2 Easy Ways To Connect With Your Spirit Guides

2 Easy Ways To Connect With Your Spirit Guides

How Do I Connect With My Spirit Guides?

One of the biggest questions I get asked on a regular basis is “how I connect with my spirit guides?” Well I have good news for you, it's a lot easier than you think. And when you do make that connection you'll see  an immediate improvement in your life.

[featured-image single_newwindow=”false”]Would you like that? Imagine this…

Imagine you're traveling somewhere. You're driving a car Down the dirt road and you find yourself at a crossroads, without a map or a clue where you're going. You are absolutely lost.

But standing at the corner is a friendly manner woman who happily points you in the right direction.

That's what your spirit guides can do for you.

However, here's what spirit guides can't do: they can't make you listen, nor can they force you to take action.

Your free will is yours and yours alone to do with as you please.

Here Are 2 Easy Steps To Connecting With Your Spirit Guides

1. You Are Already Connected To Your Spirit Guides.

I have good news for you! You are already connected with your guides! 

Each and everyone of us have spirit guides. Everyone has at least one guide, some have many guides. Just know this: You don't have to do anything to connect with your guides.

Your guides have been with you since you took your very first breath and they will be with you until you take your last.

That step was easy! Step one: there's nothing to do! LOL. You are already connected. Seriously.

But Blair, how do I know I have guides? 

Have you ever heard the expression “my conscience is my guide”? Well, Guess what? Your conscience IS your guide. 

That's why when you do something wrong and nobody sees you your conscience gets the better of you. That discomfort you feel is your guides letting you know you have taken a bad step.

So, here's step two.

2. Ask Your Spirit Guides For Signs

Your guides understand you better than anyone. So why not take advantage of that and make the most of it?

Your guides have been assigned to you since birth to help you through your lifetime to live your life to the fullest and be the happiest you could possibly be.

It's as simple as asking your guidance to give you direction in your daily life. Ask your guides for signs.

While guides will not perform tricks for you, they'll understand that you are unsure of them at the beginning. It's only natural, Especially if you've lived your whole life without trusting in them. So ask them for some signs.

Seriously, Blair? Can it really be THAT easy?

Answer: yes. Start trusting in your guides. That inner voice. The direction.

Be open to the signs you receive. The signs are often subtle and appear as coincidences, so knowledge them when you find them. In essence you'll be developing a new relationship with your guide that will leads ultimately to a happier and more fulfilled life!

Want to learn more? Please check out my awesome best-selling book, Spirit Guides by clicking here.

Post your comments and questions below!

By |2018-05-03T10:15:24+00:00May 19th, 2014|Meditation, Spirit Guides|50 Comments

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  1. Jamie May 19, 2014 at 12:57 pm - Reply

    WHAT are guides?i.e. Are they souls departed? Passed Family Members? How do they “get that job” for lack of a better way of asking this question! Are they tied to you biologically from the physical world? Even from centuries ago?

    • Joanne Cudney May 19, 2014 at 6:31 pm - Reply

      I have had a rough past 3 yrs, my 24 yr marriage ended, 3 of my 4 kids are addicts and I’ve stopped enabling them so we are now estranged, my dad passed away while we were angry with each other and I have had more heartache in these 3 yrs than I think in my whole life; ( I feel so alone and unloved but yet there’s always this feeling of someone looking out for me, of beautiful things coming to me in the midst of all my pain and even today as I had to euthanize 2 of my beloved dogs, I got into my car hysterically crying, turned on the radio and immediately the song that started playing was an old song that says ooh child things are gonna get easier, oh child things will be brighter, one day you’ll walk in the rays of the beautiful sun. Immediately I smiled and felt a sense of comfort and peace:) I guess my spirit guides are always there when I need them:)

      • Kari Meberg May 20, 2014 at 6:47 am - Reply

        That is exactly how it works!! Hang in there!
        I’ve made it through some really dark days and life is improving as I learn more about myself.

  2. Michelle May 19, 2014 at 1:02 pm - Reply

    I know it’s not important to KNOW your spirit guides name but I would like to so I know to direct my question to my guide or guides and NOT some evil entities because I know they would love to trick you if given the chance or an open door. Thank you!

