Butterfly Messages From Heaven?
At a recent event a lady asked me to spiritually give her a butterfly meaning. Was it a sign from a deceased loved one? It’s a great question and in this short article I’m going to show you the differences between what a sign really is and what it does not.
Butterfly Meaning: What Exactly Are They Trying To Tell Us?
Are butterflies angels? Are butterflies signs from our deceased loved ones?
They can be. Butterflies are a fabulous way for the spirit realm to connect with us and communicate to us.
Because they are often bright and colorful and fly in an erratic manner they are hard to ignore.
As such, it makes a great way for the heavenly realm to wave the flag to get our attention.
The conventional meaning of the butterfly is that of transformation.
Just as the it grows from being a caterpillar into a beautiful winged butterfly it reminds us that we are designed to grow and flourish in life.
Depending on how and when it presents itself it could mean that you are about to grow or congratulations for your growth. We’ll talk more about that in a moment.
What Does It Mean When A Butterfly Lands On You?
Seeing a butterfly is one thing, but to have one land on you… That’s a sure sign it’s a message from the heavenly realm.
Most of the time the message from your deceased loved one is very simple: “I am alive and well and have not forgotten you. I love you.”
Landing on you certainly drives that message home!
Butterfly Color Meanings
In Japan a white butterfly is supposed to symbolize the soul of a deceased loved one. A black butterfly is believed to be an omen of an impending death.
I personally do not believe that butterfly meaning. Nor do I believe in putting too much weight on the colors of a butterfly.
Spirit – and your deceased loved ones – don’t need you running to books or searching online for deep meanings of these things.
Think about it. A butterfly lands on you. Do you think spirit needs you to work out its color meaning? No.
For centuries they have been sending simple messages of love and hope to us. Embrace the message of the humble butterfly when you see it.
Open Yourself To Messages From Spirit
We are all given spirit guides to help us discern the messages that spirit sends to us. It often comes across as a “gut instinct.”
As mentioned above, you don’t need to spend time thinking about it. Trust your first instinct.
Perhaps you’re going through a rough patch of time and you see a butterfly. That is spirits way of letting you know that good is ahead. There is hope and change is coming.
Perhaps you’ve achieved success of some degree. You see a butterfly… Perhaps it is a way of spirit letting you know of how proud they are of your achievement.
In other words, avoid letting “knowledge” limit the butterfly meaning and the message the spirit is showing you. Follow your heart, not your head. Take the message, give thanks and embrace it.
When you are in tune with spirit, you don't need anyone else to interpret the message. When they send us signs, you'll intuitively know.
Have YOU experienced a healing message from spirit via a butterfly? I'd LOVE to hear about it as I know others would too! Let me know in the comments below.

My husband passed 2 years ago from a sudden heart attack at the age of 55. My soul mate. I see dozens of butterflies and dragonflies daily on walks with our dog. I also seem to find feathers daily as well❤️❤️ I miss him terribly as it feels like yesterday that my world came to a sudden halt.
Awww ☺️ Sorry for your Loss of your husband!
I lost my stepdad in 2019 & my Daddy last year!
I see Red Birds ( Cardinals) in my yard and I had a Butterfly land on my hand .
Hi Michelle
I lost my husband last year to Covid , and he was healthy guy . I was seventeen when we met . we have been together for 43 years . I can understand your pain , Pain is getting worse as people said it gets better after some time , I never thought my life without him He was my soulmate , my life , my love my hero . I saw butter fly today but I did not realized then but now I feel good about it ITS REALLY HARD LIVE WITHOUT HIM , I AM TRYING REALLY HARD FOR KIDS SAKE
Hey im 22 living in S. A
It was tough 2years for me rewriting exams nd i couldn’t make it truh
This year i believe with my heart thwt all things will go positively for me
This butterfly i see now just 10min agon in our kitchen i ran to grap my phone nd take a picture its the most beautiful thing i ever seen nd it made my day just then
I have had 2 encounters with butterflies in regard to my mother. Two days after she died in my home under hospice care my husband and I were walking around our yard when a light colored butterfly grabbed our attention as it flew around us. My husband commented that might be a message. Months later when I met up with family on the farm where she grew up, and released her ashes, two butterflies flew by. We all felt like that was my mom saying goodbye along with either her sister or my grandparents. A memory I will always look upon with a smile.
My cousin passed a few weeks ago from stomach cancer he asked me to come visit him I couldn’t bring myself to go but finally you added up the courage to go see him I stayed a few hours talking to him and reading his cars although he couldn’t respond I know he knew I was there after I left him from sin and for about 2 hours I sit outside the facility he was in and while I’m sitting with a b**** I’m sitting there talking to his mom and his girlfriend and the girlfriend Smiles at me and I asked her what are you smiling for she says a butterfly just sat on your head I said wow that’s confirmation my cousin passed 2 hours or 3 hours after I left him so I’m going to take a sign that the butterfly that sat on my head him thanking me for coming rest in heaven cousin p o o h you’re missed we love you
My sister passed 15 years ago. We all would see butterflies thinking of her or during struggles. After some years, it lessened unless I was going through a lot.
Three years ago I contacted a medium during a really bad time in my relationship asking if I would ever meet the love of my life, I wasn’t treated so well.
Yesterday I dreamt my first dream of rainbow butterflies , I only see them in person. Along in my dream was the person I felt pure love from in my past right after I seen the butterflies. This happened a month before the 3 year mark that the medium said…. In about 3 yrs I’ll be getting along with someone great. They also have the eyes and hair they described . This wasn’t crossing my mind at the time and I haven’t spoke to him in years . Soo I took this as a flashy big sign from my sister ,angels and guide .
My water broke I had got an infection at 27 weeks ( 3 months early ) doctors had to perform an emergency C-section my baby girl weighed 2lbs 11 oz she was on a ventilator never left the hospital he had a tracheotomy in hopes to try to get her oxygen level settings lowered she was on 100% oxygen her lungs and her heart we’re so underdeveloped her being on that high setting destroyed her new lung tissue and made her hard work even harder day at the hospital told me 6 months is but they know to be the longest of baby will live in this condition doctors couldn’t figure out how she was still alive when she was 15 months old and she passed away in my arms. I had to let her go she fought so hard and she went through so much. I love her so much and I miss her deeply and then a yellow and black butterfly showed up and then I moved and the butterfly came over to the new place I was at and I was sitting outside and I reached my arms up to this guy and I said fly to me baby girl and I’m telling you the truth when I say not 15 seconds later she come around the side of the house and she was with me every single day last summer except for 2 days I know it’s my daughter Emily and that she’s looking after me and on my dad’s birthday July 2nd she spent the whole day with me. My precious baby girl
I truly believe in the poem:
When butterflies hover and feathers appear, a lost loved one or angels are near.
I have been sent healing butterflies by my deceased love ones to brighten my day and lift my spirits many times but never had one land on me.
Just cant figure out which love one is sending it. So I say hi to all of them.
I love that saying
Fabulous Blair. Personally I have never related to butterflies spiritually but I understand all you said. I also totally agree that you will know, in your gut, in your soul, if it is a sign from a loved one or a random incident. it will truly make your heart smile.
Thank you for all you do for us. And for helping us understand what is, and what is to come.
Hi Blair i have to tell you what happened after my mom passed. Roughly 2 weeks or so after my mom left us, her friend was sitting out on her front porch having her coffee. She noticed this cat come walking up and sat on her neighbours front lawn. She never seen this cat ever in her neighborhood. The next thing she seen was a butterfly and it landed right on her neighbors flowers near the cat. The thing with the cat was it was exactly like my mom’s cat. She said both the butterfly and cat sat there. The whole time the cat just stared at her. After a few minutes the cat got up and walked away then the butterfly left at the exact same time. Later on that day she spoke to my aunt to tell her what had happened that morning. My aunt says to her really, I have to let you know something I had Ken bring sassy (my moms cat) to be put down it was time (she was old and sick). So I believe it was a msg from my mom that her and her sassy were going to be together.
It’s not just butterflies sometimes a message comes through in other ways it can be a story you read online a person’s comment simple things in every day life you wonder what would they have done to get past a hard choice and then you read something and there is an answer we just do not pay enough attention sure butterflies sometimes even dragonflies cheer us up . My grandma always told me if she passed away she would let us know she was there those words still ring in my ears today she said it could be a bird or a fly I will be there only my brothers and i knew so when the day came at her funeral there we were my mom crying she lost her mom we stood in church all three of us kids and here came a fly that would not leave us alone flew to her coffin and back to us yes we looked at each other almost busted out laughing so when the fly landed on it’s back on the floor none of us could step on it we believed my grandma let us know she was ok many years had passed before we told my mom yes I believe it’s not just butterflies but they let us know they are around us they point the way they answer in their own way just listen
Beautifully said.
I lost My father in 2015 and thenMy Only auntie was January I lost my sister and my brother-in-law shortly after that yeah after that within 6 months of each other… Last July I lost my mother Last July this July 8th I lost the love of my life … But it’s weird because lately I smell cigarette smoke yes he was a smoker but I smell it when I’m in the car driving with kids and no I’ve never smoked no one’s ever smoked in my car matter if that kid never even been in that car but it’s so weird all the signals smell it or when I walk into my room sometimes I will smell it strong strong and I Look around to see if there’s someone smoking on the 2 lane road next to me …no one… It’s so weird… I am in so much turmoil and pain from losing him especially losing him we’re married when I was 16… He was my whole life…
My niece died suddenly 12 yrs, ago. A few weeks after the funeral my husband and I went to a family event. As my husband started to open the gate for the yard, about 4-6 butterflies seemed to fly out of the yard and they surrounded me. Even sitting at one of the tables people were commenting about the butterflies staying with me. I had no doubt that it was my niece letting me know she was alright.\
Thanks Blair – this is a great way to get messages out
Cheers Margie from Down Under
During a regular visit to my mother’s grave to tend with fresh flowers…I had walked up to the church to refill my water bottle on the way back to the grave there was a couple of butterflies flying around and came around near me…then out of the blue 1 of them landed on my shoulder…ive always believed butterflies carry the souls of deceased loved ones…to say it made my day is an understatement…I fealt it was my mother saying hello….or trying to tell me something. It a experience I won’t forget. I feel blessed!!!
Hi Blair – I have forever believed that if there is a butterfly in my space, it is NOT a sign from my Angels nor my loved ones. Why, you ask? LOL Because I absolutely can NOT stand having them in my space and would take off as fast as I could to get out of their space. LOL True story – if it flies, crawls, buzzes or as the ability to leap or fly, it is most definitely not something I want nor desire to be around, regardless of a possible message. My loved ones have way toooo many other ways to let me know they are around. Now, as for other people and the whole ‘butterfly’ theory, for them, I’ve always felt that the energy of Angels or Loved ones is much stronger than that of the humble insect and in guiding our eyes to notice, then perhaps for them it truly is. I totally agree with you that we need to get out of our heads and into our hearts – accept the signs – acknowledge them and be so grateful that LOVE NEVER DIES. Thank you for all that you and Wendy do to bring that healing message through.
This summer I’ve had a butterfly land one me and let me hold it two times in two different regions. Both times they were the same type of butterfly. I have pictures of both occasions. After these two encounters I am experiencing a spiritual awakening. My eyes are opening to a new perspective of life.
Absolutely they are! After my husband died 4 years ago, I had many omens from him, but the amount of different sizes and shapes of butterflies that surrounded me for 6 months was staggering! I actually had a 2×2” butterfly tattoo done in Cape Cod a few months after he died on my inner wrist. The colors in it change sometimes, and every couple of weeks, I have new and different colored ones around my deck. It’s so comforting!
I truly believe that butterflies are our loved ones that passed on. When I see one I think of my dad. Back in May my son and his girlfriend lost their little girl she was 27 weeks pregnant when she lost her. My grandson turned two this month and on the day of his birthday party a butterfly landed on his head. His mother said that’s your baby sister coming to your party.
Thank you, Blair. ❤
a year ago I happened on my significant others Obituary, listed on internet.,I hadn`t heard from him for a few months, not unusual…no one notified me, or answered when I called to find out what had happened/…I felt lost alone devastated.Several strange things happened.. first I saw your post on facebook, I downloaded your book… but before I read it my old printer tht my love had given me started working…there was no paper or ink in it……. and was not plugged in !needless to say the hairs on back of my neck stood on end….Next I went outside and a yellow and blue butterfly landed on my arm ,and stayed awhile…thenI little bird kept landing on my kitchen plant window..knocking….I tried to explain it all away…. then came in and read your book.I felt a calm come over me. I find pennies where they should not be…. but we have now expanded to dimes.. ….thankyou for your book.. I sent and got the whole set…..one day I know I will join my loved ones again
I have a question for you; I was in my room one night at one end of our house there are two doors at either end of the house that open up to the outside mine had a mesh screen on it anyways a butterfly landed on that mesh screen at night and so I went to investigate and see what was up with it because I had never seen a butterfly at night when I went outside of the mesh screen the butterfly like almost sniffed me and then went on to the back of my hand I looked at him and I said you are the coolest thing I’ve seen in a long time and I said I’ve got to show you to the guys so I walked all the way around the house to the other end of the house because they were outside working on their bikes and I showed them the butterfly on the back of my hand and then I put my hand on the wall and then he just casually walked off onto the wall and look back at me and then he flew inside the room that with the door was open at the other end of the house and then flew back out I would like to know what if anything does that mean because to me that was one of the artist most wonderful experiences as far as what animals or insects are concerned?
Yellow was my mother’s favorite color and she has shower curtains and pictures with yellow butterflies. One day I was pondering a couple of major decisions. One was whether or not to get braces. I had an ortho appt that day. She had been urging me to get braces for the past 2-3 years as my teeth were shifting as I aged. Getting into my car to go to the dentist a beautiful yellow butterfly landed on my car window and stayed there fluttering its wings long enough for me to video it. Then it flew away. I had this overwhelming sense of joy feeling that it was a visit from her reassuring me that I was making the right decisions on the pending issues.y mom has only been deceased for 3 months.
Yes I do and I have a black crow that follows me around and I think she is my mother by the way she speaks to me this has been going on over 20 yrs and when she mad you can’t tell she is Really giving it to me. Makes me laugh but friends have seen it as well.
Yes I do and I have a black crow that follows me around and I think she is my mother by the way she speaks to me this has been going on over 20 yrs and when she mad you can’t tell she is Really giving it to me. Makes me laugh but friends have seen it as well.
Thank you
I’ve seen beautiful butterflies at different times in my life at precise moments where I’m thinking about something or I’m in the midsts of going through something…both in good & bad times. One time when I was going through a very rough time & sobbing uncontrollably I saw 2 yellow & black butterflies -the biggest I had ever seen. I knew they were brought to provide me comfort as this has happened in the past. I definitely feel they are from the spiritual realm & brought to lighten our load. I also have had other insects/birds do the same. For a long time when I would go to the park I would sit on a bench where I would often talk to a deceased loved one. Many a times I had a hummingbird that would visit me on that bench. I think that spirit can bring many messages & at the moment when you are thinking or feeling things & see the signs is when you realize. Butterflies are definitely spiritual but you know if there are from spirit in that moment by your thoughts in the moments that you experience them. If I see them & I’m not getting a message or visit, I assume they are just passing my by on their way to lighten another’s soul ❤️
Since my sister passed, I feel she comes to visit me through a very special yellow tail butterfly. She loved yellow. I can feel her love strongly whenever I see this butterfly. It isn’t one you see very often where I live either.
A butterfly was the very first sign I received when I was numb to the world around me in the depths of my grief (and before I knew about signs and communication). Looking back it seems like a lifetime ago and so much has changed. I’m grateful for the ability to be able to see and interpret the signs today. It’s a special communication between us and it all started with a butterfly
Yes, several years ago I and some friends had just finished a hike where a deceased friend loved to be. We were talking about him when a butterfly appeared to be flying beside us as we walked. I stopped and said out loud, if you are a messenger from John, (or something to that effect) then fly up to me so that I know. As soon as I said that, the butterfly flew right up to me. I just stood still as it fluttered for a few seconds and then flew away. To this day we still talk about it, as we know it was surly him.
We dont see butterflies very often in our Northern California area but when our beloved Greyhound passed suddenly at a young age, we saw butterflies AND Squirrels which were special to us. Our Greyhound – Blue Loved squirrels and got excited and wanted to play with them. 🙂
I was outside having a smoke with tear filled eyes wishing my Son a Heavenly Birthday
telling him how very much he was missed then along came a beautiful yellow butterfly he came right up and landed on my toe and stayed a minute…
It was AWESOME…I BELIEVE..
Love to you Blaire…Hi Wendy..love to you both
Hi Blair when my dad died 6 years ago a huge butterfly stayed on my door for 2 days just fluttering his wings.I immediately knew my dad was letting me know that he is ok.He had a tough time before he died.He also asked me to take care of his cat who I have bonded with.Do you think he is ok?
When my daughter passed away 2 years ago we had her luncheon at her house in the backyard. When I got back to the house people were telling me about a big yellow butterfly flying around. I finally did see it flying around one of the tents. It seemed as soon as I saw it it disappeared. I always attribute a yellow butterfly as a sign from my daughter.
A week after my husband died it was his birthday
My friends always made him a birthday dinner.
So now I was alone. I walked out on their patio and a dragonfly flew right up to me and then flew away. I know this was my husband
I know this wasn’t a butterfly but close
He knew I lived dragonflies.
My husband passed July 4, 2018. On Thanksgiving day I was walking and a small charcoal colored butterfly flew by me. I stopped and held my finger out. The butterfly jumped up in the air, turned around and flew to my finger. It sat on my finger and stared into my eyes. I stared into its eyes for several minutes. Then I turned my hand to see what it would do and it immediately turned its body so it could continue staring into my eyes. I KNEW it was my husband. And I KNEW when the butterfly jumped in the air it was my husband’s spirit entering it. It was a blessed moment that renewed my broken heart and I will cherish the memory always. Love is definitely alive!
For the first time ever in my life, in July a butterfly landed on me. The butterfly looked at me square in the eyes, I almost stopped breathing.
It went from my ankle to my knee and stared again. It was the most amazing experience ever. The entire interaction lasted about 30 seconds – a long time
for a butterfly to sit on you! It was my Mom’s birthday. . I knew in my heart it was my Mom!
I had several butterflies come to my kitchen window at once , and I never thought of anything , about butterflies before, but my husband passed away the first thought I had was that my husband Steve , how awesome thank you
My mother loved butterflies. There was a picture of butterflies in her hospital room as we sat with her waiting for her to pass. After her husband, my dad, died 5 years later as my husband and I were leaving from the burial site, 2 butterflies together flew right over the windshield of our car. My husband and I looked at each other and knew this was a sign that they were finally together again. It was such a comfort. Since then we have the odd butterfly in our garden and we always know that they are with us.
The last warm day of this fall as my husband and I were sitting on our deck a monarch came and fluttered over my dog’s head for a few seconds then it flew directly to my husband and over to me back and forth a couple of times and then it left. We were talking about winterizing the trailer that my dad had borrowed a couple of times for his vacation to Newfoundland that he promised his wife he would take after she died. He couldn’t travel with her as she was not well. My dad dearly loved his dog. My husband and I knew that my dad was saying hello and saying to us he was with us and reminding us of the good times he had. There was no doubt in my mind that it was a sign from him especially as it hovered over our dog and then back and forth to us and then left without bothering with the flowers around us.
I was having lunch at an outside venue with a friend a couple months ago. Minutes after being seated, a butterfly landed on my hand. I let it sit there until I needed my hand, and gently moved it to my lap. It stayed there for the entire meal! When it was time to go, I encourged it to fly off. But not before thanking him for the visit and telling my Dad how wonderful it was to have had lunch with him again. He’s been gone 13 years now, but I always feel & know when he’s around… from the smell of his pipe, or “clues” that come in 3’s.
I often see butterflies and I know who by which colors they are. I’ve lost 2 great friends in motorcycle accidents. Both ironically named Joe. One will send blue butterflies and the other an avid Harley Davidson rider orange and black. I say hello to them and they flutter off. One day while trying to comfort a coworker who has lost her son. She was so so wanting a sign. I advised her she was trying so hard to see something that she most likely missed any subtle ones. About that time a butterfly came really close to her. Immediately she calmed down and knew that was her son saying hey I’m ok. It was a confirmation for me.
My dad passed away when I was 24 from HIV. His illness was beyond wretched on him and the last 12 months of his life, he was sent home to be made comfortable. He suffered more than any human should ever suffer. I do not have the vocabulary to express how heartbreaking it was to assist my mom in caring for him during that time. It was compounded by the fact that our relationship had been strained since I was about 10 or 11 because he very obviously favored my sister to the degree that he could not even remember my birth date. It was very hurtful and destroyed any self esteem I could have as a young girl becoming a young woman. Admittedly, because I was 24, I lied to myself that him being the adult, he would not leave this life before expressing to me some explanation behind his behavior to help me understand why at least but I was wrong. He never approached the conversation. I did not have the courage to approach him because I had been rejected for so long by him and I did not think I could take it again. The day before he passed, he was catatonic and green. That image of him haunts me. I have never really had anyone to express any of this to because I did not want to heap anything else on my mom who had had her own pain from being married to him and then caring for him to his passing. My sister was very removed because my parents felt strongly that we had to protect her from any of it so when I have tried to talk to her about it, she becomes defensive and states that is isnt her fault. As I have gotten older, I have come to accept my dad was human and made mistakes. It does not mean he didnt love me. I still mourn sometimes that he could not be the dad that I needed but it is progressive. Regarding butterflies, since his passing, there have been times that butterflies or a large butterfly will come very near to me and it is usually when I am either looking or asking for a sign that all will be well or as a symbol that he is watching over. It does bring me comfort that I can sense his soul but I will know I am healed when I can move past the wish that we had had the conversation before he died.
