Grief: Remembering A Loved One On Valentine’s Day

Grief is something all of us experience. It is particularly challenging during holidays or “events” such as Valentine’s Day.

Valentine’s Day is a beautiful day to celebrate your love and to dote on your lover. But for those that have lost loved ones, it’s a painful reminder of that loss.

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Here are a couple of tips to help you cope with the grief of losing a loved one. And, just to be clear, I’m talking about any loved one.

Stop Trying To Get “Over” The Loss And Allow Yourself To Grieve

So many people have said to me over the years, “Blair, please help me get over the loss of my husband…”

You will NEVER get “over” their loss. That’s going about things the wrong way.

That’s trying to change something that cannot be changed.

It is perfectly normal and “okay” to feel pain. In fact, the deeper the love you had for the deceased loved one, the deeper that sorrow will be.

You won’t get “over” it, but you CAN get through it.

Amazing Tip To Getting Through Grief

Here’s a tip that I have shared with thousands. It is deceptively simple, but it works. It heals.

Turn the tables around.

Ask yourself, “if the tables were reversed and I were in heaven, would I want my loved ones feeling/behaving this way?”

Ponder that answer.

Most people say, “no, I would want them to move on with their life!”

Guess what they want for you?

That’s right. They want the best for you and want you to know they are okay. They want YOU to be okay too.

IF I died today, I would expect my wife Wendy’s life to be turned upside down. Things would settle and then I would hope that she would move on with her life… to have fun, do things, go places and laugh again.

I would want her to be happy. And to know that my love for her was always there.

I would NOT want her spending a ton of time grieving, crying or not moving on.

Does that make sense? Of course you would want your loved one to move forward.

That is what your loved ones want for YOU.

Your Loved Ones Haven’t Gone Anywhere

All of us must die some day. I’ve never met anyone who doesn’t understand that.

But our souls–our spirit–lives on! Our bodies die, but our souls do not.

Yes, your loved one many not be physically here, but they are 100% alive in spirit.

Your loved ones know full well what you are going through and want you to get through it. They understand your sorrow, but they also want you to achieve peace with it.

Start A Ritual On Valentine’s Day

Start a ritual.

One of the things we’ve done in my family over the years is to set a plate setting for the loved one on special occasions.

Perhaps you are alone. Why not treat yourself to a nice meal out on Valentine’s Day?

Love yourself. Have them put a plate and cutlery across from you and enjoy yourself in their honor.

Watch For Their Signs

It is very common that our deceased loved ones send us signs, but much of the time we flat out miss those signs. Make sure you know them, recognize them and watch for them, especially in dream visitations My book, Afterlife, can help you recognize them.

KNOW that they are still with you.

You are never alone. Remember, love never dies.

 

Visitation Dreams: How To Know For Sure If They Are Real

Dreaming of a deceased loved one: what does it mean?

Visitation dreams: Have you ever woken up dreaming of dead relatives talking to you, or dreaming of someone who has passed away, wondering if it’s real or not?

Visitation Dreams

Visitation Dreams just happen to be one of five common signs our deceased loved ones show us.

It happens to almost everyone at one point or another. And I’ve got good news for you: many times those connections are real.

So the question is: how can you tell the difference between a dream and a spirit connection?

First, let’s define the difference between the two.

What is the difference between a regular dream and a dream visitation?

Regular Dreams

Regular dreams are a naturally occurring phenomenon. Dreams tend to be complete nonsense and often weird.

You woke up and get ready for work.  As you leave your house, you climb upon a giant rubber duckie and float down the street. You then actually wake up and wonder, “what the heck was that all about?”

That’s a dream. Many aspects of it might seem very real and clear. Your street, your house, front door, even the giant rubber duck might have all seemed real.

But it is just nonsense.

Typically, when you “see” people in dreams, they are simply roles. Most often you don’t see faces or great details. Yes, you “saw” the UPS driver drop off a package… but when you wake up, you can’t remember it was a man or woman. You saw the role, not the person.

These are simply dreams. Visitation dreams are much, much different!

Visitation Dreams Characteristics

Can dead people communicate through dreams? In my book, Afterlife, I shared how my spirit guides revealed to me that we don’t dream of our loved ones.