  3. carole mclay May 19, 2014 at 1:06 pm - Reply

    I would very much like to know for sure I have Spirit Guides. My life is a bit hard at the moment and I need all the help I can get.

    • Barbara Pruitt January 13, 2017 at 7:14 pm - Reply

      I pray to Jesus, my Lord, God and the Holy Spirit…for guidance for some specific help. If I understand that I should be connecting with my Spirit Guides fo guidance….that confuses me in my faith….This is causing me anxiety because I want to believe.

  4. Claudia Salerno May 19, 2014 at 1:12 pm - Reply

    Hi Blair,

    My paternal grandmother was psychic and my father, a psychic medium. I knew between the ages of ten to eleven that I am psychic. (I have other abilities I don’t understand and therefore have never used.) My father never called upon spiritual guides or channeled spirits, they just came to him. The psychic abilities we have are just there w/o any of us having to do anything such as meditation for example. So, my question is why do you and other psychic mediums talk about calling upon spiritual guides, channeling or using meditation? Is it because in my family it is “just a part of us” so to speak and passed on generationally and for your and others it something studied and learned? .

    • Kornelia May 17, 2017 at 3:48 pm - Reply

      Know what you mean it comes naturally it runs in my family to just different in each of us for me too I can’t get used to the thought of guides or meditation I try to keep a open mind but for me it just is part of my life always thought it was normal

  5. paula joan perrenod May 19, 2014 at 1:21 pm - Reply

    I would like to know if my spirit guides are my deceased parents? How will I know who they are?

    • Cheryl May 19, 2014 at 5:18 pm - Reply

      No they’re not your deceased parents. Your guide is your conscience just like Blair explained 🙂 hope this helps.

  6. Lynn May 19, 2014 at 1:27 pm - Reply

    I would love t know how many spirit guides I have and what their names are please! I know I must have more than one after all it can take a lot to get through this thick skull of mine. lol

  7. Jenise May 19, 2014 at 1:39 pm - Reply

    I had a guide visit me in my dreams after weeks of trying to communicate with them. I was meditating and “OM’ trying to open the third eye. It took weeks and we finally meet. His name is Giwain, pronounced like Taiwan. He came to visit again and this time he spoke and I freaked so I stopped trying to talk to him. There is a woman too but I don’t know her name. She has a heavy accent and was saying my name while I was sleep. It sounded weird. When I woke up an corrected her. I haven’t tried to talk to them in a couple of years now.

  8. Penny Veach May 19, 2014 at 1:41 pm - Reply

    I’m wondering do spirit guide’s show themselves? I have had two encounters of seeing ghosts or spirits through my peripheral vision but when I turn quickly they aren’t there. One was a little girl about 4 years old standing next to me staring straight ahead. Her dress looked like the 1800 ‘s.the second one was a man with a white shirt and plaid pants standing behind me.nothing was said between us.what did they want and what does it mean? I’ve been looking for these answers for months now.

  9. Carol Franks May 19, 2014 at 1:42 pm - Reply

    As I understand, spirit guides join with you at your in the birth. Often they are the spirits of deceased people, sometimes we know them, I think they often volunteer for the job.
    I often speak to my guides, if I get an answer I hear it in my own voice, which confuses me. I’m not sure if it’s myself answering or my guide. I’m thinking that if it is myself answering, it could be my “Higher Self” which is equivalent to a spirit guide. I’m trying to learn to “go with my gut” on some decisions and let the chips fall where they may. So far, I haven’t been misdirected.
    I’ve tried to do visualizations to meet my spirit guide but I’m not good at that, once I had my guide, my guardian angel and my deceased husband sitting at a table to have a “conference” with me. I could only see a shape with no features for both my guide and angel, my husband I could see clearly. I asked “What should I do? How do I go on?” my husband said “Live!”. It was the best message I could have received. My angel and guide both knew it was best to hear it from him and they did not want their appearance to be a distraction, so they were quiet. I’d like to try it again, I just can’t quiet my brain down enough.
    I would appreciate any suggestions from you, Blair. I would also appreciate anything you might hear from my husband. I would like to be able to communicate with him, but I think maybe he feels that I wouldn’t let go of him again. It took me a long time to remove the cloak of grieving and start to make room for someone new in my life, I don’t want to mess that up and I imagine my husband doesn’t either. Maybe he could help me win the lottery!