Hi Blair, I love this way of posting …. Butterflies have always had significant meaning to me. I always feel they are a renewal of my spirit and a new beginning or a battle that has been won. Cancer survivors use the butterfly as a symbol of winning and surviving cancer. We do a butterfly release every year to honor those that have crossed over. I do believe they are a sign from our loved ones and also a visual blessing from our father in Heaven. Thank you so much for your insight and sharing and caring.. Sherry
I like when pennies are found too. I think our loved ones drop them from heaven to let us know they are watching over us too.
As a caregiver for over 18 year’s. I work with the elderly.
I am with them on their final journey.
A week or so before a passing. I start seeing butterfly.
Around their home. Or As I’m driving to them.
Or both. I find comfort in knowing that their suffering is almost over. And I can talk to my client that it’s ok to go.
If family members are open to the information I share with them it’s time to call family that want to come and say goodbye.
And help them to let go.
Thank you for this. I have seen different signs. Believe they are all from heaven
In my heart, when I see a yellow butterfly, the first name that comes to my mind of someone who has passed on is their spirit coming to say hello!! I get so much peace and serenity when this happens. At times I will talk to someone who has passed on and ask them to please show me that they are there with me. Sometimes a yellow butterfly well cross my path and that just confirms what I know in my heart. If I don’t see a yellow butterfly I look for other signs. God is always looking after us and giving us ways to find our peace. We just have to be still long enough and listen quietly for “The Whispers of God”!
Is it a good idea for me to bring my son in law to your healing help bring he has stage 4 terminal cancer or will it be hurtful to him? He is very scared & depressed.
Hi Ruth, I couldn’t help by reply to you. Last night my son sat in with me on the zoom meeting. He was there for one story but ended up staying for a while as he was hearing messages to others that resonated with him, and healed him!. He has heard about Blair from me, I have tried to explain signs and life after death, etc. He is 33 and depressed over the loss of his father 16 months ago. After watching Blair last night, he turned to me and said
“I am not afraid of death anymore”. His sadness lifted. Today, for the first time in a very long time, he is walking around the house happy and looks so much better.
Butterflies I know for a fact that they are a visit from my Mom She knew how much I adored butterflies The day she transitioned. I held her hand as she took her last breath I went outside a few hours later and a butterfly was fluttering around me I then put my finger up and the butterfly landed on my finger just for a moment I said hello Mom and it flew away .
She has been gone now for over 4 years I still see butterflies everywhere I go
I saw a brown one today with gold spots my mam died christmas eve 2020 i was on the phone to my new boyfriend when it landed by me i think my mam is giving us the thumbs up as she always liked him as a person
My best friend that was like my twin, my sister and just my everything, passed away on this New Years of 2020 at 2:00 in the morning. Yesterday afternoon, I saw a blue butterfly flying close to me and basically flying around in circles even. I have had two other close friends pass away around 2015 and 2016 and I never had a sign like this. The feeling I felt was warm, just like I felt with my best friend, Brittany. I will never forget that moment and I truly believe that God sent her to confirm that he has her and that she is okay resting in his hands. ❤️
So…I have experienced recieving what I believed to be a sign of my father with a couple butterflies but want I want to mention instead, is that of an experience I had with moths.
I lost my father 3 years ago, in what/ still is a traumatizing way for me to lose him, through a difficult battle with aggressive cancer. My dad was the strongest, most proud man, and to watch his body/vessel disintegrate, something he had always taken a lot of care in making as healthy and as attractive as he could, be the reason he could no longer be there for me, the way he always wanted to, to what him struggle with fear, shame, fear, fear of the unknown,death. What was so difficult for me.
Anyways long story short, sorry rambling, the whole thing was traumatizing for me LOL
Back to the moth I experienced moths surrounding me, landing on my head/body, trying to fly directly into my mouth…for whatever reason was shicking. It last for about a month or so on and off. It was odd to experience. To watch the people around me in utter shock, mostly non believers of signs, made me laugh. For example I was at a festival for three days with a group of friends and for three days my group of friends watched moths surround me. NEVER once landing on any of them, or go near them, in the middle of the day, in bright warm weather outside was difficult for the to wrap the minds around. I had mentioned that this had been happening to me for like a month, which didn’t bother me at all, was so surprising for them. It was interesting/neat to see how quickly they changed how they saw/interpreted that experience once it continued to happen. I don’t really no much, or have researched much, or actually know at all what’s a moths message is “supposed to mean”. I just kind of knew without a doubt, that things where going to start to change for me….which they drastically did.
I decided to write this comment, which is something I’ve never done before, on a website, or any platform for that matter to share but felt the urge to share. Hope it’s helpful to someone out there
I just read this and I was so shocked..I never knew….But last summer my dog fell I’ll and she was my rock…my son got killed in a car accident in April 2013 and my dog daisy helped me so much you wouldn’t believe…well she fell I’ll last summer and many many vet visits and and I was getting so heart broke thinking lord please dont let her die she has been my heart helping me deal with my sons death.. well she and I would sit outside on the porch she loved so much and pale blue butterfly kept flying around and kept landing on me over and over so I eased my hand out because I wanted to see it up close not just on arm or shoulder…..so it would fly and come back and finally landed in my hand…I looked at it and it was the most prettiest butter fly I have ever seen it was like it was looking at me……that whole day that butter fly stayed with me flying away and coming back….I felt at such peace that day…later in October my daisy passed over the dog rainbow…and something else happend about a month or so after her death ..I wasnt looking for a dog but a puppy came to me and her birthday was the day my daisy passed and the same breed….and my son was killed in car accident on the same day as their birthdays… not same months but same day
Against everything my husband told me before he passed, I got involved with someone “for comfort” and was paying for everything we did. When I first told him that I needed time to regroup and find myself and who I was without my husband, a butterfly landed on my jacket. Now, I know it was spirit guide letting me know I was headed in the right direction. I have since been working on finding me again, and am happier.
My mum died recently at funeral home a butterfly flew all around me and my family landed at the foot of the coffin and right up beside mums head it was jaw dropping stuff when the rosary was over one of my family said it just flew under the door this was last Saturday evening.
My father passed away in July . We were very close and I miss him so much . Just to be able to hug him again , oh what I would give for that ! I inherited some things from my father , one was a decorative wooden bowl . I had packed it in a box with several other things from his home . To my astonishment upon unpacking it at my home I found on the very bottom of the bowl pressed flat against it a beautiful monarch butterfly . It was as if someone had pressed it between a book and I couldn’t understand how I had not noticed it before . Two weeks later I was getting ready to wash a large cranberry vase that also had belonged to my dad when I peered inside and there was another dead butterfly . Gorgeous in appearance , completely intact at the bottom of the vase . I have wondered about these two incidents and I have truly felt it was my dad communicating with me from the other side .
My sister passed away yesterday and last night when l woke up at 4am praying as l was so upset asking if she was ok and that she was not alone and was happy, my window was open and then a beautiful red, black and yellow butterfly flew into my bedroom flickering its wings almost like it was dancing. It came towards me and I tried to catch it in my hand and it just disappeared. I felt my sisters presence and felt such comfort and happiness after this happened as I felt she was telling me not to worry and that she was OK.❤️
Today i visit the grave of my grandfather. I do this so now and then and bring my children and wife sometimes. When i visited there is always a butterfly coming into my home. Sometimes it lands on me but always come flying around me to let me know.
For me i translate it into, thanks you for your visit. I am here for the protection of you and your loved ones.
And i also get signals in a way of solution to a problem that i have. Showing me a certain path to follow.
I am so gratefull. Thank you grandpa. You are loved and never forgotten.
My dad is buried with my 2day old daughter, I was at their graveside today for my dads anniversary
While I was there a brown coloured pretty butterfly lander on his grave then as I stepped to the side
a small white feather appeared.
Please could you tell what the I meaning.
Last night was my first night accepting things as they are. I have always had premonitions or remote viewing /dreams. I habe always been too scared to delve deeper because honestly I have been afraid to see ghosts lol. After finding a long lost sister who has a tremendous amount of power and knowledge in this area has been working with me to open up. I have put a lot of thought into it because I don’t take it lightly. So officially I sat down by the light of the flower moon last night and meditated and told my guides I would be open to whatever they felt needed to come thru. It wasn’t pictures like on a clear TV more like trying to watch a show thru fuzz like back in the old days when the. Hannel wouldn’t come in but you could make out a picture enough to see what it is if you look away slightly. I was shown a woman in a red dress. I feel the color and the fact it came thru attached to a human but not one in particular has me wondering. Then twice I was shown a butterfly. The butterfly came thru with only the black outline visible. And finally a seashell.
My mother passed away in 2016,
After she passed I took a Driving trip to get away .. I was staying in a hotel in a small town in Washington in the mountains I woke up early in the morning Made coffee opened up the front door of the Room which led into the parking lot Near with butterflies flying everywhere in the front door of my Room. And only my Room, There was about 20 of them just flying above me. I knew at that moment that was my mama 🙂
I do believe in the butterfly. The 1st year my husband past ed, my daughter and I were making preparations, for our 1st hurricane, in Fla. We were scared to death. My daughter was outside the house, in the rain, and wind, bringing in plants. She came in the house, and said ,very calm, Mom, we are going to be ok, Dad, was just here,. A Butterfly had landed on her hand, and stayed a few seconds, he came to let us know he would take care of us. Well after the hurricane, Matthew, hit, it was bad, it looked like a tornado, but roads in my community were closed for a few days, no power, 3 pine trees were on my house, we never heard them hit, there was no damage, at all around my house. My neighbor s chimney came down, birdcage was gone somewhere. You get the picture. So I believe, he is always withus. Love never dies. I still do love zooming with you, you are hilarious, and a bright light, love your humor curses, and all. I don’t y think he will ever come thru, I am there to see, and hear, others get there healings. Have a few laughs, and brighten my spirit. By the way he was my first, and my last Love of my life. We were married 54 years, and they said it would never, last, HAHA!! I was 18, he was 19. So my friend Love, and light to you.
My mum had a very long battle with cancer and later she developed dementia.
My dad looked after her right up until the end,I really dont know how he managed to stay so strong. A few weeks before she died she was moved into a local nursing home,she needed the extra full 24/7 care.
Watching her lose her memory was truly heartbreaking,she didnt recognise me or know my name anymore.
Then one night we got the call from the nursing home that she had passed away,my heart felt broken.
I drove to my dads straight away,it was a icy outside and about 2 am in early Febuary.
The family were all there together,all heartbroken and grieving together.
After a few hours I decided to leave and head back home.
But as i walked out into the icy morning and shut the front door something caught my eye.
A butterfly was fluttering against the frozen glass window that looked in on the kitchen where we were all grieving.
It stopped me in my tracks,i knew straight away it was my mum looking in,I felt it so strong In my heart.
I stood and watched it for a couple of minutes knowing it was my mum saying goodbye.
It wasnt even light outside,freezing icy cold,I’ve never seen a butterfly outside in February in the freezing cold before or will I ever again.
Then a year later whilst still struggling to come to terms losing her,the same type of butterfly kept appearing in my house.
One day it would appear fluttering between rooms,i would guide it outside whilst all the time knowing it could be my mum coming say hello again. This went on all summer long until we got into winter again.
Then after weeks of not seeing it the same butterfly appeared in my front room,fluttering around.
Over the next couple of weeks It appeared and disappeared in my house.
Then one day my dog tried to catch it so i panicked and let it out of the window,forgetting how cold it was outside I realised I had probably done a bad thing.
I watched it flutter away up in the air until I lost sight of it.
The next day my mind was truly blown apart,there fluttering around in my front room was the butterfly again.
It landed on my hand and closed its wings and rested there. This butterfly experience got took to another level that day,its left me with no doubt at all that my mum was coming to say she’s ok and try comfort me. We had her headstone engraved with roses and some butterflies fluttering around them.
Her name was Maggie,on the M of her name we had a butterfly resting with its wings closed.
And this poem…
A butterfly to remind us
Even though we are apart
Your spirit is always with us
Forever in our hearts
Rest in peace Mum,love you always and forever
Thank u so much. This is very helpful
My dad had passed on now 5 years I spoke to him day before yesterday , ad I have his candle from church an his ern in my bedroom, that morning I spoke to my dad letting him know I miss him m d much, little while after that I was sat outside an saw this beautiful butterfly in my garden went to get my phone to take a picture an this butterfly just sat there and posed for me I was so close I could have kissed it, then I thought to myself that was my father visiting me., so I certainly believe butterflies special carriers!
I’m so glad I’ve seen this- we recently lost my grandad, me and my Nan sat talking about him outside. A butterfly caught my eye and I said “ah look at that
Butterfly” it swooped down and landed inside my sons toy right in-front of us. We took great comfort from knowing this could be a sign x x
Hi Blair! A bit more than a year ago I lost my older brother. I was working on a pergola in my front yard when my phone rang. I went inside and it was the news from my niece that he had transitioned. I went outside and shared the sad news with my carpenter. Right then, a beautiful gold and black butterfly circled around me and landed on my right cheek and rested there for a few seconds before flying off. I knew it was him.
Thanks for what you do…
Be well-under quarantine here in Texas for one more week after being exposed….
Mike
Hello, ive recently lost some one who i truly loved. We always went kayaking and stoped at certain spots along the way to sit and chill. I went to the same place, saw a butterfly at the very begining, and it literally follewd me to everey stoping point along the river, and it landed on me a few times. I truly believe it was todd telling me its gonna be okay. ✌
I have a house in gauteng but currently in Eastern Cape because this is where I buried my husband(hometown) there is this butterfly constantly coming looking for me. One time risked and got into my kitchen as I was working indoors. Most of the time stay away from the garden just to be around me when I am outside. Typical of my passed husband. Always wants to be near me. This makes me to have inner peace. Strange but true.. Does not want another butterfly near me. 3days ago for the 1st time it briefly landed on my shoulder. It was like a pat on my shoulder and it left. I just can’t explain how I feel about these experiences
I have had 2 butterflies outside for a few days now and when my husband and I went out we sat down and I put my arm out it landed on me , then a bit later it landed on my husband hand we think it might be my dad he just passed away not even a month ago and due to the covid we could not go and attend his funeral. In saying this we went out the next day and they were still around I put my arm out again and one landed on it this happened 3 days in a row, I told my husband it was my dad and my sister.
I see butterflies, dragon flies and collect feathers which I think are from my angels. My mother lived butterflies and had several pins of them so I believe they’re her saying hi. The dragon flies I take as a symbol of good fortune. I talk to the butterflies and dragon flies.
I just saw it just so happened the other day I have been working on my son’s headstone had a very rough day been very upset the last few days dealing with ordering and design in his headstone my son left behind a two year old little boy we were outside on the patio and a butterfly landed on his finger he was so excited to see that butterfly my first instinct was that my son sent it down to him gave us some happiness I do have another story I would love to share with you in my dream when you speak of connections from the spirit that they come to you in a dream I have very much a detailed dream that I would love to share with you
My Grandson passed away last November he was 12 years old. He committed suicide and it has been traumatic to our entire family. He was sweet loving and a total goof ball. When my Daughter his Aunt got married a few years ago they had butterflies to let go at the ceremony. He loved them and was so excited to let them go. At the start of summer we were out by the pool and a butterfly came and just flew next to us one by one and landed and would fly by one of us at a time then land again. I felt it I knew it was him and he was saying hello. The pool was his favorite place to be with his cousins and their dog. I just felt a warm feeling and I knew it was him. It happened again when we were camping one flew in under the canopy and just hung out with us. Im
Hi Blair when my dad died 6 years ago a huge butterfly stayed on my door for 2 days just fluttering his wings.I immediately knew my dad was letting me know that he is ok.He had a tough time before he died.He also asked me to take care of his cat who I have bonded with.Do you think he is ok?
i was very sick and had to be put on a ventalator for 6 days then i came back but all i could remember was i could see my body laying on a table and watching butterflies land on me then take off and more would land on me run across my body the room was so full of butterflies it looked like thousands of them in the room i know now i had died twice while all this was going on i believe they brouht me back what i had most people die from.
For the past week a yellow monarch butterfly has been flying around as I sit in my backyard. It appears quite often during the day and sometimes flys very close to me. I truly believe that it’s a loved one watching over me.
I enjoyed reading this about butterflies. After my father died, there was a monarch butterfly that tried to come in the house with me each time I opened the door. It tried to get in my car with me too. One day my husband and I were leaving to drive to the cemetery to prepare the graves for Memorial Day. A Monarch was trying to get in the car with us. When we reached the cemetery some 16 miles away, a Monarch sat on my Dad’s tombstone. Coincidence? I don’t think so.
My husband passed last April. In the summertime one day I went to get into my car and there was a Monarch inside the car. The windows had been opened up a tiny bit, maybe 4″ is all, to let some fresh air in the car. I don’t think that was a coincidence either. He knew that I watched for butterflies because of my Dad. Also, one day I was walking into Church and there were 3 or 4 Monarchs that flew around and around me as I walked up the cement incline to the church. I have always felt these were connections from the afterlilfe.
Hello Blair!! I had asked my Mother to send her love through butterfly’s if she could. Immediately I started having butterfly’s surround me, one at a time, outside while sitting and reading. They would get very close and land for a minute or so and I would say hello. One day particularly I was having a rough and trying day feeling the pressure of it all and feeling quite alone. I had to stop for fuel in my truck and while standing by the gas pump and pumping fuel a Beautiful Butterfly landed on a ring I was wearing that had belonged to my Mother while my hand was resting on my truck. I remained perfectly still watching the Butterfly sit and slowly flap it’s wings for nearly a minute before flying off. I burst into tears and immediately felt loved, stronger, and better knowing that was my Mom letting me know she was with me and I was going to get through this.
I was at our church helping do a little repairing. I have been down a rough road. I mean I list everything. But I was outside checking on my Father-in-law. It was hot and out of nowhere this beautiful big yellow and black butterfly danced all around me started at my feet and went round and round slightly touching me until it reached my head . then it flew away. I felt like so amazed like things are fixing to het better.
My father’s wife died in 2012, they used to sit out on their patio and read the paper, sipping a gin & tonic, before dinner.
On one of our trips to see him, while sitting out there in the 98 degree heat, I asked him why aren’t you inside, in the AC? He said, because then I wouldn’t be able to see the butterfly! (My Dad was not a nature lover and could care less about butterflies) He said that Helens visits him as this yellow butterfly, so he knows she’s ok. He said he read about it. I thought it was a little creepy, and it was totally out of character for my Dad to believe in things like that. I looked it up, online, and there are thousands of articles about it. I joked with him that if he ever wanted to visit me in the UK, he’d have to visit as a slug, because I haven’t seen a butterfly here
Well, this morning, 4 days after he died, while looking out the window, on the side of our house was a butterfly, stretching his wings in the sun. Who knows, hopefully it is my Dad, letting me know he’s ok ❤️
Hello! 5 years ago my wife and I lost our daughter, age 31 to an aggressive form of cancer, she was our only child and the pain we all endured through the last month was devastating. This was also the beginning of a major spiritual awakening for us and signs were abundant and the whole experience is something I keep feeling should be put into a book. Our daughter passed at 2:30 in the afternoon, a beautiful sunny afternoon June 30th 2015, some may remember the time as where she was it was exactly the same time as the conjunction of the planet’s that by many was called the Star of Bethlehem. We had spent the last 2 weeks living in a motel a few blocks away from our daughters Hospital in Kelowna B.C..
Upon our return to our motel after some time at a park by a lake to deal with the immediate pain of grief we were met by the motel manager. She knew why we were staying there and was excited to show us something! She took us to back shady side of our building and pointed to our rooms window. It was covered with a cloud of beautiful little yellow butterflies, fluttering and sitting only on and around our rooms window! She said she had never seen anything like it before and that it had started at about 2:30 pm.. later on a couple weeks our daughters true love from a few years back but had come to see her in the hospital a week before her passing said that the same thing had happened to him a few hundred miles a way at the same time.
Talk about making the message to us a little obvious!
I saw this black and yellow color butterfly mostly everyday landing in my flower in my patio
What that is means I have so much in my mind I’m still thinking about my ex husband to reconciled back to me
I don’t know if something to do with that butterfly that I’m always saw it mostly everyday in my patio with flowers Can you Respond this my Comment about my Situation Thanks
My partner for 10 years has terminal collon Cancer. And is very ill . We see White feathers falling all the time in front of us. Or going passed our window. I do believe that they are spirt messages. But my partner is a bit of a scebtick. Yesterday I opened my front door and on the door mat was a white butterfly just sitting there didn’t move .when I came back from food shopping it was still there sitting on the door mat I checked to see if it was alright and it had sadly passed away. Was this a sign
My sister and I went to my mother grave last evening to spread my dads ashes on my mother’s graves like we promised him we would! And as we were proceeding to spread the ashes we noticed this butterfly land on my sister than it flew to my brother in-law and landed on him a couple of time than it just went and sat in the grass, but stayed there the whole time we were there. I didn’t no until this morning about what butterflies mean! I cried this morning cause I’m hoping it was my mother and father letting us no that the lived us and they were well and they were thinking about us?
My mom just passed yesterday and when I went to look outside, I seen a beautiful white butterfly fly across the window, I went outside. Sure enough the white butterfly flies by again. It gave me a lot of comfort. I’m very thankful for seeing this beautiful butterfly today.
My granda passed away in March 2020 and everywhere i am and go there’s always loads of feathers about and sometimes come into my garden where I sit. I’m always seeking special clouds like a heart or angel wings and a few white butterflies. I really hope he is looking down on me for sure.
