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“My life is MISERABLE,” she said to me in a dramatic tone this morning during our phone reading… Long story short: she hates her husband, as he's for the most part been emotionally abusive to her and has cheated on her (more than once). It's a much sadder story, but you get the gist.

“Leave. Get out. Stop complaining and take action,” I said.

What She Said Next Floored Me…

“I can't. He's rich and I'd lose my lifestyle.

I was *stunned*… not *much* stuns me, but that one did. But it gets better…

“Is my life going to get better,” she asked?

For a brief few seconds I was speechless. I almost thought this was a prank call. But she was serious.

“No. It's not. It's miserable and will continue to be so…” I said. “You'll be rich and miserable and you'll own it all.”

Yes. I DID say that. I'm as blunt as a 2×4 at times.

She was NOT happy and said so. She wanted me to give her ‘hope' things would magically get better.

MOST of my clients are willing and accepting of the direction spirit will lead them.

MOST of them take action with positive results.

But I do run across a few that are just looking to hear “happy-happy” predictions… essentially wanting me to lie to them.

I don't do that. I won't do that. Frankly, I can't.

It's okay to be stuck. It's okay to be in a lousy and painful situation. But it's not okay to wallow in your misery IF you aren't willing to take action.

Deal with it, or… deal with it!

Start. Anywhere. Right where you are now. Make changes, tough choices and move forward.

Spirit wants us each to live happy and fulfilled lives, so make the choices to make things that way.

But if you aren't willing to make changes, you're just going to have to get good at accepting things as they are. But whatever you do, stop complaining.

Ask Your Spirit Guides For Help And Strength

We all face tough times and bad breaks. All of us.

Some of us–myself included–really go down bad paths and get ourselves into bad messes.

It's okay. Getting stuck isn't a problem. Staying stuck IS.

But your spirit guides are there to help you, to guide you and get you OUT of bad situations and INTO good ones.

Ask your guides to give you strength to:

  • love yourself
  • value yourself
  • face up to negative people/situations
  • give you courage
  • give you faith

Is it really that simple, Blair? you may be asking…

Yes!

Of course, it's MUCH easier said than done. But isn't everything in life?

I have no idea what my client was thinking, but I do know this: she valued money and how she looked to others over being happy. In her case, nothing is going to change for her. How terribly sad.

You deserve more, so go for it! Get your spirit guides working!

Post a comment below of a tough challenge/choice you made for the better. I'd love to hear it, and I'm sure other readers would too!

Love and light to you all.