Christmas Spirit Connection

Christmas Spirit Connection: Connect With Your Deceased Loved Ones Christmas Day

WATCH the video, please. The following is only a thumbnail summary. The video IS important.

I conducted this experiment several years ago with a very small mailing list with tremendous success… frankly, I'm embarrassed to say it hasn't occurred to me to repeat it until TODAY!!!

Three Easy Steps:

1. Post name and relationship below. Example, “My Dad, George.” No need for details or story. Just three or four words.

I will read this list at 12:01 Christmas day (in the USA)… every single name… no matter how long the list. More in a moment.

2. Have a photo or a memento of the loved one nearby during Christmas day, December 25th, 2012. It is very helpful to light a candle, if only briefly, as well. A beeswax candle is BEST.

3a. Ask your guides to facilitate a connection from your loved one on Christmas day. Be OPEN to a connection no matter how dramatic or minute it might be. Be thankful–in advance–for ANY connection. Big or small. VERY important.

3b. VERY IMPORTANT: ask/pray for a connection for OTHERS *BEFORE* you. If 1000 people ask the same… imagine the amazing POWER that that will hold. People praying for YOU, YOU praying for others. One hand washes the other. Do this with the spirit/attitude that if you don't make a connection yourself, you will rejoice in a connection for others. Be self-LESS, not self-ISH. Get it? πŸ™‚

4. PROMISE that you will report back–as soon as possible BELOW–the connection you made.

That's it.

On December 25th, at 12:01am MST in the USA, I will read through the list and ask my guides and pray for each and every one of you to have an experience/connection.

I'm EXCITED for this! I'm EXCITED to facilitate this… this isn't from ME… this is from my guides… my friends… that recommended I conduct this again… I'm SO GRATEFUL and SO MUCH look forward to the results!

Get going!!! Post the contact below!!!

NOTICE: Please… only ONE name per person. ONE contact only. We want to focus ALL of our energy on this ONE contact for each of us. πŸ™‚ IF YOU POST MORE THAN ONE NAME, YOUR POST WILL BE DELETED! Let's make this happen, people! Let's sound off alarm bells on the other side that we WANT a connection. Be open, be ready and get READY to experience a connection! πŸ™‚


Please note: I reserve the right to delete comments that are offensive or off-topic.

889 thoughts on “Christmas Spirit Connection

    • I awakened at 330am, and my my Mother’s presence, was in my room. I saw her, and felt her presence with me, and she talked to me, about what I am going thru right now, with the coming passing of my precious husband. She spoke to me about my life, and accomplishments. It was a precious gift, and I thank you, for facilitating, this process. I do communicate with my guides, on a regular basis, but I needed my Mother’s love, at this time. Blessings to you, and your precious family, at the Holiday season, and all year long.
      Namaste. Our guides, and loved ones, are always with us, and love the communication.

  1. Thank You Blair and Thank You to your Guides. This will be alot of work. Merry Christmas! πŸ™‚

    • Thank you so much Blair!!! I didn’t hear or feel anything on Christmas day. I figured it’s been too long. I like contesting and doing sweepstakes on line and I’m actually pretty lucky. Today at 2:00 pm I notice in my news-feed that a coin and gold company has 5 unclaimed twelve days of Christmas prizes unclaimed. So they will re-draw names for the prizes at 3:00. My dad loved coins. So I said, out loud, “Daddy if you’re here give me some luck.” At 3:00 My name was one of those drawn and I won a Gold Coin!!! That was my sign my Daddy is here. I am positive! That gives me so much comfort! Thank you and God bless you my friend. Sincerely and with love James Kennedy

  2. My Mum Noelene G Lyall..I am sending all the Love and Best wishes 2 you ,and you all to be Touched by your Special Angels..

  3. too many that id want to reconnect with, good luck to everyone else and thank you blair, very kind thing for you ot be doing Merry christmas to you and your family

  4. I hope you are enjoying your peace and i hope u come back to visit me once and a while! I LOVE YOU!!!! & MISS YOU !!!!!! Merry Christmas!!! Nick will continue here

  5. Lovely idea Blair. Blessings to you and Happy Christmas to everyone.
    I’ll be tuning in for my mum Pam and my dad Johnno xx

  6. My grandma Else

    Merry Christmas to you too!

    (I was going to say my dog but you said the name of a person…)

  7. My Grandfather, William Miner and my mom’s first husband Ernie Lionel. There is a connection with the two. Merry Christmas Blair, and thank you very much!