My husband passed away 5 years tomorrow 10th th. of August. Sitting in the garden today, a butterfly rested on my shoulder for quite a few seconds. It flew off when my daughter took photos of this.
My best friend passed away suddenly yesterday and I am heart broken. Today I was in my garden and a beautiful butterfly landed on my arm and stayed for a few seconds. I just had the feeling it was my friend, as I’d been crying For most of the day. This is the first time I have ever had one land on me!
Hello Blair. I never really thought about butterflies this way. However on the same day my mom found out she had last stage cancer i had a butterfly land on me. I felt it was a sign from a loved one to say change is coming. 6 months after my mom passed away I had another one land on me. I pray that was her saying “hi, I am fine”. Recently my husband and I were out walking and a butterfly landed on the ground right by my feet and stayed there until I said “thank you for the visit” then flew off!!
I know these could be coincidences but I like to think in my heart that its a loved one sending messages ❤
Less than a month ago, my little cat who was not yet two years old had cancer and was going to die. He just went downhill so quickly that I did not even have time to process it. I had taken him to the vet and had made an appointment later in the week for my tests. I was not sure that he would still be alive for the appointment. He was extremely skinny and about a week earlier he was having trouble walking on his hind legs. By the fourth or fifth day, he was hiding, he had stopped eating, and was practically dragging his hind legs. That morning I got him from under the bed and tried to feed him, but he was unable to walk and dragged himself around the floor in a circle. I could not bare to watch him. He managed to get to the back door and wanted to go outside. I let him outside because he loved being out. I stayed with him for a while and then let him just bask in the sun. I kept watching him from my kitchen window.
I was talking on the phone and continued to see him outside. I was on the phone for quite a while talking to a friend about him. I looked out, and I did not see him but thought he had gone to this little hiding place he had the last few days. I knew he was going to die soon and was contemplating having a vet come to the house to put him to sleep because I did not want him to suffer. I felt so horrible because he did not even get a chance to grow up. I had only had him for nine months, and the rest of the time for the most part he spent in a cage at the pound. He was about five or six months old when I got him.
It was dark out, and I went to his hiding place to get him and bring him inside. He was not there. I took a flashlight and searched my entire backyard, but I could not find him. He could hardly walk and would not have been able to jump over a six foot fence that surrounded my property along with a six foot cement wall. There were no gaps anywhere and no small openings where he could have gone to hide. I must have searched my property about 50 times to no avail. The next day I searched many times again, and there was absolutely no sign of him anywhere!
It was still morning, and I noticed something small moving on top of the roof of a cat house I had outside. I got closer, and there was a yellow, black, and white huge butterfly just crawling on top of the cat house roof! It suddenly just fell off the roof onto the ground. I thought it was dead, but it was still moving. I got a stick, and it climbed on it, and I put the butterfly back on the roof of the cat house. It crawled on top for a bit and then fell again on the ground. I took the stick, and the butterfly hopped on it again. I put the stick and the butterfly on the ground. The butterfly crawled along the stick and then appeared to be just resting. It was very strange, and I never witnessed a butterfly do this before. I finally left the butterfly on the ground with the stick. I went outside a couple of hours later, and it was gone. It must have flown away because there was no sign of it.
Could that butterfly have been a sign letting me know my cat was alright and on the other side? To this day, I still do not know what could have happened to him and how he just disappeared into thin air. I have to believe that butterfly was for my little cat or perhaps was him communicating with me through the butterfly letting me know he had crossed over and was fine.
I was at furenal today. Was a best friend of my husband. Coworker and friend. My husband talk about him and preach. A Yellow buttery fly up to my face 3 times. Fly to my husband twice. Flew up to the sky.
august 19 i was out in the country picking my favorite fruit(blueberries) i sat down to take a break. a butterfly landed on my boot and wouldnt leave..i finally took picture of it…also in same area. this time landing on my lawnchair and stayed there a long time. what is meaning.??does it matter what color?? sandy email mielkenewton@gmail.com
Hi,i wantef to ask a question,this big lovely butterfly came to visit my house 4 nights in a row,on the 4th night he entered my front door and he died.what does this mean ?i noticed that the butterfly did not fear me.
MY Mother passed away last year due to Cancer. I grieve and miss her daily. Today, I was watching my nephews 7 minute highlight wedding DVD and did not expect to see my Mom on there but I did and lost it. Balled my eyes out and said her name and got the chills as if she was next to me. Not even an hour later I go out and see this butterfly circling around me and on my porch. I had it on my pointy finger, forearm and wrist. It is still here and has been nearly 2 hours now. It lets me get super close.
When it does fly away, it goes up to the roof and back down to chill with me. I have been going through a rough time lately but also missing my Mom even more.
My mom passed on February 23, 2018, now mind you it was FEBRUARY the winter month. A few days later I noticed a Cabbage Butterfly \moth sometimes called a White Cabbage Butterfly, it was on the INSIDE of the kitchen window! I was completely stunned and let it be, A few days later I found it on the window sill where it had died. I since then kept it and plan on getting put in glass. It just seems kind of mind boggling!
My dad just passed away at home a week ago, it was evening as we sat on the porch awaiting the coroner’s arrival. My dad’s passing was unexpected. He and my mom have been married for 57 years. As we sat there holding each other a beautiful butterfly came right up to us and stayed fluttering around. I believe in signs from spirit very strongly. A few days later at a birthday party for my great-nephew another butterfly appeared and landed right in front of my mom and stayed there a moment or two before taking flight, but landing near by and staying until the end of the party. I am an empath, and I am very spiritual. I take heart in believing my loving dad was letting us know he’s near and he’s okay and that he loves his family.
I’ve had the same butterfly for 2 days in a row it is come to me it has landed on me I was painting and it came and landed on my hand and landed on the brush it landed on my shoulder it continued to land on me all day for 2 days The first day I knew they had to be my son coming back to tell me he loved me and I said hey how you doing I love you deonte and I did embrace it I was happy feel with joy as I was painting it stayed on me and never left my side so I know they had to be from heaven and it had to be from my son I lost in 5 years ago and I never dreamed of me but I felt that was him that came to me
My brother who was a great person and loved by a lots of people in our town in the Philippines, he ‘s building a rest house for all of us siblings to get together when we come visit. He celebrated his bday Aug 18th but he got infected bu one of his guest he passed away on the 27th . It was so sudden that our heart are all broken he just turned 61. My uncle who was there most of the time When he was building the rest house visited by a large monarch brown butterfly , it lingers around and landed on his lap and my uncle start telling him not to worry because he will continue to watch his rest house . We will miss my beloved brother so much
I lost my niece in September last year 2 days after I was surrounded by monarchs. Another day I just saw one that stopped in my path it was a mourning cloak. I’ve been seeing and encountering butterflies for awhile I lost my mom in November and my sister in May. Every time I go for a walk I encounter butterflies yesterday one literally flew by hit off my chest and flew away. Another day I saw a white one I was walking by it came from out of nowhere I was walking I thing it struck my foot I didn’t see it. Then it looked like it’s wing was hurt. I reached down and touched it went out in the street but looked like it flew away after. I feel this connection with butterflies. I feel happy and warm inside when I see them. Before my niece passed away in September last year my husband and myself had the most unusual encounter ever. We went for a walk 2 days in a roll in the same spot in the park. And a black and white butterfly kept falling in and out of our path. Everytime we walk a little ways it would be stopped in our path. The next day we went back we both thought about the butterfly but deep down we were wondering if we would see it again. In the same spit it literally drops in our path again. It was amazing. I always wondered what it meant but that butterfly was sending us some kind of message I’m sure if it.
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Just this morning a brown butterfly lang on my cp and in my t-shirt, actually my sister died only 37 days ago, and before she died or the day she died we did not even talk to much, ad she has many plans for the 2 of us and also with my niece, and before butterfly landed on me, have many thoughts what will happen to our plans and plans for our niece. I feel confused about what, and that’s the time butterfly landed on me. I smile and appreciate that she is messaging me that everything will be ok.
I continue to have this black butterfly show up around me..during the day and sometimes at night..it has blue on its back across the wings..it just flows around me..it has landed on me also..when it shows up I always get the feeling to talk to it..not sure why but I do..I had a cousin pass away about 1yr ago 7days after his birthday and it still bothers me when I think of it yet that butterfly makes me think its him telling me I’m good and the rest of them are too..im blessed either way..thanks..
I had a butterfly land on my head yesterday and stayed there for about five minutes finally I took my hat off and it’s stayed on so I tried to let it on my finger and it jumped right up on there, after that I left that moscato in and went all the way across town when I got out of my truck the same butterfly came down and landed on my finger it fluttered around me later that day at work and today I’ve seen it at least two more times and it’s very discintive it’s like it trying to get my attention I believe it my late cousin who was pretty much my sister I’d love to hear your thoughts on this
I have experienced a white butterfly and a colored butterfly. Not they have landed on me but they have been here around me for the past couple of weeks….
My father passed away 4.5 years ago and never got to meet my boys and today at the pool a butterfly landed on my oldest flew off then came back and landed on him again then on me then on my youngest and I believe it was my dad telling
me that he sees us
I just lost my half sister Lisa to Covid 19 in July and this past Saturday we had a celebration of her life. She loved butterflies, so her daughters and son did a butterfly release in honor of her, sense then I have seen a butterfly on occasions, I know its a sign fro. Her.
My mother passed away 6 months ago and today a white butterfly followed me everywhere I went I’d see it flying near me,
My aunt passed in June. My wedding was last week.. after the ceremony we went outside to have a photoshoot and i had a gut feeling and turned and saw a monarch sitting next to us on the ground. I was like no way and it let me pick it up and just fluttered its wings and didnt fly away. I got a whole photoshoot with it. I knew it was my aunt
My yorkie willy passed away last year my heart has been broken ever since a couple weeks ago a brown butterfly a little darker than my willy landed on me only after excitedly greeting me climbed to my hands layed there so I could pet it even let me take a pic because it actually had a little head with my willys eyes I swear then fluttered towards the sky and I looked up and saw an image of my willy up there I never would have believed in such a thing had I not experience it and to boot there was a man’s face as well and it was my cousins boyfriend who also passed last year to let me know he found willy and are together and keeping each other company I also have a pic of the sky to prove that as well so those non believers should open their hearts to the possibility
Iv been going thro a tough time with health for the past yr and lately all I see is butterflies but yesterday in my garden where I stood I look down to see 5 of them just sitting on a flower each. Did take it we had a lot of spirt members visiting and to top it off later on that night a Robin perched on our fence so to me I think someone is trying to tell me something
My mother in law died suddenly last week in my house at my kitchen table with us around her, including my son. She has always worried about him as he is special needs.
Just as I was leaving my house to attend her wake, a butterfly was flying around my back door. It startled me as it was the 1st one to be in my house this year.
At her wake, there was also a butterfly flying between outside the house where people were gathering and into the room where she was laying.
It has been 7 days since she passed and I was at home cooking dinner for the rest of my in laws and the butterfly flew in behind a picture of my son. I have never symbolised the butterfly as spiritual before but this doesn’t feel like it is just coincidence
The guy I was dealing with for the past 6 years has passed away I went to his funeral and then the next day I went to the burial to celebrate his birthday as I am putting 3 white & 5 blue balloons on his grave a beautiful butterfly flies pass my face and Disappear into the trees
I awake in the night to find a large butterfly flying above my head..I wondered had it got in through the window in the day time…I watched the butterfly settle on the ceiling in my dark bedroom with just the hallway light on… As I looked closer at the ceiling from my bed the butterfly then disappeared before my eyes into the ceiling of my bedroom…
I lost my son to suicide March 2020, was that him come to visit .or was it just a dream! Yet it was very real to me
I’m in a difficult twin flame rel, with actually someone I’ve know, and was with briefly, as teenagers. I am spiritual/psychic abilities, but do not know how to use em. I’ve had several psychics tell me, she is my twin flame/soulmate, and our spirits are connected very strongly. Some have even said, what we have, is rare. But it’s hard on me. One of our obstacles, is she is three states away right now. And with the world, the way it is now, and her, pretty much, home schooling her daughter, and me, working 60 hours 6 days a week. I talk to my guides, and her guides and Angel’s, daily. I even know their names. But today, everything got to me. I was breaking down during my lunch, begging them. No longer after I got done, a butterfly flew right next to me, and just sat there, till I got the picture. Then when I turned back, it was gone. There was another time, bout a month ago. I came home from work, after a confusing day with her. Once again, begging them for answers. Has soon as I got done. I look at my TV. There was foggy windows, with writing on em. One clip said, ” we hear you “. Next said, ” you can do this”, and the last one said, ” hope.” My one regular psychic told me, I am very connected to mine and her guides and angels
My mom passed in July her favorite is butterflies all of her life as long as she’s been my mother ever since she passed in July of 2020 I have seen constant butterflies few have waited on me or walked in my path are landed on my car this morning I was walking my dog and One landed on my shoulder I was scared so I Fleet it off I noticed it was a butterfly since then. Butterfly has not left my hand I know it’s my mother and I feel so peaceful to know that I’m not alone
i have not herd from a close buddy we have talked about this i be a butterfly one day i was sitting in my car windows down thinking about this buddy how it wasn’t normal he didn’t text me back then a yellow butterfly comes in my window lands on my arm scared me there was a couple lady’s standing in front of my car watching i opens the door and the butterfly circles around me goes back inside these lady’s are like wow your a special person i then went hone had a dream my buddy died and next morning i called his son and he had that was the weirdest feeling and i now see these butterfly’s more before the yellow a week before a small black blue one seemed to be after me it was strange i’m sitting in my car today looking a a lg blue black butterfly crying now i think i should go where i’m at that’s maken me upset i don’t know if it’s saying go fly away from here
9/28/2020 5:29 am…. My husband died in the tragic terrorist attacks of 9/11. The days that immediately followed were filled with shock and the unknown. It was three days later, when I stepped outside, only to have the most beautiful, huge butterfly, land on my left shoulder. It remained there, for quite some time, before flying away. This never happened to me before and I have never forgotten that moment in time.
Twice two dragonflies landed on my hands tangled in spider webs which made them difficult to fly.I cut out those webs nd they flied away..these two incidents took place weeks apart..does this mean anything..Because my boyfriend has died 2 years back, nd i doesnt want to let him go..i even had a dream of him asking me to let go…does this dragonfly incident means the same?
My grandma just passed away Saturday September 26th2020 she came and visited me this morning October 1st2020
Hi Kat so sorry to hear of your loss! I’m sure it’s your Mum. I think they are a message to say they are looking out for you. Blessings and healing for your loss. Take the message that just because they physically aren’t with us anymore they are still with us in spirit I’m sure. See my recent post…
My Mum passed last year on 20 September. On the 25th September a butterfly flew in my bedroom and landed right on my heart. Stayed a while and then flew out again. I found it comforting. The next day my ex spilt up with me. I can’t help but thinking she was telling me it was the best thing that could happen as he was not a nice person. One of the last things she asked me before she passed was whether I was still with him.
Sorry I meant your Grandma not your mum. I’m often speaking to my mums grandchildren who feel their loss too!! Didn’t meant to be insensitive . Sending hugs to you during this very hard time.
Hi Blair, I have just watched a crysalis sit on my desert rose plant and she emerged this morning into a lovely little black and white butterfly. She crawled onto my hand and up my arm before flying away. I felt blessed. I always have lots of tiny butterflies in my front yard where I have some big bushes with lovely mauve flowers. I am just in the process of moving to another town as I have not been happy here. It is a huge decision at my age but a necessary one. I took this little butterfly coming into my life that I was also going through a transformation once again. xx
Hi, today I had a very strange but pretty cool experience with a butterfly. I was waiting outside the school gates to collect my son, few other parents were there as well.
A butterfly just appeared wouldn’t leave me alone lost count how many times it landed on me 🙂 then eventually I decided to put my finger out towards him and he crawled onto it, very weird. Was getting a few looks from parents lol. Any ideas on what this could mean please ?
When my sister passed, I had just returned from her funeral and I went to work. I was sitting outside on a break and a beautiful butterfly landed on my jeans. Stayed there for a very long time, I got up and walked around he continued to stay on my jeans. I finally had to go back in to work so I shook the butterfly off. I felt like it was my sister telling me she was ok.
My beautiful mom passed away unexpectedly this past June of a massive heart attack. We were celebrating her 90 th birthday from Friday afternoon until late Saturday night . No one believed she was 90 because she danced, sang, played cornhole for literally 36 hrs straight . Totally independent but on Sunday morning in my hotel room suffered a massive heart attack . We were devastated. I have been coping ok but I just had a meltdown looking at videos ( October) Sitting by myself , a white butterfly flew by my face I am very open to signs and it was truly comforting
I lost my pup today, it was heart breaking I had to bury her and a couple of hours latter i went to check up on her, next think I notice is there’s a lot of butterflies around her grave.
Hi… was out shopping in a mall, a butterfly circled landed in front of me the flew around my head then landed on my hand and it stayed there for at least 10 seconds… feeling of immediate calm and love xxxx thank you butterfly xxx❤️
I was in awe when a blue and black butterfly was circling around me as I sat on our back porch. I was able to get a many video and pictures of the beauty as I held it. Yes, I noticed It was playing with me, and allowed me to pick it up. The beautiful presentation stayed with me for an hour or so. I set her down and picked it up 7 or 8 times. Even when my husband and small Yorkie disturbed the presence it flew around settled beside me and still came back and allowed me to hold it right up to my face. It was not the first time I acknowledged the presence of a butterfly visit, as every August since my Moms passing I one would literally hit me on my arm, face or swirl around me. I loved and cherish every moment. Can’t wait for the next time.
My father died a couple days ago and we noticed that a butterfly is there in the house from the very first day he died… I hope its my father!!
I’ve been having butterflies come into my screen in porch. We leave the door open during the day and close it once it get dark. Yesterday there were 2 Yellow/neon living butterfly, one on the screen aNd on the floor the other one had died. Today 2 more came but they were orange with white spots and both were on the screen. I recently placed lantana plants near the door was thinking that might have attracted them. Tonight they are still in there. One is on the screen and the other one is at the base of the door to go into house. They are absolutely BEAUTIFUL.
My boyfriend recently passed away by my side during his sleep. When I woke up and performed CPR before paramedics came I went outside after they finished and I seen a white butterfly leave my house to a car in front parked. I remember crying and feeling every emotion possible until I seen the white butterfly and just stared at it. I felt deep down in my heart it was my love leaving to somewhere beyond my reach. I seen it again about a week later circle around my dog which he loved her so much. I only seen it twice until recently I saw it again circling my backyard when my dog was in the back. I don’t see them often. Before he left I’d see it every once in a while especially if I had been feeling stressed and I always liked to think it was my great grandparents keeping an eye on me. It gives me comfort thinking they might’ve been there the day of his passing to help him onto the other side for me even if he had never met them. I don’t think white butterflies are the only signs loved ones can give us but when I do catch a glimpse of it I can’t help but feel as if I’m being hugged. I see orange butterflies every time I visit him as well. I haven’t tried searching up a meaning for everything I see because I know it’s something only I will feel deep down and believe since after all it’s a message for just myself not everyone around me.
was in the backyard talking about my daughter Jennifer and out of no where 2 orange Butterflies appeared the looked wet and very shiny they came off my lawn tractor..and flew away..they were twins same size and identical
A butterfly has been stationed outside my screen door going on 3 hours now, where I live in Hawaii. First with wings completely spread out for 2 hrs, now with wings closed. It’s still here on the outside of my screen door. I’ve been talking to it. Strange thing is, I first noticed it at 11:30pm at night! I don’t want to go to sleep or for the butterfly to leave. Any thoughts or insights on this would be so appreciated. Thank you!
So iv had a lot of death in my family in the last few years and Iv just had a new born baby. Our first night home after being released from hospital (in the middle of October may I add) there is a butterfly flying around my house and landed on me! The minute I saw it I knew it was a sign from one of our loved ones up there
I am here researching as I saw a butterfly at entrance to my apartment door, it has been there from last night and it’s still there right now. I have been going through a rough patch in my life recently and I am been trying to make changes-positive changes that is. I just can’t help but wonder if this is my sign. It’s colors are white and earth tone brown.
My boyfriend passed away in august he wanted me to met his mom and his sister well today on my way to meet his sister I kept seeing butterflies everywhere even on my way home I never knew the meaning of it his sister said that it means new life he was my soulmate I still love him
A butterfly arrived on Friday. I am going through the worst part of my life with impending hearing court notice which just arrived the previous day relating to my Ex. The Friday morning things got worse. I noticed the Butterfly that night in my kitchen. The next day, Halloween, yesterday, was my late fathers birthday. I lit a candle for him and the butterfly was sitting on the counter top just flapping his wings. I started to cry and it then crawled on to my hand and stared straight at me. He stayed there for minutes not seconds. The butterfly by the way is the beautiful orange one and I suddenly thought it looked like the orange of Halloween. (My late father’s birthday) this morning our lovely butterfly is still with us in the kitchen. It sat with me on the counter while I had my coffee. My dad and I are/were coffee fans and always he used to discuss with me the various beans and roasts as we used to have coffee. I know it sounds mad but I think this is quite spiritual!!
My parenta passed my mum 3 years ago my dad a few months im 31 now and gone threw so much change..
There was a butterly yellow and black that came up to me out of no where when i was weeding i put it on my hand and its been on my arm now for almost 30 minutes… Im beyond spechless.
