ve had them come to me before this one was extra special as it was the first time they connected with my son in a dream. Glad to know my feeling that it was real has some validity now.
If you use a dream catcher can good sports still contact you? As this is my deepest worry! The one things I dont want to lose is the only connections I have left and that is through my dreams?
I know I was visited by a loved one in my dream there is no doubt but I also seen something truely haunting that I can’t forget and I am trying to find someone who can help me understand what I seen my loved one urged me not to look that I wasn’t suppose to see what was on the other side but I looked anyway and seen something I know I should not have PLEASE!!!! If anyone can help me email me I just want to understand what I seen
I have dreams of dead rappers. 1 i know personally the other not at all only from his music. I had a dream with him in last night it was real. I saw him close up face to face he took my hand at one point . I can never remember what they say but I can feel their presence. I was a rapper too still am but without confidence. And I can’t tell if there saying Rap or don’t cuz it got them both killed. So weird
what I would like to know is, how do you stop the yelling and the screaming and the in your face confrontations, I have been having real conversations with people in my sleep since I was a child. I am writing them all down in a book for publication but some of them are just scary.
I need a guide
Yesterday I took a 20 minute nap, and my daughter was laying next to me , I had a dream about my twin brother that passed away 10 months ago In the dream I was sitting next to my daughter and he came up to us out of no were and smiled at me and my daughter Julie, he was so happy to see us especially Julie, in my dream I was speechless I was shacking I couldn’t believe my eyes I couldn’t help but cry in my dream I asked him how he was if he was okay , he told me he wasn’t ok and looked very sad after that , my life without him has been very hard I died when he died part of me left with him, we were so close he helped me raise my daughter , I know he came to visit us he was so happy to see Julie he smiled I haven’t seen him smile in years I was happy to see him ! My life without him by my side will never be the same I wish to be with him one day
Ive been having dreams of my friends son that passed then he brought along his friend that also passed. I wasnt real close with my friends son and never met the friend that also passed ever before but i know his mother. Should i tell both of them that their kids have come and talked to me in my dreams?
What does it mean if i had a nightmare of my grandma who passed away like a year ago and she visited in my nightmare and got hurt in my nightmare? I usually have theses terrifying nightmares that feel so real about my grandad who passed a long time ago they feel so real i wake up in sweats crying gasping for air sometimes. Sometimes bruising scratches…
I’m concerned as I dreamt my dead mum said I’d soon be with her this is the 2nd time in the space of 4 years. She’s been dead since 2006.
So, my grandmother passed away, coming up on a month ago and I have two instances, where I believe that she has communicated with me.
Last week I was reading an article similar to this one here, but explaining the different ways that our loved ones reach out to us. One on the list was them reaching out to us through music, and how they can make a song come on at the perfect time. So for whatever reason, on that number, I stopped and thought about a song that reminds me of her, and “3 Little Birds” by Bob Marley came to mind (she’s from Bermuda and loved reggae… and definitely Bob). Even though that song is what I thought about, I was trying to ignore that and think of another one of his songs that she loved, but the name would NOT come to mind, what so ever. So I then spoke out loud to her. Told her that I missed and loved her, and asked if she can please show me somehow, that she is okay… ***LITERALLY*** as soon as I looked back down, to continue reading the article, a commercial came on with 3 Little Birds playing in the background. I couldn’t help but to sport the hugest smile, I felt so much love and peace and couldn’t do anything but just tell her thank you.
Now last night for my dream. I began to walk down the hallway and all of a sudden she’s there. It felt so real. She had on this matching robe and nightgown that she loved! She also had dementia, but I felt that she was in her right mind.
