7 Afterlife Facts That You Need To Know

Here are seven of the most-asked questions about the afterlife I get at my live events, live broadcasts or at book signings. The goal of this article is to show you that Love Never Dies and that your loved ones are alive and well on the other side.

7 Afterlife Facts That You Need To Know

1. Your loved ones are alive and well in the afterlife

Yes, it's true that our physical bodies do expire/die. But our souls are eternal. Your deceased loved ones are very much alive and on the other side – heaven, if you will.

You cannot die no matter how hard you try. Once you leave this body that we are born into, we return to heaven to meet up with our loved ones in the afterlife who have gone before us.

Over the past 30 years, I've literally brought back tens of thousands of specific, explicit messages from deceased loved ones. There's simply too much proof that they exist on the other side to deny it.

Love never dies.

2. Your loved ones are NOT in pain

One of biggest hurdles that people struggle with is the last memory we have of our loved ones. Especially those who have suffered greatly with a terrible disease.

I have good news for you. Once you leave your body, you are no longer in any pain.

Unfortunately, we tend to remember how our loved ones died, rather than how they lived.

Your deceased loved ones – if they suffered – are no longer in pain.

Here's a humorous example from a recent live event: I brought through a Dad who immediately showed me he was doing a funny dance. The young lady burst into tears saying it couldn't be him, his legs were amputated!

But here's the thing: his physical legs were amputated, yes. And he suffered before passing. But on the other side, we are returned back to the “image of God” and restored.

Dad was dancing to show his daughter he was alive and well in the afterlife. Hilariously, she admitted that when he was well, he danced silly at her wedding and it was a memory she'll always remember.

See? It's the happy memories they want us to remember!

3. Your loved ones don't miss you!

This often shocks people. Your deceased loved ones DO NOT miss you.

How can they? They aren't “dead.”

Your deceased loved ones are very much alive in spirit.

They are still loving and very interested in the goings-on of your life.

Yes, my friend, they are very much alive. They can see and hear you and they know what is going on in your life. They don't miss you because… they are still here, just in spirit.

How much can they see? Well…

4. They see everything in the afterlife! Everything

I'm often asked, “Hey Blair, do they see… everything?”

Bad news: yes, they see EVERYTHING. Yes, they can see you naked in the shower.

One lady told me that after her Mother had passed she refused to have sex with her husband because she didn't want her Mom to see! (I'm not joking).

Yes, they can see everything. However, they are free from their bodies and very much evolved and enlightened. They no longer care about the material or the physical in that specific way.

Please, have showers and take baths. Your deceased loved ones don't care, and your friends and family will appreciate it.

5. They can hear you in the afterlife

This is a BIG ONE. As a medium, I'm often asked a variation of “Please tell my ______ I love her.”

You don't need a medium to do so. Your deceased loved ones can hear you perfectly fine. I repeat you do not need a medium to talk to them.

I'd highly recommend trying out my T.A.L.K. method from my book Afterlife. It works well.

6. They are sending you signs and want to connect with you.

Here's a comment I get a lot: “My ______ never sends me signs.”

I'm sure that people are sincere and believe that when they say it. But it is absolutely not true. Not at all.

Your deceased loved ones send you signs on a regular basis. No, not every single day, but often enough to encourage us.

So, the problem isn't with the signs. The problem is RECOGNIZING them.

In some ways, it's like a language. If you don't know the meanings of the words, how will you understand what they are saying?

Thankfully, recognizing the signs is easy: you need to know what the five signs are and you need to be open to experiencing them.

7. You won't burn in hell for experiencing love.

Unfortunately, religious dogma has messed up a lot of people and guilted them into believing that connecting with deceased loved ones is evil. Or that you'll burn in hell if you do speak with them.

Nothing could be further from the truth. In the Holy Bible, Jesus spoke with both Moses and Elijah who were deceased at the time. If Jesus could talk to the dead with his Father's blessing, it certainly is okay for you to as well.

The confusion comes from religions and religious texts being man-made. They are filled with conflicts and errors.

Of course, you are welcome to believe what you wish. By all means, live the rest of your days sad and lonely. It's certainly a choice, but it is not of God. And honestly, I feel sorry for people guilted by this flawed dogma. I hope and pray you are not one of them.

I hope this helps you. Love and light to you.

Please note: I reserve the right to delete comments that are offensive or off-topic.

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166 thoughts on “7 Afterlife Facts That You Need To Know

  1. I love this and I already knew that they can see and hear us. My Moms spirit has always been with me every since she passed. She actually makes a lamp come on and I know something is going to happen or if I am in a depressed state she is telling me its going to be ok. This has been going on for 13 years.

  2. A perfect message for me today, as it is my husbands birthday!
    Thanks Blair
    Love and Light to both you and Wendy <3

  3. Thank you for the email,yes I do believe very much so that when I speak to them they hear me,i just wish I could hear them.thank you for keeping me updated,love and light always,thank you Blair and God bless you

  4. Thank you Blair. What I like best about you is the true simplicity in which you correspond with us. I have visited other sites and never felt so comfortable. My husband passed three years ago and I think of him every day. We were married for fifty one years and I have met another man. But, this relationship is so different. I wish I knew if he is okay with this. I keep asking for signs, but, never recognize if I get any. Thank you for your guidance. Forgive my rambling. I hope you have a great week.