My Mom passed away in April 2020 and a few months after I started seeing this huge orange and black butterfly. It would dart from behind a building whenever I stepped outside at work. At first I thought maybe it’s just a coincidence because it was always in the same place. Then I saw it in front of my house. One time I was talking to my aunt and as mentioned my Mom’s name the butterfly slowly fluttered in front of my car in traffic. On her birthday after trying to figure out what tattoo to get in her honor I chose a caterpillar on a branch which became a butterfly. On my way to get the tattoo I was in traffic on the highway and the butterfly fluttered by my windscreen. But what happened next was amazing. Up until then no one else had ever see this butterfly besides me and whenever I tried to take a picture or video it would dart away. While getting the tattoo done we took 2 breaks. During both breaks I was asked what tattoo I was getting and why and as I was explaining the butterfly appeared behind me and I said look there she is. The second time one guy remarked that he couldn’t see where the butterfly flew to it had just vanished as quickly as it had appeared. These are just a few of the visitations I have had from my Mom. I know for sure that this is my Mom connecting to me and showing me that she will always be here with me.
Hi I lost my dad 2 years ago and my mum 10 years ago
It’s nearly the end of November and its nine at night sitting in bed watching t.v a brown butterfly is flying arounaround my room
After my cousin passed on about 2 years ago, I was very sad and depressed. He was more like my brother he was a brother to me and we had been very close all of our lives. One day I was laying in my bed crying when my eyes focused on what appeared to be a luminous butterfly. It was fluttering near my closet and then flew directly over my bed near my ceiling fan. It was clearly a white luminous butterfly. It only stayed for 30 seconds or so but I instantly knew who this was, He was letting me know he was ok, and from that day on I have felt relief and gratification because I have been blessed enough to witness his transformation. I still cry a little because I miss him. I’m so glad he reached out to me from another realm.
I was out cycling yesterday with my partner. We were cycling side by side and this butterfly flew along in front of us for about 3 minutes and then went on ahead and circled around us. I said to my partner I think we have a soul flying with us . That afternoon I had a message to say my friend had died at the time I saw the butterfly. My dear Rosie had come to say goodbye.
In our school at 3rd floor always more than 10 butterflies dies every day and it’s really strange for me as I also feel something unnatural so many times over there .. so is it really true or just my imagination?
When my Dad past away my sister and I had white butterflies around us. We spread his ashes on Saturday and there was a blue butterfly flying around us all. ❤️
I just buried my 15 year old dog yesterday. When I sat down to rest and take in the moment after finishing a small yellow butterfly came out of nowhere and flew in front of me making its presence known. Its late November in Ohio and had our first frost that morning. There was no reason for that butterfly to be around that time of year.
When my aunt passed away I was still pretty young and my mom told me that the butterflies were my my aunt saying hello. My mom passed four years ago and this summer whenever I went out to water the flowers this white butterfly is Always there or comes while I’m out there .
My neighbour passed away last weekend and myself and my deceased partners daughter were in the wake room when all of a sudden this butterfly appeared and kept flying around us and the corpse I believe it was my partner cos his good buddy had died and he was glad to see his daughter and me were getting on am I crazy
My brother passed on November 20, 2020. The day after his death, I was out in my front yard and all of a sudden this strange green butterfly showed up. It kept flying around me and when I said to the butterfly “Eric is that you and it flew up in the air and came back and just stayed right there close to me for several minutes. On Thanksgiving day it showed up again at my daughter’s house. I totally appreciated seeing the butterfly so much knowing that he is now free of all the pain and worry. This was the first time for me to see a butterfly. I have saw birds before never a butterfly. It gave me so much comfort to know that he is alright and free to be.
Hi Blair,
A story about butterflies…. About 12 years go my mom was in failing health and in the hospital. We knew it wouldn’t be too much longer so we talked about her sending me a sign that she was ok and out of pain when she passed. I told her I wanted a yellow butterfly (I think I chose yellow because they aren’t that common here). And further, I told her I didn’t just want to see the butterfly, it had to do something so I knew it was her. Over the next few days, I reminded her by saying “yellow butterfly” and she would smile and nod at me. Two weeks later she passed away. I was sad, but relieved for her because she had been in so much pain for a long time.
Fast forward to two months later, with still no sign. I was at the Renaissance Faire – lots of people all around and lots of noise. As I wandered in the crowd I looked down and saw that a butterfly had landed on my hand. Its wings were folded up. I saw it was brown so I said to it how pretty it was but it wasn’t the yellow butterfly we had agreed to. Just then, it opened its wings to reveal beautiful bright patches of yellow. I knew it was my mom, saying “ha ha fooled ya. It’s me!” I started crying and someone approached me and asked if I was ok. At that point, the butterfly flew away. I told that nice person I was ok and headed off into the crowd. I had gone about 100′ when I saw out of the corner of my eye a movement. The butterfly flew back and landed on my hand AGAIN!. it slowly opened and closed its wings a few times then flew away. I smiled and knew my mom was ok.
P.S. And thank you for the reading two weeks ago. She came through for me. She was the one who kept trying to hug you and talk about her knitting.
Sometimes I am surrounded by butterflies and they follow me. Since I was a child the butterfly was always easy to touch or hold.
Oh yes butterfly s I camp all spring and summer each yr I always have butterflies come by and visit and I usually know who it is , my dad incourgeing me to keep going, an doing good deeds..follow my gut.
Can someone help me interpret this dream please. The love of my life, father of my child passed away. I believe he visited me because the dream was so real, I felt him, smelled him, felt his touch, in the dream he walked with me in his apartment and just indicating what his important and what wasn’t in the apartment. He then took me to our daughters room and spoke about her and what I needed to do with her. He then took me to the washroom and pointed at his wisdom teeth that were pulled out years ago and he kept for his own pleasure I suppose, and his gold crown teeth, and a butterfly that was in the sink. He then gripped my shoulder and looked at me through the mirror. I asked about the butterfly and he painted at the items again, and walked out of the washroom and was gone.
Thy you for sharing this.I loss my husband. Of 35yrs be 4 yrs coming up on June 12th miss him so much.
My step-dad told me he would send me a sign. My mom and my sisters and me went back to the grave site the next day. It was sprinkling rain all around us except for his grave. There was a beautiful ray of sunshine over his grave. Then minutes later a beautiful yellow butterfly joined us and was just flittering around us. I know that was a sign because he knew I loved butterflies and had a collection of them. That really was amazing.
When having my husbands celebration of life in 2016. 8 months after his transition to the spirit world. Two butterflies hovered around our gathering for almost an hour. They landed on myself and our daughters I knew he was with us and our friends that day. I still keep an eye out for his signs. He is loved and missed everyday.
I lost my beautiful daughter 51 days ago, butterflies have been moving arround but today, there is a very big unique buttefly on the window, not moving, we have never seen this kind wings are like leaves.
The father of my 2 children, the only man I’ve ever loved and spent the most of my adult life with, tragically took his life a month ago. While I was at the tangi (funeral) for him, I was walking up some outside stairs and a monarch butterfly came fluttering right past my face, circled around me then flew away…. in that moment I was encased in a feeling of warmth, and the emotion struck me hard as I began to choke and weep…. I remember the moment, and the feeling…. and perhaps it is just coincidence, but I know it was him, deep down.
A year after my son passed we had an opportunity to go to Brazil. My husband and I went on a back trip to view some Falls. I was suffering from a lung condition so I could not walk as fast as my husband could and was staying back aways from everyone as I was walking slower. We stopped to view these not seen as much falls at Igazu Falls. While I was struggling to walk and breath a beautiful Green butterfly landed on me and stayed with me for what seemed like a long time before flying off. I always thought that this was my son his favorite color was always green.
My cousin passed away March 6th 2021. Her funeral was March 20th 2021. Later on that evening my cousins and myself gathered together at my cousins mother’s house. We laughed, we danced and we shared great memories about my cousin then all of a sudden while my cousins daughter was video recording us singing and dancing when she noticed a blue moth or butterfly like figure floating in the video, when it stopped she was in awww and showed us the video and sure enough that’s exactly what it was her way of showing us she’s always been with us.
My late husband was a o er the road truck driver, when he would come home late he would rub my leg to wake me up. After his death one night, I was woken up by someone rubbing my leg, I woke up no one was there. I told my late husband you scared me to death, lol I know he is watching over me.
My mum died in2002 and at her funeral, a white butterfly landed on my arm. I am still blown away by this and if it hadn’t happened to me, I would have been very sceptical about butterfly stories.
I was at a funeral yesterday, and before we went into the crematorium a butterfly was actually fluttering in front of my face as if trying to get my attention, it then sat on my arm .
I had a phenomenal experience this week. As I was pondering a question, a butterfly landed on my head. I laughed, thought neat. This butterfly landed on my head specific by my forehead min 12x. At one point, I stood still & the butterfly walked across my hairline for approx 2-3 min. It was unbelievable , I could feel it’s feet moving & the beating of its wings. Anyone ever heard of that many butterflies within a hour or so landing on you & what can so many mean???? Once is amazing already but 12 TIMES!!!!!!!
Well a butterfly flew up the ailse hovering above our little boys coffin. Then about 4mnts later when I pregnant one landed on my arm and stayed for a while. Last summer the same thing happened.
Hi, I lost my son to suicide last year 2020.. He had lived with me for many years and had a few mental health issues but unfortunately he wasn’t able to talk about it or get help… He hated his life after we both had gone through really bad domestic violence when he was little. One day we had a big argument and I asked him to move out, i was trying to give him some tuff love in the hope of him trying to get some help for himself but unfortunately it backfired and he ended his life… He left a suicide letter telling me what a wonderful mum I was and not to blame myself because it was something he always wanted to do… He believed he had 50% of his fathers traits and 50% mine. I blamed myself for telling him to leave and still have trouble forgiving myself for telling him to leave.. Abouut 6 months ago I awoke in the night to see a very large brown butterfly fluttering above my bed; I thought it might I came through the window in the day time while my window was open.. I was just about to just out of bed in the hope of letting out my window and it then settled on the bedroom ceiling about my head but then suddenly disappeared before my eyes! It was so amazing… was it my son?
I seem to have some kind of a connection to dragonflies. After my son passed away I see them everywhere. I have had 2 special interactions with them. Once when a particularly beautiful one landed on my hand…. and hung out for about 3 minutes…. I had an instant “gut” feeling. Another time in my garden, a smaller one was darting and weaving and then hovered, eye level, 3 feet in front of me for about 30 seconds….it was a very memorable moment.
My husband, John. who died 9 years ago, had in our first year of marriage given me a very special pin – a special blue speckled butterfly on silver. In December, a month after his death, I was in Key West with my son and we were at a Butterly ? sanctuary. Butterflies were all around. Suddenly I saw a butterfly fly over to a bush where we were standing. He “alighted” (sp?) and just sat, without moving, right in front of us. A woman remarked that this type butterfly is always fluttering and never “sits” still. But this butterfly was identical to the pin my husband had given me years before!!!!! I know IT was my husband. He stayed quite awhile. It was such a precious and joyous few minutes. Even my son who is really not a believer – he’s a Math Prof/ Phyhsics at Indiana Univ., had no explanation. Was so glad to read this article on butterflies I BELIEVE. THANKS SO MUCH Blair!! I do believe in”visitations”, even a few from my father who died when I was 10 years old, quite suddenly. Al unexplainable. Keep up the wonderful work – you are helping we that are left behind so very very much.
My sister as a child loved to collect butterflies and fireflies. We shared a room together She was seven years younger. One evening we let the fireflies out of the jar and they clung to the curtains. It was magical. She has been gone 12 years now and I know on my walks and bike rides when butterflies appear, I know she is with me and I thank her for joining me.
The day my beloved grandpa died a white butterfly was flying in the flowers at my house. I went up to the butterfly and it flew into my hands for a few seconds and I said “ Grandpa” and it flew away. It was such a beautiful moment in my life! I didn’t know much about butterflies at the time but I knew it was him. Whenever I’m in need I see a yellow butterfly now.
I have been seeing this black butterfly with beautiful blue markings on the edge of its wings for the past three years. My husband died almost 4 years ago. This butterfly is in my yard and walks in the ground in addition to flying. This morning I went out on my deck and that butterfly was dead on my deck. What does that mean?
My son passed away on February 3, 2019 at the young age of 39 of cancer that spring we are at his house getting it ready to put up for sale and was doing the yardwork when I saw monarch butterfly and I called to it it stayed right where it was and it let me continuously pet his wings never flew away away, Approximately an hour if not more I was working around the outside of the house and came back to the front in a different place there was another monarch butterfly and I walked up to it and again it let me pet its wings and after minute or so it flew and touched me on my elbow and on the top of my arm and flew away and I have no idea if it would’ve been the same butterfly after all that time but it sure amazed me I was at my sons house working and I think he was watching me working it was an awesome feeling and put no doubt in my mind that there are butterflies that are angels ❤️
Had a dragon fly fellow me all over my yard the other day I took it as a sign .
My daughter died on July 16th 2022 and I went over my other daughter’s house one afternoon and we saw a beautiful blue dragonfly that was the color of my daughter’s eyes I swear it with her or a sign would that be true?
I have one distinct sign and did not know the true meaning but in my soul I knew it was a sign from my late husband who had past maybe one month earlier. I was cooking in my daughters kitchen as I was getting away from my home and all the stress of his passing. As I was cooking somehow my eye caught a black feather sitting just as plain as day on her kitchen counter top. I picked it up in fascination and instantly knew he was sending me a sign. Although I am not certain what a black feather honestly means I felt he was letting me know something. I put this rather large black feather into a sandwich baggy and I carry it with me in my pocket book every where I go. I see butterflies and had a strange encounter with a humming bird but this feather stays close to me.
Yes, I just did after praying and crying for two weeks after my Mom passing and begging she will give me a sign that I know she is safe and sound….and She did! One morning I woke up and while eating breakfast stared at the patio door…all the sudden I saw a beautiful black swallowtail butterfly flying and landing on my dill plant….I right away felt the elation in my heart…I normally don’t see butterflies on my patio…and eating dill? I opened the door and thought it was going to be scared of me but instead it flew towards me and circled me around like wanted to land on me…but I shrugged a little since I was always afraid of any flying creatures …and it went again on a dill eating it…and then it flew away…high and over the fence…And I was so stunned and so happy…I just knew it was Her..My Mama… a dill was very significant…My Mama made the best dill pickle soup! My favourite soup that she always made for me when I went to visit Her. It was so meaningful! Nobody else in the world would know that, but Her. I was at peace. I was crying now with tears of happiness…I never knew about butterflies being a sign from the loved ones until now…my Dad came to me as a Cardinal on His Birthday…same thing..sitting on the patio chair and starring at me eating breakfast as I was thinking about His Birthday.. it was unbelievable….I feel so blessed that both of them are my Angels…can’t wait to see them again…
I have just started seeing white butterflies from my mom, who passed when I was 11, I am now 63! I see dragonflies from my stepmom.
Three weeks ago my daughters dog Wrigley got hit by a car and died. He was like my own because I always dog sat her dags for her. This past weekend I had her other dogs. I went swimming In my pool for the first time without Wrigley. He loved for me to go swimming so I could splash water at them. I started crying because I miss him. All of a sudden a orange butterfly stared flying around me for like five minutes then landed by my sandals then flew off. Was it a sign him saying he was ok?
I was in a coma and on my death bed, white butterflies darted at my window the whole 7 days I was in my coma. The day I woke up the butterflies were gone. I never seen the butterflies but my whole family did. Needless to say I was only in the hospital for a week after that and home and healthy I went!!
A brown butterfly landed on my mom’s favorite tree and i approached and was able to caress the wings and didn’t fly away till i stopped caressing it. Flew around me a few times and then left
I have been so full of worry about this new and stronger virus hitting the Houston area. Worry about my love one my sons and myself. If the shoots we have had will protect us. We’ll today as I was pulling out nuts for the squrails a red carnal bird landed in a tree over my head and seen to get closer to me long enough for me to snap a potho. Then shortly after it flee away. I was walking my trash out to the road. When I notice a bright orange butterfly flying around me landed by my feet. I dent down and put my hand out and it got on my hand .I was able to bring it up closer to my face for a better look. I said thank you. Feeling in my heart it was a sign from heaven telling me that all is good and for me not to worry so much we will be fine and will get tought it as we have already.
My husband’s father passed away this past year. We were away at the time, but luckily we were together with his family at the time. When we arrived home 2 days later, a large black butterfly came to our backyard. As we watched it flutter about, he landed on my husband’s finger. Then along came a white butterfly and danced around my husband. My husband said without a doubt in his mind, my Dad’s fine. He’s with my Mom and he just told me he’s fine. For the next couple of days, the black butterfly appeared and landed on each of our children’s fingers as if he was saying goodbye to them all. It was pretty magical.
I noticed since i started my daily rosary i would see a butterfly near me sometimes it follows me. I feel that my spiritual awakening has something to do with it.
My brother has been missing for 20 years. When I was out searching for him on some land with cadaver dogs I had a brown butterfly land on my right hand and stay there for 5-10 minutes!! I took pictures of it and honestly I felt like I would find him but we didn’t. Was it him telling me that he is out there? Or I’m I over thinking it?
I LOVE FOR THE BUTTERFLIES TO COME AROUND ME.I FEEL A PEACE AND CALM,THAT I CAN’T UNDERSTAND.BUT I KNOW THAT I LOVE THIS FEELING.,AND THE VERY SMALL WHITE FEATHER ,I FEEL IS FROM MY SON.TELLING ME HE IS HAPPY. NO MORE PAIN,AND HE LOVES ME.
My love and I were golfers. A butterfly landed on my left shoulder and stayed with me for two or three holes. It made me so happy
Butterfly’s were all around us on my moms back deck when I got there and the neighbor who found her and wouldn’t let me see her like that he said. I went to the back deck and started making the phone calls about 10 in all. 1 then 3 then looked like 10 flying all around the deck and us the entire time we were there. Which was hours because it was a death at home, polic, sherif, ambulance, detective and coroner. Went all through the house. Butterflies were so calming. I think it was a lot of relatives who were letting us know she was with them
3.30am I just received a phone call that my dear aunt had passed away at approximately 2 am . While upset and talking from being woken from my sleep something landed on my face. I thought it was a spider I shot out of bed and my automatic reaction was i shouted to my husband somethings landed on Me I shook my head vigorously and put the light on and could not believe that a white butterfly was on my bed . I do believe thus was a sign from the spirit world .
Early this morning I asked God to give me some little sign that my Mama’s spirit is still here or close by as our house seemed kind of empty and I was missing her and seeing her glasses and jewelry on my dresser. Just now I took my sick dog out to walk in the backyard in the rain with my umbrella. Suddenly a huge bright yellow ( with some orange) Butterfly flew right up to me and I sort of jumped back. It flew in some large circles and flew back up to me then I walked the dog back inside.. all the while saying , “ Hi Mama” and having a tremendous Happy Feeling that Mom came to tell me she Loved me and was still in my heart. God answered my prayer within about 2 hours…and, I have never seen a butterfly in that backyard!!
I saw a green butterfly today it stayed for some time flying in front of me lost my brother 4th June from suicide ishe around me
My fiancé was murdered a week ago. I was sitting on my porch this morning and noticed a hurt butterfly in the neighbors yard. I went inside and came back out to smoke 30 minutes later and it had walked over to my porch close to where I sit. I think it was a sign from him. Am I crazy?
I had several butterflies come to my kitchen window at once and I never thought of anything about butterflies before but my husband passed in the first thought I had was that was my husband
I had several butterflies come to my kitchen window at once , and I never thought of anything , about butterflies before, but my husband passed and Rescue Bots the first thought I had was that my husband Steve , how awesome thank you
My husband died in gambia he was liberian he always said we would die together black butterflies came to my mouth I grabbed them they was wanting to leave my hand went to the closed window and vanished I had taro cards read & geld a precious stone shut my eyes it shown me a field of dandelions at the end of a tunnel like with stoney Road & yellow walls
I’m 28 years old I currently Live in Moreno Valley ca. My name is Jacobcosato. And I’ve been going through hell on earth since I was born and I’m not Over exaggerating on this statement. I’ve always asked god why me, everytime. Currently my family was torn apart because of cps lying in official court documents to take my brothers away from the home. And now my mom and her boyfriend ( Christina Rivera and micheal macliz ) are facing two life sentences…
For a crime they did not do, and I became consumed of my pain and became homeless in my car on drugs really bad…. where my family and friends turned there backs on me and only talked gossip to the world of a even worse image of me… I’ve never had friends to look to nor family only me to we’re I’ve came to a state of mind of I wanna know who I am and why I’m alive because all my life I was doomed of my happiness… since a child I’ve felt spiritual and since a child I’ve been judged for how I look.
I have nothing in my life or no one but the women I love and the kids she gave me and I’ve came a long was from wanting to burn my car with me inside of it, the hopeless nights of crying and feeling abandoned that researching why we exist became my focus… and yesterday I got out the shower and told my girl to come look at my hand, the palm of my hand inside of it almost in the direct middle on the left of a line of my palm was a very small penny size butterfly that you had to see in a good light setting. A actual butterfly that someone seeing cannot deny. Which my girlfriend didn’t deny she seen it. And my first gut feeling was that even though no one around me can appreciate my growth or all I’ve been thru just to say I’m bettering my self, someone seen it. Cause without Hesitation I felt inside that it was because of my transformation and change that I’m dealing with inside of me that’s internal and very deeply connected to me… so yes it made me emotional to know I’ve never seen this on my hand and to see it, today as I write this, it’s no longer in my palm. And I’ve had a really bad day but made the best of it to know not walking backwards or getting back into old ways cause the stress of today made me wanna go back to addiction but for some reason I have not left to do so…. just thought I’d share this cause no one else around me cares to listen without judging it…. thank you
Good morning Blair,
I really want you to know that I enjoyed reading your article. I have always been on the fence 50/50 in the spiritual realm of butterflies. I have lost a lot of people in my lifetime and I never really paid attention to butterflies. But a couple years ago my mom and my mother-in-law both died within three weeks apart. I started looking for different signs and a lot of times I would find dimes two dimes together and I found it very strange. But not really butterflies just a couple. It’s been one month and two days since my husband passed away and the third day of his passing I had to run to U-Haul to move some of our belongings because we were moving during this time. The minute I rented the U-Haul and I jumped up and I sat in the seat a butterfly came along and landed right on top of my hand. Well then when you mention the meaning of a butterfly landing on you.Seeing a butterfly is one thing, but to have one land on you… That’s a sure sign it’s a message from the heavenly realm.