So, As I was walking past her, I remember feeling confused as to why she was right in front of me. I said her name and she sort of mumbled something that I couldn’t understand, almost like she was also confused, but I felt she was okay. We begin to walk down the hall together and my aunt comes out of the bathroom. And I was telling her to look and see that granny is here, my aunt looked her, but she strangely said “I know, I see her, but she’s not actually here”. And I told her “I know, but just let me enjoy her”. The whole time she was there she didn’t say too much. I didn’t hear her voice, nor see her mouth move, but I know she said “it’s so much going on here (the world’s current state). It’s too fast paced”. Which is the only thing she said. We then went into the den and she sat on the arm of the couch. I asked her for a hug and I remember kneeling in front of her while hugging, because I was holding her waist and was looking up at her. I then asked for a kiss and she kissed me two times on my forehead. I remember smiling, feeling sooo much love. Then I woke up.
I know for sure these both were her reaching out to me. I just can’t wait to have more visits from her. I miss everything about her so very much.
Thanks for reading, if you did.
Love to you all!
I had one from my mawmaw. I wasn’t able to see her 5 years before she died, so it had been a while. I felt regret and cried every month for about a few years after she passed. One night, I dreamed I was sitting with her in her living room, and she was hugging me, she looked exactly the same as I remembered her, I could even smell her it was so realistic. She didn’t say anything tho, just hugged me and maybe even smiled I can’t remember. It was closure for me and ever since I haven’t cried.
Hi! My close cousin passed away unexpectedly from pneumonia they said. I had no time to say good bye. I’ve been waiting for him to come and see me in my dreams. It’s been 5 months and finally I had a dream but it was him in his coffin and the wind started blowing real hard and the wind took him and I watched him blow away. I don’t understand what that meant. I remember just looking at him laying there. And I wasn’t afraid either.
i had a dream about my step dad dead and he is laying on my bed after that in my dream and he talks to me he is elderly im a little worried
My Nan passed away 14years ago, I dreamt last night that she wasn’t happy where she was, I was crying in the dream and woke up absoultey sobbing, it has totally knocked me today, i’m a mess.
My father died when I was 4. I have a photo of him on my nightstand. All my life ( I am 60 yrs old now) I have really grieved the fact he died when I was so young and I have always felt so cheated and wondered how different my life would have been if he’d been there. I KNOW he is always with me. He has came through to me through others several times and through many many signs, but I always wonder…why doesn’t he come directly to me? One night before turning in, I held that picture to my chest and asked…why don’t you come to ME directly. That very night I had a dream he was with me, he came to me, held me in his arms and said…we will be together again. It will seem like a long time to you, but like five minutes to me. He just continued to hold me and I could feel so much love. In a way it made me feel sort of strange because I was only 4 when he passed and only have a few faint memories of him. But I could feel his love, and I was so happy and my heart was so full but I was still uneasy for some reason. I have NO DOUBT it was a dream connection with him and he is with me. I have had many signs throughout my life.
I recently heard from another medium, Marisa Ryan on YouTube, that if you continue to let yourself grieve that it makes it very hard for a loved one to come through to you, but instead be joyous they are there and communicate with them more and exercise the connection. Do you agree that continuing to grieve the unfairness and the loss can cause it to be harder for them to connect directly? You are my favorite A#1 Medium and you are so legit. Do you agree with this? Love and light to you Blair!
I’ve had 4 separate dreams and each of them happen either a week or month after they pass. Except this last one. My first one was my grandfather the night before I had a dream that the nurse said not too much longer. The next day I had fallen asleep in the waiting room and I heard someone (it sounded like my mom) say it’s time. I opened my eyes and no one was there. My parents were gone to a dr appointment and my daughter and uncle were sleeping. I just got up and walked back to his room. I was telling my sister and cousins what happened and they thought it was weird. So I talked to him saying how handsome he looked for my nana. The nurse came in to check him and said its getting closer. Within 5 minutes he was gone. The next one was a family friend of my husband didn’t know him very well. But he passed away a month later I had a dream and all my grandparents and my husband’s dad and John(family friend) we were on my mom’s living room and he was wearing white shirt an blue shorts and he didn’t have his oxygen tank. Which that is always what he had when I saw him. He told me to tell his family he’s ok. Third one was my cousin Sal he showed up at my mom’s house and told me to tell his family that he felt good and he’s ok. So this last one was really hard on me. My ex father inlaw has been gone for 7 yrs. I had a dream I was at my ex husband’s house down stairs where his parents stay. He showed up and said that the place looked really nice. Let them know they did a good job. He hugged me and I can smell him and I told him we all miss him and he said I miss you all too i cried and I woke up with tears running down my face. Come someone please explain these to me.