  5. i just got diagnose positive for cancer. I’ve felt God with me through out. My family came to me prior to this event. I woke up depressed and a little upset but, I knew it would be ok. Now I got my sign about the radiation and I will do it. But, I am having doubts about chemo and i hav’nt recieved a sign on this. What’s your feelings on it?

  6. Thank you Blair for taking the time out to connect with us and teach us more and to realize and live our lives as though our loved ones are there. I feel my hubby all the time and I can definetly relate to the lady who wouldn’t have sex cause her Mom would see. I went thru that years ago as I was living in her house after they died and in her room. Was creepy but got over it. I’m starting a new relationship and it seems my hubby is around even more when I’m home. What do you think he’s trying to tell me? I’ve asked but have not received an answer. Be safe us there in the air. Love and Light to you and Wendy. Love Never Dies.

  7. thanks Blair for helping everyone. I think I got a sign the other day I was in bed sleeping and heard a big bang in my front room I went to see what fell nothing had fallen. so I don’t know what my love ones were trying to tell me or were they just letting me know they are with me.

  8. Thank you for this message today. I lost my 19 year old son 5 years ago and my best friend last August and then husband in October. I talk to them all the time and get signs constantly. Sometimes I feel guilty like- I live more for the dead than the living.

  9. Thank you, I needed to hear that. My dad and my younger passed many years ago, they both suffered with kidney problems, I still miss them both and cry a lot for what they went through before they died, I always pray that they are at peace, no more suffering, now I know they can see me and are in no pain and that I will see them again one day. Thank you sooo much for putting my mind at ease, I can now be at peace with what happens after we die, we do live on in spirit. Again, THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!

  10. Thank you Blair, I love your name. Will you ever come to Hot Springs Village, Ar. or Hot Springs, Ar. or little Rock, Ar? We are now in the process of making a change as I need to be near family in Katy, Texas….I am a caregiver for my husband. Our youngest son was a homicide victim in 1990, he was the one that was going to take care of us when we got old, I am not old, will be 70 on January 28th and Ipray my son will send a cardinal…I am the new 50….Again love your name….Sherry Benson God Bless you

  11. Thank you soooo much for this email!!! I did go to a group meeting with a medium and it was mind boggling! !! My dad and my brother…both deceased…came thru doing a happy dance and I totally felt it!!! Now I need to hear from my mom!!! Ps…also heard from my husband at that reading!!! Again Thank You!!!

  12. Hi, unfortunately I am one of the people who wonders why I don’t hear from my mother. I am finding that as time goes bye, it is worse for me I miss my mother more and am finding it hard to find my joy again.

    • Since my Mom passed a year ago, it is hard to find joy. Mine comes from my family and grandchildren. Thank gawd for my 94 year old healthy Dad. But you do feel different and joyless – it comes back little by little – but do the things that bring you joy – seek them out. But I know I will never be the same since she left and we change with each life experience.

  13. Hi Thank you, just before my mum died, I asked her if she could let me know in some way that she found dad, when she died we were spreading her ashes and a little robin came down and hopped around her ashes, do you think this was a sign, ?. Also my son a painter and decorator was at work, he was wearing a coat that belonged to my dad, but was feeling a bit guilty about it.
    When a robin came and sat on the scaffolding he was working on. I think dad was saying it’s ok. Do you think so too.
    Love and light
    Dawn.

    • He was, there are signs all around us, we just need to pay attention and believe. His Dad is happy he’s wearing his clothes and is close to him and reminded of him. I wear my Mom’s, and it brings me happiness. We need to keep all the memories we have and get all the happiness we can.

  14. Blair, From all the reading that I have done of the afterlife and I have done heaps of research since my only child transitioned at 15, that not necessarily will the transition mean that they are “very much evolved and enlightened”. This maybe the case for some, but there are also many who go to the darker life. While I fundamentally agree with most of what you say, I think that saying people are more evolved and enlightened is historically not valid. We know from all the studies done and much research that transitioning does not confer automatic evolution and enlightenment. Love & Light Karyn

  15. Thank you Mr. Robertson. I have felt very alone for a long time. My husband passed away suddenly 11yrs ago and my parents before that. I have talked eith seversl different ministrtd snd they all told me our lived ones arent allowed to know what is going on hrre on earth with us as it would worry or upset yhem and thst wouldnt be Heaven for them. Its nice to know they dtill care. Would somedsy very much like to attend on of your meetings.

    • Nelda, that is the strangest thing I’ve ever heard – why would a minister ever say that to someone – that is so sad! Our loved ones are always with us – I truly believe that now since my Mom has passed. She has given me so many signs, I hate to tell people as they will think I’m crazy. But, for me, I know it’s true.

  16. As always, an uplifting message, thank you Blair! My grandmother passed in 1989 and came to me in ‘a dream’, dancing! I knew that it was her way of letting me know that she was ok, alive and well! Such a weight was lifted off of me after that and I knew that it simply wasn’t… ‘just a dream’.
    I believe! <3

  17. Hi Blair. I read this email. I do know this and I always enjoy rereading about our Loved Ones on the Other Side. I never tire of it and always gives me a boost in validation when I need to be reminded. Thank you.