Most of the time the message from your deceased loved one is very simple: “I am alive and well and have not forgotten you. I love you.” it made me really cry such a happy cry though I wasn’t sad at all and I’m glad that he hasn’t forgotten about me.
Then you started mentioning the color of a white butterfly and the meaning of it in Japan ironically I am Japanese, and I came to the United States from Japan at the age of 12 and that’s when I met my husband that deceased now. Obviously we didn’t get married when we were 12. LOL but we always stayed in contact with one another and we always had a connection. So that white butterfly saving it could be his soul, perhaps it’s true because we always said whoever dies first has to come back and tell us that there is something on the other side better than here. I want to thank you for writing this article. I am not 100% a believer but I’m more than 50/50 now. I would really love to talk to a medium and I just don’t know how to go about it. If you can give me some advice I would really appreciate it. Thank you once again and that’s my story
Landing on you certainly drives that message home!
Ah well i just vented to my girlfriend about how my life was getting harder and a white/blueish butterfly flew in my window and landed on my nose.
The shock was big enough here. But it gets better. I was venting about how my family never noticed me and i wanted change. I googled what a butterfly symbolises and to my surprise it said:”spiritual rebirth, transformation, change, hope and life.”
Back to the butterfly. It started flying to my wall but when I turned around i only saw a little dust in the air. The butterfly was completely gone.
Maybe i should give up just yet 🙂
Oh most definitely
When my father passed I went and spoke with a Christian counselor.. she told me not to be afraid to ask God for something pacific…
So one morning I was praying & asked for a Blue & Black butterfly… I went on carrying out my daily routines around the house…then I was going to meet a relative for lunch.. I went out the back door.. something flew in my way.. I turned & it was my Blue & Black Butterfly ❤️
It landed on the brick wall & stayed quite awhile.. so long I actually got a chair & pulled it up & sat there and talked to that Beautiful Butterfly…
I took several pictures .. this has happened on several occasions when Im needing answers or something special has happened..
its actually came up & landed in my seat with me & on another occasion on me!! Yes !!! Theres a God.. & our Loved ones do stay in touch!!!
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Yes I have , right now I am having a hard time keeping my house and the same yellow butterfly appears close to my deck when I am out there flying back and forth in front of my very quickly , flying very low, I hope that’s my mom in heaven , the a couple days later a black and gold butterfly came on the deck and Landon Ed on my parsley pot on my deck with basil that my dad always liked , which he just passed 3 months ago. Could that be him, because above it says death is this a bad sign ?
My partner died 6 months ago unexpectedly. I haven’t felt him around since the first week. I was getting angry and bitter about it and shouting at him for not sending no signs. I’d read so much about ” being open” to messages. Id even read if you want butterflies, ask him for butterflies” so I did, thinking nothing would come of it. Today, I had a bad day, crying my eyes out over him. I was playing his songs and something was telling me to look out of the window. I did….. and white butterflies were everywhere! I’ve lived in my flat 5 years and NEVER noticed them , and I’ve sat in my garden alot. This wasn’t one or two, there were loads. Every direction my eyes drew me to, there were white butterflies. I’ve honestly never felt him so close and I’m a hard nut to crack with believes in afterlife. But I felt him. For half an hour I was in a world of my own and if someone had knocked on the door I wouldn’t of ceased that moment. It was beautiful, magical even. I always see feathers in my path, but I shrug them off. This was different though. This was an hour ago, I’ve stopped my music and the butterflies have gone! My head is back on, but I want more of them moments now and can’t wait. Miss him so bad
My grandmother died a few months ago from covid. I’ve been thinking about her so much especially today. I come home and there’s a beautiful black and blue butterfly circling me as I’m walking in my door, I asked if she was my grandmother and she landed right in front of me and started flapping her little wings rapidly and then started circling me again. I’m taking it as a sign that it’s her.
I lost my dad a couple of years ago and along with my dog a few weeks later. Both were very important to me. Upon my dad’s passing, I was visited on my porch by a beautiful black and yellow butterfly. It was not just a fly-by – it stuck around and provided much peace and reassurance. We are about 4 wks from the anniversary of my dad’s passing and again, the last two days, have been visited by a large black and yellow butterfly. This time it stayed with me for 15 minutes on two back-to-back days, flew around me, landed near me, played with my dogs – it was just amazing. Not sure of what all this means but I do know being a spiritual person – it was a very peaceful feeling and very emotional. It truly felt like it wanted to let me know something – Truly sending me a message.
Hi there, I love your message. I only found your site because today was my Oldest Son’s Birthday. Robert Martin Zoch the IV would have been 34 today but he was taken in a Car accident and Mac truck. I dont know what to say after I just typed it. Well I was at his grave with sitting on the edge of the grave cement platform that was about 4″ about the ground. My right shoulder was pointing to the Headstone and my feet was out in front of me facing a chain link fence with Cows on the other side of that. I had been there awhile to clean up any weeds growing in cracks between cement slab where the slab meets the black rock that decorates the top. I lit his candle and was sitting there as I said and a butterfly came and landed took off flew close landed on my hand. I looked around no other butterfly in sight and was kinda of amazed how it like me and to land on me. So I got my phone out and started filming I was sniffling and a little sad and asked if it was him which made me cry more. So it was still flying around me and landing allover and finally I stopped filming. I have the video to proof it and I started another video because it wasn’t leaving and still was landing all over me. So this is the 2nd video its for over 3 min of that butterfly landing on one of my legs and staying for a min and while that was happening I asked my son if that was him. I decided to finish my visit with him left him a cupcake and water its real hot in Texas and the candle burning.
On the way home I called my friend and told her about the butterfly and she said that means a passed love one is trying to send you a message. I wanted to believe her but I really thought she was trying to make me feel better.
So when I finally got home I looked at the videos. I was amazed at how many times it landed on me and if not landing, flying so close to me where I loose it with my phone camera because its up against me. Okay so During the 2nd video I loose him and move the camera to point behind me because I couldn’t find him. Now again there is not another butterfly in site and its an open cemetery with rolling hills cows, short grass and a church. So i couldn’t find him you see in the video Im searching and decide to put the camera over my shoulder to catch him on video behind me. Anyway I put the camera over my shoulder and around my head and only in the video when I got home did I see he had landed on my shoulder and was sitting there that’s why I couldn’t find him he was on my shoulder until I unfortunately looked for him with my phone and scared him off. Which he still didn’t leave and continued after that to land on me everywhere.
If it is my son acknowledging me he was there Im happy he can be a butterfly and showing me such beauty even from the other side. I shouldn’t say it which means I will, I wish he was able to become a father before a butterfly because I know he would have been a better parent than me. I have the videos if anyone wants to see them. Taken today # is 1min 46 sec and #2 is 3 min 41 sec. besides all the time he flew before and after all the videos. Oh almost forgot one of the most important things is after I watched the videos I searched the meaning of butterflies and if it meant a passed love one was there for you and came to your website 1st and the butterfly on the home page is the exact same butterfly I was visited by. I was there over an 1hr today and I did not see 1 other butterfly of any color except him.
If you have lost part of your heart you are not the only ones.
I had a butterfly sit on my hand for close to a minute and close its wings while on my hand can someone help me figure out the meaning
My mother just passed away 2 months ago. She and I (mainly me because of her health issues) have been planning and organizing our family reunion for the last 12 years. It is a big event & I always do a lot of genealogy research and pictures from the past, etc. on some individual in the family. It could be someone living or someone already deceased. So this year, I did it on my mother. After the reunion is over, myself, mother, daughter, sister, brother in law, and a small handful of people stay after everything is cleaned up & put away & just sit and talk. I knew this would be very difficult for me because mother wouldn’t be there this year. And after the bustle of the reunion is over, it would really hit me hard. While sitting there talking (in an outside shelter), a butterfly flew right between myself and sister, and was so close to my face that for a few seconds I couldn’t tell what it was, a butterfly, bat, etc. and it was very alarming at first It was a big butterfly, so close to my face, then gracefully just kept on flying. Never has this happened before. It was like the butterfly wanted to make sure that I noticed it. Then my cousin said, “that was your mom.” and I knew right away it was true. She let me know she was at the reunion and was with us when we were sitting there talking. It makes me cry and feel happy all at the same time. (previously before the butterfly came thru, we had been talking about my cousin’s deceased mother coming to her when my mother died).
My husband passed away suddenly of an unknown at the time brain tumor. Today I saw this beautiful dark butterfly with blue accents at the edges of the wings.
I was watching it fly and it landed on a lemon tree that was purchased when I purchased my new home after my husband passed. This meant he is proud of me I spoke to him he started to fly but landed back in my yard on a bush and I spoke to him for quite some time he stayed listened and as I spoke I could see the butterfly rest peacefully on the bush. I said Joel If you please lift those beautiful wings and he did. I know he is here and gave me hope and a feeling of love and warmth over my body.
He was my soul mate my love of my life
He and I helped each other grow and I miss him so
But I feel like he shows he’s here it means so much to me
I have been see a lot of butterfly lately and my mother loved them so I knew immediately it was her but a few weeks into seeing them this one spacific brown in color and even though it all brown it’s different colors of brown but these butterfly I keep finding in my pool and I have tried to save them and out of six I have only lost two is there any thing I need to understand about this
Yes., (we my boyfriend and I)a struggling couple have just come to light on our messy journey sitting in the gas station parking lot a beautiful white butterfly crosses our path and we noticed it right away as it danced it’s whimsical dance in front of us in the distance. It was a message much needed from those that have recently passed
One morning I was sitting on the porch with my uncle. A huge monarch being flying circles around him the landed on his leg. I became extremely emotional. Out of my mouth came the words, “That’s grandmother!” He smiled a at me and calmly said “it’s OK.” I did not feel like it was OK. He sent me off to get dressed for our long day of yard work. Later that day in our yard he suffered a massive heart attack and died. After the first part of his funeral we all loaded up in our vehicles to drive to the cemetery. My phone began ringing. Soon everyone in my cars phones were ringing. People were telling us to look out our windows. There were what seemed to be ribbons of tiny yellow butterflies flying along side of my car all of the way to the cemetery.
My grandfather’s funeral was today and just when the urn was supposed to be carried outside a butterfly suddenly fluttered around it and landed on the urn a few times. I have no idea how it got inside the church all of a sudden, but I’d like to believe that that way my grandfather. 🙂
My nephew passed away about 3 years ago at 2 months old today my mom went to leave fresh flowers and a black and yellow butterfly landed on one of the roses I have a feeling is the baby giving us a sign that he’s happy
My grandfather passed a few weeks ago and today has been particularly hard because his birthday is next week and we would normally spend this week cooking together. I sat outside for a little while and, as I was about to go back inside, a butterfly landed on my hand. I took a moment to take it in because it’s such a rare and fleeting thing…. But it stayed with me for several minutes. When it finally flew away, it circled me several times before finally leaving me. It wasn’t until it flew away that I realized that I had lost the lonely/empty feeling that I had come outside with. Such a beautiful thing.
Today I was sitting on a seat overlooking the Firth of Forth in fife but n Scotland
Out of no where a very small butterfly landed on the lapel of my jacket
I pointed it out to my husband who sat closely to me
It sat for a couple of minutes I looked admiringly
At it
Then it got up and flew from left too right
We watched it then soaring straight up higher then higher
Then suddenly we could see it no more
It just evaporated and vanished into thin air
We both were puzzled at its dissapearance!!???
The first year, my Husband passed. My daughter, was in the yard getting it ready for a hurricane, I was at the store, when I came back we were so nervous,, my daughter, came in the house, and said!!Mom, we are going to be ok, Dad was here. I said how do you know? It was pouring out, while she was in the yard, She said in this rain a butterfly landed on my hand. It was him, we made out ok.
I have just found out that I’m pregnant and I noticed last night that there are about 6 butterflies sleeping above my head in my bedroom
I wanted to commit suicide, and I cursed God. I saw a butterfly : he kept coming to the door so I put sugar water out for him. After my dogs ran off I tried to lure them back with a milk bone. I laid the milk one down and the butterfly came and landed on it for about ten minutes so I sat and talked to it.
I’ve a butterfly on the ceiling that’s been there 3 wks what does that mean it’s not moved or anything
My father and grandmother died a year ago. My relationship with my father was extremely broken. We had not spoken in 3 years when he died.. The day he died, I came home from work and cried on my porch for about 5 minutes before I noticed a very large yellow and ack butterfly. Once I noticed it, it started flying around, would land on me and let me touch it. That butterfly stayed on my porch for 4 hours. Fast forward to 3 months ago…I started finding feathers of all colors. Lots of feathers everywhere I went. I have them all in a vase now. This went on for about 3 weeks. Then, I started seeing butterflies and not just the normal amount. LOTS of then. Then they started landing on me when I’d see them. Happened more times than once. One day I saw one fly by and in my mind I said, “oh please come back.” It flew back around and landed above my right ear. Flew around me and landed above my left ear. I have pictures of this. Another day I was at the lake and noticed a lot of small yellow butterflies. I stepped off the boat onto the said and a swarm of them encircled me. Then I started noticing fireflies would fly under my porch very close to me. Happened on more than one occasion. 2 days ago, a firefly flew around me for several minutes. Would land on my legs and when I’d walk, it stayed with me flying around me very close. I have noticed this with other bugs as well. I know all of this sounds crazy but it is really happening and I’m not sure of the meaning. I think I know in my heart but my spiritual side is in conflict with my intellect & logic. The last year I have been in a spiritual awakening but particularly the last 6 months. It has been so strong that I feel I’m going crazy at times. People around me have started to witness it and don’t have an explanation for it either.
I with my parents live in an other country from my family. Before 10 day my cousin passed only my parents move I didn’t move because covid and because I have to take care about my sister . Yesterday my parents come back today we saw a beautiful butterfly we didn’t know what was . At night when we spoke with his family they saw our 4 years old cousin playing with the same butterfly ( at past my cousin was playing with her 4 years old cousin ) . THE GOD IS BIG . I am 17 years old at first I feel very sad because I think that isn’t god and I will never will saw my dear cousin but after this day I will pray every day for God ,my grandfather and my cousin
My mom passed away 14 years ago. Approximately 2 days after her burial while sitting outside on our patio a butterfly landed on my chest and sat there for several minutes. Of course I was startled, immediately thought it was my mother. I felt her spirit.
Next evening, at same time what appeared to be the same butterfly landed on my chest same location.
What a beautiful experience!
Ty…I have a question.
I found a brown/black baby Caterpillar, on my table
On my porch curled up at the foot of a large Male
Angel’s feet.it was under peice of tarp.
How long does a Caterpillar stay Caterpillar, before it changes. It moved close to the feet..and I put a rock to shield it from anything that would harm it.
How long will it stay at that stage.
I don’t know how it got on the table.
My grandmother passed away. We had just finished her service at the cemetery. Out of that whole cemetery, a butterfly landed on the flowers on top of her cassettes! Everyone turned to look, oh its Nanny letting us know she ok, now. It’s ok to let her go…
I know that God’s angels are among us. And, I know that butterfly could have landed anywhere else in that cemetery. But, I know it was her letting us know she was at peace. Especially for me…
Bonnie Anderson
Hello I was at my finance burial a black butterfly flew and landed on a flower we were going to drop in then it flew around us went down in the grave and sat there on the casket a few seconds before flying away, it felt beautiful. What could it mean.
One of our dogs died from cluster sezures on 09/06/21 and we had to burry him, today I was at his grave and there was a Monarch butterfly with only one full wing (the other was shredded) flying around his grave with full control of direction and lift and one thought entered my mind that, even with a damaged/missing wing, it can still live free. And even tho our dog suffered so much before his death (we burned sage over his grave before and after we burryed him, since he suffered so much) I believe this was a small sign that even ones that suffer can still find peace.
Yes my son passed away on Tuesday I saw a butterfly flying around me
Hi I lost my nana two years ago and she has been on my mine a lot lately. I went for a walk today with my son and we seen a orange and black butterfly on the ground and went up to it and it let me put my finger under it and hold it. It just sat there and wouldn’t fly away till I sat it back down.
I lost my wife 2 years ago to breast cancer (52) we both became very spiritual on her 8 years she battled cancer. The messages she has sent since her passing have been amazing. From Dimes, butterflies,dragon Flys.to the most amazing out of body experience that happened to me and my new girlfriend I can definitely tell you when we die we are not gone.
My father unexpectedly passed away last summer and I gave up everything to care for him in his final stage of life. At his funeral, a butterfly landed on my knee as soon as the priest had finished. A year later and I still see butterflies and dragonflies everywhere I go outside. I do live in Florida but I even see them out of season. This morning, after finding out about Gabby Petito, who is from my area and who I have felt a strong connection to through eerie similarities of myself at her age (22) today I have seen butterflies flying in pairs, maybe two dozen as well as many dragonflies. I don’t know what this means but I’m taking these as signs that they are both okay.
In my Dream a large caramel butterfly came to me, it was clearly ill so I fed it with seed then it ended up dying
My sister passed away last year and before she passed away, I asked her what she would come back as and she said a white butterfly
Hi I was in my yard today and a big black butterfly land in my yard I could take my eyes off it because it was do beautiful it then flew towards me them landed in the tree sat there for a while then landed on the sheet on my line but when I said if that’s U Raymond iam glad your ok it started to flap it’s wings and it flew around the yard then land on the grass where I was sitting and then flew away but I felt real sad after that I looked for it but it was gone it was here for about an 1hr ford this mean anything as my daughter’s father just passed a week ago
I had a fascinating experience. For 4 days in a row this very beautiful butterfly flew near me and eventually me realizing it was trying to get my attention. Walked down my deck steps and when I placed my arm out it landed on me. Each day for 4 days straight it has come back. It will fly away and come and land back on my finger. I have never felt so highly vibrational. I feel at peace.
I just seen a brown butterfly. What does it mean?
It was the strangest thing, a friend helped me bury my cat, Siamese, and after we dug and had the box there – but before we added the dirt a butterfly flew past us back and forth, back and forth back and forth about seven times. There were only about two and a half feet between us and a fence and it kept flying back and forth and not touching or going near anything – just between us and the fence. I said look at this butterfly going back and forth and he watched it as it went back and forth and just when I was going to say take a picture it flew away. But we then both said it’s like the cat is saying, I am okay.
I have been married to my beautiful Angel In Heaven DEB for 52 years, She passed away last June.Four weeks after passing A little butter fly landed on my right wrist this orange and black butterfly stayed there for 20 minutes I had my son Adam take a picture of it. I no it was a sign from Jesus or DEB letting me know she was ok and loved me. I truly believe that our love ones can see us from Heaven with the Grace from GOD.This is not the only sign I have had.The picture of the butterfly is now on canvas for proof of what happened.
My husband passed away a year ago very suddenly from a heart attack my whole world was shaken I
Loved him so much we had been married 33 years and he was 56 when he passed. Today I was sat having a few minutes before going to work and a butterfly came from nowhere and landed on my chest so I sat and had a chat to it then got it a drink it was so comforting
My Dad was really sick 5-6 weeks ago. He is retiring in roughly a year or so. He has been the best Father & Human I have ever met in my life. He is a great man. I feel like he deserves many great years for all of the sacrifices he made for myself and my brothers. So when he got really sick out of nowhere, I was very worried & scared for him. I always pray but try not to ask for things. Just be grateful. But, I asked God & my relatives in prayer, to please watch over him & get him through this! Well the next day, I saw this orange & black butterfly & I just got this feeling it was a sign (I only see them once in a great while, I live in a busy city). So I thanked them for the sign. Then pretty much every couple days, I would see one! One even swooped right in front of my face to get my attention when I was at work looking for something in my toolbox at my truck. My Dad is now doing great & is recovering quickly & almost back to his normal self! Well, I haven’t seen them for almost a week or 2. I prayed last night asking for guidance through this job I’m doing, I was really worried about it. So the first day on the job site (which is inside a Dunkin Donuts, I’m a plumber) & someone said, there’s a bird in here (lol I know) well it was a butterfly NOT A BIRD. But there it was, flapping it’s huge orange & black wings in the corner near the drive thru window, then flew out. It just makes me feel that much better & deepens my faith, knowing the other side actually here’s you & answers you when they know you need it the most. This is my first time visiting this website & I usually don’t post things. But I feel that I was supposed to for someone to read it & give them some hope & faith they might be looking for. The signs are there, just ask.
At my father’s funeral, a butterfly appeared at the window & batted & batted on it, right as the pastor was saying if anyone has anything they want to say about Jim…everyone gasped! For about a month after that I saw a butterfly daily. I truly believe it was my father, letting me know he would still always be with me.
Yesterday I had a remembrance of my mother who passed away on 9/2/2021 due to a car accident Wel yesterday I let go of some balloons for her and right after I didn’t see the balloons any more a brown butterfly landed on some Leaves right in front of me the butterfly stared at me for a while like it was asking me to pick it up so I did it didn’t even fly away the butterfly let me put it on my palm out of my hand and it stared at me for a few seconds and then it flew away
I will share today….. I went to my Dad’s grave today crying and full of pain, guilt, and sadness. I sat, I left the flowers, and I cried and cried. I talked to him and told him of my guilt and why, I told him of my pain and sadness and why….. Then as I was drying my eyes I noticed butterflies…. at first just one, then another and another fluttering about, playing on the breeze. It calmed me in a way I cannot explain. It was like my Dad was saying “See, I’m here and I am flying again”.