Thanks, Blair, for this great website and your newsletter. Although I’ve learned over many years pretty well how to tell the difference between a visitation/message and a dream, it’s so affirming to read what you and others in the comments have to say. The very first time I was sure I was being spoken to by a “dead” person was a very long time ago. My grandmother and my mother didn’t get along well and my mother spent much of her life hurt by it. My grandmother kept “pestering” me, as she liked to call it. She want’ed me to tell my mother that she really loved her and was sorry she’d been partial to her sons. I had to find a way to tell my mom that without saying that I had actually “heard” from her mother. I did, and my grandmother stopped dropping in that way. Some years afterward, my mother thanked me for “helping her” understand her mother. She said it had made her feel better.
I have been visited by both my parents in my dreams. Most often I wake myself up laughing-belly laughing, and such a feeling of joy and peace. I asked my father how much he loved my mother ( I loved hearing his story about him falling in love at first sight), he said “She is my erasmus “. I had never heard that word before; it means beloved in Greek ( they were set up on blind date by a Greek friend and met at a Greek restaurant)
Il lost 2 loved ones this year, my beautiful aunt as well my cousin who was severely delayed.
In my dream, I went to heaven knowing it was just to see them both.
I first saw my cousin, who was talking and laughing, which he was not able to. In my dream I hugged him and said I couldn’t believe you can talk! His response was, up here, everything is different, and I am doing okay.
I immediately saw my aunt after in the same room, who I ran to and hugged crying saying how much I missed her.
I then work up from the dream.
Is it simply a message saying their okay and together?
Hi
Over the last 2 nites I’ve found myself chatting in me dreams to two total characters
First nite it was a chap called Alfred de gurney
And last nite it was a lady called
Patricia de rosa or rosea
I cannot remember the conversation but the names stuck in my head ….what does this mean if anything
i had a dream of my dad last night he said baby im tired and his voice sounded so strained whitthered and it seemed he tried so hard to get the words out he called on a wire phone then one time in the drean he was holding me from behind and we were just sitting on something. Then i asked him if he wanted go get a room hd said yes because hr needef some rest what fo u think it means he dies in june of 2020 and j missed his last phone call i miss him he and i were extremely close please respond.
Hello, thank you for discussing this. I’ve had several sleep visitations from my 19 year old daughter, who transitioned 3 years ago. I could feel her presence, and we hugged for a long time
I had been my 98 yr. old mother’s caregiver for the past 12 yrs. My mom & I were very close. I was a late in life baby that came along 19 yrs. after my 2 brother’s. Plus I was the little girl she had hoped for. She & I endured many loses of our family member’s, one especially tragic was my second eldest brother’s death @ 34. We never really found out what had happened to him, but it involved police brutality. That was 48 yrs.ago, so you can imagine how things could have easily been covered up! Transparency was non existent. I have never gotten over the loss of my closest, beloved brother. He in fact 2 wks. before he died, had a dream of his impending death! He told my mom & myself, that he dreamed he was standing in a line of people whom were going to the gallows! My mom was freaking out & didn’t want to hear anymore of my brother’s dream! But I had always been interested in the paranormal & premonition dreams, so I wanted him to continue w/ the dream & what happened next! He went on to say that the next scenario was where he saw himself in a casket & my mom was standing by the casket, crying & he was trying to say to her “Mom, I’m not dead, I’m not really dead!” That “message” is what I have carried w/ me all these years. After he had passed, my mom had a realistic visitation, where she actually felt his face & hands. Also there were other auditory things that occurred in the house where we all lived. It all stopped a few months after he had passed & then 40 yrs later, my 2 yr.old granddaughter & I were downstairs late one evening & I was trying to get the baby back to sleep, she was lying down on the bed & I was sitting beside her, when all of