Instead, our loved ones come to us either before or after we get into the dream state. Rather than call them visitation dreams I call them sleep connections. Big difference.

When you are asleep, your critical mind shuts down, and it leaves it free for our loved ones to easily communicate with us.

When a deceased loved one connects with us while we are sleeping, you will know it is them. It will be 100% clear.

Example from before: in a dream, you won’t remember very much detail about the UPS driver coming to your door. It will just be someone delivering a package.

However, when your loved one comes to you, you will see them clear as day. You’ll see all their features, all the details, and characteristics they have.

It will be just like a person standing in front of you when you are awake.

You will know it is them.

Signs Our Loved Ones Send Us

Please remember this: there are no rules: they can talk, show signs, hug us, kiss us, give us something, trigger a memory, etc.

It’s unlimited.

That said, as a spiritual advisor I find that people get upset with these connections if the dead loved one does not behave in a certain way.

“My Mom came to me and hugged me, but she didn’t say anything about her granddaughter!”

Be still. Be happy that they came to you. The fact they came to you is a sign in itself and shows that love never dies. It shows they are there; they are aware of everything that goes on and love never dies.

Still Not Sure If It Is A Visitation Dream Connection?

In my 30-years as a psychic medium, please let me share the two biggest key indicators that you had a direct communication dream visitation.

1. You’ll wake up feeling like they were just standing beside you. Remember, your deceased loved ones are energy, so the feeling that “if I had have opened my eyes a moment sooner I would have seen them,” is a sure sign.

Of course, had you opened your eyes a moment earlier, you wouldn’t have “caught” them. But cherish that feeling! It means they were there.

2. Your loved one will often show you a secondary sign soon after. Not always – and I’m not guaranteeing it – but it is more often true than not.

It might be a sighting of a bird, a familiar or unique sound or song, a touch, smell or taste. Be open to these.

Here’s a bonus sign: do you have a pet? They often act strangely after connection. Remember, they are better at picking up on spirits than we are. After all, they haven’t been “taught” that dead don’t talk or appear.

Love Never Dies

Your deceased loved ones WANT to connect with you. For almost everyone, this is one of the easiest ways to connect.

Know the difference between a real connection and a simple dream.

Once you know the difference and start trusting in the visitations, you will find that many of your loved ones will start connecting with you. Make sure you recognize the signs that your dead loved ones are sending you.

Why? Because they will know and understand that you are now an open door for them.

Your loved ones want to connect. Let them and experience the fact that love never dies.

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7 Afterlife Facts That You Need To Know

Here are seven of the most-asked questions about the afterlife I get at my live events, live broadcasts or at book signings. The goal of this article is to show you that Love Never Dies and that your loved ones are alive and well on the other side.

7 Afterlife Facts That You Need To Know

1. Your loved ones are alive and well in the afterlife

Yes, it’s true that our physical bodies do expire/die. But our souls are eternal. Your deceased loved ones are very much alive and on the other side – heaven, if you will.

You cannot die no matter how hard you try. Once you leave this body that we are born into, we return to heaven to meet up with our loved ones who have gone before us.

Over the past 30 years, I’ve literally brought back tens of thousands of specific, explicit messages from deceased loved ones. There’s simply too much proof that they exist on the other side to deny it.

Love never dies.

2. Your loved ones aren’t in pain

One of biggest hurdles that people struggle with is the last memory we have of our loved ones. Especially those who have suffered greatly with a terrible disease.

I have good news for you. Once you leave your body, you are no longer in any pain.

Unfortunately, we tend to remember how our loved ones died, rather than how they lived.

Your deceased loved ones – if they suffered – are no longer in pain.

Here’s a humorous example from a recent live event: I brought through a Dad who immediately showed me he was doing a funny dance. The young lady burst into tears saying it couldn’t be him, his legs were amputated!

But here’s the thing: his physical legs were amputated, yes. And he suffered before passing. But on the other side, we are returned back to the “image of God” and restored.

Dad was dancing to show his daughter he was alive and well on the other side. Hilariously, she admitted that when he was well, he danced silly at her wedding and it was a memory she’ll always remember.

See? It’s the happy memories they want us to remember!