Sometimes it is the littlest of things that can mean the most but you have to be looking to notice them ❤
My advice: Take a moment every day to look around and notice your “butterflies” ❤ ❤ ❤
9:30 pm my son was throwing trash away in the back and saw caught butterfly to show me how big she was . He let her go and she flew back into the house. Landed near my mothers picture. She has been deceased 8 years . Butterfly was big and colorful.
My boy pass away 4 months ago now I experienced so many sign but this butterfly bothers me because wakes me up every morning that flying on my face my bedroom is closed I don’t know, how can came in itself.
I have to sisters that passed away one passed away at 3 months old in 2001 and the other past away a day old in 2008 because of my biological parents but now I’m adopted but I was at camp and umm I’ve been having a hard time at camp because I was thinking about my sisters and then these two butterflies landed on me and my brothers. So now I’m getting a tattoo of them but the butterflies wouldn’t leave us alone and I felt weird after that happened well I felt different I cant explain it just so you know I’ve never had a butterfly land on me before till then
It was in the middle of the winter and I was thinking about my dead brother and there appeared a white butterfly. I felt do much better knowing he was saying it’s going to be alright.
my friend recently passed away, i had this reaccuring dream where i was in this place and i ran into her siblings that i went to school. they were making fun of my weight loss and i went into a room and started crying, one of them came to comfort me by sharing an embarrising secret and then the others joined. one of them found a box with a ring in it that had a symbol of an animal and he said the ring use to hurt his finger when he wore it, i then looked down at my finger and i had on a black ring with a outline of a butterfly and i mentioned bringing up an old fued and my hand started turning black. Can you tell me what that mean?
My Dad died last year because of an accident and wasn’t able to say his goodbyes to us. Today is All Saint’s Day and my Mom’s 79th Birthday. While we are gathering for lunch to celebrate my mom’s birthday, a butterfly just went inside our house and landed on top of my mom’s forehead. I believe it’s my Dad because my mom really missed him a lot and it was difficult to celebrate special occasions like birthdays without him.
Here I am nov 1st 2021. I had to search why today was the second day I see a monarch butterfly. I don’t really remember ever coming across one in my lifetime, so when I saw the butterfly the day before I got super excited and felt so much happiness and a sense of relief. I came outside today for some air and there it was again. The joy and relief I felt once again
I am Customs Officer and work at Malta’s airport. My office is quite far from the airport doors and windows. On the second of November, exactly the date of all souls day, a butterfly somehow managed to enter the office and came directly on me. I was astonished as this has never happened.
I went into a different office of ours in the arrivals, and the butterfly did not want to leave from my hand, I had to blow on it for it to eventually fly off.
I have pictures and a video of it 🙂
We just buried my darling family dog Boof and we where all heartbroken , and just half an hour after we had put flowers in the soil their was a white butterfly hovering on the flower and I thought I was seeing things untill mum seen it when I was in another room . Later on when we needed to dampen and water .. I was watching my mother breakdown out the back while I was breaking down at the back window we looked at eachother in tears at the same time and then what looked like the exact same white butterfly and( my gut knew it was when I had goosebumps ) fluttered around my mum fast twice and I yelled the butterfly ! And it came right up and flew , futtered fast past my face up qt the window and I felt my dog , many people might not understand that we loved our dog Boof like a human and this was an amazing sign alone , and we went for a drive abit after and the sunshine was shining through the clouds as if the heavens gates where open , and im not a religious person but I definetly believe in God and and spirituality and this meant the universe to us all , normally im not one to share my life but this was something I felt I needed too , thankyou for this site and please share yours alswell as we need positive moments like these to help us and so on .. 2-11-21 R.I.P Boof . My heart is with you forever my Boy ❤
P.s condolences to anybody else , I know how much it hurts
I lost my 2 beautiful dogs to old age few years ago.I felt so lose without them they were my word.I have had a black with red bits on butterfly in my house for 2 days.is it a message or a sign?please
I just got engaged and I was nervous to show everyone the ring. And then a butterfly came next to us. Flapping its wings. It came right to us. My grandma passed away a month ago and she said she would come in a butterfly but idk
Hi Blair’s, two days after my mom passed a bunch of mourning cloak cattapillers appeared inside her breezeway that was enclosed and inside Her garage. We looked them up to see what kind of butterfly they would turn into and it said morning cloak which is associated with one that is in the morning when someone passes. We later after that kept saying morning clock butterflies it was very strange that became a symbol for my mom it was a beautiful experience.
My boyfriend of 7 years passed 5 weeks ago. Today I returned items to his employment and went to place fall flowers on his parents grave & a flag for Veteran’s Day. We often did this together here and on my son’s grave. While I was sitting there praying I looked up & a beautiful butterfly landed on the edge of their stone and sat there for minutes until I tried to pick it up. Flew off. It’s cool here and butterflies have been long gone. I felt it was him thanking me & a hug from Heaven ❤️
I had a butterfly enter my home late Friday night. It now Sunday morningits been here ever since just perched on top of my fridge I just wondering do I remove it or just leave it and maybe it let’s it self out. I don’t believe it a message from a loved one but not sure which one my first thought it my daughter who died two years ago and her birthday was recentily
My husband of 39 years died very suddenly in July 2021. I’m having a hard time in coming to terms with this, not just the suddenness but the fact there were unresolved issues in the early marriage which we needed to speak about but never did, not knowing time was running out. Since then various odd things have happened which I have put down to my mind trying to comfort itself. This morning was very strange a huge butterfly appeared in my bedroom – never known before in November – I hadn’t had any windows or doors open so I don’t know where it came from. It made quite a lot of noise on the inside window and I eventually managed to get it in a jar and release it outside. How unusual is this? My husband did not believe in life after death.
Tomorrow is the first anniversary of my husband’s death. He was a larger-than-life personality. An hour ago my son, daughter-in-law and I were inside their home talking about how we would be together tomorrow and remember him. Right at that moment a HUGE butterfly flew in the open back door, flew all around the room and then flew right back passed us, back out the door! It just had to be a message from him that he’ll be there tomorrow too!!!
Hi there, was having a recent dream of losing my beautiful mother four years ago. In this dream it was the day all over again, that pain I fault and I started to run in my dream and magically beside me appeared a butterfly flying beside me. I wake up from this dream a little confused. The day my mother left me I was in bed crying and it was just becoming dark and over to my right a light appeared lighting up into a shape of a angle or a butterfly looking back at it today just flatting, it gave me comfort Whithorn my sole straight away. This is a reborn event in my mothers after life and my own to my spiritual knowledge. Is this correct??? Please assist my thoughts
Hi Blair, my wife and I saw a butterfly yesterday in a venue we were doing a disco in, it was cold outside and to be honest I didn’t think butterflies could survive the cold weather. It didn’t land on us but it was always close to us and flew around the changing room next to the stage we were on.
About 10 minutes from the end of the disco it flew out of the changing room and just vanished, we did not know where it went but considering it had been with us for the whole of the disco was astounding but we were also unsure why it was there. Beautiful sight though.
This is very inspiring. My husband had passed away in august of 2020 from COVID 19 leaving me in despair. 7 days after burial, I visited his grave crying and cleaning up for new flowers. I was so lost and depressed. A butterfly came around me and land right in the grave looking at me flipping his wings as though he was communicating to me. He was the exact color how I picked my husband burial clothing. I felt so much relieved knowing that he came just to comfort me. I felt his presence right away and stop crying. I surely want to know what he meant to say to me
I have recently become more interested in learning about angels and spirit guides. I was told to ask for help from my angels when I needed it. I asked for a sign that they were with me. 2 days later there was a butterfly in the middle if my bedroom wall. I wondered how it had gotten is as there was no windows open. I turned to open the window and when I looked back at the wall it had gone. It had flown at the side of me on the curtain. I opened the window wider and it flew out. It was November this year and I wondered if they were still around at that time of the year. I fully believe that was my sign that I asked for. I have since had more signs.
My Mam passed away in April and during Christmas dinner today with my husband and children a red admiral butterfly appeared flying low above our table. I said “That’s Nana here for her dinner “ Nothing was said but I think they felt it too.
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So on Christmas Eve I was in the kitchen and a beautiful red and black butterfly appeared and started to fly around
Christmas makes me really sad as I’ve had some significant losses and this time of year brings the loss into sharp focus. I totally took this little butterfly as a sign or message, as seeing it made me smile and feel a sense of joy. I felt like the message was to enjoy and be grateful for the blessings I have so I’m totally embracing that going in to the New Year
My Angel in Heaven passed away after 54 years of Marriage.After her passing about four weeks went by. I was at my Son’s body shop sitting on a chair out side drinking a Coke. All of a sudden a small butterfly landed on my right wrist. I called for Adam my son could not believe what was talking place. I told adam to get my phone and take a picture of the butterfly. And he did the butterfly stayed on the wrist the whole time about 10 minutes then it left. I sat there and crying I know it’s a sign from DEB my wife. The next day the same butterfly landed on my car back bumper took a picture of it.can you explain what took place was the butterfly from DEB my wife please help me with this OK please explain this event thank you George.
My dad passed in 2010. I was the caregiver of he and my mom for several years. One day I was driving my mom home from a doctor appointment and at the bottom of our hill I saw an adult red hawk up close by the road on a wire near the ground. It looked me straight in my eyes-I knew I wouldn’t be able to explain the connection to my mom, but she said, “That was a big one”. We went home and I look out the bathroom window and this beauty was sitting on a tree stump we called “Pappy’s tree”. Since then, we get extreme delight in looking for and calling out to Pappy birds! My mom passed a couple years ago. In her last days I was driving to my sister’s home where she stayed and drove by a tree with 2 young pappy birds sitting side by side on a single limb-this was a sign that Pappy was waiting for her to join him.
A few years back I was at a Zoo in Palm Beach, Fla. I was seating in the Butterfly Garden & I felt one land on me I didn’t turn or look till it left. I decided to call my mom & she said it was your Aunt Lu visiting with you.. So Beautiful…
I have had 2 butterflies land on me. The first one was when I was away and was unaware that on the same day my mother found out she had stage 4 cancer. The second one was after my mom passed away.
I lost my son on 5/20/20 to an overdose and after he passed I had dragonflies galore around all the time. Blue and red ones which were my son’s favorite colors. His twin girls and son should have them lad on their fingers all the time as I did too and everytime they did they would say look maw maw daddy’s here. I would tell them yes daddy is always with us even though he’s in heaven now. I so so so miss my boy.
I sadly lost my baby boy at 20w, I had to deliver him before we said goodbye and it has been so tough. I wasn’t sure how to cope but was compelled to try Reiki.. my first session I saw bright yellow colour which swirled into a beautiful butterfly and fluttered around my head then left; I didn’t really pick up the significance, but it stuck with me. It’s been playing on my mind and I decided to look into it today, I’m glad I have because this has given me a lot of comfort.
We had to put our furbaby Lucy down this past July. Of course, our hearts are broken.
We used to walk her in our development and stop at a little bench we called Lucy’s Bench. She, and we, liked to just sit for a while to rest in the middle of our walk. She’d just sit calmly and sniff the air, just enjoying her time with us.
The day that we put her down, we walked her to her Bench one more time. To our delight, there were several beautiful butterflies all around.
We drove past the bench after our difficult situation. There were no butterflies to be found. We knew that they were all the spirits of our furbabies coming to help her over the Rainbow Bridge It was one small piece of comfort telling us that we made the right decision.
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I am intrigued about your comment that Angels can come in the form of butterflies. To think I could be so close to an Angel is awe inspiring. ♥️
I’ve lost all family and after my favorite brother passed suddenly, this bright yellow butterfly shows up every single time I’m overwhelmed at a situation or making tough decisions , heading into drs office and even as I nervously enter onto a freeway ! This bright solid yellow butterfly comes out of know where and as soon as I see it, it’s Gone!!!! Even my grandson has witnessed this constantly and usually I see the usual Monarch butterfly’s , but I know it my brother Chuck and I’m convinced he’s always with me during rough patches in my life
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Little wild.. but I had a monarch butterfly fly around my window while I was doing dishes, fly around me when I was outside in my yard for about a week or so .. fast forward A week later I went to North Carolina was in the pool and the same kind of monarch butterfly (same coloring) was fluttering all around me .. I laid in the sun for a little bit and while I did the butterfly was again flying around me and finally landed on the chair right near my hand. ❤️
My Dad passed away in 2018 from Congestive Heart Failure. I was there when he passed, but don’t feel like I gave him a proper goodbye. I don’t feel that he is around me. I would like to know if he is and if he’s ok.
After my Dad passed away I was really sad at his grave, then I noticed a butterfly hanging around, so since his death I’ve associated butterflies with my Dad. In life I wouldn’t of done so, it wasn’t til after his death
Hi Blair, the week before my dad passed in 2016, my mom,Brother & older Sister had a falling out! My mom tried her hardest to put things in my head about my sister! I told my mom Please don’t get me involved I was not here when they had there disagreement & have no idea what happened! Well this crap blue up so bad that things came out that just answered questions I had been having! I never felt my mom loved me the way she showed to my brother! Well when I found out things from my moms sister I was like wow, just wow! My dad told my sister & I never to disrespect our mom for she did the best she could! See Blair my sister & I were mentally & physically abused by our mom & we never told dad! But my brother Was not treated like us! She would give him a tongue lashing!
Well Blair after this crap went down i was non stop talking to my dad saying I’m sorry dad I can not respect mom any more! I felt I was losing who I was because he was not here to talk about it! I would ask for signs if he was ok with me not having the respect with mom! Well the worse had come! Mom & my brother put my sister & i out there lives! Well all she did was prove to me that all these years she could never live me! My mom & Brother took mom & Dads will & rewrote it! Blair it’s not about the money at all! All I ever wanted was love! Well buy now I was crying more & more talking to my dad. I would say please dad let me know your not mad at me & your alright with me not going back to my mom or my brother!
Well I would go outside to walk my dog,& Blair this same butterfly would come by me & flutter around me! This went on for 3 days & I told my husband about this butterfly! Well yeah he looked at me like I was crazy! Well the next day he was in The yard looking to take some bushes I went up to him & as he’s talking I said Look Kim Look it’s the same butterfly!!! Blair that butterfly would come close to me & would just flutter around him &i we watched that butterfly go in a bush then fly out and flutter around us! Well this same lil butterfly would go low in the area where my dog (Sunshine) was! Well she tried to catch it a couple of times & I said no you can’t catch that butterfly that my daddy! There were times I thought my dog would catch my sign from heaven!
That night I told my husband how I had been asking dad for a sign from him to let me know he was ok with me staying out moms life & how sorry I was but I could no longer respect his wish,to respect her! After all I always though my mom was not faithful,& when I asked my sister she was shocked & asked where I heard that & I said I no one told me! I would wake up at 12:00 or what ever time it would be there was no mom in the house & I looked out no car! She would tell me she was praying in church! Like I told my sister I though she was mother Theresa! It did not stop she continued to go to church to pray at weird hours! But I needed that message for I felt that dad understood why I had to let the negative crap go! All I wanted was Love from her! As far as what dad wanted us to have she can keep it I have something better! I have my dads memory & I got the love I needed from my dad! I’m who I am because of my dad & no money in the world is worth that! By the way my dad worked 7 home 7 away from home! Thank Dad for my heavenly messages! Now I see red birds & butterflies!
This is such a sweet story.. I witnessed every minute.
My son-in-laws mom passed away. We all loved her. She absolutely loved butterflies. As we turning to leave.. a butterfly came and rested on joes shoulder. And stayed. And stayed there for the walk up to car. Flew up to his ear and rested.
My son Shaun was in a fatal car accident 10/20 and my Aunt Lisa passed the very next day. I was flooded with so many emotions, and thinking of harming myself. I went to a friend’s home to vent and this yellow butterfly came from ut of nowhere and fluttered around me and landed on my leg. I have video of it. And also before the butterfly I was in my car pointed towards a bridge piling ready to end my pain and yelling cause God has all my lived ones with him and I couldn’t understand why I was left here alone. Anyway it was a very calm night not a bit of wind was stirring. All of a sudden my air freshener I had hanging from my rear view mirror started to swirl and it for more and more intense. As if they used that as a way of showing me that they were yelling back at me. I have video of that as well. I see the same number all the time 420. I see feathers daily. My son never knew how much I truly love him. I have so many unspoken words i needed for him to hear and now he is gone. I failed as a mom and regret it and beat myself up over it.
I had a butterfly land on me at a butterfly farm, it was enclosed by fencing. It clung on to me the entire time I was there (about 45 minutes) when leaving, an employee had to take it off of me! Quite an experience! I have a photo of it on my leg
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The morning after my friend was killed a monarch butterfly was flying near me
My mother recently passed after many years of ill health. She’d spent many months in hospital and I clearly remember the hundreds of times I visited her there. I’d often wheel her out in her wheelchair to get some air and she really enjoyed that. So yesterday when I had to visit for a check up myself my thoughts were with her more than usual. It was a lovely sunny day and so I decide to wait outside in the sunshine as I needed to wait for a prescription to be made up. I was standing where my mum and I used to go, which was quite busy with all the people coming and going and through traffic, when suddenly in amongst all of the hustle and bustle a very large and beautiful Red Admiral butterfly came circling around me and landed on the wall nearby. I instantly felt that it was a message from my mum to say that she was now free from suffering and was sending her love!
My brother passed a week ago and he had told me he will be a blue butterfly..i see them everyday and one landed on a tree and stayed there,i went out the next morning and it was still there,i sat and watched it ,then it flew above me..im amazed it was there all night in my back yard
It’s 22° out and snow on the ground, a butterfly just flew over my car. I saw it through my sunroof which happens to be almost the length of my car! What does this mean?
My mom passed away from cancer Jan 31st 2021. I had been the only person that was there taking care od her for months. When she passed I had a breakdown and have not left my house since her funeral 1 yr ago. I have stress induced agoraphobia now. Tomorrow I have a medium group reading with medium Matt Fraser and hope to hear from my mom and dad. I fell asleep this morning for a little nap and had a very vivid dream of a large black amd yellow butterfly landing on my arm. I tried to grab my phone to take a picture and the butterfly moved up to my neck and I felt a sensation on the back of my neck like it was trying to nibble or suck nectar out of my neck. It wasn’t hurting me it just gave me a weird sensation. I woke up from my dream and for a few seconds that sensation was still there. What does this dream mean? It was a huge butterfly. Biggest ive seen.
Hi April, I am so sorry about your mom. I understand. I can’t explain the butterfly- my mom passed away in October (2021). I too lost it for a while. It was so hard. I too took care of her (only me) for a long time (cancer). But the past full year of 2020-2021, I stayed with her. Sleeping there. Feeding her. So hard but I enjoyed being with her. I miss her so much. I’m still at my old home everyday. Remembrance. I hope you find peace. Your parents are well and happy. And they are watching over you. Maybe that is what the big yellow butterfly was? Both of them giving you a kiss. Take care.
After our aunt passed away a white butterfly keep flowing my husband everywhere he want I told him it was Aunt Lena telling him she is ok
As my mom and I sat outside last fall, a yellow butterfly landed on my mom. She was tickled to death. She said it was her friend. And the butterfly stayed with her for a while. I joke saying it was my dad. The next day we sat outside again. The little butterfly came back and land on my mom. Again. She said for sure it was her husband (my dad). It was so peaceful and serene. A month later my mom passed away. I took it is as , this butterfly was maybe a spiritual of my dad saying not to be afraid and I’m waiting for you.
Hi… I was praying with my colour candles on, then 3 min after praying a butterfly landed on the white candle which was still on nd was dead, the another on a red candle but on the side alive.does this mean anything
My name is Colleen on the first anniversary of my sons death I saw a butterfly and put my hand out and it landed on my hand!!
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I’ve had a dragonfly Wizz by me, I called out to it and said, hi and if it was my mother in law to come back around immediately. She did, I stuck out my hand, she stayed fir a few minutes. We were told by a medium that she comes to us in firms of animals. I was able to get a photo and video. Amazing experience.
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My mum died 2 weeks ago. the day of her funeral I had a butterfly land on my dress at her wake. it was late at night to. I then kept seeing just one fluttering around me, I then had to fly home to another state and am still seeing just one and the same colour to …can this be my mum?
I went to my brother’s grave played music left a Nutty Buddy poured some Pepsi around his tombstone I went to flip around with classic rock music his favorite my brother passed away 20 years ago and I had the windows down open so you could hear the music while I was talking to him at his tombstone all of the sudden I turned around in my car to go back around for some strange reason and as I was driving past his Stone a butterfly flew out of my car
Eye have a lime green-yellow butterfly stuck on the wall outside on my back porch.. it’s been there for over 48 hrs .. and it’s still there .. how grand is that … Changes for the better is on the way .. Everything is all good ,, eye can feel it , coming soon .. eye love you
Hi Blair, I wanted to share my own butterfly story with you; my father passed away June 21, 2005 and that year Christmas was especially difficult for me without him. Christmas was his favorite holiday and I found myself becoming more than agitated while I’m sitting at my father’s dining table looking at my mother and her new boyfriend from work. I walked away outside to simmer down, and my husband was already in the car waiting to leave listening to the radio…I closed my eyes I tuned out the noise and prayed. I asked that the universe send me a sign, show me something that only I would know and I begged for anything to let me know his spirit was still with me. I prayed for this for maybe 2 minutes…as I opened my eyes, as if this was perfectly synchronized with the song in the car, I looked to my left and there were 2 monarch butterflies on my shoulder and as they flew away the lyrics of the song, ” you give me a quiet mind and I love you”. I cried and sobbed. I couldn’t believe my eyes or my ears, but this was without any doubt, exactly what I’d prayed for. I dried my face and
I went inside to say my goodbyes. My mother hands me a very large and heavy box, a Christmas gift that my father had purchased before he had passed. Inside was a set of china, from the national wildlife federation, and on each piece of china was a butterfly, each one different.