a sudden she sat up & started crawling towards the end of the bed! When she got to almost the end of the bed, she turned on a dime & crawled as fast as she could back to the head of the bed & she was trembling! I was trying to ask her what was wrong, & I just asked her, “what is it baby? Did you see something? & She was only 2, but she could communicate pretty well. So she shook her head yes, that she had seen something, so I calmly asked her “was it a person?” & She said yes, then I asked, is it a boy, or a girl? She told me it was a boy, then she pointed to the t.v. @ the end of the bed & said ” he’s right there”!! If that isn’t proof of a visitation I don’t know what is! I continued to watch her & kept looking in the direction where she had pointed, wishing I could see what she had. Then all of a sudden my grandbaby sits up & starts waving bye-bye to the “boy” that she was seeing. The next morning still in shock of what I had witnessed w/ her the night before, & telling my mom & other’s what had happened, I decided to find a picture of my brother to show it to my grandbaby to see her reaction if any, to it. & She said the person in the picture was who she had seen!! When my mom passed away 2 years ago, I had a weird incident happen with my cell phone. About a month after she was gone. I started to text a friend one afternoon, when the phone started typing out words on it’s own! I was so busy trying to stop it from rapidly typing out random words, that @ first I didn’t notice what it was spelling out but I had seen that the first few words were mom, love & blessings! Then it was saying something about coming up to the hospital, (which she had been in for 2wks before they put her in hospice @ home) as the text was continuing on , it repeated these words several times, “Her, her, her, then it spelled here, here, here! I would say it was about 20 repeats for each word! Then in my effort to stop it from texting so I could actually see what all was typed out, I must of caused it to delete all of it! I just witnessed something pretty miraculous & now it was gone. I had to believe it was my mom not only sending her love & blessings, but showing me she learned (she was always in the dark about texting & how all modern technology works! ) @ 98 she wasn’t about to try & figure out how to do it this late in life! She knows now! So yeah, I believe, just wish she would message me, or call my name again, sending my ❤️ to all my family that have gone beyond the veil.
I enjoyed it and I think it was very informational
This has reassured me that my grandparents were with me last night. So helpful and reassuring. Thank you
I dream of my deceased boyfriend almost every other night. I dream about trying to hang out with him and when I get the chance I see him in my dreams and hug him and we get to have a moment to ourselves all over again. We meet up In our dreams like if it were real life. I get excited to share that moment with him like if I were given a second chance.
I had a dream of someone that I loved very much he passed away two years ago in the dream I just I was like oh my God I haven’t called him he’s going to be so mad at me and his number popped up in my dream like an big numbers like used to whole number and in my dream I knew he wasn’t here I knew he was dead and and I knew in the dream also I’m saying myself that’s not his number anymore I don’t know how much talk to him and when I woke up I was so confused and it is a I’m still thinking about it Lino as do you know I’ve had maybe just like I’ve had two dreams of them the last one previous to this one he tipped his hat to me which I figured that meant he was gone like gone and then like a year later just about his mom passed anyway I just want to know what does that mean
Thank you for sharing n letting me keep the love alive with my deceased Son I had never dreamed about him when he was alive n now that I do, he never talks to me. As my loved ones before him. It is good to know. Love never dies.
My husband died almost 5 yrs ago, quite suddenly. He wore my favorite Cologne. Evey so often I can smell it. Mostly at a door or gate. I always tell him hi. It is a nice way for him to let me know he is around.
I’m very appreciative that information is available to help me better understand why I am being spiritually connected with someone almost 1 time a week
Thank u for sharing information on being connected with someone in my dreams. I love seeing him in my dreams it makes me feel less sad about not seeing him in real life . Love is strong.