  10. Tamra Gilman May 19, 2014 at 1:53 pm - Reply

    Do i have a sprit guide if so who and do i have more than one. I im saving so i can do a reading with you for a person who has passed…..

  11. tina jonell williams May 19, 2014 at 2:13 pm - Reply

    how do I no it is from my spritegied and how do I ask for them thank you love you god bless you

  12. Jackie Taylor May 19, 2014 at 2:13 pm - Reply

    Hi Blair,
    I’ve been asking my guides to show themselves to me in my dreams or somehow give me a sign. I’ve also mentioned to them , if I am blocking them, I certainly don’t mean to, if they could help me to unblock.
    I’ve been doing this for the last 3 months, yet I still don’t feel a connection.
    Any suggestions.

  13. Martha Jette May 19, 2014 at 2:27 pm - Reply

    Hi Blair:

    Firstly, I did not know that you are a Canadian. I would love to interview you some time for my column on the Examiner.com. This column covers anything and everything about the paranormal world.

    Secondly, I do ask for help but I have always called on the angels. And… they do respond, sometimes within minutes of my asking. Perhaps I am really communicating with my guides. It is difficult to tell. All I know is that I get results most of the time, whether it is an item I lost/misplaced or in one instance, a building I needed to find downtown. In the latter case, a man walked right out of a nearby business and right up to me asking if I needed assistance. He did not just tell me where the building was, he took me right to the front steps!

  14. Christina Gubbels May 19, 2014 at 2:28 pm - Reply


    I have been told I have three spirit guides, and I would like deeper guidance from them. I too want to know their names. I also have an unusual request regarding my daughter, who I have been told now has a walk-in soul. She fell gravely ill in 2009 & because of the dramatic changes I seeked help. Any help?

  15. james May 19, 2014 at 3:29 pm - Reply

    can we have bad guides,i seem to have bad ones,always guiding me to do bad things,the wrong things,is this possible, and shadows moving aroundare these guides?

  16. onalee avinger May 19, 2014 at 3:51 pm - Reply

    I miss my mom and want to know she is alright with everything I did in her last days on earth. How do I do this!! It would help me to not grieve as much as I have been I think if I knew she is fine with everything!! I constantly think I should of… I could of … and I just need to know if I did it right and if she heard me before she died. Thank you !!

  17. Delilah Upshall May 19, 2014 at 4:09 pm - Reply

    I did ask a question stating my romantic soulmate has crossed over and I know he will be there waiting for me when I croos over, but is this the end of real love for me in this life? I know I won’t find another like him, but it would be nice to find someone to spend the rest of my life with.

  18. Delilah Upshall May 19, 2014 at 4:11 pm - Reply

    I know my romantic soulmate has crossed over and I know I will never find a love like him again, but will I find another love to spend the rest of my life with or is that part of my life over?

  19. Rita Yon May 19, 2014 at 4:12 pm - Reply


  20. Sandra Mekdeci May 19, 2014 at 4:16 pm - Reply

    Dear Blair,
    I have suffered with phobias and anxieties for as long as I can remember. I avoid the things that I’m phobic about and although my world is limited so to speak, I get along as best I could. Lately I am having anxiety and panic while driving! I have to rid myself of this or I will lose my job and won’t be able to live without a paycheck. I call out to anyone who will listen, meaning God or my spirit guides to please help me. But still I get in the car with so much anxiety that I don’t want to drive and to just leave the car and walk home! Help me to get in touch with my guide so I do not have to give up the freedom of driving where I need to go.
    Thank you, Sandra

  21. Sandi May 19, 2014 at 5:42 pm - Reply

    I frequently dream of the same woman, I feel as though I know her,although I know no one like her nor does she resemble any one I know in this life. I would like to have more dreams with/of her that I am able to recall upon awakening. Any suggestions?