About a month after my daughter died, I was feeling down so I went outside & was sitting out on the deck thinking about her. Just then a dragonfly flew up & landed on my chair. Now I have never seen dragonflies out where I live, & have not seen any since. I believe it was my daughter letting me know she was fine, no longer in pain. I felt like alot of weight was lifted. ❣
My baby was 3 months when we went to a park he was sleeping in his car seat his sister & father were at the swings wen I notice 1 white butterfly Lands on his head then another & another next thing there’s a swarm of white butterflys landing on his finger tips his toes just completely covering his body up to his eye lashes I don’t want to scare him by yelling 4 his dad & his sister to come see this but I get their attention & we watch these butterflies land & stay 4 a good few min then he starts to stir cuz he feels them on his eyelashes & they fly off one by one leaving a white shimmering dust on him that made his skin shimmer in the sun light we felt blessed to have this baby boy who was his grand parents pride as he grew he always showed love to his grand parents tsjust a bit more then the other grand kids ! He is now 34 years old with kids of his own & even fathers 3 that are not his, good solid young man with respect to his wife & his children what more could we ask 4 God bless my son & his family !
I saw a butterfly on walk way struggling to fly I took a twig and picked it up it flew away instead of getting trod on wat does this mean
Before my friend passed I asked her to send me a butterfly to let me know she was ok. The day of her celebration her husband and I walk out of the church and a beautiful monarch butterfly was circling my car. I just knew it was her. That butterfly flew along side my car all the way back to the cemetery where her husband wanted to say a private goodbye. That butterfly just flew around and around until he was ready to leave. Every where we went for months after I was surrounded by butterflies. I know this was her letting us know she is ok and she stayed to ensure we were ok. I miss her dearly but I know we will meet again as love and friendship never die. It changes just like a butterfly.
I have had butterflies around me a lot and they have landed on me I talk to it believing it is my son whom passed and is letting me know he is here I feel him and have seen him I only wish he would talk to me and say mom I’m ok
Just a question during covid a friend and myself purchased tickets for you in lake havasu Az. It was cancelled are you going to honor those in sept
An Eastern tiger swallowtail has visited me in my yard before. Today I found one upside down fluttering his wings and my grass. I believe it is my grandma who is come to give me a message. I am trying to save his life with sugar water and have him inside. Just wondering what it mean spiritually when you find a butterfly dying in your presence?
My 47yo husband will be gone 5 years this July and I will have officially out-lived him. I recently had foot surgery and have been struggling to get around and in so much pain and, even though I know it’s ridiculous, I have been mad at him for leaving me and making go through this all alone.
Today while I was sitting outside with our dog, I had my foot elevated and a monarch butterfly landed on my big toe and stayed there for quite awhile, flapping it’s wings off and on. I was in awe just because it was so cool, but finding out that some people feel it’s a sign from a loved one who has passed on that they’re still with us…meant so very much.
Thank you!
A few days ago I had a dream of butterflies biting me. I for some reason took this to mean that they were healing me so that I may begin to start helping other heal again- I am not sure how I heard this message so loud and clear but I did and it’s amazing. Last night I had a dream of a ton of butterflies flying over my head. Two landed and they were giant and one started licking my hand. I am still working on what this message means but I know the butterflies are my guide right now and I love it! <3.
My daughter who is suffering with c- PTSD and is finding life very difficult at the moment,two days ago she had a bright pink or purple coloured butterfly in the house and on several occasions carefully released it but as soon as she did it would very quickly find a way back in this happend over three days she finally thought it had left and the same butterfly appeared in her bedroom on third day! she was totally amazed by this and its appearance left a good vibe with her and actually saw her mood lifted when she was telling me! I definitely believe it was spiritual visit and I believe it was from a close loved one that passed away 5 years ago and was giving her a sign that she is protected also guidance that she is not alone on her journey and that better days are coming!!!!!
I see a momarch butterfly in my backyard frequently and it always lands on my back stoop and sits there. My sister passed away at age 39 and i believe its her letting me know she is ok. I have had no closure due to her living in another state and her husband had her cremated before i could get down there. I suspect foul play but cannot prove anything. I so do miss her and would love to know the truth.
Not sure if this is a meaning, but my brother passed away a week ago on Friday night, this past Friday evening we all were sitting on the front porch and this big butterfly came flying all around us making like circles and zig zagging all around us, the butterfly stayed around us I would say a good 5 minutes, then all of a sudden it flew away and never saw it again, now myself I thought that was kinda odd cause we never see butterflies fly around not even the small ones, so I thought that was odd, I would love to know what you think
Last year I found out that my dad was not my biological father. Both of my dads have passed. My bio-dad had 7 other children, 5 that are alive today and live within 15 minutes of me. After 10 months of research on this family, I decided to reach out. I went to my brother’s business to introduce myself – he didn’t even question that I was his sister, I look just like them. Next, he set up a dinner with himself and my sister, which went well. She set up a lunch at her home so that I could meet two more siblings – one wasn’t ready yet (I get that – it has been a great shock), but my youngest brother was there. I am so grateful that they have been welcoming, I feel blessed.
The butterfly… When I arrived at my sister’s house I was shaking (I was VERY nervous at each meeting), I went to the door and rang the bell. Out of nowhere, a brown butterfly appeared on the door; it slowly and deliberately opened its wings that were outlined in beautiful bright orange. It fluttered there on the door a second. As the door opened, the butterfly slowly danced away. My youngest brother stood there with open arms saying, “Hello sister!” and gave me a big hug. I felt comforted, was in awe, and knew that this is what was supposed to be. It was our dad giving me a sign and I knew it would all be okay.
Funny I run into this book I just read Butterflys
I took my Nanny Boy, an Austic 19 yr old to “6 flags Marine World”, a week or so ago. We past the Buterfly exhibit, I asked if he wanted to go in, he said yes! So many beautifully colored, lg/sm, absolutely gorgeous. I like to believe going in this attraction are family gatherings all flying around, eating, playing….. it’s gorgeous and I’m in aw. Wish I could send pics
My dad passed away in hospice after suddenly deteriorating rapidly from esophageal cancer back in April. My husband and I decided to buy his and moms camper off mom and finally took it out with the kids a couple weeks ago. (My father adored camping and was an avid outdoorsman). Well while we were gone our house was broke into and 4K worth of items were stolen. We found this out in the middle of the trip. Minutes after the phone call, I’m upset of course, a butterfly flew up and landed on the arm of my chair, I put my hand out and it climbed onto my hand and stayed there until we found it some flowers to let it crawl on.
Just today I was outside with the kids on the trampoline playing, and a butterfly just lands on my shoulder. It crawled down my arm and I put out my hand and it climbed onto my hand and stayed there until we let it crawl onto a plant.
Both butterflies were brown- the color of my dad’s eyes.
My Mom passed recently. We left the hospital where she took her last breaths. I remember telling her don’t be afraid to show me a sign and communicate with me once she passes. We went to a local scenic park and I told my neice ( who had a butterfly circling her), that butterflies trying to kiss you…when my Mom was holding my hand the last day… She would squeeze it at I love yous and she would also gently scratch my hand with her pointer finger fairly frequently.. this same butterfly I wanted to catch but told.my neice if you touch their wings.. you’ll essentially kill them.. and I went on to say to the butterfly.. if you’re My Mom…call up on my finger.. and the butterfly did. It let me kiss it and it simply wouldn’t fly away. If set it down..and it come flying back to my hand or legmmanf it kept doing the same motion my Mom had.. gently rubbing or scratching back into its own space like towards itself in the same manner my Mom had motioned her pointer finger with gentle scratches…I was wearing her butterfly shirt there because I felt closer to her that way.. fast forward to today.m we had our Memorial dinner to celebrate her life with family and friends. We made poster boards with her pictures etc… I decided to print a pic of the same kind and color of butterfly that wouldn’t leave our sides…cut it out and put on a poster board.. the same beautiful orange butterfly.. my former supervisor came later in the day with a beautiful bouquet of flowers… I look up and the same kind and color of butterfly is at the top of the Bouquet of flowers .. we all got chills ..her my cousin and I as I shared the story and showed her the pic of the butterfly I printed for her memorial board with pics etc.
I’ve had a white butterfly hanging around my bedroom window for three days. I checked to see if it had somehow gotten itself stuck somehow. Apparently, it can leave at will but dosent
I was driving down the road today and all of a sudden a butterfly smacked into my car and landed in the seat. I felt really bad for it. It was injured but I continued to drive to my destination. When I got to where I was going I noticed it was still alive and started trying to fly. I picked it up and it flew from my hand. I continued to watch it as it flew high in the trees. It sounds dumb but I was so happy to see it continue to fly after going through what it did. I just had to look it up and yes said transformation. I just wonder if I am crazy or could this be some kind of sign?
My mom passed away July 11 and yesterday while I was sitting outside a butterfly landed on my foot and stayed for a minute or two
Hello I lost the love of my life May 31, 2022 in a car accident on I 12 Hammond Louisiana she took my heart my soul my everything with her she crushed my world she kissed me goodbye told me she loved me and I did the same hour later she was gone from my life and I’m having a hard time dealing with that I’ve been praying for answers and signs the next day a pink butterfly with black dots came to the front door and met me where she left me at her moms house in Hammond flew around me and bumped me in the head made me feel good tonight that same butterfly met me outside in the back after talking to her all day telling her I needed to see her I miss her I love her and I wanted to see her in a dream tonight she appeared same butterfly but me in the head landed on my head and then went on the wall where I could see her and talk to her for 30 minutes or more let me take pictures of her let me touch her let me kiss my finger and kiss her with my finger as well she stayed there I know it’s her let me know if she’s OK cause I pray to God that when he takes me that we are reunited together and spend the rest of our days together because I love no one Bud like I loved her and she has my heart for ever praise God from Scott GUIDRY
This is so weird last night I was cleaning my house with my music on ready for me going on holiday today. it was late about 10.30 in the evening I was in my kitchen and a butterfly flew in and was flying erratically it was the orange one it stayed for at least 15 mins and I thought to myself my dad has come to wish me a happy holiday as he passed 3 month ago and when I went on Facebook this morning your link was about butterflies sending you a sign I hope this was my dad coming to say hi
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This is so weird last night I was cleaning my house with my music on ready for me going on holiday today. it was late about 10.30 in the evening I was in my kitchen and a butterfly flew in and was flying erratically it was the orange one it stayed for at least 15 mins and I thought to myself my dad has come to wish me a happy holiday as he passed 3 month ago and when I went on Facebook this morning your link was about butterflies sending you a sign I hope this was my dad coming to say hi
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This is an experience I’ve had with butterflies. We had a terrible and tragic thing happen when a mental person went crazy and demolished our cementry in the baby section. We all grouped together and fixed all the gravesites when all the work was done. We all gathered on that day we had an influx of hundreds of butterflies that came for a good 15 minutes and then they were gone
Felt that was a message
I was sitting in a park on a bench with my boyfriend. One week after he broke up with me.
So the message was..you are about to experience a transformation in your life. I did.
I believe 100% in Butterfly messages. I have had them land on me after losing my son to suicide. I have a picture of a monarch that landed on me and I new instantly that it was my son comforting me.
I was driving in my car and a butterfly stayed at my driver’s side window that was open never entered my car but just flew along side my window until I made it home.
So my thoughts are I’ve been doing this mind body n soul internship and my world around me has been changing my circle of friends has become practically empty and I’ve been having to look inward at myself and understanding my energy and others and learning how to understand and love me but it’s been lonely so my interpretation is its my sister letting me know I’m never alone
I have covid right now. Last night separated my plates and dining wares and placed it in the dining table uncovered. This morning when I am about to eat breakfast I saw a bright red, orange with a little black butterfly wing in my soup bowl. I was alarmed I thought it’s food I left, but when I touched it, it was so thin flimsy butterfly wing. What does that mean? I never thought about it even put it in the floor and dust bin. But later today, I thought maybe it meant something.
My mate love one wife 15 years. Had massive stroke 1week ago had the funeral. I go over to talk to her next day yellow butterfly comes out of the blue and Flys around me and back to her grave and back around me and grave. Then Flys off.I had peace with in side of me.
I seen a butterfly ran over it was still alive but it couldn’t fly could you tell me the meaning of this
Only once did this happen for me.
My companion dog Jeffrey was a “tuxedo” Border Collie. That means mostly black with a white chest.
He was my most loving dog ever, and he could sense my moods and illness. He had had to be euthanized at only 11 years old because of an irreparable and painful back injury. My heart is broken by my loss of my Jeffrey. The day that he had to be put to sleep, I was inconsolable. I went home crying and sat in my favorite chair and just cried, and cried. I could not stop crying. Whenever I was sitting somewhere. Jeffrey would lay at my feet and lay a paw on my left foot. He always did this.
That horrible day, while I was crying after getting home from the Veteranarian hospital, a black and white butterfly flew in the open door and landed on my left foot. Stayed for a minute and then flew back out of the doorway. I knew then that it was him. That has never happened before, and has not happened again since.
I asked my guides or loved ones to send me some signs and a week later different colored butterflys have been coming in my yard. Some of the most beautiful colored ones I have ever seen in nature. I receive many different signs. Feathers is most prevalent after a loved one passes away and then butterfly. I think it’s there way of telling me they have fully crossed and are truly free! For anyone reading this, always thank them, even if you aren’t sure it’s a sign. That always keeps the signs coming for me and I sometimes get even more amazing signs!
When my beloved brother died 25 years ago as a friend sat in his driveway she saw a yellow butterfly constantly flirting around the front porch she told me the significance of that and came to the conclusion he was there and he was at peace and comforting the grieving loved ones but then after that you would be amazed at how often a yellow butterfly appeared the most significant time was my grandson’s baptism my remaining brother and sister were holding him in between them and posing for a picture as we were getting ready to snap the picture of te three of them I lamented that I wished my other brother was here to share this moment and just as I said that a yellow butterfly flew up in between the baby and my two siblings . I knew it was my brother saying he was there in spirit ❤️❤️❤️
I’m going to start coming to your online events. I’m so lost without my husband and my son. I need to know they are watching over me and are proud of me. Moving on is so hard. My heart is shattered.
My dad passed 33 years ago, my only younger sister 4 years ago and my mom a year ago.
I could not except my sister’s passing. I cried for a year.
Then I discovered signs. A angel with the word Hope on. A candle that suddenly for no reason burning high up in the air. I saw her and my dad in the clouds.
I have a serious illness, I am 53, and was in hospital when mommy passed. I was so upset. Then I prayed please mommy help me threw this rough time.
I had 5 operations last year, including a heart operation. This hole year I was in hospital, 5 weeks ago I had a 1 hour heart operation that not 1 of the professors thought I am gonna survive.
And hear I am!!
My guardian angels protected me again
My doctors call me a mirricle. No I am not. God is my Hero.
I believe in signs and see lots and lots of butterflies.
Thanks for helping us in times we need it.
This is quite a realization for me…having lost my first husband at such a young age and going on to have 2 more children besides the one I gave birth to 3 months after he passed we were on vacation and my youngest my son and I were sitting on a rock and a butterfly flew by and I stuck my finger out and the butterfly landed on it and stayed for quite awhile…my son and I sat quietly staring at it, as it flew away my son said Mom you must be magical to have a butterfly do that…I said I don’t know Jake but I’ve never seen a butterfly do that before but I felt a very peaceful sensation after that…now I know why! The death of my first husband was the first time I ever experienced death …now I understand why I felt so sat peace after that experience ❤
One day I was camping and dEcided to walk my dog. He was on a leash and kept wanting to go to a certain place so I let him lead me. It was up a small hill and there was a tree and a small muddy pool of water. There was Monarch butterflies all over . I had butterflies all over my body my boyfriend took z picture. They weren’t just on me but on my dog too. My dog died that year from a heart attach. It was spectacular having all those Monarchs all over me.
Yes, when my Aunt was dying of Breast cancer I sent her a letter telling her how much I loved her and every time I see a yellow butterfly I will know it’s her. The morning she past I looked out my kitchen window and in my yard was yellow butterfly’s all over the grass a lot of them. I picked yellow because I never seen much yellow ones. I haven’t got the news from family yet but I new she had past. But why was there so many butterflies all yellow ones.?
I just went out my front door and a beautiful monarch butterfly flew right to me, then flew up a bit and flew down around me again. It was a lovely feeling and gave me hope. Last week in my backyard a beautiful deep yellow butterfly and 3 lovely white butterflies stayed by my side for about 20 or 30 seconds, then a lovely monarch butterfly perched on the bush right beside me and again, I felt some hope, some comfort. I really, really needed that! Avril
When my son passed I was sitting on his back porch and a red dragonfly which I’ve never seen a red one before he landed on me and kept landing on you and when it wasn’t timing it was sitting close to me I feel this with my son and later I seen a spear of silver that was like a burst around bursting the only thing I can compare it to would be a dandelion gone seee but it was beautiful it was a very windy day yet the spear was just drifting very soft and slowly not that far above the ground because not as tall as the trees right just above the four-wheel drive truck that was sitting not far from us and it just kind of drifted very slowly so when I went to point it out it disappeared and everyone told me that was meant just for me to see I do believe my my son is on the other side and he is happy and he was young when he passed 3 days after his 47th birthday I miss my great deal and I talked to him awesome thanks for reassuring me
I have lost my husband due to Cancer 4 years ago. Then I met back up with a love from my teenage years. He died a year ago from Cancer. I have never stopped loving them both. Sometimes I can feel them both around me. Is this just my imagination? I can’t seem to move on with my life because I miss them so much. I feel so heart broken
Never had butterflies in my yard until my mom passed. I love butterflies. One of my favorite colors is white after yellow and I see lots of white ones. Just wish I knew if my Dad is in heaven or hell. He did some terrible things even though he was a very nice person.
Hello, after the death of one of my Yorkies named Milly passed away I was left with her litter mate, Sophie. Right afterwards I had this tiny brown butterfly that would land on Sophie’s back and sit there! It would let me and my grandsons hold it! It stayed until I moved from that home. I know without a doubt she was sending us a butterfly
It mad me happy and sad at the same time! No one had to tell me the meaning behind it I knew!
My husband died a while ago and white feathers are always appearing from nowhere but last week a white butterfly landed on my head and stayed with me on a walk when I took my dogs for just under an hour before it it left me!!! Wonderful
Hello I was with a young man purchasing a home from a deceased elderly woman. I’m the realtor. I came inside for him to get dimensions. I noticed a small beautiful butterfly flying around my head. Grant you home is empty but sometimes some comes in n takes a load back w them. I sure didn’t expect that. I think she is happy. The young man is really nice n a great young adult. I let the butterfly out.
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My son was in a bad car wreck visiting family in another state a few hrs ago. A butterfly flew in front of my face then, landed on edge of porch right in front of me then, flew eractically in front of me and dissapeared. Now it is sitting next to me. My stress is melting away.
My daughter died on July 16th 2022 and I went over my other daughter’s house one afternoon and we saw a beautiful blue dragonfly that was the color of my daughter’s eyes I swear it with her or a sign would that be true?
For the first time in my life I’ve experienced three visits from butterflies landing on my front door. The first one stayed there for hours. I opened and closed the door a few times and it never moved, it was a beautiful black one with beautiful blues on its wings. I can’t remember the color of the second one but it landed on the door and flew off. Tonight, a black and orange one landed on the door just as I returned from the grocery store. Now, im not superstitious or anything but it brought a peace to me. Ive been very depressed lately and going through a rough patch in life, but to see three different butterflies back to back on different days linda grasp my attention.
Hello Blair
Yes I have always been told You say I love you to a butterfly and a red bird . Thank you I need a meeting with you.
Thank you Blair
A few weeks ago as we went to spread my father in laws ashes. A monarch butterfly was chasing my 16 year old twins around. It landed on the ashes after and just sat there, on the ashes. Like it was where he wanted to be. He finally made it home.
I lost my daughter July 3rd. August 28th was her birthday, I had family here on the 27th to celebrate her heavenly birthday. She loved butterflies, No butterfly but a bee landed on my arm & stayed, not a single sting.
I love butterflies and have had them land on me many times. I like to think they are letting me know my parents are telling me they love and miss me. And most importantly they are happy and safe.Mom passed 11-17-10 and dad 7-3-17. I miss them so much.
My mom passed away many many years when I was 12 but I’m always asking her watching her since then I’ve had many loved ones have had passed but my mom was my hero my supporter, the most caring selfless person in the world. When I lost her my life was never the same again. Hear for like the last month, I have had the same exact butterfly flying around me near me etc….. But today I went out to sit on my porch and it must have been right by me because it landed on my leg, it startled me because I didn’t realize what it was until after it flew at me and then flew away. I want to believe that maybe it was my mom letting me know that she is watching over me I hope I didn’t scare her off again, she came to me a long time ago and I screamed really loud because it scared me at first and I haven’t seen her again. My heart is broken as I’m afraid that if that is her spirit and she is letting me know she is watching over me, she may not come back.
My stepsister and her 9 yr old daughter was in a car accident and both of them passed away….well before their death a day before them passing away the 9 yr old was chasing a beautiful butterfly…and they both was getting baptized on the day they both passed away and they died at the church they was gonna get their baptism at….and now we have butterfly’s beautiful ones and huge ones come to me and my family and land on us and our kids!!! I know they r with us I can feel their presence so God gained 2 beautiful Angels!!!!