  18. lost my partner of 24 years i belive what you say but i don’t get any thing that makes me feel shes here i talk to her all the time i’m very depressed and cry a lot but ty for this

  19. Thank you. I talk to Angels and family every night, mostly thanking them for helping me through the day and keeping me and my family safe. I do believe they help me when I ask. In the recent few months I have had 3 problems that I prayed for help. First we misplaced the key to our new car. I asked for help all day and we did find them. Then I was to have an echocardiogram and I asked for a good report. When my Dad was the age I am now, he had quadruple bypasses and it has been something that I’ve been very afraid of. I asked Mom and Dad to help me and they did. Last week I had to have a minor surgical procedure which came out fine and I had no pain afterwards. I know I was helped, but, now how do I thank them? These were such big events for me that it brings tears to my eyes and although I thank them often, is doesn’t seem nearly enough.

  20. Thank you Blair I sure have wondered about these 7 things you mentioned here…i am glad it is straight in my mind now…

  21. Blair,
    I hope that this helps some. I find hearts. If water has boiled over on the stove and when I lifted the pot the water left hearts on the glass top. After rain, when my drive way is soaked, there are dry spots of hearts randomly in my driveway. This happens quite often, so someone close to me is sending me love.

    • Myself and my youngest son is always seeing hearts. Even when I have made homemade pancakes there are times one will turn heart shaped all on its own. So many times and the weirdest things, even had a heart shaped cut (healing scab) on my finger, my son is convinced it’s his daddy. There are times when I believe the same but I don’t know…. I have spoke to him many times and even begged for him to come to me, just to let me see him but the most I got was my dreams. I used to pray to dream about him, just so I could be with him again, and I did have some prayers answered. There were a few dreams though that felt more real than the others, especially one, as I was waking up he kissed me and it felt so real, I cried….I felt his sweet lips kiss me in such a tender way, it was a goodbye kiss. The memory of that kiss still hurts now and that was a few years ago. I do still wish I could talk to him, I can’t say there were any regrets but like everyone, I have questions I would like answered, some type of closure.

  22. I recently lost my husband. I have not seen any signs that he is still here with me. I feel maybe he thought I didn’t do enough to save him. I did try cpr but it was too late. I feel that he is mad at me for sometimes not being nice and not as patience as I should of been. I have tried talking to him to please show me a sign he is here and that I love him and always will. I just hope he didn’t suffer and felt no pain.

  23. Thank you for this information Blair. I absolutely believe our loved ones are with us but wondering what they experience in heaven. Do they have jobs they enjoy etc?

  24. Thank you Blair. I not only believe everything that you say because, I myself have been blessed to experience many signs from my deceased family. I am a believer and always keep my eyes and ears always on alert. I really wish I could attend your show in Las Vegas, NV.
    Many blessings and white light.
    Carol in Las Vegas, NV

  25. Blair, thank you so much for the info….I never ever would have expected to receive the info, and I was really happy to be able to read it.. I’m going to share it with my family. God bless you.

  26. Thank you so much, Blair, I really needed to know this! I lost my sweet sister in July,2016, due to someone poisoning her. I know it had to be a painful death and this is something that has really bothered me. At least I know she is still around & sending me signs.

  27. Hi Blair! Love all the positive things you give out to the world. They have really helped me get through the past few months since my husband passed away. Question: What do our loved ones do on the other side once they have passed away? Thanks again for all the love, light and encouragement. Best wishes from snowy Québec City

  28. Thank you Blair! Your newsletter has really helped me learn so much about the afterlife and have a better understanding of it.

  29. Thank you Blair! i have been having a really bad time with grief since my boyfriend died in October 2015 a couple days before my birthday Thank you for being there to tell us these things! God Bless you!

  30. Thank you so very much for this Blair. When I lost my son, I received so many wonderful signs from him. It truly did make me realize that there is life after death. That love never dies! I want to thank you for all that you do. You bring so much hope and closure to all that need it. I am going to past this on to my Cousin. She lost her Mom recently and is feeling very lost. Love and Light! ❤️❤️

  31. thank you , this answered several things for me , I feel them , different ones at different times and without thinking talk to them . I didn’t know if this was weird or not , but think I understand more now . you have eased my heart so many times and I had to say thank you one more time

  32. Thanks Blair. I have contact with some people that have crossed over. My Dad, Dan, in dreams and he has left messages in dreams to my oldest daughter to tell me he loves me. The past more than a year two of my uncle’s I have seen. A mother of someone I know shows herself at times when I am with Tamara. A gentlemen friend crossed over a year ago Halloween. I felt his presence and felt a physical kiss on my neck. Blair I was having some experiences before you, but since I have read your books, I have had a lot more experiences and my connection with them is different. I don’t want you to be offended by a message that I sent you previously about your latest endeavor in books. I enjoyed them and you did a good job. There was one paragraph in the last book that was really confusing and I would have to go back and find it. In the first book, only. two letter words that should have been changed. I only want to help you. I only think your mind might get ahead of you. Again, thank you for your help.

  33. This is so reassuring. I feel my son, I get signs, but it always helps to hear this again. One question… well, I’m sure I could come up with a lot of questions. They hear us, the know what we are doing, they see us….but is that all they do? Do they have jobs, or activities other than just watching things here?