  22. rosemary May 19, 2014 at 8:02 pm - Reply

    Hi i don’t know what to do i love someone but there with someone else and i ask for a sign but no answer

  23. Bonnie Hansen May 20, 2014 at 7:40 am - Reply

    Good morning Blair
    I am so happy to get your e-mails.
    I wonder if you can help me… All my family members have left this world – all I have left is my daughter and granddaughter.
    I miss my family more than ever – because I’m in very poor health and have no one to talk to anymore. I don’t want to burden
    my daughter with things because we are not that close. My mother died in 1999 – my brother a few mths. after that and my
    dad April 2013. my dad lived with me and he died at home in the night – I found him the next morning. I feel my father still around
    me all the time… I talk to him and my mom . All I want to know if they are together and happy in heaven – please let me know…
    Thank you…

  24. Cayce May 20, 2014 at 8:00 am - Reply

    Namaste Blair,

    It was 3 years ago, while I was asleep, I suddenly woke up real early in the morning and there stood a man at the foot of my bed. When I looked at him, all I could feel is pure love, as he stood there looking at me, he smiled. I then went to get out of my bed, because I wanted to hug him and as I stood up and to move toward him, he was gone. I cannot explain the deep feelings of the love that I felt that day. From the time I turned 50, in 2010, I had breast cancer. I did the radiation treatment, then I ended up with skin cancer, and then Lupus. It was one thing after another with illness. I ended up having to go on disability, because my entire body is in pain. So two days after seeing my spirit guide (The beautiful soul) I ended up having a “TIA”.. I went to the hospital and stayed for 24 hrs. Everything came back ‘OK” and while I was in the hospital, I thought about the man who was at the foot of my bed.

    Chip Coffey, psychic medium was coming to Las Vegas, NV for his Coffey Talk show and I purchased a VIP ticket, with hopes that I would be picked to ask him some questions about my love ones who has passed. So while I was hoping to get picked, I was the last person he picked to ask a question, and I ended up asking Chip Coffey about the beautiful soul who stood at the foot of my bed, his name.
    I knew the love ones who has passed, are okay, but it was important for me to know my spirit guides name. His name is Joshua and when Chip Coffey said his name, I felt real connected to my spirit guides name, because I have always loved that name. I almost named my second son Joshua, but ended up naming him Jason instead. My spirit guide “Joshua” was there to let me know that everything was going to be alright.

    Thank you for allowing us to share…. Love and Light… Cayce

  25. Helene May 20, 2014 at 1:23 pm - Reply

    Hi Blair,

    I believe in angels,I am a Reiki Practitionner for family and friends when doing a treatment I always ask the angels, my spirit guides, and my Reiki guides and the spirits of Master Mikao Usui Sensei for guidance for healing. They always come true, I think this is amazing that people are more open for spirits guides. And you are one to open the door for them.



  26. rosemary May 24, 2014 at 9:36 pm - Reply

    Hi how are u i wood like to know who im going to mary am i going to be happy thank u

  27. Shirley June 13, 2014 at 5:23 am - Reply

    Hi there I would love to connect with my late husband Donald who passed almost 14 yrs ago…
    I could not find where to type his name so I put it here..

  28. Lynne Chown June 14, 2014 at 12:56 pm - Reply

    Hi Blair…I would like to connect with my dads for Father’s Day but since we can only pick one, I pick my step-dad, LeRoy, as he raised me. I didn’t see a comment section on your blog page so I’m leaving this comment here…Thanks for doing this!

  29. Marty Elliott June 15, 2014 at 12:31 am - Reply

    I would like to know how to connect with my spirit guides or angels. I lost my mother in 2008 and I miss her everyday. She had some tremendous health problems before she passed and was in a lot of pain. I was not there when she passed, I live 2,000 miles away. Would like to know if she is happy on the other side. I also lost an ex boyfriend last year and believe he was still in love with me and would like to connect with him somehow and have closure. Thanks for any help you can give. I have not had experiences with any spirit guides or angels that I know of.

  30. nancy cookey December 15, 2014 at 6:22 pm - Reply

    Blair i would like to connect with my sister who died unexpectedly and my mom who died 21 yes age and my father whos been gon for 14 yrs and my baby daughter who died in 89. would love to learn how to connect with them so i could know some things if there ture or not thanks so much

  31. Chenaye August 1, 2015 at 4:30 am - Reply

    Hello I was just wondering who is my guide and how can I Connect more with my guide,also is my guid telling me to look out for anything?