Thank you. I had a friend/co worker who passed in early August from COVID. It hit really hard. A few days ago, right before my alarm went off, I had a dream about her. In the dream, this person is not my friend but an exact look alike. Just like you wrote above, I can see her as clear as day, every feature, what she wore, with her hair pulled into a bun on top of her head. I walked up to her and even fully aware that “this” person was not my friend, I hugged her and just cried. I woke up crying, feeling extreme sadness. It’s been a few days and I still feel emotional about it. In my heart I know it was her and I am so grateful that she came to me.
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I lost my dad in April my mam 15years ago my dad was all I had I was in my bedroom but not asleep my son had two of his friends sleepover who are 15loud boys however when I got into bed around 4.30am I am unsure of what it or where I went I saw my mam and dad before me there was some sort of pale orange light warmth around both my dad said he was OK and happy snfd together he then said we are sending someone to yiu i saw the man whom is actually known to me briefly then felt as if he was actually laying beside me on my bed very closely to my back I had overwhelming feeling of completeness peace and as this was happenings o had feelings of awareness of my tears of both sadness and happiness of my parents visiting but tried to shake off the persons presence of the person he said he was sending it was strange bit very real now this person has turned up strong what is this I knew him briefly but after one visit feel has if I have known him always I did not tell him what I saw but do not understand how my dad could know him has he had never met him before he died
My mom passed almost 3 yrs ago and I have had one dream with her in it and we were just doing normal things that we would do. I could see all of her body, just not her face. I am not sure what that means. Please help me to understand!
Wow, that it so great to read these. I have a question. I saw my dad in my dream who passed away three years ago in the dream today when he was crossing over. He was laying in bed and had tears on his face and what it seemed like couple of hrs after I saw his spirit exiting his body. I saw the white cloud as it was pulling upward and staying, “I’m Michael now” and i woke up. I prayed the night before to find out all my spirit guides names and what they look like. Does it mean that my dads spirit’s name is Michael? Do they change the names?
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You have said even if you don’t get an individual reading during the large group to stay tuned in that there might be a message or confirmation. Well the day before, I went on my walk at the park and it was late afternoon and on the fence birds were flying and perching, I usually don’t see birds out by then. Anyway, there were 2 cardinals in the mix of birds and one would walk alongside me for a bit and fly away. Throughout my walk they flew up to me and flew away. A women was told of cardinals in her reading and that was meant for me, too.
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I had a connection with my nearly 7-year deceased grandmother last night. I saw her sitting in her chair that she always sat in, cross-stitching, which was her favorite thing to do. I ran over and hugged her, and it smelled like her. I started crying and she told me that she loved me, and my family and told me that she is sorry that she didn’t take care of herself because she cannot see me now. while in the dream i was 10, which was the age I last saw her. Now that I am awake i cannot stop crying.
I recently lost my mom from COVID. I’ve been haveing a hard time with everything. And last night mom came to me. She was so beautiful she reached out and touched me. And told me everything was gonna be ok. And that she loves me I told her I’m sorry and that I love her. I’ve never had a dream like this before. Plus my cats have been acting weird to.
I have seen my grandmother standing by a fence one breef moment and other time’s my other (mom shirley ) saw and described my parents coming here to my home to visit .I have seen other folks in our historical museum why is it I am able to see them clear as day am not afraid of this but fascinated
Hi I had a dream of my mum who passed away suddnely in nov 2002 she passed with brain hamerrage.
In my dream i saw my mum clear as day she was sat down with blanket over her sat in chair she use to sit in at her home she was talking to me saying they told her she had 5 yrs live because she had brain injury and in my dream i rember saying but mum that like me. saying i have brain armumsy u cant say when. I dont know what the message but it felt like a visition from my mum o i wasnt scared.I just wondeing if she came to warn me or message but not sure what. i know he annisvasary coming up in nov of passing. And i always worry i will die the way my mum did but the strangest thing when my mum had gone from my dream i had the most werid feeling it was like something had passed through as my body shuddeed like when u sense something wrong somewher but not sure what.
