When I speak to groups, one of the biggest ah-ha moments they have is the understanding of message “our guides guide and our loved ones love.”

Feeling Your Loved Ones Aren't There? Here's Why

Many people feel that their deceased loved ones have given up on them. They feel they aren't getting help/direction from them.

This is because the role our loved ones have in the afterlife is to simply love and encourage. It is not their role to guide us… that is the role of our spirit guides.

See the difference? Guides Guide Loved Ones Love.

Example: praying to your deceased mother to help you in a situation isn't going to happen. Doing so only causes you unnecessary frustration. Your guides, however, are standing by both ready and willing to help you.

Think of it this way. My nephew is in soccer right now. His coach is his guide. His job is to listen to the direction of the coach and the coach is to help him win. My job is to cheer my nephew on, give him love, encouragement and support. In other words, it is NOT my role to coach him.

Guides guide. Loved ones love.

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