3. Your loved ones don’t miss you!

This often shocks people. Your deceased loved ones DO NOT miss you.

How can they? They aren’t “dead.”

Your deceased loved ones are very much alive in spirit.

They are still loving and very interested in the goings-on of your life.

Yes, my friend, they are very much alive. They can see and hear you and they know what is going on in your life. They don’t miss you because… they are still here, just in spirit.

How much can they see? Well…

4. They see everything!

I’m often asked, “Hey Blair, do they see… everything?”

Bad news: they see EVERYTHING. Yes, they can see you naked in the shower.

One lady told me that after her Mother had passed she refused to have sex with her husband because she didn’t want her Mom to see! (I’m not joking).

Yes, they can see everything. However, they are free from their bodies and very much evolved and enlightened. They no longer care about the material or the physical in that specific way.

Please, have showers and take baths. Your deceased loved ones don’t care, and your friends and family will appreciate it.

5. They can hear you

This is a BIG ONE. As a medium, I’m often asked a variation of “Please tell my ______ I love her.”

You don’t need a medium to do so. Your deceased loved ones can hear you perfectly fine. I repeat you do not need a medium to talk to them.

I’d highly recommend trying out my T.A.L.K. method from my book Afterlife. It works well.

6. They are sending you signs and want to connect with you.

Here’s a comment I get a lot: “My ______ never sends me signs.”

I’m sure that people are sincere and believe that when they say it. But it is absolutely not true. Not at all.

Your deceased loved ones send you signs on a regular basis. No, not every single day, but often enough to encourage us.

So, the problem isn’t with the signs. The problem is RECOGNIZING them.

In some ways, it’s like a language. If you don’t know the meanings of the words, how will you understand what they are saying?

Thankfully, recognizing the signs is easy: you need to know what the five signs are and you need to be open to experiencing them.

7. You won’t burn in hell for experiencing love.

Unfortunately, religious dogma has messed up a lot of people and guilted them into believing that connecting with deceased loved ones is evil. Or that you’ll burn in hell if you do speak with them.

Nothing could be further from the truth. In the Holy Bible, Jesus spoke with both Moses and Elijah who were deceased at the time. If Jesus could talk to the dead with his Father’s blessing, it certainly is okay for you to as well.

The confusion comes from religions and religious texts being man-made. They are filled with conflicts and errors.

Of course, you are welcome to believe what you wish. By all means, live the rest of your days sad and lonely. It’s certainly a choice, but it is not of God. And honestly, I feel sorry for people guilted by this flawed dogma. I hope and pray you are not one of them.

I hope this helps you. Love and light to you.

The Truth About God And Mediums

Not too long ago a client of mine contacted me extremely worried and concerned for her spiritual health and relationship with God.

What does God say about channeling and mediums?

“My Bible study group says I will certainly burn in hell for consulting with a psychic medium,” she said. She was genuinely worried.

I laughed, but I was angry at the same time. Putting aside Matt 7:1 about not judging, this is so wrong… and judgemental.

The verse they burdened her with was the road-worn Leviticus quote 19:31 that says “don’t talk to mediums or spiritists.”

So, she and I had a heart to heart chat. I pointed out that her Bible group was denying Jesus by saying that.

Jesus Spoke To The Dead And To God (And It Was Witnessed)

Whenever I’m confronted by misguided religious folks who attempt “Bible-Quote Kung Fu,” I typically remind them of Matt 17 where Jesus spoke to Moses and Elijah. Two very dead guys. This was witnessed by his disciples to boot!

Not only that, this was THE MOMENT that God proclaimed that Jesus was his son, to listen to him and that God was pleased.

Think about it.

This was a huge Bible moment. Massive. Bible folks even named it “the transfiguration.”

If speaking to the dead was okay for Jesus, it is certainly fine for me. The gift comes from the same source: God.

Of course, this is where the bible thumpers lose their minds. They’ll come back with dozens of quotes to argue against it.

But they can never dispute that Jesus spoke to dead people. As it is written.

In the Bible.

For all to read and see. Denying it is to deny Jesus. Period.

Mediums Heal And Urge People To Connect With Spirit

Every day on my Facebook page I see bible thumpers judging and posting misguided nonsense. Every day.