My mother died almost four years ago she came to me in a dream , her hair was beautiful and snow white and so was her skin , and all she said was she knew she was dead. I don’t understand what it means.
Last night my son contacted me in a dream. He called me on the phone and said “hi mom. I’m sorry”. His voice was so clear. It took place at 2:45 am. I woke up crying and then sobbing. What does this mean?
Most of my dreams appear as you say visitation dreams do. I see the people clearly and I always do completely plausible things, in terms of real-world physics. It’s usually not as /me/ me or things /I/ would do in my day to day life or in places I’ve ever been but it’s not unreasonable to say I wasn’t in someone else’s day to day life. I have had a few dreams where I can’t recall faces once I wake up but that was when I dreamt of celebrities. I did recently dream of my two dogs that have passed away and there were two presences I didn’t see but felt in the room and a woman who was not at all clear other than the fact that she was an older woman. All the details of that dream were blurred but the two dogs and the fish she gave us. (If you have any insight on this dream I would appreciate that as well.)
I don’t dream all that often but when I used to dream more often when I was younger, I dreamt as you describe dream visitations and all the details would eventually blur away as I woke up. Recently, I’ve been dreaming a bit more often and it’s been of people in my life. Once it was a dream of my grandma who I refuse to talk to getting bad news to find out from my mother that my grandma’s sister is in the hospital. That’s the only dream that I’ve connected to my reality but I’ve never dreamt like regular dreams. All this is probably unneccesary information but:
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I didn’t know my biological father in the portion of my life where memories were formed but I found out that he passed away a few years back. Is there any way you know of that I can reach out to him in the spirit realm. Any response would be greatly appreciated but it would mean the world to me if I could get an answer before Halloween ends. Thank you so much for reading my comment.
I had a visit from George. We had a complicated relationship….he was kind of a Rock Star – Noted Artist – Crazy – Passionate – Gorgeous HOT MESS! He had lots of issues – one of them being me. He was obsessed!
I ended our romance only to find he was terminally ill. I helped him and spent time with him until he died. He was angry and jealous.
About a week after he left us … I dreamed we were sitting face to face. It was so REAL! I asked if it was a Really him! Yes – he nodded. I asked him if he liked where he was …. he looked at me with dismay – but didn’t speak.
thank you im 10 and my passed away grandma visited me 1 time and never talked to me and there was this brown dog and 3 men in my dream to and my grandma passed away in march an passed away 3 days before my birthday so everyone was sad on my birthday
So I decided to listen to meditative mind on YouTube. I came across a video Angelic Healing Sleep Music in black screen, just so I can try to connect with my wife that passed away on December 29th 2018 from breast cancer. I eventually fell asleep listening to the video. In my dream my bedroom lit up with a bright beautiful light, I sat on my bed staring at the light and saying how beautiful it was, than I felt someone lift me up and holding me from behind as we floated in the air. They brought me back into my bed in a lying position while still holding me. Than floated me up one more time and I asked, is that you babe? Referring to my wife. She ( my wife) didn’t reveal her face to me, she revealed her hands to me instead, and that’s how I knew it was her. She lay me back on my bed and I awoken. It was the most beautiful dream I have ever had. I just wished she could of revealed her face to me. Love you my sweet angel
My visitation dream was so clear and I was 100% certain it was really my dad reaching back to me. I was 8 years old and he had just died. I answered the doorbell and it was totally black outside. I was about to go back inside because there was no one there, when suddenly dad appeared above me suspended in the air, completely lit from within so I could see him clearly against the dark all around him. He smiled at me and waved and I remember thinking oh my gosh, it’s dad, but he’s dead! I felt only happiness and love and without speaking I heard his voice in my head say “Don’t worry, I’m alright”
I am so grateful he was able to do this for me.