  34. Thank you, Blair. I am presently witnessing my son die a slow, painful death. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. Your words are a real comfort to me for I cannot pray for him to stay here when I know how much he has suffered. I just don’t know how to live without him.

    Thank you so much for the beautiful work you and your lovely wife do.

  35. I sit on my late at night and I hear music playing . Some time is the harp playing ,some one singing opera. It very pleasant to hear but I’m the only one that hears this music. I check ed all the rooms to see if the tv is on .everything is off and everyone is sleeping.

  36. Hello Blair. I guess at my age, 83 and 9/10, I can leave off the Mr. with no offense intended. At 30,000 feet you should be able to look out the window and may see an angel or two. I read every thing you send and have about everything you have in the way of books and other things. I really was upset when I read this information you sent. Item 3 really bothered me. I was in good hopes that Carolyn really missed me. Carolyn has been gone now a little over 2 and 1/2 years and to my knowledge she has never been in my dreams . I do everything you advise but no luck. I believe that Carolyn has been here twice, a light blinked and the smell of candles in her room. We were married over 42 wonderful years and every one of them years was full of love. Our love was being together every single day. It is hard for me to think that Carolyn does not miss me. Thanks for all your help. Love and Light back at you and yours.

  37. i know they’re out there and i always want to see my grandma in my dream but she never came … but last week in my dream it was like a party and i saw my great-grand mother and have her a hug and then grandma was thete i was crying telling her that i saw my great grandma so she was laughing at me then i woke up and realise no wonder she was laughing at me cause she was thete too LOL

  38. Thank you for your comments about religion and contacting the departed. My daughter sees that as against God or evil. I do not agree as I know my husband Michael is now happy, joyous and free of pain. He lets me know he is around often. I have read and enjoyed all your books and have learned alot from them. I also go to your seminars when you are in the San Diego area. The next time you are in the area again I will come and hope he will come thru. Keep writing and doing what you do!

    Sincerely,
    Donna Kuz

  39. Hi Blair,
    I discovered you; and your online seminars ;following the death of my husband Feb 2015. Since then I have learned much . Your teachings have made a positive difference. Thank you!
    I would like to purchase all of your books but have forgotten what my passwords are to download them.
    How can I get a hard copy of each book that you have written?
    Thanks
    Deb
    deborah6of7@hotmail.com

  40. Thank you, Blair. My family has always believed this way, so for us it is natural to “notice” and experience our “crossed over” loved one’s “signs” they give us. It is very comforting. I’m sure you have helped many people to pay attention to what their loved ones may be trying to tell them.

  41. This came to my e-mail at a perfect time when I needed some “re”-confirmation on my loved ones passing..I struggle daily with trying to push him out of my mind to not feel the greif and heartbreak and yet I continue to be aware of signs I might receive…Thank you! I enjoy all your articles and carry your motto…”Love never dies”

  42. Blair I’m always excited about reading the next lesson you send our way.You have given me assurance that it is truly ok to chitter chatter with our deceased loved ones.Love an light Blair.Im very glad you had a good time in Arizona.Keep the updates coming.Have a great day. 🙂

  43. Thanks Blair….your messages are very uplifting and seem to come at a time when I need that reminder. My sister and I enjoyed our evening with you in Bakersfield and we both were able to get separate readings! Hope to see you again sometime in the future and maybe it will be in San Luis Obispo, CA. You and Wendy please travel safe!

  44. I absolutely love this! You have such an amazing gift & have made a huge impact on my life. As a mom losing her son there is so much worry, confusion & guilt even when your head knows you shouldn’t feel guilt, but you just can’t help it. Although I struggle daily with him being gone, I realize my tears are for me & not for him. You help put some of my horrible fears more at ease. I wish there were something other than thank you that I could say to you. The softening of the hole in my heart is appreciated more than I can possibly express. – PS. It was amazing to see you in person in Indiana. Looking so forward to you coming back again!

  45. Not long after reading this, I jumped in my car to drive home from work and Don’t Stop Believing was playing on the radio. Here was a sign!

  46. Thanks for this Blair, I seen you in St. John’s NL in June and had my father and grandfather came through it was exciting for you to tell me things that you could not possibly know, I am so thankful and I can’t wait for you to come back. God Bless you and your family.

  47. Hello Blair,I would like to know about the Mother of Jesus??I am a catholic and believe in the virgan Mary,& Joseph the father of Jesus.I’m not sure if it’s true as far as religion goes,I have read about spiritual books.They dont say anything about Jesus parents or even mentioning them.I believe we are incarnated,& i find that info interesting.I hope you can shed some light on those questions.Thank You,Joanne.

  48. I believe everything you say! I witnessed many signs from my Mom during Christmas and after. I had to put down one ☝️ of my dogs. Bella a sweet mini schnauzer 10 with advanced diabetes We didn’t know. I thought she would just get medicine. That I can do. How do I get pass this? Please help me. Overwhelmed with grief. Thank you

  49. My wonderful father told me in a reading that he wished he could tell me he missed me, but he said I’m with you. He said but I know you miss me. He told me many things. He protects my house.