Today is the day of my ex husband’s funeral, we share a child together and while I was sitting outside having some coffee, a monarch butterfly flew right into the right side of my forehead.
My wife passed from breast cancer 4 years ago, I was thinking of her today and a white butterfly came into my yard and flew close by me, I talk to her every day
and hope in some way she was communicating with me.
My Mother passed 8 years ago. The last gift she gave me was a Butterfly notebook. I see butterflies and dragonflies but they don’t land on me. I struggle with my grief for her. Help me please.
I’ve been dabbling in accessing higher levels of consciousness through Buddhist practices for some years now. One evening in my room while I was preparing to sleep thousands of Monarch butterflies filled my room, some landing on my bed and body. I was in awe and watched this for some time. ( no drugs or alcohol involved mind you). The following day I was preparing dinner in the kitchen and the same thing happened. Thousands of Monarchs filled the room landing and covering every surface including my body. Again, I stood and watched them in awe.
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My son passed away recently and I’m trying to understand and want to see how he is he is 41 Debra Samuel’s and Ken recommended you any help is greatly appreciated. Sincerely Susan michael anger mom
Hi, I’m at present reading about butterfly’s ….they are gorgeous creatures…..you have enlighten me on certain things. e.g. afterlife and family and pets…we lost my love this year in April..I believe in the afterlife, but it’s for everyone else not me…just the way I feel I guess…I was expecting something more from him, but no not yet and I have been very aware of things around me, I guess it’s a matter of time and patience, thank you for your input…
Not long ago on a hike after my mothers passing a monarch butterfly followed me on the trail for a short close to me. Before her death in a care home I had bought mom a yellow metal folk art butterfly and placed it on her shelf she loved it. After her death I was in my apartment I had recently rented I was doing some cleaning and noticed a decorative butterfly stuck with velcro under a counter overhang. I don’t about you but interpret these as signs from mom whom I was with regularly in the care home and was holding her hand and speaking to her to the end hand in hand.
Surely there must be signs other than a butterfly?
I was walking down our gravel road around Father’s Day when I start feeling something fluttering in my hair. I tried to shoo it away but a butterfly finally landed on my left shoulder. I stood still and it didn’t fly away. Cool right! I turned around to go back home with my new friend. I got to our driveway and I was going to take it to our flower garden when it suddenly was gone. Didn’t see it fly away. It just was gone. It was right by a flower container that I had planted with coleus, Petaluma and baby’s breath. It was very pretty and I loved it. I felt it was my father’s spirit visiting me. He had passed the previous year. I took a picture and a painted canvas and framed it and keep i it on my table to enjoy. Beautiful memory♥️
My wife passed from cancer. Among all our efferts ahe had reike sessions from a lady a few times. My mother in law runs into this woman after a couple years. She said”I had a dream about your daughter a week or so ago” And “well just think butterflies”. She tells me the story. In a short few days I was weedeating up at her memorial garden. I stepped outside the wrought iron fence,looked to my left and seen what I call a column of maybe 100 butterflies moving across a field toward me. They were a few feet from the ground flying in a circle around each other in two foot circle,about 4-6 feet tall. They came and landed on me,all of them. I stood in amazement for the aproxomate two minutes they clung to me. I took it as a warm message.
Yes my husband had a monarch butterfly fly around. his head and then landed on his arm and stayed there for 10 minutes…we think it was his sister Bonnie who died..Now I have been grieving for my husband as he passed in April 27 this year…It has been very hard for me and now I’m slowly accepting it ….
I had reading with a pet medium. She told me things about my pup, Ted, that she would never just know. She also told me Ted is coming to visit often as a monarch butterfly. Well, one day I went out to the mailbox. There was a monarch flying around me. I proceeded to get my mail and walk back to the house. I had come out my backdoor so it was a bit of a walk. The monarch flew right next to me the ENTIRE walk, kinda like I was walking him on his leash. Once I hit the back door, it (he) didn’t leave for awhile. He kept flying around my patio. There is no doubt in my mind it was my Ted!
My son passed away yesterday just short of his 25th birthday.
He loved his nieces and nephews.
Today a yellow butterfly with black dots landed on the youngest nephew and even allowed him to raise it to his lips.
I take that as a message from my dear son.
Ironically, he was passionate about sports, his favourite team is yellow and black.
I see butterfly’s all over , big blue ones, since my 33 year old daughter died suddenly 6 months ago .
It’s beautiful
Not in the form of a butterfly. But other things. I was sitting in my car at work having lunch. I heard this clang clang clang sound, so I looked up and it was a balloon that said happy birthday. It was about 2 or 3 weeks late but my son always forgot. Again at work I found 2 crystals and 3 shells together in one of those little bags from the crystal shops. My mom recently passed and at work I found a 1943 penny, the year she was born. There are more too.
When I was a grade school little girl, my Mama passed away in the hospital, by negligence. She had told me she would be in hospital a few days, then she would show me how to make a chocolate cake my favorite! I had told my 3best friends they would be invited to my BD party. I was the 12th child of 12 kids. Mama called me Her Prayer baby girl who came out Smiling & Happy. I was totally devastated:( Mama loved white lilies:) I always dedicate a sm. Garden of white Lillie’s in her honor, where ever I live:) I constantly see a White Butterfly outside when I water or go to pinch off the dead flower. No matter when I see one, I feel in my soul it’s my sweet Mama. I smile then cry a bit, I am happy I talk to her, & a bit sad, I want to be with her!! I know God will bring us back together one day!✨☄️
Last night I dreamt that my Mother was with me. She passed away over 4 years ago. In the Dream she was with me. I was dancing in happiness because I saw her again. When I was dancing, a ring of small orange butterflies were flying around my left wrist as I was holding my hands above me. I miss my Mum.
I dreamt there were small orange butterflies circling my wrist like a bracelet, while I was waving my arms around while Dancing. My Mother who died a few years ago was there in the dream.
I battled Covid for 218 days. While I was in the hospital I almost died four times. I kept telling my wife that a brown butterfly kept flying over my hospital bed. It was wintertime in WI and she would tell me that’s impossible. But the brown butterfly every couple days would show up. After being home recovering, eight months later I researched brown butterflies and I truly believe past loved ones, or angels, were watching over me. I’m not sure why I was granted a second chance, but I want people to know that prayer and hope works!
My Great Dane and best friend of 9 years passed away last summer, 2022. While gardening multiple times after his death, I felt his presence. Each and every time this occurred, I was quickly visited by a small cabbage white butterfly. This happened a handful of times and it was the same species. I instantly and instinctually knew it was him coming to tell me all is well.
I was on my way to the ER with my stepdad and we really didn’t know how sick he was beforehand, we just thought he might have the flu. On our way, a dragonfly landed on my windshield in the dark while waiting for the traffic light. It was big, and I saw it coming and landed right in my view, not once but twice. It landed flew off and came back. I said, did you see that?? He said yeah, it’s a dragonfly, I said yes but more importantly it’s a sign. My mom is here. She is with us. Long story short, he had pneumonia and a severe UTI. They admitted him right away.
About 2 weeks before my father passed away I was seeing butterflies throughout the day in the most strange places, especially strange because I never see them. I was even driving down the highway so fast there is no way it could have naturally happened but one was fluttering right on my windshield. I’d walk out the door at home and I’d see another. Again at the grocery store parking lot and fluttering at my house window. EVERYWHERE! I went home and my daughter was in the back yard. I just felt the urge to tell her all these sightings and said “watch I bet if I walk to the edge of the deck I’ll see one” and sure enough one came fluttering by and around us. Well unexpectedly my dad took sick and passed away. I went outside the day after and a butterfly came flying to me, circled around me and flew away. I strongly believe it was my grand parents coming around to get my dad and show they are still with me then when he passed it was dad saying good bye. Never saw that many butterflies again and it’s been 4 years this September.
I believe this to be true of butterflies. A few years back, after a dear loved one passed a butterfly not only landed on my daughter, it stayed with her for hours. I have pictures of my daughter with the butterlfly. One of which was her holding a white carnation, which had been from the funeral, and the butterfly was just resting on the carnation, which my daughter held in front of her as I took the picture. The butterfly stayed with her for quite some time. She tried to release it out the window, but ut stayed perched on her arm or the carnation .
Also, the day of that passed loved ones funeral there was a bird. It was hoping all around our yard letting my 2 kids catch him , let him go and catch him again This time when I tried to take a picture the bird kept hopping on my finger. It would not take a picture wth the kids , only me. Which is so odd, because I was so upset that I never had a rent picture of me and the loved one that passed away That whole night, this little bird stayed next to me, snuggled in my hip. He slept in the house all night. The net morning the bed wasn’t looking well and I set him free.
It is truly a surreal experience. Some people like t say that that is grief and trying to cope. Something happening like those to events, one with the utterly and another with the bird, all in the same week of the passed loved one dying
my son Passed away 2nd September 2022, my worry is did he suffer before he passed away he had an addiction to drugs he was on his own when he died, we had a few arguments during his life i loved him but not the person he became, does he forgive me, just before i went into the crematorium a butterfly landed on a flower beside me, and also after the funeral i would like to think it was my son
Hi my name is lanette I just caught a very bright image on the wall outside of a butterfly today so I read it’s meaning it said transformation hope and love on the way after all I have been through it brought a bit of tears in my eyes my instinct tells me that I’m finally in the right place where I am supposed to be
I’ve attended a show while you were in Memphis. TN. I do have a question. When our loved one passes on, do they zoom out of the room immediately, or do they gradually leave and share in our comfort while they finish passing on?
I have had 2 encounters with butterflies in regard to my mother. Two days after she died in my home under hospice care my husband and I were walking around our yard when a light colored butterfly grabbed our attention as it flew around us. My husband commented that might be a message. Months later when I met up with family on the farm where she grew up, and released her ashes, two butterflies flew by. We all felt like that was my mom saying goodbye along with either her sister or my grandparents. A memory I will always look upon with a smile.
I lost my husband November 18th 2021. He had tongue cancer. And the cancer spread to his neck and then his lungs, he was only 54. We were married 30 of our 33 years together. My first encounter with a butterfly was with my granddaughter we were outside and she says grandma look at that pretty butterfly I said oh that’s probably papa I said if it’s Papa, he’ll land on me or he’ll land on you and he did he actually landed on me first and then went over to my granddaughter, and landed on her. I was able to get a video it’s priceless. I’ve had a couple other experiences with butterflies as well and I’ve found so many white feathers and lately the feathers I find are white with brown on them. I totally believe our loved ones watch over us. But the last couple nights I’ve had some dreams that are concerning to me and the love we shared.
I am so blessed and thankful God and his amazing son Jesus is so good my son died in April of 2022 and God let my oldest son see him in the sky I saw his face as well in the sky God has sent so many sign’s today a beautiful butterfly landed on my car window by me I saw Angel wings in the sky God is real I now know the true meaning of trusting believing in God and walking by faith and not by sight losing my son has been so hard on me my heart is broken but I know he is with me . Thank you and God bless you and your family .
My mom passed 4 yrs ago and my brother at birth. My dad last year. The first year mom passed in the summer there were 2 dragonflys that stayed by our house all summer. anhen the next summer there were 2 butterflies around it one landed on my daughter’s hand. Then I had a Robyn land between us talking. Then last yr. My dad passed and all summer we had 3 butterflys hanging around our home. Then yesterday our of the blue a humming bird was flying around us and my dad loved his birds I feel them here with us with the nature I feel them around.
My father passed away in 2019 my aunt passed away in 2020 and my dad’s best friend passed away one in November, and the other one in October!!!!! do you have more understanding more peace with a hummingbird or a butterfly or a crow? I gotta give me example it’s a feeling that nobody can take away that you were very close to. I get it all the time
My deceased husband passed away 8 years ago. I can be doing any thing or not , carting on a conversation where to whom ever and I’ll call his name as if he’s still alive. Evan my husband today when I call him from another room I call my deceased husbands name. Please, is he here with me?
It’s random. Usually when I’m in the pool just free floating looking up at the trees a yellow butterfly flys over. I have tried to open the block….but it’s hard when you don’t know what it is or how to remove it.
When my Dad would sit on our front porch after dinner every night a beautiful black butterfly with a few black bits of color would fly on porch and sit next to Dad on the door mat. We always said it was his brother who had passed. We talked to it too. It didn’t return after a couple years and then Fad got sick and passed. I’ve never seen such a gorgeous butterfly since
My husband/life partner of 48 yrs passed away a yr ago on June 27th. This passed Tuesday, June 27th, I had a fleeting view of a Baltomore Oriole (the bird not player) bathing in a puddle as I pulled into my driveway. By the time I stopped the car to take a picture it was gone. My husband and I loved to watch all kinds of birds and water foul so I believe this was him telling me to continue to appreciate what God gives us eeveryday. I miss him and will love him always.
I lost my partner 35 years ago yesterday
I walked towards a rose that I have for him and was followed by a small white butterfly that fluttered around me then landed on the rose. I haven’t seen a butterfly in the garden for years. I like to think that is was a message after all these years to the anniversary of his passing.
I’m Martine from Gracefield, Québec, Canada
I would love any new from my familly
My husband crossed over in 2011. Some years after his death. My sister and I had moved into a house. We use those boxes that we call banana boxes. None of them had been unpacked. One day we walked into the house. There was a CD laying in the floor. The CD was our love song. My sister and I was kind of shocked at first. Considering we had not unpacked anything. I knew that it was a sign from my husband. Let me know that he was okay. I have lost all my love ones. I am the only elder left in my family. 4 years ago I lost my only sibling. My sister Rose. The morning after she had crossed over. I stood outside crying. And all the sudden. I would call it a mammoth butterfly. Was flying in my face. I found that unusual. Since butterflies do not get that close to you. And now I know deep in my heart. It was my sister Rose. Also let me know that she is okay. It gave me relief. It brought me some Joy. Though I still miss her very much. I still know that she is okay. There her soul is in heaven with our heavenly father. Now I see the mammoth butterfly like everyday. And I always say hello my sister. But she knows that my heart is still broken. She has came to me in my dreams a good many times. Though I’m so glad to see her in my dreams. I wake up crying. Longing to have her back. But I would not want her back. Because of the suffering that she had to go through. And I’m grateful to God that this is happening to me. Because at least I get to see her in my dreams.
Buried my uncle on Sunday and had to drive 6 hours there and then home.
My heart broke leaving my aunt alone on their porch ..
We are very close ,more like sisters than aunt and niece
Got home yesterday and today a butterfly was by our truck .
It actually got onto my hand and stayed before it flew away
My husband of 44 yrs passed 2/22/22. I haven seen cardinals or butterflies. I don’t know how he would reach me but I guess I am on looking for a sign from him.I love him and miss him a great deal. Never expected he would leave this early, he was 69 but smoked since he was 15.Just couldn’t breathe any more. So he passed and hopefully he is in heaven
Aren’t you someone interpreting the message?
Hi. I lost my 41 year old son six months ago. He suffered with Schizoid affect disorder…including visual & audio hallucinations plus Bi-polar depression. He started using heroin when 22 or 23 to shut his mind off. Later he was put on antipsychotics which he hated being on, can’t stand the way it makes him unable to feel himself couldn’t find himself. He deliberately Over dosed. Since his death I keep having dreams where he’s alive and I cry, hold him, kiss him feeling incredible happy he’s still alive. Until I wake up, faced with the horrible realizations that he’s gone forever. Why?Are these visits?
August 4th in the early evening I’m sitting outside on the the steps large yellow with one black circle on each wing butterfly , I knew it was a good sign and it felt very good. Now I know it came from my fiance who passed away who’s always watching over me. When I call from my ancestors he’s the first one who shows up to help me and protect me amen
I have had peacock butterfly in my bedroom 3 nights in a row the last one woke me up by patting my face at 3am I spoke to it and I put it on a shelf, in the morning I thank it and told it to come on my hand so I could let it out the window it stepped on my hand and I let it go.
How about feathers
A butterfly landed right on my shirt a few weeks ago and fluttered around me and came back to me and landed on me 3 times and let me touch it . I know it was a sign from my Daddy. And today again a butterfly was flying around me and landed and I went over to it and was able to touch and talk to it . Signs from Heaven are the best feelings ❤️✝️
Yes, 2 months ago. I didn’t know the meaning until a close friend told me that she saw a beautiful butterfly when her mother passed away and the meaning of it. So 2 months ago my mother in law passed away unexpectedly from a cardiac arrest. Right the next day of her passing a beautiful giant swallowtail butterfly came and visit us. My husband and I were remembering her while sitting in our backyard and the butterfly came and I right away told my husband that it was his mom and the meaning of a butterfly when a loved one as passed away. The butterfly continue coming for a whole week until the day of her celebration of life. All her loved ones were able to see the butterfly and it gave us peace, joy and hope. We all truly believe it was my mother in law she was such a sweet person and wanted to alway comfort everyone and make everyone happy.
I seen a group of gorgeous butterflies and they disappeared in front of my eyes and they gave me a message I’m helping a abused horse and they wanted to put her down from injuries I was heartbroken and they told me she will get better soon will see
My daughter and I was going to pick up another daughter/sister while sitting in front of her house a butterfly flew inside of my car
My boyfriend died about a month ago. I had a really hard day today. I was crying alot. I was on the front screened in porch when I said Shannon I’m having it rough. I miss you so much! Idk I saw a few butterflies flirting about. And then one came up on the porch went back and forth in front of my face a couple of times and landed facing me about 6 inches from me. I leaned down slowly and said hi in a happy voice with a smile and it flew away calmly not at all the way it came in. I believe Shannon heard me came up made sure he got my attention waited for a smile then went back to his business lol. This may sound strange but alive he came every time I called no matter what and would say smile for me. He’d make sure I was ok then go back to what he was doing. That’s all the basics but u get it. He still comes EVERY time I call!!!
My husband died suddenly at home when our daughter was 13. Our son was 18. We were all so close. She had a school trip planned just after his funeral and decided to go. At a butterfly sanctuary a blue butterfly kept following her and landing on her. And a green one was with it. I told her the blue one was her dad, and the green one was her Irish grandma who adored my children. I knew then we’d get through whatever lay ahead.
On the Sunday Aug 27 freebee surprise reading, you picked me first to ask a question because I was riding my bike on the bike trail. After the reading I felt so good that I went for another lap on the trail. On the way back a butterfly appeared from the bushes at a curve on the trail. That butterfly followed me off my left shoulder for at least a quarter of a mile! Which I thought to be amazing because it was so long of a time for one pretty white butterfly to follow one person. I don’t know what it’s meaning was but I said “hi little butterfly”as soon as I saw it. Then it stayed right there for so long! Amazing
By the way the date, 27th was also significant for us. The 27th was the date of the first day we saw each other in person after talking on the phone for months.
Fort the past 3 days I have seen white. butterfly’s flying past. The picture window I havnt seen them all summerM y husband passed a good. Month ago,His big picture from the parlour is on my glass table in front of me,.I’ve been asking his spirit if he’s ok now not thinking I would get any answer.I wondered if this was the answer..I also seen a red cardinal at my bird feeder just looked at me and flew away Mydaughter and grandaughter seen a red cardinal come real close to her and chirping very loud to her before he flew away
Was at my sisters yesterday butterfly flying round me came home it was sitting on my decking here today again what does it mean
My amazing Dad died suddenly 8 years ago he was in his 80 but active , then 16 months ago my beautiful brother died at 57 of cancer he was a strong bike riding non smoking Vegan . So it was hard to see him go . Yesterday I phoned in work sick, this was due to my overwhelming low !low !mood which I think is due to my menopause. I decided to try and lift my mood by doing the garden . It was a real struggle as a sat out pulling up weeds with no energy and close to tears also feeling so numb not wanting to talk to anyone. Just wanted to live on my own . Something made me turn my head fully to the left when a beautiful red butterfly was fluttering around about 2 feet away, I instantly burst into tears. Which kind of gave me relief, it then came and sat next to me on the rockery by me within arm’s length. Unbelievable.
I lost my son on September 3 to suicide. Three days later there was a black butterfy in my living room. I did not see how he came nor did I see how he left but I’m sure it was Kyle
A week ago sitting with son daughter-in-law husband and grandchildren having coffee outside cafe a re admiral butterfly landed on my chest we took a picture of it as it sat on my chest for about 4 minutes we couldn’t believe how long it sat their flapping it’s wings and then sitting still
Yes I lost my son 1 year ago and twice since then I have had a beautiful brightly colored butterfly suddenly appear in my bedroom I am hoping it was my beloved son letting me know he’s around me
l was painting my sunhouse this morning then l notice this beautiful red , black butterfly flying around me, then landed on my hand .Most surprise l was. l lost my dear mum last year, l cared for her for 3years .We were so close , l was a good friend to her. Now so sadly miss her.
l there fore Google about butterfly that land on u .
It said your love ones are safe, well , not forgot u they still love u .. How true that is l really don’t know .
My daughters father passed away last Monday, yesterday I was sat in my garden and a butterfly landed at my feet and passed away it made me feel very sad, what does this mean
My husband passed away on May 27, 2016 from a massive heart attack. He died sitting at our kitchen table drinking his morning coffee. I found him when l woke up that morning at 7:40 am. I did CPR but I and the paramedics could not save him. I forget now when this happened but l never forgot it. One sunny day l was going to go for a drive to Bancroft, Ontario about a 30 minute drive from my home. As l walked out my kitchen door and was on my deck all of a sudden a butterfly landed on my nose. I automatically said awe Leo thank you for the kiss. This was truly amazing as l was 52 years old and never in all my life had a butterfly land on me. I knew instantly it was my husband giving me a kiss.