I’m now 62 and he came back only once more a few years ago. He was sitting by my bedside and he said “ you are okay, and I have to move on now , but if you ever need me, I’ll be here for you. “ I remember thinking oh no, please don’t leave me, because I had always felt all my life that he was with me. I had never come to terms with his death until I got counselling about 10 years ago. So maybe he knew I was okay.
What if they never come back?
My dad passed away Jan 4th, 2020. Here for the past few weeks I have been dreaming about him every night! Some nights it’s just a simple hug from him, sometimes it’s a phone call. I really do enjoy these visits, I’ve just been wondering if dreaming about him every night if there is more to the meaning than just dreaming about him (I’m sure that doesn’t make a whole lot of sense lol). One thing that I do know, I have had a difficult time finding peace with his passing. I have felt very angry, not at him just the way he passed. I’m trying every day to find peace with him being gone, the hardest thing to do.
I have been sick since about April of this year 2020 the doctors can’t figure out what’s wrong and now I’m having dreams of loved ones that have passed come to me and consoled me about me having cancer. This isn’t one dream not even two it’s continuing especially my grandmother. Are they trying to prepare me, warn me and tell me they’ll be there for me this is what the doctors can’t figure out. We have 5 cats and all of them act more and more weird with me the worse I am getting and now they don’t even sleep in our room with me having these dreams. Please please help me to understand. Thank you for your time
I was surprised to see my mom who passed away a little over 2 years ago in my dream standing near the family dinner table smiling watching over the shoulder of who was sitting there and when i realized it was her i must of made a crazy face bc she was surprised too. She seemed surprised too that I saw her there… So i hope your right that she will come back.. Bc we both were surprised and i woke up like noooo i finally got there and didnt get the hug or her words of advice or anything just shocked i made it and saw her. I think she was too.
Hi i have been amazed by what happend to me and never knew if it was real . Anyway my wifes mother was in the hospital dieing from cancer we lived in colorado and her mother was in new york i only met her three times well her mother was induced into a medical induced coma and my wife was struggling to go see well i woke up christmas eve having dreamnt of being in the new york hospital with her mother she talk to me and asked why her daughter wasnt there and with this since of eurgcie she tells me you need to her to get here now that she will not be here in the morning if i dont her daughter will be forever hurt for not being there when she dies and go now i wake up almost if i havent even been asleep i tell my wife and she calls her family she asks her father to get her a plane ticket now and after he does he tells her that he got a ticket for the next hour then says i dont know how to say this u have to hurry the doctors says sheprobably wont make it through the night .. my wife made it and early morning on christmas her mother past sad and it hurt. But was that real or just a dream i had because i was concerned for my wife or did her mother while she was in a coma somehow enter my sleeping mind and trll me for real to get her daughter there.
I had a dream that the my late dad said he didn’t died. I also dreamed about my late grandmother agreeing that my dad didn’t died. It was weird because my dad gone out of the door but the next thing I remembered is that I’m talking with my late grandmother outside and my dad came out of the door again. Please help me interpret this. Thank you!
I had a stroke 2 years ago. On that day my father stood at the doors of the ER he said come with me. He showed me my 2 daughters who were then home sitting on the couch waiting for a call from my husband at the Hospital for an update. Our 2 dogs sat and sniffed like they were crying I was told for hours. My mom showed up and said it’s time to go and reached out her hand. My father told me if I leave who will take care of all these people showing me my family. I woke up and told the drs please don’t let me die I can’t go. Since then my father has visited me several times on his fishing boat and has told me once I finish what I need to I can go be with him. That was 1 stroke and 2 heart attacks ago. Every time I have heart issues or brain issues since that day I have 2 bluebirds and 1 cardinal who visit my window ledge. Can you explain.