  50. I know it doesn’t because our Daughter has seen my husband and he came to her in a reading at one of your events. I’ve never felt him and was ignored at the event, makes me feel like I wasn’t loved after all, it’s devastating.

  51. My husband will be gone 6 years on the 13 of February I never receive signs from him and tal to him most every day His name is Ron.

  52. I would like a reading. I have a lot on my mind that needs clearing up. My husband passed over five years ago and I had to put my 15+ Years dog to sleep a week ago this past Friday.Thank you. Carol

  53. Thank you so much Blair for all the information, It was very helpful and helped me to understand about life after death. God bless you.

  54. So glad to have read this message. I loss my husband almost 3 years ago. I’m always hoping and praying he can hear me. Wishing all the time for him to send me a sign.

  55. I signed up for your webinar. though I found
    it very interesting, I couldn’t find it helpful to me. My husband has appeared to family members, and came through to our daughter in one of your events, during which he ignored me. I have never felt him nor has he ever come through to me. That makes me feel that since love never dies, he apparently didn’t love me even after 35 years years together, and I am devastated. He was my love, my life, I cry everyday to think he didn’t love me after all.

  56. Blair
    I just want to say thank you for all the great tips in communicating with our loved ones it is so comforting
    I have bought all your books and look forward to and hope that you write more!!

  57. Thankyou Blair (love to Wendy), I have had this happen twice, I repeatedly asked a family member to come see me when im sleeping, I swear 2 times, I heard these exact words “hi Margaret” it was so vivid and real, I felt had I opened at my eyes I would have seen my loved one right there, I know what I heard, but it was like they were alive, it was that real, Thankyou Blair for all you do, I am very much looking forward to when you return to Canada, I keep cking your event sked……………..thankyou :)))

  58. Thank you. I recently lost my 51 year old brother unexpectedly and I’m having a difficult time (i’m his older sister). I did dream with him, and he has sent me a couple of strong signs. I just miss him. I know he’s ok. And I know he wants to see my happy and not grieving. But how does one do that… connect the mind with the heart. That’s the hard part. I have tickets to see you in Miami and I’m praying he comes through. I know he’s around. I just wish I could hug him one last time.

  59. Good afternoon Blair;

    My daughter and I look FORWARD to meeting you in Ft.Myers, Fl. on February 10 @ 7:00 pm. I can almost guarantee that you will feel the energy from me if you will…..seeing as I have lost so many family members in such a short time. I have experienced TRULY AMAZING signs that I believe are connected with my my LOVED ones who have passed.. Wishful thinking? I’m hoping you can enlighten me on that! Hopefully it is meant to be that you personally will reach out to me on Feb.10th..

    Look forward to the spiritual evening……Safe travels!!

    Joan ( a.k.a. Joni)

  60. Blair,
    I have had so many connections with my husband since he died. At first, I wasn’t sure if it was real. I took your class, got your book and now I know that I am making connections. Before my husband passed away, he requested that I have his funeral in our house. I was painting a stencil on the wall before the funeral, this is something my husband didn’t like because when you repaint he always felt it was hard to cover the stencils. I taped the stencil to the wall, climbed down the ladder to get the paint, climb back up the ladder, and the stencil would fall down. After the 3rd time, I said don’t make me get out the duct tape because you know I will. This was a standing joke between us and the stencil stayed up. I think he was teasing me. One time when I had a water problem that I didn’t know about, he came to me in my dream and showed all of the sprinklers going in that area covered in ice and snow. I had just turned the system off for the winter, and thought it was a ridiculous dream, but after having the same dream over and over all night, I checked the area and I had not gotten the shutoff completely off and water was running up out of the drain. Most of the time when he comes in my dreams, it is to warn me about a potential problem. However sometimes he just comes to visit. One night I found my self updating him on all of the things happening in the family, who had passed away, who had gotten married, pretty soon I realized he already knew everything that was going on and we laughed. Sometimes If I am having trouble sleeping, I feel his hug. I always ask him to stay until I fall asleep and I know he does. Thanks for giving me the tools to understand these connections are real.

  61. My loved one passed on Halloween. Among his possessions was the keys to his truck. I had a visitation from him asking about the keys and I told him I had them. I knew, without a doubt, that it was him. The feeling I had was something I hadn’t experienced before in my life.

  62. I missed you in Melbourne, Florida this year because I was in the hospital. All is well, but I wanted to thank you for two years of wonderful messages you brought to me last year and the year before. Love and light with many thanks.

  63. I need help. My husband passed 3 months ago unexpectedly. I’m grieving so much that i’m not picking up on any signs. I talk to him every day, but i get nothing. I feel like a huge part of me is missing .

    • I’m sorry for your loss and he pain you’re in right now. But you answered your own question when you said “I’m grieving so hard that I’m not picking up on any signs”. You may just be missing them because of your grief. It’s ok, he will continue to show you signs, and when you’re ready you will see them. Until then take care of yourself and know that it’s true – love never dies.

  64. How will i know what really happened in a murder to where my son is apologizing to me and yes he was truly loved we just want answers and justice

  65. I love that you make the afterlife easy to understand. Some people make things so complicated, it’s understandable why people are confused. Life changes once you know these 7 facts. Thank you for all you do.
    Much love,
    Debbie Marie

  66. Always a thank you from me Blair. You seem to send what I need to read at the right time . Thank -you . Kyrle—-Ottawa Ontario.