  8. My Grandparents James Donald Doak and Janette Forsyth Doak

    Merry Christmas Everyone Peace and Love to ALL

    • can’t say that I honestly had an experience yesterday, but it’s ok. Mama will come to me in her own time I guess. Sure hope some of the others here had their experiences though. Many blessings to all.

  9. High School sweetheart, James

    I don’t know if my 1st request was posted for I did not see it, but here is the same one. I hope you do not delete it.

  10. my son, Roger (aka Pee Wee) I pray we all get to see our loved ones. I do think they are always around, we just have too quiet are minds. see you on christmas Pee Wee.

  11. krystal weatherholt – love of my life, my best friend. my soul till the end. she died sep 1 2012 we are only 29

  12. Shirley Horton my Mom
    Dede Sturgill-Phillips my sister
    “Princess” my wonderful dog
    Nanny – my grandmother Dorathy Horton

    • I was getting the table ready for dinner,the same table my mother sat at as a child. I needed to put 2 leafs in the table and they where under a bed, when I pulled them out, in between them was a Canadian 2 dollar coin. I find coins many places I go and understand that that is one way the spirits will make connections. I told my family, they think I am just looking for answers, but I know in my heart of hearts, it was my Mom.

    • I received a phone call today from my niece who also has a drug addiction and she told me that she has been to three meetings in three days. I feel that is my son watching over her as he knows how much I pray that she will get the help he was not able to.

  13. Merry Christmas Everyone from ChCh NZ…I did everything you said Blair I prayed to my Angels to have my Mum near me and for a sign and this Morning when I opened a Gift from a Dear Friend ,,in it was the Perfume my Mother used to wear..I Love her so much and know today she is with us all…Im off to spray myself and every room in the House…

  14. My dad Arthur,my dear dad has never come through to me and he died 35 years ago, a wee hello from him is long

  15. My loving wife,Jo-Anne. You will always be in my heart. I miss you so. Wait for me on the other side of the river.

  16. My Dad, J. B. Waddell
    to the families who want contact with their loves ones and most recently the lil ones of Newtown Connecticut

  17. I hope that you received my post, I wanted to connect with my mother and father Jean and Joe. I posted last evening and did not see my post.

  18. Yes! It took all of 15 min about 5 min of waiting then I heard my Grandma’s voice like she entered a room of laughter. She said “you been working hard” and I said “not hard enough”. She told me to ignore my mother. I asked if Grandpa was with her and I heard him loud and clear! He said “you’ve got allot on the ball” They said they were happy. Then I waited somemore as I said my Dad Rudy can come thru if he wants. He was shy and soft spoken but I recognized his voice. I was apologetic and he told me not to worry. He said he was in a good place with allot of his friends and that not all of them made it to where he is. He then said about your mother . . just ignore her. She can’t stand it that everyone is ignoring her that’s why she lashes out. I said I love you and everybody excused themselves and said they had to do, 1st Nona then when they left I spoke to Rudy and then he left. I cried after Grandma and Grandpa left. Thank you so much Blair. This was a wonderful Christmas Gift!

  19. Thank you Blair for your kindness. I will report back, should I get a visitation of some kind…Merry Christmas, and Bless you all!

  20. To my surprise, it worked. I did everything except post the original request — because I read this in the hospital with a ruptured ovary and instantly thought of and longed for my father’s care. Long story short, one lonely “orb” has been showing up in the random pictures I have taken of the Christmas tree tonight before my son wakes up. To make it even more special, the “orb” only shows up when I take pictures of my father’s dog under the tree. I have three dogs but it only shows up over his dog — a sign, I believe, is 100% him. Thank you, Blair and thank you, Daddy. Merry Christmas, everyone.

  21. Hi Blair,

    I had not put a name on the list, but my connection came in your email. I was taken by surprise because my mom passed in 1975 when I was 5 and I had not thought to request a connection. The poem you have included in your email is the poem that is on her memorial card with her picture that I have framed in my kitchen. Such a great surprise and a beautiful xmas gift. Thank you so much.

  22. hello Blair,
    I think your wonderful method is why we are on Earth – to help others. What better than full and open communication.
    It many years since I realised my habit of asking questions was faulty, because I didn’t have the means to understand ‘trust’.
    Since that time I have found that I could answer my own questions myself which in turn led to many realisations replacing fiction with fact.
    The following recently arrived to me during meditation:
    the paths you take lead to the worlds you make.
    This resonates with me. love and peace to the world, may all beings be happy.