It’s sad as they are allowing their religious leaders to misguide them and block them from having a connection to God. It’s sad that they cherry pick arguments from a 2000-year-old book written by men.

See, religion is man made. God is not. God has no religion.

Real ethical mediums focus on having a direct relationship with the highest source.

Ethical mediums prove that love never dies by bringing messages from deceased loved ones: who are now free from pain, suffering and their physical bodies and are now one with God.

That’s why God has given all of us spirit guides to help us navigate through life. To thrive and live the best lives we possibly can. Don’t believe you have a spirit guide? Have you heard the expression, “your conscience is your guide?”

Guess what? THAT is your spirit guide. THAT is the “still, small voice” so many refer to.

Spiritual, not Religious

I’m spiritual. Not “religious.”

Want to connect with God? Drop the religious clap-trap rules and regulations and become spiritual.

None better than Jesus himself said the two most important rules are to “love one another and love God.”

Religious leaders don’t like it. Why? I suspect it’s because you won’t need them anymore. And that often leads to a dip in the Sunday offerings. Coincidence?

Conclusion

So, what happened to my client? She dropped out of her Bible study group and is now happy connecting to God, her spirit guides and knowing her loved ones are very much alive in spirit. She recognizes the five signs her loved ones send. 

She’s now happy, content and free. You can be too.

Please check out my Facebook Page and read about the live events and the THOUSANDS of people who have connected to their loved ones and heaven.

I wish the same for you. Love and light and remember, “love never dies.”

How To Quickly Solve Your Biggest Problems With Afterlife Help

How To Quickly Solve The Biggest Problems With Afterlife Help

Your deceased loved ones in the afterlife want nothing more than to see you happy and succeed in life. They want you to live your life to the fullest.

How To Quickly Solve The Biggest Problems With Afterlife Help

“Into every life, a little rain must fall.”

We all have earthly problems and challenges in life. Some more, some less. But we all have them.

Challenges help us to grow spiritually.

As I see it, there’s nothing wrong with an obstacle or challenge. That’s not the problem.

So, the experience isn’t the problem. It’s handling the problem or challenge that we need help with.

That’s what your spirit guides are there for. To help you and to guide you.

In my book, “Spirit Guides” I discuss the major mistake people make when praying/asking for divine guidance.

Your Guides Guide And Your Loved One’s Love

Time and time again I get clients who are angry, frustrated or just feel lost when praying for help.

I hear things such as, “I prayed to my mother asking for her guidance and I’ve heard nothing…”

Here’s the problem: our loved ones aren’t the ones who are supposed to give us guidance. Yes, they love us, encourage us and cheer us on. But it is not their role to guide us.

Our guides guide us. That’s why God gave us spirit guides. To give us direction from the spirit world.

Our guides guide us. Our loved ones love us. Remember that, and you’ll discover that many solutions will start “appearing” almost magically. Other challenges will suddenly start fading.

See, your spirit guides are your helpers. And they don’t charge you anything. All you gotta do is just ask for help and guidance.

It’s really that simple.

Spirit Guides Book Connecting To AfterlifeIt’s SO SIMPLE that many don’t try it. A shame really. You have no idea how hard it is trying to get people to do it.

But those that do reap immediate benefits. Not only that, they have better and stronger connections with their deceased loved ones as a result!

It’s a side benefit. Really.

Your deceased loved ones in the afterlife love and care for you. They have not abandoned you. They have not “left you.” They are very much alive in spirit.

Post below how your spirit guides have helped you!

Remember, love never dies.

 

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Want to Connect With Your Deceased Loved One, Free?

Blair Robertson's 2016 Christmas Connection Experience

Want to connect with a deceased loved one?

Iheaven have conducted this experiment over several years with tremendous success… this year the goal is to reach as many people as possible. The more that participate, the greater the success so please spread the word and share!

Follow These Easy Steps Exactly As Outlined:

Step One. Post name and relationship of ONE deceased loved one below in the comment section.  No need for details or story. Just three or four words. Example, “My Dad, George.”

Step Two. Find and have a photo or a memento of the loved one nearby during Christmas day, December 25th. Don’t leave it to the last minute. Do it now, before you forget. It is very helpful to light a white candle, if only briefly, as well. A white (actually natural cream color) beeswax candle is BEST.

