Guides Guide. Loved Ones Love.

Guides Guide. Loved Ones Love.

When I speak to groups, one of the biggest ah-ha moments they have is the understanding of message “our guides guide and our loved ones love.”

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Feeling Your Loved Ones Aren't There? Here's Why

Many people feel that their deceased loved ones have given up on them. They feel they aren't getting help/direction from them.

This is because the role our loved ones have in the afterlife is to simply love and encourage. It is not their role to guide us… that is the role of our spirit guides.

See the difference? Guides Guide Loved Ones Love.

Example: praying to your deceased mother to help you in a situation isn't going to happen. Doing so only causes you unnecessary frustration. Your guides, however, are standing by both ready and willing to help you.

Think of it this way. My nephew is in soccer right now. His coach is his guide. His job is to listen to the direction of the coach and the coach is to help him win. My job is to cheer my nephew on, give him love, encouragement and support. In other words, it is NOT my role to coach him.

Guides guide. Loved ones love.

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By |2018-05-03T10:15:24+00:00March 29th, 2015|Life After Death|23 Comments

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  1. Susan Michelle Lucas April 6, 2015 at 9:06 pm - Reply

    I am interested in meeting with you i am (have been going through a lot) i want to know what you are able to sense. I dont want someone who’s fake. My date of birth is April 2, 1968. Hope to here room you.

    • Helen January 29, 2017 at 8:45 am - Reply

      Would it be possible to get private reading while here in Vegas? And how much would it be? I am very stuck since my twin flame died 7 years ago…I don’t see that you answered amine here. If you do, please private message. Thank you

  2. Kelley Rogers April 8, 2015 at 6:27 am - Reply

    Hello, I have attended your webinar. Do you do telephone readings? I am in desperate need of your gelp.

    Thank you,
    Kelley Rogers

  3. patrick April 20, 2015 at 1:37 pm - Reply

    I think its possible for members of family to also guide. Why not? Mom did it here, she sure could do it better from beyond IMO.

  4. Patricia Tipton April 20, 2015 at 1:42 pm - Reply

    Does my mom, dad & brother ever come visit me ? If so, how do I know ?

  5. dave April 20, 2015 at 1:50 pm - Reply

    since my wife pass away last september she not my spirit gluid will i find out my spirit guide is

    • Blair Robertson April 20, 2015 at 2:20 pm - Reply

      I am sorry for your loss. Please DO discover your guides. You do have them and they will comfort you. Your wife is still alive in spirit, my friend.

  6. Tia April 20, 2015 at 2:15 pm - Reply

    Yes !! After my father passed he would visit in dreams , he never gave advice but he did give me a feeling of love and I’m never alone. My grandmother visited me after she passed. I was distraught in my waking life. She approached me in my dream hugged me and said everything will be alright and then she left. I woke with the most relieved sense of well being.

    • Blair Robertson April 20, 2015 at 2:19 pm - Reply

      THAT is wonderful, Tia. Our loved ones will *always* be there to love us, support us and encourage us. And it is a tremendous relief to know that they are alive in spirit! Very well said! <3

  7. korena April 20, 2015 at 2:40 pm - Reply

    how do we know who are guide or guides are???? I have prayed and tried your seminar that was online a few months back , I just cant clear my mind it goes a mile a minute. I really need to connect to my lost loved ones and spirit guides or guides and would love to know who they are. Please help.

  8. Pam Cruise April 20, 2015 at 2:56 pm - Reply

    After my first husband died I got a visit or I went to him. I don’t know. But I can tell you a voice told me he was the one for you. The love I felt was beyond anything I can begin to describe . It was filled peace warmth and so so much more. I often wonder if I went to him or he came to me. And I do feel him keeping me from eating the wrong things lol.

  9. Lynn Gasbarino April 20, 2015 at 3:07 pm - Reply

    You’re bang on, as usual! My husband recently passed on, and I know he’s there with encouragement and love only.

  10. Sylvia April 20, 2015 at 3:29 pm - Reply

    I meditate with your mp3 Audio garden and I am having connections everyday whether in my dreams and signs from my loved ones and signs from my spirit guide or guides. I tell ya, doing this meditation does really work!! My spirit guide helped me with two gas leaks and probably saved my life. I cannot tell you happy I am about this. Thank you.

  11. June Williams April 20, 2015 at 3:34 pm - Reply

    Hi Blair can u please tell .e if y still do your predictions pave on here or Facebook now as I haven’t seen them at all for a long time do u still do them please and how can I receive them again please regards june williams.

  12. Katherine April 20, 2015 at 8:38 pm - Reply

    I love your blogs. I have a ? My niece died in January, suicide by cops. She was more like a daughter to me; left behind 2 kids, 10 & 18. I’m overwhelmed with the “what-ifs” and WHY??? My question is do you have any suggestions on how to deal with these feelings? Thank-you for any feedback.

  13. Janette April 20, 2015 at 10:35 pm - Reply

    Very interesting. A few days after my mother passed, I had an experience of being surrounded by an overpowering love. It was a most powerful experience, and it was her way of saying she is always there to love and support. But I seem to turn elsewhere for guidance. After reading something you wrote, I found the pendulum I used to use, and have been using that for guidance. My experience of the pendulum is asking and receiving answers, as well as experiencing the pendulum a few times, for a few moments, being filled with light. Thanks for explaining the difference. This is an ah-ha moment for me!

  14. Kelly Element April 21, 2015 at 5:34 am - Reply

    Love your blog! I can’t wait to see you in Windsor, Ontario on April 30. Even if I don’t get a reading myself, I am looking forward to others’ being read. I am going to bring lots of kleenex because I always cry when I see someone else cry lol!

  15. linda April 21, 2015 at 6:45 am - Reply

    i just want to know is my uncle or my dad around our family my uncle recently passed away and we where very close

  16. Wendy Simmons April 22, 2015 at 3:00 pm - Reply

    In August 19, 2005 My ex husband and the father of my children. Took his life and he had told me that he was dien and yes he was I’ll at that time. He did say to me that he will always be with use in sport! I would love to know if he is watching over us.

  17. dave May 14, 2015 at 1:32 pm - Reply

    my wife pass away 8 months ago . we done everything togeter and went everywhere togeter .i love and miss her every day .i was wondleing if she is with me now .her name is patti .thanks

  18. Julie June 1, 2015 at 4:40 am - Reply

    How do you know if your guides are trying to tell you something?

  19. ARLENE March 9, 2017 at 11:52 am - Reply

    I was taught we only pray to God, and no other idol’s. Because he is a jealous God. So when u say to pray to ur guides, i have stepped back. Im in non denominational Church. I know Catholics pray to a lot of different saints etc. And i don’t want make God mad.

  20. Lucy Tsanakas August 12, 2017 at 8:08 am - Reply

    Please let me know when u will be closer or in Chicago NORTHWEST AREA

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