  32. Gina January 28, 2017 at 11:46 pm - Reply

    Thank you Blair, I needed this!! Love n Light to you!

  33. Nancy Kilby January 29, 2017 at 2:42 pm - Reply

    Thank you! I thought several times that I just might be talking to myself when I ask for my guide to show me signs. But it just couldn’t be a coincidence of how I was answered. Took the doubt out of me. And opened my mind a bit more to be aware and more in tune to my surroundings and how I feel about the moments in question. Thank you for being so helpful to so many. 🙂 Nancy k. so let me tell you how… I was on vaca in Florida in a hotel with balcony on a pond and a little isolated.. I was aprehensive to my safety at night. I did 2 things, I asked for a sign from my Mom that she was with me ( I asked before I got there too) and I asked to see something the next day that was so out of place to know it came from her. Well I dreamt of her and heard her calling out my name in her loving voice that woke me up that next morning. Then as I toured Ft. Meyers downtown I saw a Indian vest . Adorned with the tradtional beads and suede -ish materal and I just knew when I saw it between two large colomns , there it was. Something really out of place. No one claimed it. so I have it. But I felt more love in that moment than I had in such a long time. :):) I just knew that i was answered. End of Story

  34. Carol January 31, 2017 at 11:16 am - Reply

    So many people ignore the signs that are in front of them, everyday. Its so important to pay attention to the smallest signs. I am on high alert all the time for signs. Funny but, a few of mine have been,
    after my father passed, the next day my husband and I awoke at the same time. While lying in bed, I smelt the strong odor of Old Spice, my fathers only cologne, coming through the vents. I told my husband, my dad is here, I was able to express my love for him. Then after my husband passed, I was in my car and decided to grab a cd from his selection at random, to play. The first song was a song that the first line was, heavenly father up above, please take care of the one I love. I totally lost it. Had to pull over until the tears stopped. I have so many more stories, maybe I will write a book one day.

  35. Jenny BomBerry March 10, 2017 at 3:46 pm - Reply

    I believe … I believe…that 2 spirit guides (bear claw spirit guide & my guide) will help me connect w/marines buddy who has died w/mine …so that I can tell my marine…his buddy wants him 2 go on living…& not b sick bcause he survived!

  36. Katalina March 18, 2017 at 9:16 am - Reply

    My dather saw something when she went to sleep she saw a girl passing bye and she cried .

  37. Deborah Edwards March 20, 2017 at 11:18 pm - Reply

    I have had a lot of tragic events happen in my life and I have lived my life internationally since 13 years old including all my high school offshore to my parents. My now deceased mum said to me I always seem to find someone to lean on during periods of need and its true – perfect strangers being there for me. Thank you spirit guides (an example was when my partner was in hospital for a biopsy for a brain tumour, I was there by myself, John had a lot of problems for this simple procedure and the estimated time tripled for him to return back to the ward. I was beside myself but this lovely older lady sat with me holding my hands for hours until John returned. I never saw her again).

  38. kathy May 27, 2017 at 4:20 pm - Reply

    Hello. Over the past few months my mothers photo has fallen down from the wall. Seems to be when about the time my husband and I are having a discussion about my childhood abuse.I’m presently in counselling. My Mother was a very controlling and cruel Mother to me. This is scaring me abit. thanks

  39. Heather June 21, 2017 at 9:40 pm - Reply

    Shortly after my father passed suddenly of a heart attack when i was 21, a light in his utility room which was directly across from my door came on in miidle of night. A lil backstory, was that my father was working long hours at work then wud get home and work feverishly to finish the rest of our basement on a living room area with cabinets and wet bar. He was doggedly tired but wud push himself to get it done. It was shoortly after he finished the downstairs that he passed. But he kept alot of his tools and his stuff in that utility room. My door was closed but i saw a light come on. I slowly crept to that door and quickly opened the door to his utility room. Nothing was in there so i turned off the light and ran to my bedroom and jumped into my bed. A couple seconds later the light turned on again. I was freaked out but got the feeling it was my father. Then in what i call a visitation some say a dream my father had come to me and asked me if my mom was gonna sale the house??? I never have been sure if he wanted her to or if he didnt want her too. I also had a girlfriend stay over at my fathers house with me and she had let one of her friends stay there too. He didnt know anything about my family but he stayed upatairs on the couch. He said all night long he heard someone walking up and down the stairs all night long and said it freaked him out…lol. just a lil stippet of things i believe was my father after his passing. Bless everyone!