Step Three. On Christmas Eve, December 24th, before going to bed, ask spirit and your guides to facilitate a connection from your loved one on Christmas day. Be OPEN to a connection no matter how dramatic or minute it might be. Be thankful–in advance–for ANY connection. Big or small. VERY important. And…

Step Four.  VERY IMPORTANT: ask/pray for a connection for OTHERS *BEFORE* you.

Imagine the amazing POWER that that will hold! People praying for YOU, YOU praying for others. One hand washes the other. Do this with the spirit/attitude that if you don’t make a connection yourself, you will rejoice in a connection for others. Be self-LESS, not self-ISH. Get it?

Can You Imagine?
Tens Of Thousands Of People Around The World Actively Praying For Your Spirit Connection?

IMAGINE: tens of thousands of people praying for YOU to have a connection with your deceased loved one! Do NOT miss this step.

Step Five.  PROMISE that you will report back–as soon as possible BELOW–the connection you made. Your connection will inspire others and demonstrate that love never dies.

That’s it.

The Spirit Of Christmas!

On December 25th, at 12:01 am MST in the USA, I will read through the list and ask my guides and pray for each and every one of you to have an experience/connection.

Some of you will have a connection while you sleep. Some of you will feel a presence. A song might play. Something unusual will happen or stand out to you on Christmas day. You might smell their cologne or perfume. Be open. Be ready. Believe and have faith!

I’m EXCITED for this! I’m EXCITED to facilitate this… this isn’t from ME… this is from my guides… my friends… that recommended I conduct this again… I’m SO GRATEFUL, and SO MUCH look forward to the results!

Get going!!! Post the contact below!!!

NOTICE: Please… only ONE name per person. ONE contact only. We want to focus ALL of our energy on this ONE contact for each of us. IF YOU POST MORE THAN ONE NAME, YOUR POST WILL BE DELETED! Let’s make this happen, people! Let’s sound off alarm bells on the other side that we WANT a connection. Be open, be ready and get READY to experience a connection!

How Much Does This Cost?

Nothing. Zero. I’ve been doing this for YEARS now and there is no charge. I WANT you to have a spirit connection. Period. All I ask to make it easier on MY end is that you follow the really simple instructions above.

HIGHLY RECOMMENDED:

I DO highly recommend that you get my book Afterlife and read up on the FIVE signs deceased loved ones show us. Most people MISS these signs, my book will help you not only for the Christmas connection, but also year round. The book has helped thousands, it can help you. Don’t miss a sign from a deceased loved one.  Click here to grab your copy.

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This event is now over. Thank you for participating!

Are Dimes and Pennies From Heaven?

Are Finding Coins Really Signs From Our Spirit Guides, Deceased Loved Ones, Or Angels?

 

Dimes and pennies from heaven are one of the signs that our deceased loved ones show us. Nearly every day people comment along the lines of “My Gary sends me pennies from heaven,” or, “I found a dime on my pillow, and I live alone, is that my deceased husband?”

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To the very best of my knowledge, there is no mint in heaven. They do not manufacture coins and toss them from the clouds.

Not all signs are signs. It is important to understand the difference between a coincidence and an actual spirit sign. I’ll help you here.

Pennies From Heaven: You Are Loved And You Are Important

The angels, spirit guides and your deceased loved ones want you to know that you are important to them. They want you to know that they are with you and see everything going on in your life.

The message is simple: you are loved and valued.

Causing coins to appear is a very common way to demonstrate they are around you.

How Do I Know The Difference Between A Coincidence And A Spirit Sign When I Find A Coin?

But not all signs are signs. A coin on the sidewalk is likely from a hole in someone’s pocket. Change on the ground of a heavily trafficked street corner? Probably a coincidence.

Too many psychics and mediums try to convince people that EVERY coin is a sign. Sadly, that dilutes the meaning of a real sign.

How will you know if it’s a real sign or coincidence? The answer is surprisingly simple: you’ll KNOW.

A woman posted on my Facebook page how she lives alone since the passing of her husband. She found a dime on her pillow. That, my friend, is a sign.