What if you dream all night long of people you haven’t met and you see every detail of them perfectly clear to the point where you could draw them? Have done this nightly since I was 12 (I’m 34). Astral projection? I never have “weird dreams” of rubber duckies and pink elephants and whatever else. Always people, always clear faces, always communicating to me through my mind.
My father recently passed away, it was very fast and very dramatic. He did not have time to say goodbye. We were very close. I was probably the person in the world he loved the most. He would always choose me over anyone or anything. A dream or visit last night, he said, “I’m going to do better.” then a bit later when I asked him what do you mean? He said, “I won’t wait, I will go to the hospital.” I am afraid he still thinks he is alive, what is he didn’t follow the light to heaven? He seemed to believe he could try and play out everything differently so that he would live. I cried and I put his hand to my cheek, it was exactly his hand. We stayed like that, with my cheek nestled in his hand as I cried until I woke.
My best friend passed away in a car accident two months ago. A few nights after the wreck I had a dream and it was just me and her together at the bowling alley we have in our town. I asked her if she was watching over us and with us and she told me she was. Then last night i remember when i woke up that I had a dream with her in it. We were with our friends and it was normal. We were hanging out like we usually would except I knew she passed in the dream. I even mentioned it to her. I remember her hair was in a ponytail and I knew she had passed but we were still hanging out. What does this mean?
Last night I dreamt I was in a car accident, I went in a house to call 911, when I came out my grandmother was standing there (she passed almost 13 years ago, right after my son was born and today is his 13th birthday). I cried and went up to her, hugged her and told her I missed her, when she hugged me back, I told her, “I don’t understand, I can feel you and smell you, you are really here” she smiled and said she missed me so much. Then turned around and a door appeared and she walked through it. I immediately woke up, feeling her near me, cried a lot but an so happy, I know she was there.
My boyfriend passed not too long ago and it has been a very rough difficult time for me. I have not been myself since and many who know me from family members right down to my closest friends have taken notice that I am not the same person I once was before my boyfriend. I have always thought of myself as a practical strong woman (along with many others) and I myself haven’t the slightest clue as to who I am and don’t even recognize myself these days. About a couple of months after my boyfriends passing I had a dream of him. He was sitting down talking to me as I was standing up. I’m not sure where we were at if it was a restaurant or hotel setting of some sort, I did see people around and could clearly see the ocean from where we were at which indicates we were by the beach somewhere. Right before I woke up he told me ” you are going to live with me when I say” and of course I was excited and replied by saying ” yes I am! where are we going?’ then he said “by the beach” I woke up feeling happy and content with a warm feeling inside. However, I am not sure what the meaning of the dream was, what is he trying to tell me? This has been bothering me for quite some time and am wondering if anyone might possibly have any thoughts.
Disclaimer: Ive never had any sort of dream about anyone who has passed prior to these occasions. My Aunt and my grandmother crossed over 6 months ago one day a part opposite sides of my family .. I have had two vivid dreams of only my aunt since. The first one was her telling me about the vibrant colors of the spirits hair where she was…she said “some even have red hair like me.” She did have red hair in her younger years. I felt at peace knowing she was no longer suffering and I feel that was her way of telling me. She battled cancer.
The second dream i had about 2 weeks ago. We were walking along this path.. and she was walking on the left side of me she looked over at me and said.. “you know what I love? I love looking down on everyone’s golden smiles.” In both dreams other living relatives were around us and I kept thinking in my dream… why does she want to talk to me? And she’s only here a short moment why doesn’t anyone else want to spend time with her? There is never any closure or goodbyes in my dreams.. which makes me think she will visit again. What are your thoughts?
I dreamt, this morning, about an old boyfriend; a beautiful man named Brooke. However, I was telling him that when he came into the world the next time, he should be sure to let people know when he was feeling depressed so that he could get the help he needed. I was giving him advice, he had no message for me – he just looked at me while I spoke; our faces were very close. He had taken his own life after suffering from paranoid schizophrenia. I did not experience this unfortunate aspect of his life; we had been apart for years at the time he left.