  67. How do I recognise these sign from the afterlife?. How do I become more susceptible to the signs. I have had eerie moments and only once I have opened myself to what I think is the third eye. Am I just believing what want to believe or is there more to what’s happening with me?

  68. Well written, well said – great job of educating~! Congratulations~!

    I’ve learned by my maternal grandmother, whom I never met, sends me pennies, so now, I save those pennies I find in interesting places.

  69. You’re explanation of many of our fears and concerns are so comforting to me. You are as real and down to earth as it gets. Thank you for that.

  70. I just want to say Thank You! I lost my brother from this world just days ago and the pain is great at times. You’ve given me hope and validation. I’ve always talked to my love ones and believed they could hear me.

  71. I feel the presence of my parents every day. I often now they are near by the sweet smell of lilies and it seems like for no reason at all I look at a clock somewhere and it reads 11:11 I take comfort in knowing that they are near and that they know how much they are loved and missed

  72. I believe this is true but i also believe this is not the end . We will stay there or come back if you believe in reincarnation. And this will continue until Judgement day. This is my belief what do you think? Because no one can really know for sure

  73. My youngest daughter died when she was 30. I talk to her all the time. I also leave her messages on her memorial site online. I know she reads those and hears me talk to her. She still, after 14 years, leaves dimes for family members.

  74. Hi Blare, I lost my Soul Mate, almost 8 years ago now, on August 18, 09. I talk to him regularly, and am pretty good at recognizing signs from him. The Butterfly, for one. I just havn’t had a visit from him in my sleep in years now, even though I ask him to come to me, every night. I need to see him. What’s wrong???

  75. You’re well loved, because you’ve shown people the NO B.S. Way to know our loved ones & the love NEVER DIES!✨✨

  76. I have lost almost every loved one i have my mom dad 2sisters 2brothers and my husband i never had chance to say goodbye i would just like to know if my family are together and happy also if my husband is reunited with his family. I know you say they become joined after death. But i just would like to know if they were because when my 2 brothers died they drowned and there bodies were never found uve always wondered if they are still alive and have amnesia or something. Would be so nice to have confirmation of this. I look forward to your show in kingston ont Canada on may 24 2017 .My daughter and i went to your last one there as well although i didnt get a reading my daughter did you are amazing thanks Blair

  77. Thank you for this. One thing that is a pet hate of mine is various spiritual people giving me a reading that say “your mother died peacefully” I automatically say “no she didn’t” and they don’t know what to say. Mum lived the last months in excruciating pain and the doctors/hospice put her in a morphine coma to try and alleviate her suffering which didn’t work. It would be a lot more respectful to say “she is NO LONGER IN PAIN”. Saying things to placate or generalise makes me wonder if I am being taken for a ride.

  78. Hello, My son was murdered 7 months ago on 08/15/2016. He was 28 years old and a father of 3. I am very spirtual and often have seen other loves ones in my dreams. I finally had a dream about my son but he was already gone. He woke up and smiled, danced with me and told me he loved me and missed me. He proceeded to dance and hug my other family members in the dream. Was this a sign that he was telling me he was ok? To this day I worry that he is not at peace due to the circumstances that he was taken from us.

  79. thank you so much for enlightening my beliefs and giving me hope,my son died in april 2011 and i was so devastated and at the time i believe he started to show me he was still here but i was blind to the signs because i was grieving and always crying..we started finding dimes at odd places and we started putting the dimes in a special vase..i finally had the courage to hang up his pictures and can look at him without crying and the best part is his legacy to this day is a beautiful little girl my granddaughter who will be turning 6 in august…thank you blair for listening and god bless you

  80. Blair, do you not think that our loved ones miss being able to physically hug us and ‘feel’ our hugging them back? What about missing the ability to have even a small amount of dialogue rather than hearing us only….for those who do not have any of the ‘clairs’?

  81. Good morning Blair. ..thank you so much for affirming what I already believe. I greatly enjoyed reading your books “The Afterlife Collection “.
    I have the collection on my Kindle, and purchased the paperback version as a gift.
    I wear the bracelet that came with the paperback version everyday as a reminder that “Love Never Dies “!
    It brings me comfort and the patients that I work with in Hospice.
    Thank you Blair!

  82. Morning my fiance past 2 weeks ago. I was in process of moving there. I spent a week there with his daughter and mine, I am in a place I need to hear him. He was in great pain for along time but much has come out and I need help. Funny how I saw this today I am beyond moving on.

  83. I just lost my Fiance we intended on starting a new Life and make the most of our last years however as I was packed and packing Mar 15th I git a call from the Marshall in his State and they told me he had past. I about fell on the floor. Questions have risen and he had shared his will between his middle daughter and I. I am torn… Now I am not sure if what we had was real.

  84. Good morning Blair. Thank you for your loving messages in regard to our deceased loved ones. I truly believe that religion, all religion, is man made. It was put into place to control the masses. Scare tactics…I respect anyone and the religion they believe in. Just don’t condemn me for not participating in the beliefs. I am a spiritual being not a religious one.
    Thank you again and give Wendy a hug.