  40. Carol August 10, 2017 at 1:02 pm - Reply

    I have a question. I sometimes have a “conversation” with my Spirit Guide, when the guide answers, I hear him/her in my voice. Is this how you hear your guide?

  41. Tracy September 5, 2017 at 6:17 pm - Reply

    I recently had my first ever reading, I am intrigued and want to know more. I am open to learn who my spirit guid or guides are. I want to live the best and happies life I can. I will ask for them to show me signs and look forward to seeing what happens.

  42. Tracy Haines October 6, 2017 at 7:02 am - Reply

    I am really going to given this a proper try, as you say you have to believe and trust this process, thank you Blair, I am looking forward to my future.

  43. Donna Degregorio January 9, 2018 at 9:30 pm - Reply

    Do you believe in evil entities? How do we protect ourselves from them?

  44. Sue Hewett March 22, 2018 at 9:38 pm - Reply

    I got a alert today on my phone which I do all day long but I don’t usually check. I looked and it was a email saying that you will be here in Washington June 9th. I told my fiancee and he quickly booked two tickets for the two of us. I lost my son last November and almost took my life the other night but for some reason it didn’t work no matter how much I tried so I ended up in the ER and I will start grievance counseling next Friday. I so badly want my son to let me know he’s okay that I can’t think of anything else besides that and it seems like I was doing okay but then all of a sudden I felt completely backwards into the same feeling of just losing him. We also lost our beloved dog that was almost 16 a couple weeks ago and he passed away in my arms and my heart feels like it’s been taken. I lost my dad about 15 years ago and quite a few friends in between but nothing has hit me as hard as the loss of my son and I so wish that I had a spirit guide to give me strength and at times I do see things that I feel are signs and I take them to heart literally. I just want to know he’s in a good place and that God has welcomed him. I am so looking forward to this meeting conference with you and I know that I might not be called on but I pray to God that my son comes through because that would be like having my life back and it will never completely be the same but to know that my son has reached out to me would definitely be something I would never ever forget. I am so happy that you will be here and I’m so happy that you do this through our Lord God and Jesus Christ and also the Holy Spirit. I have been told to watch out for people that can do this type of work but I honestly believe you are working with God and you have the powers to do this for people so that is why I am totally 100% excited yet nervous to be a part of this on June 9th. I was in disbelief when I got that message and how I look at it right away to me that was something right there and I have faith that one way or another I will find peace. I just hope that if I am not picked by seeing somebody else having that feeling that their loved ones are okay will make me so very happy. I want the best for everyone and I’m not selfish and I know this is not a guarantee but to me to know that I will be a part of this makes me have the strength to keep moving in the right direction. God saved me the other day and he has saved me many times but this was the first time I actually tried to take my own life. There is a lot of family suicide in my family but I have never felt that in my own self so it is very scary to know that it’s in there and that it’s deep and it’s hard so I pray to God that I find some strength to keep going not just for myself but for the family and people that love me even though at times I feel very unloved because I feel very depressed. When people see me they think I am one of the most outgoing nicest people but underneath that layer I am just a little child grieving the loss of so many but particularly my son. God bless everybody that is reading this and thank you 4 giving me a reason to keep on going because there is many reasons but the pain sometimes is so overbearing that I actually want to feel it not just inside but on the outside so that is why I did what I did and I hope I don’t get anyone that thinks low of me because of this as a matter of fact this is not my nature but something took over me that night.

  45. Stephanie Towers March 26, 2018 at 1:42 pm - Reply

    Hi Blair,

    Can your animals come back again to you in another form of animal or the same ?

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