  23. Well mine was very odd… I was marring Tom Cruise and I said I have to call my Dad and tell him. Didn’t speak to him but just the thought of calling him made me smile since I haven’t heard his voice in over 20 years! Thank you Blair for the great gift! <3

  24. Following your instructions to the best of my ability last night, I woke up this morning to snow falling outside. I light a white candle in memory of my friend and said Merry Christmas to him. I looked out and realized it has been some time since I fed the birds…none in sight and no seed for them was there to be had. I said that if I saw a cardinal in the snow I knew it would be him. I put on my shoes and filled the feeders I have. About an hour later while standing over that candle and looking outside a single cardinal came up to the feeders and had breakfast. I have not seen a cardinal in my yard in over a year of feeding the birds. What a blessing it was to see. It made me cry. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  25. Yesterday driving up the mountains to spend xmas dinner with friends..out of the blue.on side of nose a definite touch,on area where nerves very osensitive cos of major surgery.. cousin as requested..I asked for repeat for confirmation and I got it lingering for a couple of minutes..Thanks Blair and everyone.

  26. I didnt get anything at all from my Dad,but i am truly happy for those that did get something.Love & Light.

  27. After posting my grandmothers name I had went to bed I was woke up by a container I have had up on a shelf for almost a year .. It came off and was laying next to my bed it did not startle me like I would think it should have , I just stayed in bed because I knew it was my grandma.. I just realized this was the connection this morning when I remembered I had posted on this I had not put the two together u til today lol Thanks Blaire !!

  28. I am so grateful, this morning I found her missing jewelry and was blessed with knowing my grandma is always with me.

  29. I wanted to connect with my late father, Gilder. I followed the steps, but nothing extraordinary happened. We were just “laying low” today, eating leftovers and watching the “Santa Clause” Christmas movies. I had never seen Santa Clause 2 or 3 and was surprised when, at the end of the Santa Clause 3 movie, Santa and Mrs. Claus revealed that they had named their baby “Buddy Claus”. My father was known to his grandchildren as “Big Buddy.”

    Merry Christmas, Daddy. Thanks, Blair!

  30. I believe my mother connected with me this morning. I had to work, I am a nurse so I did all what you instructed and this morning on my break I was by myself and the right side of my face got very cold and felt like a cold breeze on it. It startled me at first and then I realized it was must be my mom and I just broke down and cried, and I also smelled her, it was her distinct fragrance. Oh thank you so very much. This could not have happened at a better time, this is the first time in my 56 years that I did not have my mother with me for the holidays. She died in June and she was my best friend, we were more like sisters than mother and daughter. Blair thank you so very much. I needed that.

  31. My guest was a no show I think. I felt pulses on energy around and even through me and that was nice but expected in meditation. (?) At one point I felt a heaviness as though someone was sitting on me; not expected in meditation. What I did feel was Blair Robertson. I could feel you working very hard, you were sweating. I could feel you project yourself out there to all of us. Way out there in a very energetic way! That was fun and I think you ran off my guest! Fantastic Christmas fun.

  32. did not get anything from my mother yet but i am hopeful glad all you others did! the power of prayer is amazing!!!!!!!!!!! merry christmas!

  33. I was taking a nap. I heard a big knocking on my door . so i open my eyes and at that moment i saw my friend Nick. he has passed on dec 15 2012 and i couldnt believe my eyes . I saw him . i saw his face then it dissapered ! Im soo thankfull. Thank you Blair. Im really happy!

  34. Waited most of the day for a connection and couldn’t find one. So I started taking pics of the grandchildren and low and behold an orb showed up on my youngest granddaughters picture. I usually don’t get orbs with this camera so I’m sure I connected with my Dad, Claude!

  35. Thank you Blair. I had asked for a connection with my Dad, last night and today, many times. But I was asking it for my Mom, as this was her first Christmas alone (my Dad passed in March, my sister who lives with her had to work, and everyone else lives away or were away). I spoke to Mom tonight, without letting on what happened, and asked if she felt Dad around. She said she had felt like he was lying in bed beside her this morning. I also felt like he was around when I was making stuffing (that was his job, and I used to come help him when I was younger).