  85. I have my recently passed boyfriend’s picture (with me) on my desk and talk to him whenever I feel like it. I received a “sign” from him within 12 hours or so after his passing. I’ve received a very few more subtle signs since – such as a “flutter” of light, or “whiteness” in my lap and a shadow off to my side. I am grateful for these. We had a very deeply loving relationship for many years (we are both ‘elderly’) and I think our connection continues. I have an unanswered question is: since we had such a loving/lasting/beautiful relationship and his health issues were pretty much unbearable for him the last months of his life – WHY AM I SO SAD????? I expected to be o.k. with his death considering all I had to be grateful for but instead I am profoundly sad. Will it end soon? I stumbled across Blair’s web site, etc. and am so glad I did. Hope to meet him one day.

  86. After all the tears, and, you begin to think again our love ones have never left us, they have moved on because we are now stronger and in a heartbeat will be there to guide us when we have those trials and tribulations.

  87. so, just a question… I get that they hear us on the other side and communicate, but you also say that we have multiple lives. If their spirit goes on to another life than do they continue to communicate in some way or do we loose the connection because they are starting over and occupied with the new life? How can they continue to be around us all the time when their spirit is in new body? Could this be the reason that they stop visiting in dreams after a year or so?

  88. I recently lost my love to suicide. It is hard some days more then others. I do beleive he is has no more pain and is at peace. I am just struggling right now between missing him and wanting him next to me . There is death and then there is suicide. I have questions that won’t ever be answered. Knowing I will never get them is the hardest part.

  89. Hi I do believe that our souls never die. How long does it take to be reincarnated? And do we get a choice?

  90. thank you glad you are posting to facebook I am reading your second book and enjoying it very much

  91. Dear Mr. Robertson:

    In reference to #6……In 2000 my beloved mother passed away and 2 weeks later I had a dream with her that she was an Angel. I was surprised and I said in the dream. Mom you are an Angel and with feathers too! Well, ever since that dream I receive feathers no matter where I am. One day at work we were having a meeting and this feather came out of no where flying across the room landing on me. I find feathers any where and I always know that my Angel is around.

  92. I need 2 know…my love is so great for my partner now…I really do not want 2 lose it/my love for him…when he or I pass on…do we really lose love here or is it gone when we cross over?

  93. Unfortunally I won’t be in Arizona when you come here which is too bad. Wanted to meet you. Been wanting to talk with someone one on one who has died and come back. Sincerely, Hugh

  94. They removed a friend from life support today. Oddly, im not sad. More ready for him to be free from the earthly burdens. Thank you for the reminders

  95. Blair-
    I have been a believer for a while now. You affirming how I believe, and “know” what I believe is such a blessing.
    Thank you so much!
    Tina

  96. Thank you Blair. I have purchase the Afterlife. It has help me but I still feel lost. It has been only 3 1/2 months. I wish he never left but now he is in peace and can breath better. I know he is happier. Are you ever in The Geneva, NY area. I would love to meet you. Thanks Donna

  97. Thank you Mr. Blair Robertson… I love this so much I needed this. There are time I want to talk to you, closure. Thank you, you are truly bless.

  98. I lost my best and lifelong friend in 2014 to cancer. I was fortunate enough to be able to stay and take care of her with the help of our other best friend. We grew up together and had a lifelong friendship. Towards the end of her life she had said to me “I will find a way to get through to you, I will leave you a feather somewhere and you will know it’s me”. I am a courier delivering to hospitals and soon after her passing while I’m still sad and grieving I make a delivery and when I get back in my vehicle for some reason, which I never do, look under the front seat and there are two feathers. I started bawling knowing it had to be her. There were no feathers anywhere around outside. The same day I turn on the radio and one of her favorite artist, Catie Curtis is playing on the radio. The song, I’ll Cover You. It was a great day knowing she was there. My other friend also experienced her. My friend who passed, her last name was Cooley. So my other friend pulled into a parking lot and the vehicle she pulled next to had a sign on the car saying Cooley Construction. We were both blessed to receive these messages.

  99. Blair I want to thank you just told my Carer my husband had just told me to buy a ring from him…..His anniversary was Friday I truly believe it was his push that l thInk made me makethe purchase. I have hard several direct thoughts from him Pwherevto find a watch in my underwear drawer. To give our grandson his cherished Winnie The Poo book.

  100. I loved reading this especially since I talk to my mom who has passed all the time…nice to know she’s listening I do miss her she was not only my mom but my best friend..

  101. I am very impressed by your 7 afterlife facts. I lost my husband of 58 years , 4 years ago, and I keep asking myself why I never get any signs from him, whereas my daughters get signs all the time. My daughter who came from Florida a week before my husband passed was sitting on my back porch 2 days after his funeral and she suddenly came into the house and said ” I just got my sign from dad that he is O.K..” she said that one of my wind chimes on the porch above her head suddenly started going “crazy” – it was blowing every “which-way” while several others remained perfectly still. It was 7 a.m. in the morning and everything was calm and still with not a breeze in the air. She is totally convinced that it was her first of many signs from him.

  102. This gives me immense pleasure to know the facts. I am grieving the tragic death of my son. I am talking to him but not believing he could hear me. Now after this I am happy he hears me. Thank you. God bless.