Dimes and pennies will often show up in unique places. You’ll know them when you find them.

But please remember this…

Spirit Signs: Rules Are Meant To Be Broken

A relative of mine wanted to visit where my parent’s ashes were scattered, a beautiful area with a walking path and view of a river. As we pulled up, I wondered if my parents would show a sign.

We went to the spot, shared a prayer and headed back to the parking area. As I walked up to the car, I noticed a penny on the ground by my door.

I had pulled a muscle in my back, and given it was just a penny I intended to ignore it. But something – an urging – told me to pick it up. I struggled to bend over, and I picked it up.

It was older than usual. Very worn. I looked at the date and was surprised that it was from 1920, the year of my Dad’s birth. A warm feeling came over me, THAT was a sign.

Why Is Finding Dimes and Pennies A Bigger Deal Than Say Quarters?

Ah, this is where it gets cool. Pennies have the numerology/Angel Number value of 1. Dimes ALSO have the numerology Angel Number of 1 (because 1 + 0 = 1).

Angel number 1 is a reminder that we are all ONE. We are one with spirit. It represents new beginnings, the start of a new chapter and a fresh start.

Lost a loved one? Feeling alone? The sign of a dime or penny is a reminder that they are still with us, just in spirit. Love never dies.

Struggling with something in life? It reminds us of our power to begin fresh and tackle anything that comes our way.

Be open to the signs that your messengers and loved ones are sending you. 

Have you experienced pennies from heaven or found dimes that were clear messages? Please comment below! I, and others, would love to read them.

How To Use A Pendulum To Enrich Your Life

How To Use A Pendulum To Enrich Your Life

The pendulum is one of the easiest tools you can use to connect with your spirit guides. Easy to make, easy to use. You can literally be connecting with your guides within minutes. Check out this live video that appeared on Facebook where I’ll show you how to use it.

Would you like to own a beautiful Vortex Pendulum? Click here for Blair Robertson’s Vortex Pendulum’s.

NEW BOOK: Afterlife Connections — Your Stories Shared!

Afterlife Connections: True Stories That Prove Love Never Dies

Afterlife-Connection-EbookCover-smallWhen you’ve lost someone you love, holidays and other celebratory days are the worst. It can be quite painful.

But the truth is that love never dies.

Yes, each and every one of us at some point must physically leave our bodies, but our soul-spirit lives on.

Signs From Our Loved Ones

As I discussed in my previous/companion book, “Afterlife: 3 Easy Ways To Connect With Your Deceased Loved Ones” our loved ones regularly send signs to us to show us that they are still there. And those signs can bring incredible comfort and healing.

(By the way: if you don’t have the book Afterlife, don’t allow yourself an excuse to not to discover all the ways they can and do communicate. If you haven’t got the book, please do yourself the favor of identifying what signs are real and which signs are not. Once you do, you’ll start noticing them more. And the best part: Kindle readers are free as well, and you can download them to virtually any device.)

A BRAND NEW BOOK Filled With Inspirational Stories

You know, over the years, I’ve received tens of thousands of stories from people of their personal Afterlife Connections. They’ve been shared with me at live events, privately, in emails, on Facebook, on blog posts, etc.

But many have been lost. I felt a pull from spirit to put some of them into a book format to encourage those during difficult times that love never dies.

That’s why this book is designed to be a quick and inspirational read. It’s designed to help you realize that your loved ones are near. That love never dies.

All stories have been shared by everyday folks just like YOU.

NOW Available On Amazon!

It’s available on Amazon right now. Be inspired by healing messages from beyond that prove love never dies

Grab YOUR Copy by clicking here now! 

I hope you enjoy it. Love and light to you all.

My First Major Mediumship Connection That Opened The Door For Me

My First Major Mediumship Connection That Opened The Door For Me

Many have asked me about my very first major mediumship connection with spirit on the other side.

I’ve been able to connect with spirit ever since I was young, but my first MAJOR connection happened back in 1979.

My First Major Mediumship Connection 5 Minute Video

Here’s a 5 minute video where I discuss it, and through Google Street View, I’ll take you to the EXACT spot it occurred!

 

It was a terrific trip down memory lane… hope you enjoy it. 🙂

Feel free to comment below.

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