    I hope you had a Merry Christmas Blair, and thank you for the wonderful gift. I hope everyone else received their connections too.

  36. I really had nothing all day, but followed a family tradition with my two daughters …. after everyone leaves Christmas afternoon, we go to a movie. It is the one time in the year that the three of us are together. My younger daughter showed up wearing a red knitted hat. I commented on it, and she remarked that it had been “Aggie’s hat”. Aggie was my mother! By the way, the movie, Parental Guidance, was a comedy, which “Aggie” would have thoroughly enjoyed! So, all in all, it has been a wonderful Christmas. Thank you, Blair.

  37. Today I opened a box to get some gloves it got cold and my daughter and me could totally smell my mom fragrance all around it gave me a great peace to know she is still around thank everyone one soo much for their strong spirit, love, hope and faith.. thank you again Blair for being there.

  38. Hey Blair. Well I wrote down my grandfather, William’s name, with a some doubt in the odds of having a connection. Around 6PM this evening I thought “hun, guess he’s not coming today” and forgot about the whole thing. At a get together later tonight my sister began talking about getting tattoos and mentioned my grandfather and a curling stone we are planning on getting to represent him. I still was not picking up on the irony of it all. Just a few moments ago, as I lay in bed searching out images if curling stones, a huge grin spread across my face as I realized…it’s him πŸ™‚ thank you! This has just made my Christmas all the more merry!! I hope others out there were as fortunate as me πŸ˜€

  39. I didn’t have a connection but am so happy for those that did. Thank you Blair and everyone who wished and hoped – it’s great to hear everyone’s stories.

  40. I didn’t leave my name on the list but did the other steps. On Christmas day I went to my cousins house. When me and my family came home i looked down at our mat and as I was wiping my feet I noticed a small grey feather that was pushed into the mat it wasn’t there the day before. I know it was a sign as when I am feeling really down I have seen a small feather float down a covered verandah and it is not from any of the birds around where I live.

    • I had an element on my stove that hadn’t worked for a couple of months now, I forgot to get it fixed. I was having Christmas dinner & needed that element to work so I could cook all the trimming’s that go with turkey. Just out of the blue I decided to turn it on, to try it just one more time & it started to work, I was very grateful. I believe my dad was with me & he would have wanted a good meal. I also heard little noises throughout the house during the day, up until my guests arrived. Thank-you Blair that was a wonderful experience.

  41. It all started in my dream on this boxing day morning. I was in my old neighborhood which I haven’t been there since I was early 30’s. The place doesn’t even exist anymore. We were parking the car in the driveway when I looked up toward our livingroom window, which resembled much of what my current livingroom window looks like now. And there stood my dad and my step mother waving hello and smiling at me. They were both so happy to see me. My dad was wearing the xmas suit we bought him as an xmas gift and was buried in. My step mother looked like she was wearing a dress but had a kerchief in her hair as if she was getting ready. They waved and smiled at me for about what felt like 2 minutes to which she then looked up at my dad as if to say, why are we still waving but my dad just kept on waving. I came in and he asked what we were doing there. I told him that I had taken over then place and was fixing it up (which is what we are doing with the new house we bought and not their old place). You could feel a sense of happiness and joy around them. They were soooooo happy to have been able to make that connection as was I. On boxing day, my dad and step mom would go visit her side of the family so I guess they were getting ready to go visit the family today. Thank you Blair for opening the door to allow for this wonderful experience. It’s been 8 yrs since he was passed and 3 yrs since she passed. All the best to everyone who were able to experience something so wonderful. Happy holidays to you all.

  42. Ok Blair, I burned a candle for about 8 hours yesterday & was very disappointed I received no connection. Woke up this morning & opened my laptop to find it was on & my facebook timline was opened to my Mom’s picture that I had not opened myself. I posted that pic in 2009 and it has been quite a while since I have looked at it. It was one of the pics I considered using next to the candle though. I did notice an image buried into her pic that I have never noticed before which I find very strange!
    Thank you Blair for aiding in this connection with my Mom.

  43. My daughter and I did what you said together. About 7:30pm on Christmas night we were driving my niece home and my daughter was sitting in the back seat. When we got to my nieces house, I looked back and my daughter was staring at the seat right next to her and there was a glow against that side of her face. She said my mother, Betty, was there next to her at that moment. My daughter has been having a really tough time and I believe that is why mom chose to show herself to her but the glow on her face also showed me she was there. Thanks!