  103. This is the first time i heard about you.We have a medium here in baltimore named Kelly i went to her twice and both times my dad came through. I always believed in the afterlife, but since right before my dad passed he went to Israel , he was jewish. When he returned he began talking in tongues and was truly blessed when he stood with his hands on the wailing wall. When my dad had a stroke he also had lung cancer but it was the stroke that took him. During his illness after the stroke he told me he was on Jacobs ladder and Jehovah had his hand…he took me up that ladder with him and describe everything to me. He was paralyzed and couldnt get up his eyes were closed but he needed to go to the bathroom so the hospice friend put him on the potty chair and all of a sudden he rose up with his arms and hands up to the sky with eyes opened and then fell back on the potty. Our friend say we need to get him back in bed and tell him our final goodbyes. Well as far as im concerned he was healed and saw the face of God when this happened. Within 10 mins he passed

  104. I am able to hear spirits, I have had them talk through me, I get dreams that are like a movie that I am floating above them and following them through the movie. I get premanitions of things to come.I just know things and I get feelings of bad or good when I go to some place and it is in my stomach. I get a knowledge of what has happened in the area that I happen to be in or am passing in the car. I feel others pain, anger, happiness, etc. I can hear spirits and my husband and I can communicate with out talking. And once and only once I heard my sister-in-laws thoughts.

  105. I finally received your book Afterlife. Although I really enjoyed it, it failed to answer my one bothersome question. I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks. I know my child is in Heaven, but will I get to hold her as a baby when I return home? There are a couple of other questions I have, but I won’t go into them now. My grandmother was a spiritualist, and I learned a great deal from her. Your videos only confirm what she taught me. Thank you for that.

  106. Hi Blair my name is cheryl. There are times when i really miss my dad and step-dad. Some days are worse than others. can you possibly give me a clue as to how i can contact them or what to look for when they’re around? thak-you

  107. My 23 year old son died 8 months ago and I am still heartbroken.
    However, I do believe in the universe and afterlife, and I am determined to keep up the communications with him.
    on of the messages I found was the noting of pennies.
    A consistent pattern that started after the first month ( and random signs).
    I found pennies everyday almost, in my bed, under the bed, between magazines, etc.
    It gave me comfort, and feeling of love.
    About 4 weeks ago, it suddenly stopped .
    For about 3 days, I found dimes that seemed oddly placed.
    Then this stopped as well.
    Another strange thing was a white feather when I opened the trunk of my car.
    Please note, I have no chickens or birds 🙂
    Now it is quiet, I feel distance to my son.
    Feeling sad and confused.

  108. My partner committed suicide April 13th of this year. To say it was a shock does not come close. Ever since the next day I have been writing, pretty much every night, letters to him basically. It was an almost fanatical need to put pen to paper. I like to believe that he is reading them as I write. There is a lot of pain in many pages as well as much healing. In some of those times I lay the pen down and talk directly to him and I do feel that he hears me. It’s hard to understand how even though I believe he is in a happier, peaceful and loving place, surrounded by loved ones. I am selfish and want him back with me. That is the hard part of all of this that only time will heal. One day I hope to meet you and maybe he will come through for me. Thank you for your messages.

  109. Dear Blair,
    I certainly believe and have received signs. Keep on doing good work, and I wish more people are willing to experience such a great gift.

  110. Yes I believe all this,I have all my life.I was raised this way,but as I got older I have seen signs,got messages that only my loved ones could of given me.Love n Light to you.

  111. Very nice article. What if someone comes through that you really do not want to associate with? How do you handle it? I never remember my dreams, and I don’t recognize signs. My mother always seems to pop up at events and I do not want to have anything to do with her. What is the best way to handle this? She was a horrible person and I am not the only one to say this. I think as long as I have physical pain in my body I can never forgive. How do I get past this so I can get a reading from someone I want a reading from?

  112. Hi Blair.
    I know that there is an after life because of different things that have happened in our family. I just told my father that there was another Mason coning his way. Hopefully he heard me. I used to feel my husband with me every time I had to drive any distance. He was a truck driver.

  113. I lost my son recently and I’m having a really hard time moving forward. I do talk to him and I always say to him I hope u can hear me. I miss him beyond words. I am in this terrible depression from his loss. We were very close. I really like what you have to say. I had thought about seeing a psychic medium in hopes it would help me in the healing process.
    Was wondering if you are coming to Maryland in the near future. Thank you for all you do and your encouraging words. God Bless

  114. In the night my other passed, my EX-fiance’ refused to bring me to her bedside. When I found out she passed, I lost it! I could be stop crying! Then, I heard my niece’s voice telling me, “I’m o.k., I’m o.k. .” I became instantly calm. Mom is finally pain free! Whenever I will Parliament cigarettes , it is her sign that her presence is around me. It a comforting.

  115. I am coming to Chandler, Arizona to visit my son, Oct.5-16. I would very much like to schedule a meeting with you, since that is a suburb of Phoenix.

  116. My dear mother passed away 3 months ago and I miss her so much. We were so close. We were never separated from each other for most of my life. She was so kind and giving and always had a kind word for everyone. I talk to her every day and kiss her picture. Funny since she passed my tv remote goes dead about every two weeks and I have to change the batteries. I know that she is communicating with me. What do you think? Love your blog. Hope to hear from you.