  44. The song ‘ you are so beautiful to me” came blaring out of the TV, my son use to sing this to me, I know it was from him, I am so gratful for you Blair, for providing the understanding on how to be open to receiving the messages our love ones are trying to give us. I hope that everyone received a message from their loved ones. Kerry

  45. Glad to see how many people had an experience with a departed loved one and am happy to say I had two. The first one was christmas morning. I didnt get much sleep that night and decided to have a nap my mom and I sat and had aconversation with regrets I dont recall what we spoke about but i remeber hugging her when it was time to say good bye it felt so real. Then later that day i prayed to her to send a message.. boxing day morning i received a xmas card with a poem attached ” my first christmas in heaven”. I know its from her sent through a friend. Thank you for doing this for all of us. My mom passed away 6 months ago and its nice to know she’s still here if only in spirit. Thanks again! Leeanna.

  46. I messed up……I didn’t watch the video, because I checked my email when I was busy, so I just read the instructions real quick….so I thought I was supposed to light the candle and ask my Guides to connect, when I was at a peaceful time in my day… πŸ™ but I still did it, and I DID ask ALL Guides to please allow as many others to connect as possible!!

    Then, just a few minutes ago, I was in my basement, doing laundry. I live in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada, it’s Dec. 26th….there, on the ledge beneath the window, was a housefly…….yes, I said a HOUSE FLY… DECEMBER. It was alive……it actually just flew right by me. It’s the only one I seen, but I didn’t go looking for more.

    I don’t want to say my Mom came as a house fly, but is that possible?? I just have no other explaination for a HOUSE FLY in my house, in the basement, in December. -.-

    P.S. I hope you and your family had a wonderful Christmas. πŸ™‚ God Bless!

  47. Blair I was eating Christmas dinner and right out of the blue my daughter looked at me and said an expression my father use to say to me every time at dinner .She looked at me and said ,you eat like a bird.I know it’s not a huge connection but it was neat Thank You

    • Blair can I post another connection ,on boxing day I received an email from my dads niece I had prayed or a connection from my dad,anyways my cousin and I hadn’t talked for over four years our family’s live at opposit ends of the country.Her email stated that he had found some old family tapes of our fathers and would I like a copy.This was amazing Thank you

  48. I am devastated. Here I had an opportunity to get a message from my husband, and I missed it. I didn’t see this email until today, the 26th!!! I guess I’ll have to wait until next CHristmas. Love and miss you, Tim!!! BTW….. have yet to dream of him too……’s been almost 6 months. πŸ™

  49. When I went to bed Christmas Eve, actually it was already Christmas Day at 12:30pm. Just before going to sleep I felt a hand toching the side of my head. I have had this experience before so I know that somebody is around and I have been told by another medium that it is my mother. Please keep up your good work, we may not tell you how much we appreciate you but rest assured we do. Compliments of the season to you and your family.

  50. I didn’t feel any connection at all although I was very tuned and waiting for a sign but that is ok, maybe my Mom will connect with me when she is ready: however I do feel and I am sure of it that she is my Guardian Angel as my three kids feel the same. I am happy for everyone who connected and maybe I will have better luck next Christmas.
    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all.

  51. Dam I missed this email – too busy working. So glad some of you had a truly great experience to add to Christmas x

  52. On Christmas Day at about noon my husband and I were relaxing in the sun (we’re on holiday in Mexico), and all of a sudden I had the clearest vision come to me. It was my husband and me hugging and holding a beautiful little blonde girl (I am pregnant with a little girl) – we were kissing her and laughing and kissing each other too. Right beside us in the vision I could see Chris’s mother – she was young and beautiful, and she was with a boy – Chris’s brother (both have passed on). (I didn’t put his name because I could only put one – I put Chris’s mother, Sue.). Chris’s mother and brother both had their arms wrapped around the 3 of us as we kissed and hugged our little girl and each other, but we couldn’t seem to see them….they just seemed to be there protecting us. It was so real, and so beautiful. Thank you, Blair. xoxox

  53. Thank you Blair for doing such an experiment. I just read this today….December 27, so I was not able to participate, but I am truly happy for all of you that had the opportunity to connect with your loved ones. Merry Christmas!

  54. Dear Blair, I followed all your steps….that night I went to bed and my daughter was sleeping next to me…In the middle of the night my daughter sat up and Rthat Peter was just in the room…My son whom died in February of this year…She was so excited….In the morning she didn’t remember…Also I went to my sisters house and she couldn’t find her gravy bowl…It was my grandma’s, also deceased, it wasn’t in its spot..she just happened to find it in a spot where she knows she didn’t put it and inside was the flower my son made her when he was in preschool..Mind you, he had just turned nineteen when he died….There were a lot of signs that day but these were the most important…thank you and bless and light Jill

  55. This was good. The image of my father’s face was clear. It was as if he wanted to say something but couldn’t. It was a comfortable warm, cozy.

  56. Blair, I have to say I was a little bit skeptical and a lot hopeful. I burned my candle all Christmas eve next to a picture of my mom. During the evening the candle highlighted my mom’s picture and I dismissed it as it would have just highlighted the way it was sitting next to the candle. The next morning I awoke and heard my teenage daughters laughing and giggling and singing Christmas songs at the top of their lungs trying to wake us. I came into the family room and they had breakfast prepared and to my surprise, they had lit the candle next to my mom’s picture. They did not know why it was there, I hadn’t told anyone what I was doing. They have never lit candles before. We all started with the unwrapping of presents, and the last one given to me, I opened up to see a cameo on a necklace. My mom’s favorite necklace was a cameo on a ribbon. I know that she had a guiding hand in choosing that necklace.

    Thank you Blair. It was the first time in 33 years that I know that my mom is here with me.

  57. its 28/12/12 in new zealand and also my eldest sisters birthday and something woke me early this morning and above me i saw a white dress no face though, then they were gone, i went back to sleep and woke a few hours later and the dream catcher above my bed was moving without any breeze and in an odd way, 1st one side then the other then in different directions it shocked me but didnt scare me i posted the video on my facebook page, thank you to everyone who helped make it happen and also to you Blair as i think it was my mum πŸ™‚ Ps still feeling quite emotional

  58. when my sister past away we joked about how she would let us know she was still there, so my brother jokenly sugested for her to ring the doorbel , after she past away this happened for several days, my brothers doorbel would ring and no one would be at the door.I was waiting for a sign over christmas and nothing happened , than yesterday when we were having dinner with our visiting children and their dog,our doorbel unit that is sitting in the lounge started flashing its light , the door bel did not ring (it should do at the smame time as the light flashing) at the same time the dog got up and walked to the hallway, i called her and she went straight back there looking into the hallway, we could see throught the windows that no one was at the door, it straight away felt this was my sign of her making contact.

  59. Hi Blair and everyone.

    Its been wonderful to read the names of your loved ones and your stories.

    My connection came shortly after I posted my fiance’s name. I went to get his photo and the candle and I thought to get two pieces of jewelry that he gave me, but I had hidden them and couldn’t find them. Instead I found the cassette with his voice on it, that I had forgotten about. After that, I was in the shower and you know how you see things in the clouds? Well, I saw a dinosaur in the bubbles. I thought, aw…look, that’s a dinosaur and then I remembered that Mark was fascinated by dinosaurs. This all happened before midnight on Christmas Eve.

    Thank you for your help and caring. You’re a beautiful person.

    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

  60. Hi Blair,
    On Christmas day, over at my daughters. I took many pics. As others did also.
    Difference is in all my pics. There was a great big colourful orb that just seem to be in mine & my daughters pics. My daughter melissa-Katherine who was the one I did everything you asked of me to do. Was coming through pics for us. Thank-You again Blair! Even her scent was all over my daughters house!

    Happy New year!

    With many blessings……..Love & Light!!!

  61. Very disappointed and sad I didn’t have any connection with my beloved dad whom I miss so very much however I am so glad that my prayers for everyone to have a connection with their loved ones helped them out. Thanks

  62. Missed it this year…..sounds like it was a lot of fun…..mental note….next year….not going to the I laws! LOL

  63. Dear Blair, I have a question.
    I did all the things you suggested for a connection with my husband who has passed on and wondered if it is possible for the connection to be thru MY words?
    The reason I’m wondering is my husband and I always had a phrase when one or the other cooked something that looked or tasted good. As a complimentary gesture, we would say “Good stuff, Maynard”.
    While alone, on Christmas day, I had made some candied yams with marshmallows on top and was taking them out of the toaster oven and I, OUTLOUD, said the phrase we used to say. It made me stop and think about it because my husband has been gone for 9 years and that phrase has never come to my mind in all